For example, if you go to a bar and you want to meet girls and get their numbers... of course you will be scared even if you're a good looking guy. What you need to do is target the ugly girls first, talk to them, build confidence from them. Once you knew that you can talk to girls without sweating your armpits a lot... go and target the beautiful girls next.
Just like in buying a car. If you don't have enough money to buy a brand new car then go and buy a second hand rusty car first. Earn more money. work harder so you can buy a brand new car next year.
The idea here is to have something to get another thing easier. Once you know that you have it then you can add more of it... easier.
You can build your confidence easier through ugly and easy options, there is nothing wrong with that. You need to have a momentum first so you can get what you really want next time.
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