HOW TO KNOW IF A PERSON IS GENUINE

It's good to spot a genuine person, you will feel secured, you know you are in good hands and you don't need to think about a lot of things anymore. You will not worry and you will feel peaceful. You will become comfortable around him and you will not be afraid to share sensitive issues in your life. A lot of people nowadays were fakes, they are pretending to be someone they are not just to look good and smell good to other people. It's funny because they will get busted in the end, people will know their fakeness that is so disgusting. Anyway, here are few reminders to spot a genuine person:

1. He is not afraid to admit his weaknesses and failures. This is one good trait of a genuine person, he is not afraid to admit his flaws and shortcomings, he is even proud of it, he is not ashamed because he knew that failures, flaws, embarrassments are just part of being a human. He doesn't make it a big deal. He is true because he is not hiding anything even the bad parts of his personality and life.

2. He is not always praising himself. He knows who he is so he doesn't need to praise himself anymore. He is not an attention grabber, he doesn't mind if people praise him or not. All he want is to be himself every second and show the people his true colors, if he can be himself then his already happy for that. He loves to praise people but he do it because he mean it and not to look kind or ask for a favor.

3. He is not afraid to admit that he doesn't know anything about something. He is not afraid to say "I don't know", it doesn't bother him at all. He doesn't mind not looking smart. He knows what he know and he doesn't want to pretend to know something just to be involve in a conversation.

4. He is not afraid of embarrassment. He knows that being getting embarrassed is normal, he knows that all people already experienced it in their lives. He doesn't mind getting embarrassed for as long as he is expressing himself. He will just be himself no matter what and enjoy what is going on even if it embarrasses him.

5. His statements are very consistent. You will feel that he is not inventing stories because all of his stories were consistent. He is not changing his statements, once he say something... he will say it again exactly the same way as he said it before. You will never think of him as a liar or stitcher of stories.

6. He is not hungry for money or fame. If he is your friend, he will not use you for money, you will not remember any instances where he hurt you because of money. He knew that money is a sensitive issue. He will not destroy his name just because of money. He is not even hungry for fame, he will not do something just to look popular. Every action coming from him is spontaneous and not scripted.

7. He will help you without asking for anything in exchange. If he helps you he helps you, that's it. You will never hear him reminding you that he helped you in the past. He is not asking for something in return because his help comes from the heart.

8. He is not needy. He is not that type of person who always need something. He is independent and if he can do it on his own then he will never ask for help from anyone including his closest friends.