Timing is very important to have success in anything that you do. You can become really successful even if you don't have skills and talents granted that you know what is the perfect timing. Because even if you are really good, if your timing is off then you will have less success in life. You need to enhance your timing so you will get very good results.
1. Be prepared. Nothing beats preparation, if you are prepared then you will become confident, you will know what to do in every situation. You will not panic if there is an unfamiliar scenario that is happening. You will stay calm and collective, you have a peace of mind that everything is going to be alright. If there is a sudden change in your expectation you can make adjustments easily. For example, if you are speaking in public and you suddenly you forget your lines... you can make adjustments easily and improvise if you are prepared that it's going to happen. You have a reserve lines that you can use if you forget the words that you're going to say. You have the plan B, you will able to get away from trouble.
2. Expect the worse. It's not that you are always thinking negatively but if you are prepared that worse things may happen then you will be able to stay calm, you will have a still mind and you are still in control of yourself. Your timing will never change. While other people are panicking, you are smiling inside of yourself and laughing at them because they are panicking for nothing, their minds were in a state of fear while yours is still on the right frame. Expect that everything will not become perfect, just ignore the mistakes, failures, unexpected embarrassment etc. Expecting the worse will make you appreciate small beautiful things even more.
3. Always be natural. If you are always natural, if you are not forcing anything then good things will happen. Your timing will become very smooth, people will like you more. It is like a flowing water into the river, your timing will become perfect and even if you make mistakes... you will still feel good, people will not notice it. Being natural will make you look very cool.
4. Be slow. You don't need a fast pace, be slow, be aware of what is going on around you. Savor the moment. If you are slow then you will be able to think clearly, you will be at peace. You will make decisions very good and your timing will be very smooth. You don't need to move fast, no one is forcing you to move fast, be slow so you can enjoy every movement that you execute, be slow so you will always be in control.
Sep 30, 2017
THE MORE YOU COMPLAIN THE MORE YOU'LL FEEL THE PAIN
Complaining is epidemic nowadays, you can see people complaining about small things that they cannot control. They complain about the traffic, economy, government, president of their country, salary, price increase and many more. It seems that they can't see any positive in their life. That is what they do everyday... complain. That is why they feel the pain even more. Their pain doesn't stop, it becomes worse everyday.
You will feel the pain even more because the problem is always on your mind, you can't stop thinking about it. Your mind is poisoned by negativity. Your life is focused on the negative that is why you always have a hard time living.
STOP COMPLAINING FOR ONE MONTH. It's time to make a change in your life, stop complaining for at least one month and see if there is a change in your life. Don't talk about negative, stop watching news, stop making excuses. Just give your best for one month and let's see the result. Even if you really need to complain about something, don't do it. Make solutions instead, keep moving forward and focus on the positive in life.
I am very sure you will feel good, you will attract better things because you are no longer thinking about your complaints. The pain will go away, you will see the best things in life.
Look at those people who always complain.. they attract poverty even more. Even if the opportunity is already there, they still can't see it because their minds were corrupt. They were blinded by the negativity that controls their lives.
People who participates in strikes cannot become happy. No matter who's the president of their country.. the still complain and see the ugly side. They cannot be satisfied of what they have, they complain and complain but they are not even working. There are even some strike leaders who became really old without accomplishing something, they were fighting for what they believe is right for decades but they can't win because their lives is all about complaining. Even if their requests were granted... they will still complain, they will look for some other things which they can complain about.
Why don't you just work instead of complaining? What do you think will be the results if you focus on actions?
You will feel the pain even more because the problem is always on your mind, you can't stop thinking about it. Your mind is poisoned by negativity. Your life is focused on the negative that is why you always have a hard time living.
STOP COMPLAINING FOR ONE MONTH. It's time to make a change in your life, stop complaining for at least one month and see if there is a change in your life. Don't talk about negative, stop watching news, stop making excuses. Just give your best for one month and let's see the result. Even if you really need to complain about something, don't do it. Make solutions instead, keep moving forward and focus on the positive in life.
I am very sure you will feel good, you will attract better things because you are no longer thinking about your complaints. The pain will go away, you will see the best things in life.
Look at those people who always complain.. they attract poverty even more. Even if the opportunity is already there, they still can't see it because their minds were corrupt. They were blinded by the negativity that controls their lives.
People who participates in strikes cannot become happy. No matter who's the president of their country.. the still complain and see the ugly side. They cannot be satisfied of what they have, they complain and complain but they are not even working. There are even some strike leaders who became really old without accomplishing something, they were fighting for what they believe is right for decades but they can't win because their lives is all about complaining. Even if their requests were granted... they will still complain, they will look for some other things which they can complain about.
Why don't you just work instead of complaining? What do you think will be the results if you focus on actions?
IT'S NOT YET OVER IF YOU'RE STILL BREATHING
You think it's over huh? you think you don't have any more chance. Don't think that way, it's not over until you win. If you're still breathing then you still have the chance, you can turn impossible into possible. The victory belongs to the most persevering so just persevere and you will win. The formula is very simple... DON'T QUIT.
Do everything you can, don't lose hope. Even if it looks impossible, still continue. You can still move, you still have enough strength. Rest for a few seconds then try again.
It's not yet over until it's over.
A lot of people quit not knowing that they were very near of victory. They quit because it's too hard. You know what? it's supposed to be hard because it's a dream, it's a goal. Every goal and dream is hard. If it is easy then it's only a garbage dream. Anything great is worth suffering.
So as long as you're living... keep trying. There is no harm in trying, it will even make you stronger, faster and meaner. You will become nasty because you don't care about failure anymore. You will be out of your mind because you're so hungry of winning, you're so eager to become successful so you will be able to do impossible things just to become victorious.
So get up, wipe your tears and stop crying like a bitch. It's just a loss, you need to try again if you want to erase that loss.
You're still alive, it means you can try again, it means you still have hope, it means you are free to continue your dream. Stop making excuses now and make it happen, it will never be over until you succeed.
JUST GO THROUGH THE MOTIONS
If you're so tired and stress and you think you can't move anymore but you still need to work for hours because you need to finish an urgent task... just go through the motions. Be on an auto pilot mode, be in slow motion. Never stop, just go through the motion until you finish what you're suppose to finish.
It's like forcing yourself to move in a very slow pace. You feel bad, you feel tired but you are still doing it. It's ok if you are very slow but what matters is you don't stop and you push through. You do every small step that you can do, you fight the thought in your head that is telling you to quit. You breathe for a second then you take actions again.
You don't care if your time is running out, you don't care about how long you still need to work. You just go through the motions, you don't look for the time, you embrace how you feel and you keep making baby steps until you finish.
It's like committing into something really important and you can't quit because something bad will happen to you. It's like a do or die situation, you finish or you will be finished.
DON'T LOOK AT THE FINISH LINE... EVER. Just keep moving in a very slow pace, never mind if you're the last, just keep going until you finish it. Never look at the clock, never look at the finish line because it will only make you tired even more. Enjoy your tired body, be proud of your courage, be happy that you can still move.
It's your willpower that will make you finish the task. It's not your tired body and mind that will decide if you can make it or not, it's the willpower alone.
Don't make an excuse that you are so tired, if you need to do it now then do it, just go through the motions, never force anything, never rush, enjoy your natural pace... you will be able to finish it in just a matter of time.
It's like forcing yourself to move in a very slow pace. You feel bad, you feel tired but you are still doing it. It's ok if you are very slow but what matters is you don't stop and you push through. You do every small step that you can do, you fight the thought in your head that is telling you to quit. You breathe for a second then you take actions again.
You don't care if your time is running out, you don't care about how long you still need to work. You just go through the motions, you don't look for the time, you embrace how you feel and you keep making baby steps until you finish.
It's like committing into something really important and you can't quit because something bad will happen to you. It's like a do or die situation, you finish or you will be finished.
DON'T LOOK AT THE FINISH LINE... EVER. Just keep moving in a very slow pace, never mind if you're the last, just keep going until you finish it. Never look at the clock, never look at the finish line because it will only make you tired even more. Enjoy your tired body, be proud of your courage, be happy that you can still move.
It's your willpower that will make you finish the task. It's not your tired body and mind that will decide if you can make it or not, it's the willpower alone.
Don't make an excuse that you are so tired, if you need to do it now then do it, just go through the motions, never force anything, never rush, enjoy your natural pace... you will be able to finish it in just a matter of time.
WHAT YOU DON'T WANT IS THE KEY TO WHAT YOU WANT
You want to have a sexy and hot body so the ladies will come after you but you don't want to exercise and prepare a healthy diet. How will you get that sexy body? do what you don't want and you will get what you want.
You want to become rich but you don't want to work hard, you just want to become rich and that's it. How will it happen if you are not willing to move? are you a dreamer or a doer? do what you don't want and you will make results.
It is what you don't want that you must do in order to get what you want. What you want is hard to get that is why you need to fight your feelings, you need to force yourself to move, there is no other way around. If you will not do it then you will not get anything.
It is hard to get a promotion at the company that you are working in. You have to rub elbows with some people that you hate including your boss. You have to be friendly, work hard and do some shits that are not included in your job. You need to do what you don't want so you will get what you want.
You don't want to work overtime because you're so tired but you want to earn extra income so you can buy your dream car, you have to make a decision now. Are you going to choose what you want at the moment or what you want in the future?
You have to accept that you need to make sacrifices, you need to face the pain to get what you want. It is not true that you only need to do what you want to become successful, it is still a case to case basis.
Do the things that you don't want now to get what you want. Never think twice, you need to feel bad now in order to feel good later,
You want to become rich but you don't want to work hard, you just want to become rich and that's it. How will it happen if you are not willing to move? are you a dreamer or a doer? do what you don't want and you will make results.
It is what you don't want that you must do in order to get what you want. What you want is hard to get that is why you need to fight your feelings, you need to force yourself to move, there is no other way around. If you will not do it then you will not get anything.
It is hard to get a promotion at the company that you are working in. You have to rub elbows with some people that you hate including your boss. You have to be friendly, work hard and do some shits that are not included in your job. You need to do what you don't want so you will get what you want.
You don't want to work overtime because you're so tired but you want to earn extra income so you can buy your dream car, you have to make a decision now. Are you going to choose what you want at the moment or what you want in the future?
