Nov 22, 2017

THERE WILL ALWAYS BE DOWN TIMES

Not all the time you're winning, not all the time you're on top. There will be down times, there will be times when you really can't make something right. It's ok you're just a human being, you're not Mr. Perfect, you will still experience a series of failure, you will still hit the ground. It's your duty to keep your faith stronger than it use to be.

Just like in business, one day your business is so strong and you're earning a lot of money, people and customers are coming in, you are making a lot of hype, everyone loves your product and services. Then suddenly one day everything has changed, your business becomes weak, you are running out of money, frustration starts to set in and you're thinking about giving up. But you shouldn't give up, YOU JUST NEED TO WEATHER THE STORM, the down times will end sooner or later, it will never stay in your life forever. The cycle will change if you keep believing in yourself and keep working hard. You just need to develop a very strong endurance and that's it. People were so blinded by the down times, a little adversity is breaking them down, they don't know what to do, they are always in a state of panic. There is no need to panic if you know that it's normal. Even the greatest ones have down times, they are struggling to in their journey too. It's just a matter of who can stay on the game and believe in himself while bad things are still happening. Down times is not forever, it will go away if you keep your head up and do what you're suppose to do.

So guard your mind and always be aware if it is worrying, if you found out that your mind is occupied by fears and worries then you need to do something. You need to entertain your mind and feed it the right thoughts that will enable you to stand up and work again. Just keep taking actions, stay positive and believe in yourself, you can conquer any obstacles in life, trust me... you can survive anything.

Never quit because it's the end of your journey once you quit, life is a struggle sometimes, you just need to make it not a big deal and never worry about what is happening. Be tough because life is tough, it's not an easy thing. The more life gets tougher the more you should get tougher.

NOT QUITTING IS ALREADY WINNING. Walk by your faith not by your sight. Just keep in mind that if you don't quit and you keep persevering then one day you're going to win. You just need to process every process that needs to be processed. Don't be afraid to take actions and that's it, move while you're struggling, fight even if you're in pain... that is what it's all about, that is what winning mentality is all about.

So if nothing good is happening in your life, career, journey or business... just think that it's just a normal down time, it is nothing. All you have to do is endure the pain and the struggle, stay positive and good things will happen to you.

You can only become successful by persevering. It's not the luck, talents, gifts or whatever voodoo you wanted to call it... it's your toughness that will make you win, it 's your tenacity that will give you a victory.

WHAT TO DO IF YOU CAN'T SEEM TO FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO?

1. Decide if you will still continue or not. If you still love what you're doing then keep doing it even if success and money is not coming to your life anymore. If you will not continue anymore then what else will you do? do you think you can be successful next time if you start a different journey? always remember that if you quit now then there is a big chance that you will quit again next time. Once a quitter will always be a quitter.

2. Just deal with it. Deal with the pain, deal with the struggle. Remember that a true definition of a winner is the one who can fight until the end. It's just an emotion, any difficulty is just an emotion. An emotion is a roller coaster thing, today you are sad and tomorrow you will become happy if you stay positive. Just deal with it, never shy away from struggle and pain, life is not complete without those elements so you need to become mentally stronger and fight the adversities until it is gone.

3. Forget about winning anymore. It's like letting go, it's like giving up but still fighting. If you will forget about winning anymore and simply enjoy life then you will become happier. You will become successful in the long run. Just do what makes you happy and never give up. Keep losing and losing again until the cycle change and winning is the next in line. People are having a hard time to get back on track because they want to win right away, they hate losing but they are not willing to wait. They are forcing thing that's why bad things are happening even more.

4. Keep moving forward. It's been said over and over again that all you need to do is keep moving forward and you will be alright. If you're taking positive actions then you will forget about worries, you will not be entertaining negative thoughts anymore. Your mind will become free from pain and good things will start to happen in your journey. Keep moving forward even if the pace looks slow and not progressing.

5. Ask for advises. Ask for advises from people who are really willing to help you and not to pull you down even more. Seek help from people who truly cares and will never let you down. Sometimes you just need someone to talk to so you can share how you feel, sometimes you just need to express your emotions so that you can breathe again. Go to someone who will motivate you and will encourage you to keep going.

No comments:

INSTEAD OF LOOKING FOR SOMETHING... BE THE SOMETHING

Instead of looking for someone who is strong to make you stronger why not be the strength that you are looking for? make yourself better, ma...