You have to accept that you need to make sacrifices, you need to face the pain to get what you want. It is not true that you only need to do what you want to become successful, it is still a case to case basis.
Do the things that you don't want now to get what you want. Never think twice, you need to feel bad now in order to feel good later,
I HOPE YOU WON'T CHANGE YOUR MIND
You set a goal, you're so excited about it, you tell yourself and everyone that you are serious and you're going to get it no matter what.
You start today you push so hard, everything is going well, you are so happy because things are smooth and progress is very fast.
But one day a problem strikes, you think you can solve it fast but days are fast too, the problem gets bigger and bigger. You are not progressing, you are stuck in a mud. You keep on trying for a few weeks but one day you decided to give up.
What the fuck was that all about? you told yourself that you're going to pursue it no matter what then suddenly you quit.
If everything is not going well I hope you don't change your mind. Because your mind is everything, if it thinks that everything will be fine then everything will be fine, as simple as that. You just need to weather the storm, wait for it to pass and then you will become good again. Everything will run smooth again.
I don't care if it takes months or years to survive your journey, you don't have the right to quit because you promise yourself that you will stick with the process no matter what.
Situation may change but your mind shouldn't change, if you promise yourself that you will become successful then be successful even if the stakes were high. Your mind is everything so you shouldn't change it. If it is motivated from the beginning then it should still be motivated in the middle and in the end.
Be a single minded person, if you say that you're going to do it then do it. Do it even if nothing right is happening, do it until you become successful. Don't change your mind or else your fortune will never change.
You start today you push so hard, everything is going well, you are so happy because things are smooth and progress is very fast.
But one day a problem strikes, you think you can solve it fast but days are fast too, the problem gets bigger and bigger. You are not progressing, you are stuck in a mud. You keep on trying for a few weeks but one day you decided to give up.
What the fuck was that all about? you told yourself that you're going to pursue it no matter what then suddenly you quit.
If everything is not going well I hope you don't change your mind. Because your mind is everything, if it thinks that everything will be fine then everything will be fine, as simple as that. You just need to weather the storm, wait for it to pass and then you will become good again. Everything will run smooth again.
I don't care if it takes months or years to survive your journey, you don't have the right to quit because you promise yourself that you will stick with the process no matter what.
Situation may change but your mind shouldn't change, if you promise yourself that you will become successful then be successful even if the stakes were high. Your mind is everything so you shouldn't change it. If it is motivated from the beginning then it should still be motivated in the middle and in the end.
Be a single minded person, if you say that you're going to do it then do it. Do it even if nothing right is happening, do it until you become successful. Don't change your mind or else your fortune will never change.
THE GREATEST GIFT THAT I RECEIVED
The greatest gift that I received is not car, money, promotion, fame or something, it's not a material thing. The greatest gift that I received is knowing that I can.
I can earn money by my own, I don't need a boss, I don't need a company or someone who will instruct me what to do. I am so free, I am so blessed that I was able to received this mindset early in my life.
I know I can stand for something without relying on someone's power. I know I can work until the end and give my family a good life. I know I can endure any hardships in life and keep moving forward until the end, what a great gift. I am very happy I received it in the early stage of my life.
It's not about being arrogant, it's about being confident and having faith that I will be alright no matter what.
I know I can amuse myself and be really happy without the use of material things or appreciation from other people. I honestly know that I can control my feelings and embrace what is going on with my life and still try to make my position a little bit better than yesterday.
I know I can be happy anytime I want, I will just think about happy thoughts, work hard and give my best and that's it... my happiness is very simple, it is all about progress. It has nothing to do with something that is outside of me.
Knowing that I can and can thrive at any situation is the greatest gift that I received. I know what really makes me happy, I am so satisfied. I am so happy that I was able to realized that I can be really happy without having too many friends, money and other unimportant things.
I am so happy wit this life because I know that I can do it on my own. But that doesn't mean that I am not open to other experiences and opportunities, of course I am. New friends, more money, new car, new house. I am open to all of those things, but if I can't have those things at the moment... I am still very happy.
The greatest gift that I received is knowing that I can survive, thrive, be happy and stand alone at any given situation.
I can earn money by my own, I don't need a boss, I don't need a company or someone who will instruct me what to do. I am so free, I am so blessed that I was able to received this mindset early in my life.
I know I can stand for something without relying on someone's power. I know I can work until the end and give my family a good life. I know I can endure any hardships in life and keep moving forward until the end, what a great gift. I am very happy I received it in the early stage of my life.
It's not about being arrogant, it's about being confident and having faith that I will be alright no matter what.
I know I can amuse myself and be really happy without the use of material things or appreciation from other people. I honestly know that I can control my feelings and embrace what is going on with my life and still try to make my position a little bit better than yesterday.
I know I can be happy anytime I want, I will just think about happy thoughts, work hard and give my best and that's it... my happiness is very simple, it is all about progress. It has nothing to do with something that is outside of me.
Knowing that I can and can thrive at any situation is the greatest gift that I received. I know what really makes me happy, I am so satisfied. I am so happy that I was able to realized that I can be really happy without having too many friends, money and other unimportant things.
I am so happy wit this life because I know that I can do it on my own. But that doesn't mean that I am not open to other experiences and opportunities, of course I am. New friends, more money, new car, new house. I am open to all of those things, but if I can't have those things at the moment... I am still very happy.
The greatest gift that I received is knowing that I can survive, thrive, be happy and stand alone at any given situation.
Sep 29, 2017
IT IS VERY EASY TO LEARN NOWADAYS
It is very easy to learn nowadays, the you tube is there, the google is there, the websites are there. There are millions of ways to get an information. You can succeed even without going to school if you are eager enough to learn and apply what you've learn.
YOU CAN BE A MASTER. You can master any skill and use it to earn money, the education today is free. Yes it is informal, you have no diploma but the important thing here is you know something and you're going to use that knowledge to thrive in life. There are thousands of under graduates who made it in life, you have no excuse if you can't become successful because the information in this generation is free.
Hardwork and dedication is all you need. If you can work hard to study something and apply it right away then you already have an advantage. It's easy, if you know how to read and listen attentively then you can learn a lot of things, you can become a genius.
Just stay focus in learning by your own, don't be afraid to try what you've learned and see if it works. What is the use of your knowledge if you will not use it?
It's a lot of fun learning something everyday, the good thing about this generation is there is no scarcity in information. Unlike before, you have to use libraries and sometimes what you are looking for is not on the book.
So grab this opportunity and learn a lot, use what you've learned to earn money and make your life better. We are so lucky because the information is very easy to access and we don't need to pay for it.
You're a fool if you will not use this advantage to do well in life, start learning now and be the best that you can be.
YOU CAN BE A MASTER. You can master any skill and use it to earn money, the education today is free. Yes it is informal, you have no diploma but the important thing here is you know something and you're going to use that knowledge to thrive in life. There are thousands of under graduates who made it in life, you have no excuse if you can't become successful because the information in this generation is free.
Hardwork and dedication is all you need. If you can work hard to study something and apply it right away then you already have an advantage. It's easy, if you know how to read and listen attentively then you can learn a lot of things, you can become a genius.
Just stay focus in learning by your own, don't be afraid to try what you've learned and see if it works. What is the use of your knowledge if you will not use it?
It's a lot of fun learning something everyday, the good thing about this generation is there is no scarcity in information. Unlike before, you have to use libraries and sometimes what you are looking for is not on the book.
So grab this opportunity and learn a lot, use what you've learned to earn money and make your life better. We are so lucky because the information is very easy to access and we don't need to pay for it.
You're a fool if you will not use this advantage to do well in life, start learning now and be the best that you can be.
WHO CAN STOP YOU?
THE ANSWER IS NO ONE. If you really want to do something then nobody can stop you, even the police, even your mom, even a tiger, even your girlfriend, even your boss or anyone with stronger position than you... they can't stop you. That is how powerful you are, you can do anything or be anything if you have an iron will that cannot be bend.
Because no one can read your mind, no one can know when you are going to execute an action, nobody knows what is the exact move that you are planning to do. If you will do it now then nobody can stop you, they are not expecting that you will make an action, they don't anticipate anything. It only means you're really unstoppable.
STOP STOPPING YOURSELF. It's your thoughts that is stopping you from moving. It is not your inability, lack of skill or energy but your weak thoughts. Ask yourself if you want to do it or not, if your answer is yes then do it... do it without thinking any other things. Destroy hesitation and procrastination. You can move now and make shits happen, what is the point of worrying if you still want to do it anyway? No one and nothing can stop you if you really want to do it. You will find ways, you will find openings. Just believe in yourself and never stop moving until you finish.
It's your life you can do anything you want with it. It's your body, it's your brain. Don't be afraid to make wrong decisions because at the end of the day... you are the only one who can fix your mistakes and not any other person.
WHY ARE YOU SCARED TO MAKE A MOVE?
1. You are afraid to get tired
2. You are afraid to fail
3. You are afraid to make mistakes
4. You are thinking about what other people say
5. You don't believe enough in yourself
6. You're simply lazy
7. You want to become successful fast so you are avoiding the process
8. You're an impatient bastard
Because no one can read your mind, no one can know when you are going to execute an action, nobody knows what is the exact move that you are planning to do. If you will do it now then nobody can stop you, they are not expecting that you will make an action, they don't anticipate anything. It only means you're really unstoppable.
STOP STOPPING YOURSELF. It's your thoughts that is stopping you from moving. It is not your inability, lack of skill or energy but your weak thoughts. Ask yourself if you want to do it or not, if your answer is yes then do it... do it without thinking any other things. Destroy hesitation and procrastination. You can move now and make shits happen, what is the point of worrying if you still want to do it anyway? No one and nothing can stop you if you really want to do it. You will find ways, you will find openings. Just believe in yourself and never stop moving until you finish.
It's your life you can do anything you want with it. It's your body, it's your brain. Don't be afraid to make wrong decisions because at the end of the day... you are the only one who can fix your mistakes and not any other person.
WHY ARE YOU SCARED TO MAKE A MOVE?
1. You are afraid to get tired
2. You are afraid to fail
3. You are afraid to make mistakes
4. You are thinking about what other people say
5. You don't believe enough in yourself
6. You're simply lazy
7. You want to become successful fast so you are avoiding the process
8. You're an impatient bastard
Sep 28, 2017
JUST DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET THERE
You have a dream and you wanted to get it right? so what are you waiting for?
You need a coach? a guru? someone that will give you direction? You need a budget? a car, an inspiration or a perfect timing? what else do you need? you need a lot huh!
Guess what, you don't need anything to get started, you just need to get your head right. You need a lot but you're not working a lot, that is your biggest problem. All you need is yourself and a mindset of doing whatever it takes to win.
Whatever it takes to get there do it. Look for the smallest thing that you can do now. It can just be looking for a job, reading a newspaper to look for a job, calling a friend if there is an opening in their work, ironing your clothes and suite that that you will use tomorrow for a job hunting, shining your shoes and getting ready for a job hunting. Stuffs like that will give you momentum to get started and pursue your goal.
Just do something that will make you feel good and has a connection to your dream. It can be the smallest and easiest step. It may not make an impact but the point here is you're doing something. Keep doing that small thing over an over again until you make a progress.
If you need to eat shit do it, if you need to not sleep for 36 straight hours do it. Whatever it takes do it.
The time for being lazy and soft is over. You said last year that you're going to make it happen this year but what the hell had just happened? you're in the same place, same position, same amount of money. When are you going to have a break through? Your time is running out, you think you have a lot of time but the truth is you're getting older and older each day without accomplishing anything.
Again, any step doesn't need to be perfect, what matters is you keep taking steps. Do something small and make it big. Whatever it takes do it. Quit talking and start pushing, all you need is an iron will and you're good to go.
BE A BAD ASS IN TAKING ACTIONS. No hesitation just pure action, be aggressive in taking actions. No thinking, just keep moving. Cut the time for procrastination because that shit won't make you evolve. You can get there if you want to get there, the choice and power is always yours. You can choose to become lazy or you can choose to work the hardest.
You need a coach? a guru? someone that will give you direction? You need a budget? a car, an inspiration or a perfect timing? what else do you need? you need a lot huh!
Guess what, you don't need anything to get started, you just need to get your head right. You need a lot but you're not working a lot, that is your biggest problem. All you need is yourself and a mindset of doing whatever it takes to win.
Whatever it takes to get there do it. Look for the smallest thing that you can do now. It can just be looking for a job, reading a newspaper to look for a job, calling a friend if there is an opening in their work, ironing your clothes and suite that that you will use tomorrow for a job hunting, shining your shoes and getting ready for a job hunting. Stuffs like that will give you momentum to get started and pursue your goal.
Just do something that will make you feel good and has a connection to your dream. It can be the smallest and easiest step. It may not make an impact but the point here is you're doing something. Keep doing that small thing over an over again until you make a progress.
If you need to eat shit do it, if you need to not sleep for 36 straight hours do it. Whatever it takes do it.
The time for being lazy and soft is over. You said last year that you're going to make it happen this year but what the hell had just happened? you're in the same place, same position, same amount of money. When are you going to have a break through? Your time is running out, you think you have a lot of time but the truth is you're getting older and older each day without accomplishing anything.
Again, any step doesn't need to be perfect, what matters is you keep taking steps. Do something small and make it big. Whatever it takes do it. Quit talking and start pushing, all you need is an iron will and you're good to go.
BE A BAD ASS IN TAKING ACTIONS. No hesitation just pure action, be aggressive in taking actions. No thinking, just keep moving. Cut the time for procrastination because that shit won't make you evolve. You can get there if you want to get there, the choice and power is always yours. You can choose to become lazy or you can choose to work the hardest.
DO IT EVERYDAY AND IT WILL BECOME YOU
Want to become someone?... want to become the person that you wanted to be? it is very simple but not easy. Do it everyday nonstop, that's it. Just like the computer addicts who keeps on playing video games everyday, good thing they can earn money from it now because there are tournaments that offers high prices, but only the best can benefit from it, only winners can get the money. So if you will waste your life playing video games, make sure you will become great at it and earn money from it.
What do you want? become a soldier? you need to train your body and mind now, immune yourself from pain. Shoot guns but stay disciplined, protect your loved ones from bad guys Do it everyday and it will become you.
You have to give it son, give it every single day. You can't be just dreaming about something and not doing something for it everyday. You have to live it, you have to be it and never hold yourself back. If the magnitude of your dream is very high, you should also exert an effort that is so strong so opportunities and people can't refuse you.
If you want to become musician then you should do music every day, pick your instrument and play it like it's the most expensive toy in the world. You have to memorize notes like Beethoven, you have to create your own timing and rhythm. Don't clown around and pretend that you're a musician if you haven't composed a single song yet. Create your own music and let the world listen to it.
If you want to become a fighter, put your mouth piece on, wear your gloves and fight like a real fighter, do it every single day. Don't do it for the money, do it just for the love of fighting. A lot of fighters just do it for the money, they don't do it for the sake of loving fights that is why they fail in the end. Go and fight someone, it is what you like right? so never be afraid to bleed, never be afraid to get hurt.
You will become what you want if you do it every single day. It is like merging your personality to your dream, it is like having a fusion with the self identity that you want. If you are not willing to make sacrifices and put your time into something that you want... you will never become it.
Don't be scared to become the person you wanted to be. All it takes is dedication and commitment. Do something for your dream every second, remember that every action is the right action if it is congruent to your dreams.
So stop watching other people's lives, stop getting interested with the success of others. You need to focus on your own growth and improvement, always be happy with the process of your success. Take your skills to another level by practicing everyday and being mindful about your level. You can become the person you are dreaming of for a very long time if you are willing to do it everyday.
What do you want? become a soldier? you need to train your body and mind now, immune yourself from pain. Shoot guns but stay disciplined, protect your loved ones from bad guys Do it everyday and it will become you.
You have to give it son, give it every single day. You can't be just dreaming about something and not doing something for it everyday. You have to live it, you have to be it and never hold yourself back. If the magnitude of your dream is very high, you should also exert an effort that is so strong so opportunities and people can't refuse you.
If you want to become musician then you should do music every day, pick your instrument and play it like it's the most expensive toy in the world. You have to memorize notes like Beethoven, you have to create your own timing and rhythm. Don't clown around and pretend that you're a musician if you haven't composed a single song yet. Create your own music and let the world listen to it.
If you want to become a fighter, put your mouth piece on, wear your gloves and fight like a real fighter, do it every single day. Don't do it for the money, do it just for the love of fighting. A lot of fighters just do it for the money, they don't do it for the sake of loving fights that is why they fail in the end. Go and fight someone, it is what you like right? so never be afraid to bleed, never be afraid to get hurt.
You will become what you want if you do it every single day. It is like merging your personality to your dream, it is like having a fusion with the self identity that you want. If you are not willing to make sacrifices and put your time into something that you want... you will never become it.
Don't be scared to become the person you wanted to be. All it takes is dedication and commitment. Do something for your dream every second, remember that every action is the right action if it is congruent to your dreams.
So stop watching other people's lives, stop getting interested with the success of others. You need to focus on your own growth and improvement, always be happy with the process of your success. Take your skills to another level by practicing everyday and being mindful about your level. You can become the person you are dreaming of for a very long time if you are willing to do it everyday.
Sep 27, 2017
DON'T LET YOUR EXCITEMENT FOOL YOU
You have an exam tomorrow you are suppose to study tonight then later your friends call you and ask you to join him to a party, you got excited so you dress up right away and join him. That is a one bad move, you get excited and then not think anymore if it will affect your studies. You let a strong emotion decided the outcome of your exam, you easily get tempted because you get excited and not even think what will happen in your future. Your excitement fooled you once again and when the exam is there.. you're looking like an idiot, you're sweating like a maniac and can't even hold your pen, you even forgot to write your name on the test paper because you're panicking.
That is what you will get if you let an excitement run your life, you will make bad decisions, you will regret it in the end. It is only good in the beginning but once the problem is already there... you will have a strong headache.
You see a sale item at the mall, it says "90% off", you got excited you buy the item even if you don't have an extra money. You use the budget for paying bills and when the due date of the payment for your bills is there... you don't know what to do, you borrow money from other people, you make yourself suffer because of that one stupid decision.
Don't make a decision if you're too excited, sometimes the outcome of that decision is not good. Emotions are tricky, it will make you think wrong, it will make you do stupid things because you want to follow that excitement. It is just a feeling, you must control your emotions very well or else your life will be in a wrong direction.
You must be mindful of what is going on, think slowly and never let the good feelings seduce you. It is just a feeling, yeah it is hard to resist excitement, it is hard to resist temptations but always remember that once that excitement is over and you already did some stupid decisions... you will have a lot of regrets, you will blame yourself because your situation is worse.
Always look at the bigger picture, don't fall into the trap that excitement creates. Resist what will not give you a good life, learn to be smart and make good decisions in life.
Success is all about making the right decisions every now and then. Small right decision after small right decision will put your life on the right direction.
That is what you will get if you let an excitement run your life, you will make bad decisions, you will regret it in the end. It is only good in the beginning but once the problem is already there... you will have a strong headache.
You see a sale item at the mall, it says "90% off", you got excited you buy the item even if you don't have an extra money. You use the budget for paying bills and when the due date of the payment for your bills is there... you don't know what to do, you borrow money from other people, you make yourself suffer because of that one stupid decision.
Don't make a decision if you're too excited, sometimes the outcome of that decision is not good. Emotions are tricky, it will make you think wrong, it will make you do stupid things because you want to follow that excitement. It is just a feeling, you must control your emotions very well or else your life will be in a wrong direction.
You must be mindful of what is going on, think slowly and never let the good feelings seduce you. It is just a feeling, yeah it is hard to resist excitement, it is hard to resist temptations but always remember that once that excitement is over and you already did some stupid decisions... you will have a lot of regrets, you will blame yourself because your situation is worse.
Always look at the bigger picture, don't fall into the trap that excitement creates. Resist what will not give you a good life, learn to be smart and make good decisions in life.
Success is all about making the right decisions every now and then. Small right decision after small right decision will put your life on the right direction.
STUDY THE BASICS AND DISCOVER THE ADVANCE
A lot of people were rushing, they don't want to study the basics first, they thought that it was boring and they look weak. But how come you will be able to get an advance skill if you will not study the basics first?
Master the basics, once you studied it and master it... you don't need to get a teacher to teach you the advance, you will discover it by yourself.
Basics is fun and easy, it is like learning the alphabet song again.
There are even some successful people who only knows the basic but made it in life. They were so dedicated in studying and mastering the basics that is why they look so advance. Because if you're very good in basic things... you don't need to study the advance anymore, your skill level will move up automatically especially if you are working on your craft everyday. The advance skills will come to you naturally if you are so dedicated and passionate in what you do. It's the repetition of basics that will welcome the advance skills into your pedigree.
Some arrogant people will study the advance right away without studying the basics first, they thought that basics is very easy and they don't need to study it anymore. They think that it is not challenging but when they found out that they need to study it first so they can produce better results... they don't want to study it anymore because of pride, they think that they got embarrassed and wouldn't want to continue anymore.
You can only discover the advance if you will master the basics so don't underestimate it. Make sure you master it.
And also, don't be scared to expose to everyone that you only know basic things, well at least you know something, at least you're doing something. There is nothing wrong with basics because it is the foundation of everything.
Master the basics, once you studied it and master it... you don't need to get a teacher to teach you the advance, you will discover it by yourself.
Basics is fun and easy, it is like learning the alphabet song again.
There are even some successful people who only knows the basic but made it in life. They were so dedicated in studying and mastering the basics that is why they look so advance. Because if you're very good in basic things... you don't need to study the advance anymore, your skill level will move up automatically especially if you are working on your craft everyday. The advance skills will come to you naturally if you are so dedicated and passionate in what you do. It's the repetition of basics that will welcome the advance skills into your pedigree.
Some arrogant people will study the advance right away without studying the basics first, they thought that basics is very easy and they don't need to study it anymore. They think that it is not challenging but when they found out that they need to study it first so they can produce better results... they don't want to study it anymore because of pride, they think that they got embarrassed and wouldn't want to continue anymore.
You can only discover the advance if you will master the basics so don't underestimate it. Make sure you master it.
And also, don't be scared to expose to everyone that you only know basic things, well at least you know something, at least you're doing something. There is nothing wrong with basics because it is the foundation of everything.
DON'T BE AFRAID NOT TO FINISH TODAY
Not finishing it today doesn't mean you cannot finish it tomorrow or next day or next week or next month or next year. Don't feel bad if you weren't able to finish it today because you still have a lot of time. It doesn't mean you will slow down your work and not take it seriously. My point here is work hard, do your best and if you run out of time today.. continue tomorrow just after you wake up.
Just build the momentum today, work super hard and just sleep if you're super tired. It's all about making a momentum everyday so that you will be closer to your goal. Just do what you can do and never mind if it is perfect or not, never mind if it is making an impact. Just move, take actions and let the results come to your life, be patient and wait for success, it will come in just a matter of time.
The most important thing is your continuous progress, you keep progressing everyday and you never stop. Your goal is on your mind 24 hours a day. Whatever is it that will make you one step closer to your goal... do it.
You will never always finish, sometimes you have to do it again tomorrow and keep doing it over and over again until you're done.
Look for the movement not the outcome. What matters is you are serious and you take your goals and ambitions seriously, what matters is you do something for it everyday and you take your time.
Your dreams will never happen exactly when you want it to happen, it will happen if it is meant to happen. All you can do is work today and give your best. So don't be afraid not to finish, don't feel bad and think that your work is not enough.
If you did something today then it is enough. Just keep rolling and start again tomorrow. Push yourself but don't be hard on yourself if you didn't get it today.
Just build the momentum today, work super hard and just sleep if you're super tired. It's all about making a momentum everyday so that you will be closer to your goal. Just do what you can do and never mind if it is perfect or not, never mind if it is making an impact. Just move, take actions and let the results come to your life, be patient and wait for success, it will come in just a matter of time.
The most important thing is your continuous progress, you keep progressing everyday and you never stop. Your goal is on your mind 24 hours a day. Whatever is it that will make you one step closer to your goal... do it.
You will never always finish, sometimes you have to do it again tomorrow and keep doing it over and over again until you're done.
Look for the movement not the outcome. What matters is you are serious and you take your goals and ambitions seriously, what matters is you do something for it everyday and you take your time.
Your dreams will never happen exactly when you want it to happen, it will happen if it is meant to happen. All you can do is work today and give your best. So don't be afraid not to finish, don't feel bad and think that your work is not enough.
If you did something today then it is enough. Just keep rolling and start again tomorrow. Push yourself but don't be hard on yourself if you didn't get it today.
Sep 26, 2017
DON'T FOCUS ON GOALS, FOCUS ON HABITS
Focusing on goals too much and not getting it makes you wanted to quit. Of course you want results because you are working but are you just going to quit if you can't have it?
You set a goal only to find out that you can't get it on time, what is the main reason of your failure? is it lack of time? lack of skill? lack of resources? what do you think is the main reason for not getting it?
If you don't know the answer, the answer is you don't have the habits for getting it. Your habits is too cluttered, you have a lot of bad habits going on. You are thinking about your goals but you are not doing something for it. Maybe you are taking some actions but those actions were not enough. Your bad habits are overpowering the habits that you should be focusing upon.
Focus on the good habits to achieve your goal. Stop focusing too much on your goals, stop thinking about it. Just focus on surviving the good habits everyday to achieve your goals.
Because it is your habits that will decide if you will become victorious or not. The goal will always be there, it will not go away but what is the use of your goal if you don't have the right habits to get it? your goal will remain a dream if you don't arrange yourself and make yourself a better person. Make adjustments, list the habits that you needed to develop and focus on them.
Once you have the right habits built in your system, it will become very easy for you to get your goals. Your goals will come on the right time, you don't need to reach it and die so hard to have it. Just be the person you needed to be and let success be attracted to you.
Yes it is hard to form a habit right away, it is even hard to maintain it. You need time, you need to be super patient, you need to develop your habit gradually not instantly.
You set a goal only to find out that you can't get it on time, what is the main reason of your failure? is it lack of time? lack of skill? lack of resources? what do you think is the main reason for not getting it?
If you don't know the answer, the answer is you don't have the habits for getting it. Your habits is too cluttered, you have a lot of bad habits going on. You are thinking about your goals but you are not doing something for it. Maybe you are taking some actions but those actions were not enough. Your bad habits are overpowering the habits that you should be focusing upon.
Focus on the good habits to achieve your goal. Stop focusing too much on your goals, stop thinking about it. Just focus on surviving the good habits everyday to achieve your goals.
Because it is your habits that will decide if you will become victorious or not. The goal will always be there, it will not go away but what is the use of your goal if you don't have the right habits to get it? your goal will remain a dream if you don't arrange yourself and make yourself a better person. Make adjustments, list the habits that you needed to develop and focus on them.
Once you have the right habits built in your system, it will become very easy for you to get your goals. Your goals will come on the right time, you don't need to reach it and die so hard to have it. Just be the person you needed to be and let success be attracted to you.
Yes it is hard to form a habit right away, it is even hard to maintain it. You need time, you need to be super patient, you need to develop your habit gradually not instantly.
USE SPEED AS A WEAPON
Speed is a great weapon that you can use to become successful in anything. With enough speed you can do a lot of things, you can accomplish a lot. Companies love speedy workers, they love numbers. Bosses loves someone who can make fast decisions and fast solutions. Speed is everything, if you have a lot of it then you can win in life.
Any kind of business loves speed, is there a business owner who wants to hire a slow worker? of course not. So if you want companies and bosses to look for you... develop your speed. Don't be a sloppy and slow worker, be the fastest worker on this planet and let's see if you didn't get rich. Speed will create a momentum, it will build a huge progress. With enough speed you can dominate any kind of game or competition.
Repetition creates speed, speed is not something that was given to you when you were born, you have to develop it and nourish it. Train like an animal, find a process that will give you more speed so you can do more things. Just repeat something over and over again and you will create an unparalleled speed. Speed is not all about being fast or quick, it also has something to do with timing and technique. You can be fast but if your process is wrong then your speed is useless.
You have to be detailed when creating speed, you have to study and be patient. Everything is slow in the beginning so don't get frustrated if speed is not yet in your system. It will come in the right time, when the right amount of effort has already been made... you will develop and enormous amount of speed.
Be the fastest in something and people will look for your service, they will die to get you because you can create a lot and finish before time.
So if your pace is too slow, you're in big trouble, you have to make adjustments so you won't be left behind. Don't pretend that everything is fine because it's not fine. You have to stay with the competition, you have to become fast too if you don't want to fail.
The most successful people are the fastest people, they maintain a crazy pace that a normal person can't match. They make quick decisions, actions and adjustments. They can make a single project successful in just a few months.
Any kind of business loves speed, is there a business owner who wants to hire a slow worker? of course not. So if you want companies and bosses to look for you... develop your speed. Don't be a sloppy and slow worker, be the fastest worker on this planet and let's see if you didn't get rich. Speed will create a momentum, it will build a huge progress. With enough speed you can dominate any kind of game or competition.
Repetition creates speed, speed is not something that was given to you when you were born, you have to develop it and nourish it. Train like an animal, find a process that will give you more speed so you can do more things. Just repeat something over and over again and you will create an unparalleled speed. Speed is not all about being fast or quick, it also has something to do with timing and technique. You can be fast but if your process is wrong then your speed is useless.
You have to be detailed when creating speed, you have to study and be patient. Everything is slow in the beginning so don't get frustrated if speed is not yet in your system. It will come in the right time, when the right amount of effort has already been made... you will develop and enormous amount of speed.
Be the fastest in something and people will look for your service, they will die to get you because you can create a lot and finish before time.
So if your pace is too slow, you're in big trouble, you have to make adjustments so you won't be left behind. Don't pretend that everything is fine because it's not fine. You have to stay with the competition, you have to become fast too if you don't want to fail.
The most successful people are the fastest people, they maintain a crazy pace that a normal person can't match. They make quick decisions, actions and adjustments. They can make a single project successful in just a few months.
AIM TO CONTINUE NOT TO FINISH
Life is a journey, you will experience life even more if you are always sticking with the process and just aiming to continue whatever it is that you are doing.
Because life is all about continuing and not finishing. If you are always aiming to finish then you will not be able to enjoy life. You will feel hard if you are always looking for the finish, you will rush things, you will make mistakes and you will get frustrated if you can't make it.
Life is about continuous breathing and not breathing to finish. You should not stop breathing if you want to live more, you can apply this idea to anything that is happening with your life. Just keep continuing, keep pursuing, keep working. Don't look for the finish line because it will only make you feel bad, you will feel the scarcity and lackness if you are always looking at the ending.
If you have an impossible project... keep continuing, don't look for the final product because it will only give you headache and stress. It is not the destination, it is the journey. A lot of people still don't believe this because they think that once they have something that they really want then they will become happy forever. That is not the reality, the reality is you will still look for another type of happiness once you achieve what you want for the moment, you will still look for problems and another set of challenges. You will never get satisfied. It is ok to not have it, it is ok not to become victorious because the real victory is how you enjoy the moment.
How many times you watch a movie series, you always wait for the ending and the peak situations and when the movie series ends... you are still not happy, you still want more, you are still looking for another movie series that you think will make you happy. And the cycle goes on and on until you become old and regretful. You think that life tricks you.
Just aim to continue life, whatever it is that you are doing... keep doing it even if you are having a hard time. Successful people became successful not because they knew they were going to become successful, they became successful because they know how to enjoy every single second, and that makes them get success fast. It is because they are not stopping, they keep on enjoying the process even if the process is really hard.
That is the trick to life and success... keep continuing, don't aim to finish. Don't aim to finish your work, don't aim to get the goal money... just keep enjoying the process and you will see success.
Because life is all about continuing and not finishing. If you are always aiming to finish then you will not be able to enjoy life. You will feel hard if you are always looking for the finish, you will rush things, you will make mistakes and you will get frustrated if you can't make it.
Life is about continuous breathing and not breathing to finish. You should not stop breathing if you want to live more, you can apply this idea to anything that is happening with your life. Just keep continuing, keep pursuing, keep working. Don't look for the finish line because it will only make you feel bad, you will feel the scarcity and lackness if you are always looking at the ending.
If you have an impossible project... keep continuing, don't look for the final product because it will only give you headache and stress. It is not the destination, it is the journey. A lot of people still don't believe this because they think that once they have something that they really want then they will become happy forever. That is not the reality, the reality is you will still look for another type of happiness once you achieve what you want for the moment, you will still look for problems and another set of challenges. You will never get satisfied. It is ok to not have it, it is ok not to become victorious because the real victory is how you enjoy the moment.
How many times you watch a movie series, you always wait for the ending and the peak situations and when the movie series ends... you are still not happy, you still want more, you are still looking for another movie series that you think will make you happy. And the cycle goes on and on until you become old and regretful. You think that life tricks you.
Just aim to continue life, whatever it is that you are doing... keep doing it even if you are having a hard time. Successful people became successful not because they knew they were going to become successful, they became successful because they know how to enjoy every single second, and that makes them get success fast. It is because they are not stopping, they keep on enjoying the process even if the process is really hard.
That is the trick to life and success... keep continuing, don't aim to finish. Don't aim to finish your work, don't aim to get the goal money... just keep enjoying the process and you will see success.
YOU DESERVE IT IF YOU CAN PAY IT WHOLE
You only deserve something if you can pay it in whole. For example, if you want a car and your want to really have it... if you can't pay it in whole then you don't deserve it. Something that will give you debts in the future is not for you because it is controlling you, it is making you poorer, it is giving you a hard time, it is putting you on a bad position.
Don't buy or do something just for the sake of having an entitlement. Don't do something stupid just to get people's respect. You only deserve something if you can pay it in cash.
If you recently just purchased a BMW car but it is not fully paid yet and you need to pay it in installment for five years... you don't deserve it, it is not yours. You can hold it but the bank can take it anytime they want if you are late in paying the monthly payment. It is not rightfully yours, you still owe a lot, the funny thing is... you are even more suffering because you have a liability. Yeah, you look good and rich but deep inside you still feel poor.
You deserve something if no one has the right to come after you when things go wrong, you deserve something if you have the full ownership of it and you can sell it anytime you want without any disapproval from others.
If you want to have an easier life and financial freedom... never take an installment property, if you can pay it whole then pay it. Never buy something that the value depreciates. You can do it if you have a lot of extra money or you can pay it in cash.
Having an easy life is not about looking rich, cool or good. Life is all about emotions, you can never feel good if you are paying something monthly. You can only feel rich if you have no debts and money keeps growing monthly or even daily.
You must know what you deserve, you must know your place, don't pretend that you deserve something if deep inside you feel you are broke.
Don't buy or do something just for the sake of having an entitlement. Don't do something stupid just to get people's respect. You only deserve something if you can pay it in cash.
If you recently just purchased a BMW car but it is not fully paid yet and you need to pay it in installment for five years... you don't deserve it, it is not yours. You can hold it but the bank can take it anytime they want if you are late in paying the monthly payment. It is not rightfully yours, you still owe a lot, the funny thing is... you are even more suffering because you have a liability. Yeah, you look good and rich but deep inside you still feel poor.
You deserve something if no one has the right to come after you when things go wrong, you deserve something if you have the full ownership of it and you can sell it anytime you want without any disapproval from others.
If you want to have an easier life and financial freedom... never take an installment property, if you can pay it whole then pay it. Never buy something that the value depreciates. You can do it if you have a lot of extra money or you can pay it in cash.
Having an easy life is not about looking rich, cool or good. Life is all about emotions, you can never feel good if you are paying something monthly. You can only feel rich if you have no debts and money keeps growing monthly or even daily.
You must know what you deserve, you must know your place, don't pretend that you deserve something if deep inside you feel you are broke.
Sep 25, 2017
THE POWER OF CONSISTENCY
Never underestimate the power of consistency. A lot of people who have no talents, money and not even smart became very successful because they use consistency as a weapon.
They knew they can become very great by just repeating over and over again. They knew that repetition will create progression. The never get tired doing it everyday, they love growing day by day little by little.
If you're consistent in something then you have a big chance to become the greatest at it. The people who were labeled as "genius" were very consistent, they never miss a day honing their craft. They keep on working and working until they become the best. Even if it is raining, even if it is shining... they keep working, the never make excuses, they just do it even if they are having a bad day.
Take basketball as an example, if you're bad in shooting the ball all you need to do is practice, practice shooting 100 baskets a day and let's see if you didn't become a shooter. Keep practicing, practice during night, practice everyday.
Once you do something for 100 straight days... there is a big chance that you will do it forever, it will be encoded into your system, you will never forget it, you will always look for it everyday. It feels like your day is not complete if you haven't done it yet.
You don't need to work for a lot of hours everyday. Just pick something that you want to do and do it for 30-60 minutes, do it forever and you will see greatness in your life. You don't need to work super hard, you just need to be consistent.
It is hard for you to get rid of a habit that you've been consistently doing for years. That is why hardcore smokers can't change their bum lives anymore.... they were consistent in smoking everyday for years and that makes them an expert in smoking.
So if you want to become great at something.. do tit for years, do it everyday. You will become really great, your skill will rise up to another level. You don't need to welcome a complicated process, just do it everyday and you will become one of the best.
They knew they can become very great by just repeating over and over again. They knew that repetition will create progression. The never get tired doing it everyday, they love growing day by day little by little.
If you're consistent in something then you have a big chance to become the greatest at it. The people who were labeled as "genius" were very consistent, they never miss a day honing their craft. They keep on working and working until they become the best. Even if it is raining, even if it is shining... they keep working, the never make excuses, they just do it even if they are having a bad day.
Take basketball as an example, if you're bad in shooting the ball all you need to do is practice, practice shooting 100 baskets a day and let's see if you didn't become a shooter. Keep practicing, practice during night, practice everyday.
Once you do something for 100 straight days... there is a big chance that you will do it forever, it will be encoded into your system, you will never forget it, you will always look for it everyday. It feels like your day is not complete if you haven't done it yet.
You don't need to work for a lot of hours everyday. Just pick something that you want to do and do it for 30-60 minutes, do it forever and you will see greatness in your life. You don't need to work super hard, you just need to be consistent.
It is hard for you to get rid of a habit that you've been consistently doing for years. That is why hardcore smokers can't change their bum lives anymore.... they were consistent in smoking everyday for years and that makes them an expert in smoking.
So if you want to become great at something.. do tit for years, do it everyday. You will become really great, your skill will rise up to another level. You don't need to welcome a complicated process, just do it everyday and you will become one of the best.
ONLY LIFE EXPERIENCE CAN TEACH YOU
Experience is the best teacher... it is.
When you listen to your math professor and take down the notes that was written on the blackboard, do you think you already learned something? Of course not, don't act like it is already embedded on your mind, you haven't learned anything yet unless you tried it.
If you don't know anything in life, if you weren't able to go to school and you want to succeed... just keep experiencing different things. Experience will teach you what is not thought in school. Experience will make you a different person, it will make you a full grown man. Especially if you are always striving to learn and grow. Experience is free, all you need to do is experience it and be attentive with the details of it.
You can read all the books, you can listen to different gurus about anything but if you will not apply those knowledge then you still haven't learn anything. Your experience is still empty, you still don't know what to do in real situation.
Once you learn something... try it or else you will forget it. Apply it in real life, experience it and suck the knowledge from it. You can only get the best knowledge from experience, it will give you the real lessons in life. You will never get the real lessons from videos, notes, instructions etc. You need to apply it to yourself.
When you listen to your math professor and take down the notes that was written on the blackboard, do you think you already learned something? Of course not, don't act like it is already embedded on your mind, you haven't learned anything yet unless you tried it.
If you don't know anything in life, if you weren't able to go to school and you want to succeed... just keep experiencing different things. Experience will teach you what is not thought in school. Experience will make you a different person, it will make you a full grown man. Especially if you are always striving to learn and grow. Experience is free, all you need to do is experience it and be attentive with the details of it.
You can read all the books, you can listen to different gurus about anything but if you will not apply those knowledge then you still haven't learn anything. Your experience is still empty, you still don't know what to do in real situation.
Once you learn something... try it or else you will forget it. Apply it in real life, experience it and suck the knowledge from it. You can only get the best knowledge from experience, it will give you the real lessons in life. You will never get the real lessons from videos, notes, instructions etc. You need to apply it to yourself.
YOUR ENDURANCE IS YOUR ASSURANCE
If you want to be sure that you're going to become successful... master your endurance. If you can do something over and over again without getting sick and tired of it then you will become successful, as simple as that.
You have to endure boredom and pain. If you are pursuing something, you will experience a lot of pain and boring moments, you would love to quit but you can't do it because you are aiming for something. You need to stick with the process until the end.
The question is not how good you are but how long can you stand for what you believe in. Can you still work even if you keep losing? can you still trust yourself if everything seems to be not working?
Can you survive your business even if no money is entering your pocket? can you still follow your dreams even if no one believes you anymore? how long can you endure? how long are you willing to take the pain?
The level of your endurance is your assurance to success. If you think that you can stay with the painful and unrewarding process until you win then you will win.
The key here is to stop focusing on what is going on, just keep taking actions, forget about your situation in life. Endure every pain, endure every boring process, go all out and never sell yourself short.
Forget about how long you need to work before you get it because you will always get it. Nobody knows when will you become successful, even you can't predict the exact date of your success. All you can do is endure what is going on until you become alright, until you become successful.
You have to endure boredom and pain. If you are pursuing something, you will experience a lot of pain and boring moments, you would love to quit but you can't do it because you are aiming for something. You need to stick with the process until the end.
The question is not how good you are but how long can you stand for what you believe in. Can you still work even if you keep losing? can you still trust yourself if everything seems to be not working?
Can you survive your business even if no money is entering your pocket? can you still follow your dreams even if no one believes you anymore? how long can you endure? how long are you willing to take the pain?
The level of your endurance is your assurance to success. If you think that you can stay with the painful and unrewarding process until you win then you will win.
The key here is to stop focusing on what is going on, just keep taking actions, forget about your situation in life. Endure every pain, endure every boring process, go all out and never sell yourself short.
Forget about how long you need to work before you get it because you will always get it. Nobody knows when will you become successful, even you can't predict the exact date of your success. All you can do is endure what is going on until you become alright, until you become successful.
Sep 24, 2017
YOUR OWN DISCOVERED PROCESS WILL WORK EVEN IF SLOW
Trust me.. any process that you trust and using everyday will work, it will produce something, it will give you success. That process maybe slow but it will give you results if you keep on repeating it. There is no need to doubt it, no need to compare it, once you commit to it then for sure it will give you the results that you are expecting.
All you need to have is commitment and faith. Trust that it will work in the end, the progress maybe slow or sometimes you are not even seeing any progress at all but the good thing is you are doing something, you are serious and you are willing to see the finish line.
Stop listening to other people saying how to get things done. Trust your new found process because it's yours, it's original and it comes from your heart. It may not work now but for sure it will in the long run.
Enjoy being slow, enjoy the baby steps, just purely enjoy taking actions. Success will come in just a matter of time. Trust the process to attract success, never let go of something you believe in.
Slow progress is much much better than instant success, those who get it fast also failed fast. You will only become better gradually, you can never get it in just a blink of an eye. Understand that every great thing takes time and you need a lot of patience if you really want to become successful.
Trust the timing, believe that your time will come and it will only come if you don't stop doing what you love.
Enjoy repetition, repeat your process every single day, always find the motivation to do it. There will be times when you will get sick and tired of it but that doesn't mean you have to quit.
All you need to have is commitment and faith. Trust that it will work in the end, the progress maybe slow or sometimes you are not even seeing any progress at all but the good thing is you are doing something, you are serious and you are willing to see the finish line.
Stop listening to other people saying how to get things done. Trust your new found process because it's yours, it's original and it comes from your heart. It may not work now but for sure it will in the long run.
Enjoy being slow, enjoy the baby steps, just purely enjoy taking actions. Success will come in just a matter of time. Trust the process to attract success, never let go of something you believe in.
Slow progress is much much better than instant success, those who get it fast also failed fast. You will only become better gradually, you can never get it in just a blink of an eye. Understand that every great thing takes time and you need a lot of patience if you really want to become successful.
Trust the timing, believe that your time will come and it will only come if you don't stop doing what you love.
Enjoy repetition, repeat your process every single day, always find the motivation to do it. There will be times when you will get sick and tired of it but that doesn't mean you have to quit.
THERE IS NO WASTED EFFORT
All of your efforts were needed in order to produce something. All of your efforts has use, if you didn't do it then you will fall shorter than your present position in life, the results will be worse and you will have a lot of regrets in life.
Even if you fail, don't think that all of your efforts were wasted, it is a good thing that you go all in because that will build a habit of becoming a successful person. Even if you fail, if you work hard then that work ethic will be installed in your system. You are a new person, all of those works has built a momentum that you can use in the future.
All of your efforts has made you a better person, if you didn't go hard then you're just an average human being now. You're a different person now, much better than yesterday because of those massive efforts that you exerted. You're a great person now because of those efforts.
So don't ever think that you just wasted your time working hard and nothing happened. You may not see the benefits now but you will learn it in the future. You will tell yourself that you are right by working so hard in the past.
Look at you now.. you were smarter than yesterday, you know a lot, you experienced a lot. You know what to do next time. You're a completely different person, your mental toughness has become tougher, your endurance has become stronger. You are always ready to go and you're not afraid to work hard again.
So don't ever regret that you use a lot of energy pursuing something yet you still fail, those failures are just lessons. If not for those efforts that you did from the past, you're still a weak person today, your confidence is still low.
Be proud that you go hard because not all people can do that. Once day you will see that all of those efforts were really needed to produce something great.
Even if you fail, don't think that all of your efforts were wasted, it is a good thing that you go all in because that will build a habit of becoming a successful person. Even if you fail, if you work hard then that work ethic will be installed in your system. You are a new person, all of those works has built a momentum that you can use in the future.
All of your efforts has made you a better person, if you didn't go hard then you're just an average human being now. You're a different person now, much better than yesterday because of those massive efforts that you exerted. You're a great person now because of those efforts.
So don't ever think that you just wasted your time working hard and nothing happened. You may not see the benefits now but you will learn it in the future. You will tell yourself that you are right by working so hard in the past.
Look at you now.. you were smarter than yesterday, you know a lot, you experienced a lot. You know what to do next time. You're a completely different person, your mental toughness has become tougher, your endurance has become stronger. You are always ready to go and you're not afraid to work hard again.
So don't ever regret that you use a lot of energy pursuing something yet you still fail, those failures are just lessons. If not for those efforts that you did from the past, you're still a weak person today, your confidence is still low.
Be proud that you go hard because not all people can do that. Once day you will see that all of those efforts were really needed to produce something great.
Sep 23, 2017
IF IT CAN MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD FOREVER KEEP DOING IT
Doing something that you like will make you really feel good. That is why if you want to do something forever, make sure you love it. Don't do something because you think you need to do it, do it because it gives you happiness.
If something can make you feel good forever then it is the right activity for you, it will give you results, it will make you successful. But not all activities that makes you feel good is healthy, some activities are harmful and will destroy your life in the long run. So be careful with activities that you are engaging, make sure it will give you benefits forever and will contribute to your growth.
For example, taking illegal drugs to forget your problems and make you high... it only feels good in the beginning, it will make you feel bad in the long run especially if the side effects were showing up. The good feelings is not forever so it is not the right activity for you, same as taking steroids and pain relievers.. they were only good in the beginning but once the bad effects are showing up... you will learned that you shouldn't have take it form the very beginning.
Activities such as exercise, yoga, arts, music, pursuing a goal, self improvement, being compassionate to other people, being passionate in something... these activities will make you feel good in the beginning up to the end. You will have no regrets by doing it. It will make you feel good forever.
Any process that makes you feel strong, young and excited is the right process for you, granted that it has no side effects in the long run and will make your brain work properly. You have to choose what activities, process or hobbies that will give you a good life.
Some activities are pretty boring in the beginning but once you made a progress and see the good benefits that you are getting from it... you will enjoy it later and you will repeat it over and over again.
Any process that gives you good feelings will give you success, just be careful on choosing the right thing, choose what is best for you, choose what will make you grow.
If something can make you feel good forever then it is the right activity for you, it will give you results, it will make you successful. But not all activities that makes you feel good is healthy, some activities are harmful and will destroy your life in the long run. So be careful with activities that you are engaging, make sure it will give you benefits forever and will contribute to your growth.
For example, taking illegal drugs to forget your problems and make you high... it only feels good in the beginning, it will make you feel bad in the long run especially if the side effects were showing up. The good feelings is not forever so it is not the right activity for you, same as taking steroids and pain relievers.. they were only good in the beginning but once the bad effects are showing up... you will learned that you shouldn't have take it form the very beginning.
Activities such as exercise, yoga, arts, music, pursuing a goal, self improvement, being compassionate to other people, being passionate in something... these activities will make you feel good in the beginning up to the end. You will have no regrets by doing it. It will make you feel good forever.
Any process that makes you feel strong, young and excited is the right process for you, granted that it has no side effects in the long run and will make your brain work properly. You have to choose what activities, process or hobbies that will give you a good life.
Some activities are pretty boring in the beginning but once you made a progress and see the good benefits that you are getting from it... you will enjoy it later and you will repeat it over and over again.
Any process that gives you good feelings will give you success, just be careful on choosing the right thing, choose what is best for you, choose what will make you grow.
NOT KNOWING IS KNOWING
You don't need to know everything to win in life, sometimes not knowing is better, sometimes not knowing will give you a huge amount of success.
Not knowing how to quit is knowing how to win. Not knowing that it's hard is knowing that it's easy. It's always the other way around, if you don't know this side then you know the other side.
Not knowing that your skill is bad is knowing that you're great. Having this kind of belief will make you work hard even more and pursue impossible things. Not knowing that your lost will make you continue your journey even if the way is rocky.
It's good not to know, ignorance is a bliss. It will give you success if you keep on not knowing what you don't need to know.
Not knowing that it is dangerous will make you feel that it is safe. It will make you know that it is ok to try it and hope to become successful about it.
Not knowing that you suck will make you know that you're doing fine. You will keep working until you finally get better.
It's good to not know your weakness so you will feel that you are strong and capable of conquering immeasurable heights.
Ignorance is good if your perspective is positive. You will not even know that you can't do it. You will just do what you know until you know what you don't know.
Not knowing how to quit is knowing how to win. Not knowing that it's hard is knowing that it's easy. It's always the other way around, if you don't know this side then you know the other side.
Not knowing that your skill is bad is knowing that you're great. Having this kind of belief will make you work hard even more and pursue impossible things. Not knowing that your lost will make you continue your journey even if the way is rocky.
It's good not to know, ignorance is a bliss. It will give you success if you keep on not knowing what you don't need to know.
Not knowing that it is dangerous will make you feel that it is safe. It will make you know that it is ok to try it and hope to become successful about it.
Not knowing that you suck will make you know that you're doing fine. You will keep working until you finally get better.
It's good to not know your weakness so you will feel that you are strong and capable of conquering immeasurable heights.
Ignorance is good if your perspective is positive. You will not even know that you can't do it. You will just do what you know until you know what you don't know.
Sep 22, 2017
TOO EASY IF YOU WILL NOT THINK
Life is very easy if you will not think and will just do what needs to be done. Life gets hard because you are overthinking and over complicating things... just move, just make a decision that you will do it.
You can stop, you can slow down, you can rest but don't think a lot.
Don't think about what will happen next, just do what you are suppose to do. Do what you wanted to do. If something will happen then it will happen, all you can do is control what you can control and that is your emotions and thoughts.
People can't start because they are thinking too much, they are worrying, they think they are perfect and they are not allowed to make mistakes. If you can't start then don't think at all, if you do it then you will be able to start in a while.
If you want to become successful then you shouldn't think, you must only act. Thinking is like worrying, it is entertaining thoughts that are not needed.
DON'T THINK THAT YOU ARE WRONG. Just do it, just stick with the process even if you are not seeing any results. Just keep going.If you are wrong then you are wrong, you will know it in the end. But for the meantime do what you are suppose to do. Don't think, just act, that is the best way to make a progress.
Overthinking is a sin, it is a bridge for procrastination, you will get crazy of you are just thinking and not acting. You better do something or else your mind will keep soring.
Just do it and forget about the results, forget your stupid plan and execute right away. Because after all, that plan may change anytime.
You can stop, you can slow down, you can rest but don't think a lot.
Don't think about what will happen next, just do what you are suppose to do. Do what you wanted to do. If something will happen then it will happen, all you can do is control what you can control and that is your emotions and thoughts.
People can't start because they are thinking too much, they are worrying, they think they are perfect and they are not allowed to make mistakes. If you can't start then don't think at all, if you do it then you will be able to start in a while.
If you want to become successful then you shouldn't think, you must only act. Thinking is like worrying, it is entertaining thoughts that are not needed.
DON'T THINK THAT YOU ARE WRONG. Just do it, just stick with the process even if you are not seeing any results. Just keep going.If you are wrong then you are wrong, you will know it in the end. But for the meantime do what you are suppose to do. Don't think, just act, that is the best way to make a progress.
Overthinking is a sin, it is a bridge for procrastination, you will get crazy of you are just thinking and not acting. You better do something or else your mind will keep soring.
Just do it and forget about the results, forget your stupid plan and execute right away. Because after all, that plan may change anytime.
CHECK YOUR EMOTIONS FIRST BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE
You need to keep your emotions always in check because that is what is controlling your life. You get angry at small things that doesn't really matter into your life. You are so attached into something that really doesn't matter.
You have to always be aware of how you feel and what made you feel that way.
Is it really cool to feel bad about something that is less important in your life?. You get mad when someone cuts you in traffic, someone made a disrespectful joke on you, someone criticize your work etc.
If you can control your emotions and stop feeding your ego when something you don't like happens then it means you're a strong person. Weak minded people are the ones who get mad at petty things. They get angry about stupid things, they never look at the bigger picture in life.
Why will you fight someone who you don't even know if there is a better life waiting for you? if someone offended you in traffic, public place, party or any occasion... why will you fight him if you have a dream that you are pursuing? giving attention to things that will slow you down or cause you trouble means you are pulling yourself away from having a better life. Check your emotions because it is hard to have regrets in the end. It is better to look scared, calm, kind and feel nothing about it than to pretend brave but in the end doesn't know what to do when the trouble is already big and hard to escape.
Your emotions towards something is what making it a big deal not the situation itself. Any worse situation can look better if you will feel good about it, not necessarily feel good but feel nothing about it.
Check your emotions, it is just a feeling and nothing more than that, you can tone down any negative and strong emotion if you will just look at the better things that can happen in your life. Life is too short to deal with unimportant things that will only cause you harm. Stop feeding your ego and pride, stop proving to them that you are strong, they will see how strong you are by how successful you become.
You have to always be aware of how you feel and what made you feel that way.
Is it really cool to feel bad about something that is less important in your life?. You get mad when someone cuts you in traffic, someone made a disrespectful joke on you, someone criticize your work etc.
If you can control your emotions and stop feeding your ego when something you don't like happens then it means you're a strong person. Weak minded people are the ones who get mad at petty things. They get angry about stupid things, they never look at the bigger picture in life.
Why will you fight someone who you don't even know if there is a better life waiting for you? if someone offended you in traffic, public place, party or any occasion... why will you fight him if you have a dream that you are pursuing? giving attention to things that will slow you down or cause you trouble means you are pulling yourself away from having a better life. Check your emotions because it is hard to have regrets in the end. It is better to look scared, calm, kind and feel nothing about it than to pretend brave but in the end doesn't know what to do when the trouble is already big and hard to escape.
Your emotions towards something is what making it a big deal not the situation itself. Any worse situation can look better if you will feel good about it, not necessarily feel good but feel nothing about it.
Check your emotions, it is just a feeling and nothing more than that, you can tone down any negative and strong emotion if you will just look at the better things that can happen in your life. Life is too short to deal with unimportant things that will only cause you harm. Stop feeding your ego and pride, stop proving to them that you are strong, they will see how strong you are by how successful you become.
Sep 21, 2017
CHECK IF YOUR BELIEF SUCKS
Always check if your belief sucks. All people believe in something, it only depends on what you believe in. You can believe in fear, worries, negativity, weakness, recession, lack of chances or you can believe in power, positivity, opportunities, success, freedom, motivation and optimism. It really depends on you.
What kind of belief you wanted to believe is your life, it is your path. So whenever you entertain weak beliefs... it only means you are going to lose in life.
But if you can entertain strong beliefs then you will succeed in life, you will live better and experience the goodness of life.
Always check your belief. If you can't find the reasons to believe in yourself then you will go down, you will remain the same person yesterday or maybe you will get even worse.
HOW TO MAKE YOUR BELIEF STRONGER?
1. Always move and take actions, never hold yourself back. Make a move everyday, this style will make you forget about your problems, you will ignore what is lacking in your life. Day by day your belief will go stronger because of taking actions, you will seep progress. Take massive actions not a poor action.
2. Consider yourself as a winner. Everytime you try... consider yourself as already a winner, not all people can try, they are so afraid to lose. Everytime you take risks and do what you fear.. consider yourself as a winner. This will make your confidence go high, your ability to make decisions on your own will become really good.
3. Visualize that you're winning in life. Visualize before and after sleep that you are getting better each day. Imagine that you are winning, imagine that you're unstoppable. You can use your imagination to make your belief stronger, visualize the process, visualize your transformation from weak to strong.
What kind of belief you wanted to believe is your life, it is your path. So whenever you entertain weak beliefs... it only means you are going to lose in life.
But if you can entertain strong beliefs then you will succeed in life, you will live better and experience the goodness of life.
Always check your belief. If you can't find the reasons to believe in yourself then you will go down, you will remain the same person yesterday or maybe you will get even worse.
HOW TO MAKE YOUR BELIEF STRONGER?
1. Always move and take actions, never hold yourself back. Make a move everyday, this style will make you forget about your problems, you will ignore what is lacking in your life. Day by day your belief will go stronger because of taking actions, you will seep progress. Take massive actions not a poor action.
2. Consider yourself as a winner. Everytime you try... consider yourself as already a winner, not all people can try, they are so afraid to lose. Everytime you take risks and do what you fear.. consider yourself as a winner. This will make your confidence go high, your ability to make decisions on your own will become really good.
3. Visualize that you're winning in life. Visualize before and after sleep that you are getting better each day. Imagine that you are winning, imagine that you're unstoppable. You can use your imagination to make your belief stronger, visualize the process, visualize your transformation from weak to strong.
Sep 20, 2017
DO WHAT GIVES YOU HOPE
Do something that gives you hope, a lot of people were hopeless because they are not doing what can give them hope. They were so focused on what they don't want, they concentrate on fears, worries and negativity that is why the can't change their lives.
WHAT ARE THE ACTIVITIES THAT WILL GIVE YOU HOPE?
1. Exercise and taking care of your health. This shit is hard but it will give you good feelings, it is only hard in the beginning but once you get used to it... it will be very easy. Exercising will give you good feelings, good feelings will make you hopeful, it will transform you from an excuse maker to a result getter. Keep on running or jogging everyday... it will give you hope, you will be able to think clearly because of it, you will find peace and make your thoughts more positive.
2. Earning some money on your own. People are depressed and hopeless because they can't earn money on their own. You need to find a way how to earn money by yourself so you won't ask for someone's support anymore. It's not the money itself that will make you feel better but having the ability to make money by yourself, it will make you more confident, your self esteem will go very high. It will give you high hopes because you will have the ability to dream again because you are your own boss and you hold the cards to success.
3. Listening to positive and successful people. Never listen to someone who all knows is how to spread negativity. You will become hopeless if you associate yourself with that kind of person. He will tell you negative stories, he will corrupt your mind and make you a pessimist. Listen to someone who is successful and will give you advise about your problems. You will become more motivated and determined to make your life better. Positive people will never make you hopeless, they will give you words of encouragement on how to deal with your life correctly.
4. Take baby steps. Always take action, take baby steps for your goal, you will have high hopes if you are moving because you are seeing yourself improving and progressing. May it be the tiniest step that you know... do it. Baby steps are very powerful if you do it for a very long time, it will accumulate in the end and will give you the life that you want.
5. Help someone. Helping someone will also give you good emotions, you will learn that life is all about compassion and making other people successful. It is not all about yourself, even if you are problematic... if you can help someone then you will also feel good, your hope will become stronger.
WHAT ARE THE ACTIVITIES THAT WILL GIVE YOU HOPE?
1. Exercise and taking care of your health. This shit is hard but it will give you good feelings, it is only hard in the beginning but once you get used to it... it will be very easy. Exercising will give you good feelings, good feelings will make you hopeful, it will transform you from an excuse maker to a result getter. Keep on running or jogging everyday... it will give you hope, you will be able to think clearly because of it, you will find peace and make your thoughts more positive.
2. Earning some money on your own. People are depressed and hopeless because they can't earn money on their own. You need to find a way how to earn money by yourself so you won't ask for someone's support anymore. It's not the money itself that will make you feel better but having the ability to make money by yourself, it will make you more confident, your self esteem will go very high. It will give you high hopes because you will have the ability to dream again because you are your own boss and you hold the cards to success.
3. Listening to positive and successful people. Never listen to someone who all knows is how to spread negativity. You will become hopeless if you associate yourself with that kind of person. He will tell you negative stories, he will corrupt your mind and make you a pessimist. Listen to someone who is successful and will give you advise about your problems. You will become more motivated and determined to make your life better. Positive people will never make you hopeless, they will give you words of encouragement on how to deal with your life correctly.
4. Take baby steps. Always take action, take baby steps for your goal, you will have high hopes if you are moving because you are seeing yourself improving and progressing. May it be the tiniest step that you know... do it. Baby steps are very powerful if you do it for a very long time, it will accumulate in the end and will give you the life that you want.
5. Help someone. Helping someone will also give you good emotions, you will learn that life is all about compassion and making other people successful. It is not all about yourself, even if you are problematic... if you can help someone then you will also feel good, your hope will become stronger.
Sep 19, 2017
DON'T PRETEND THAT IT'S NOT WORKING
Sometimes you already knew it, you already knew what to do that will give you success. You are just pretending that it is not working because of your laziness. You are pretending that you can't see progress and you need to do something else because it is not working.
Don't fool yourself, if it works a little bit then it can really work, it can make you successful. You are just lazy and has no patience. You just need to work longer and harder. Any process can give you success if you are serious and using every bit of your time to create a little momentum.
If you are serious in using any kind of process then for sure it will work, yeah it may not work in the beginning but as you continuously grind... you will be able to find a way how to make it work. Stop pretending that it is not working because for sure it is. You just don't want to stick with the process long enough and find a way how to make it work. You want it fast, you want to become an instant winner that is why you can't make it work.
Be patient and stick with it for a very long time, make it work if it is not working. If you really want it then you will find a way. There are millions of ways how to make things work. If you can't make it work then it means your effort is not enough.
Excuses are for losers. You better cut your excuses in half or totally get rid of them all. Excuses will never make something work it is only making your situation worse. Pretending that it is not working is like quitting, you want to start something else that you think is better fort your life only to find out in the end that you made a wrong decision.
WORK UNTIL YOU MAKE IT WORK. Never stop working until you finally made it. Forget about the hardwork that you need to put in. Of course you need to work hard, it is normal. Just keep working until something show on your way.
Because if you will keep on making lousy excuses then nothing will happen to you. Stop pretending that you don't know it, start believing that you can do it.
Don't fool yourself, if it works a little bit then it can really work, it can make you successful. You are just lazy and has no patience. You just need to work longer and harder. Any process can give you success if you are serious and using every bit of your time to create a little momentum.
If you are serious in using any kind of process then for sure it will work, yeah it may not work in the beginning but as you continuously grind... you will be able to find a way how to make it work. Stop pretending that it is not working because for sure it is. You just don't want to stick with the process long enough and find a way how to make it work. You want it fast, you want to become an instant winner that is why you can't make it work.
Be patient and stick with it for a very long time, make it work if it is not working. If you really want it then you will find a way. There are millions of ways how to make things work. If you can't make it work then it means your effort is not enough.
Excuses are for losers. You better cut your excuses in half or totally get rid of them all. Excuses will never make something work it is only making your situation worse. Pretending that it is not working is like quitting, you want to start something else that you think is better fort your life only to find out in the end that you made a wrong decision.
WORK UNTIL YOU MAKE IT WORK. Never stop working until you finally made it. Forget about the hardwork that you need to put in. Of course you need to work hard, it is normal. Just keep working until something show on your way.
Because if you will keep on making lousy excuses then nothing will happen to you. Stop pretending that you don't know it, start believing that you can do it.
Sep 18, 2017
TARGET THE UGLY FIRST TO BUILD SOME CONFIDENCE
You don't need to go to the most beautiful piece right away. You need a lot of confidence first if you want to get the finest things in life.
For example, if you go to a bar and you want to meet girls and get their numbers... of course you will be scared even if you're a good looking guy. What you need to do is target the ugly girls first, talk to them, build confidence from them. Once you knew that you can talk to girls without sweating your armpits a lot... go and target the beautiful girls next.
Just like in buying a car. If you don't have enough money to buy a brand new car then go and buy a second hand rusty car first. Earn more money. work harder so you can buy a brand new car next year.
The idea here is to have something to get another thing easier. Once you know that you have it then you can add more of it... easier.
You can build your confidence easier through ugly and easy options, there is nothing wrong with that. You need to have a momentum first so you can get what you really want next time.
Sep 17, 2017
THINGS THAT YOU MUST NOT BELIEVE TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL
1. Luck. Don't believe in luck because luck is for the losers. If you will believe in luck then you will not work hard anymore, luck is for the mediocre, luck is for the lazy people who doesn't want to work hard. Look at those people who were always gambling and joining lottery games... did they become rich? There is no success in luck. If you will rely on luck then you will just wait forever and ever.
2. Connections. Trusting connections are for the weak minded people, yeah connections may help but what if you don't have? what if your connection is defective? never believe in connections because you can always do it on your own, you don't need help from somebody to become successful. It's not about being arrogant, it's about learning to trust your skills and abilities to become successful, it's about making a stand for your dream.
3. The world is unfair. The world is not unfair, it is just giving you what you deserve. And even if it is really unfair, will you focus on that kind of judgement? if the world is unfair then work harder, be unfair to yourself because you are working harder than others.
4. You're a failure. You will never become a failure unless you accept that you're a failure. If you keep on trying then you will never be considered a failure. Just keep trying and never believe that you're a failure, once you decide that you will try forever then you're just a tryer, a tryer is far way better than a failure.
5. Recession. Recession is just an excuse, there are still some people who are thriving in recession, they knew that shit happens and the economy is not stable but that doesn't mean that they have the right to make excuses and not work hard anymore. So what if it is recession? you can still work hard and dream big despite of recession. You can still become successful despite of recession.
6. It's not for you. It will never be for you if you will not get it. Once you believe it and you never give up then it is for you. No one has the right to tell you that it is not for you. You can get it if you persevere enough to get it. Stop believing what other people say. If you feel that you can win then go and give it a shot.
7. You don't have what it takes. Everyone has what it takes to become successful, they just don't push hard enough to become one. Success is just a matter of commitment and focus, if you have an insane focus to become successful then you will become successful, as simple as that.
2. Connections. Trusting connections are for the weak minded people, yeah connections may help but what if you don't have? what if your connection is defective? never believe in connections because you can always do it on your own, you don't need help from somebody to become successful. It's not about being arrogant, it's about learning to trust your skills and abilities to become successful, it's about making a stand for your dream.
3. The world is unfair. The world is not unfair, it is just giving you what you deserve. And even if it is really unfair, will you focus on that kind of judgement? if the world is unfair then work harder, be unfair to yourself because you are working harder than others.
4. You're a failure. You will never become a failure unless you accept that you're a failure. If you keep on trying then you will never be considered a failure. Just keep trying and never believe that you're a failure, once you decide that you will try forever then you're just a tryer, a tryer is far way better than a failure.
5. Recession. Recession is just an excuse, there are still some people who are thriving in recession, they knew that shit happens and the economy is not stable but that doesn't mean that they have the right to make excuses and not work hard anymore. So what if it is recession? you can still work hard and dream big despite of recession. You can still become successful despite of recession.
6. It's not for you. It will never be for you if you will not get it. Once you believe it and you never give up then it is for you. No one has the right to tell you that it is not for you. You can get it if you persevere enough to get it. Stop believing what other people say. If you feel that you can win then go and give it a shot.
7. You don't have what it takes. Everyone has what it takes to become successful, they just don't push hard enough to become one. Success is just a matter of commitment and focus, if you have an insane focus to become successful then you will become successful, as simple as that.
Sep 16, 2017
FIND YOUR GREATNESS
Everyone can become great but not everyone knows that, some people though that the word greatness is only for the few or chosen ones. The truth is you can become great too if you really want it. Greatness doesn't require talents or gifts. It only need you to become focused, determined and have a fighting spirit to not give up even if things are really difficult.
It's all about pushing hard, getting a little bit better everyday and not looking for results, let greatness come naturally. Don't seek for it, be it. Once you established the habits and work ethics required for being great then you're already great, granted that you don't stop those habits.
You can become great if you will force yourself to become great, establish a work ethic that is unmatchable and focus your time and energy for making yourself better each day.
Stop watching other people's work or life, focus on your life and look for the things that will make you better as a person. Make your skills super great, practice like a maniac and never stop until you achieve that confidence that you needed to do great things.
Confidence is all you need and a skill that was honed for a very long time. You need time, patience and dedication, don't force greatness because it will come on the right time. Don't pretend that you're already great because you will feel it. You can honestly tell yourself if you're great or not, no matter how you lie to other people... they will still see if you're great or not.
Find your greatness by starting now, practice on something and never stop until you reach a very high level. You need everyday to become great so don't ever waste time. Use every second, every hour or minute to become great. Don't wast your time on nonsense things and thoughts that will slow down your greatness.
Once you're great... don't stop because greatness will stop once you stop. Keep moving forward and make yourself better than yesterday.
It's all about pushing hard, getting a little bit better everyday and not looking for results, let greatness come naturally. Don't seek for it, be it. Once you established the habits and work ethics required for being great then you're already great, granted that you don't stop those habits.
You can become great if you will force yourself to become great, establish a work ethic that is unmatchable and focus your time and energy for making yourself better each day.
Stop watching other people's work or life, focus on your life and look for the things that will make you better as a person. Make your skills super great, practice like a maniac and never stop until you achieve that confidence that you needed to do great things.
Confidence is all you need and a skill that was honed for a very long time. You need time, patience and dedication, don't force greatness because it will come on the right time. Don't pretend that you're already great because you will feel it. You can honestly tell yourself if you're great or not, no matter how you lie to other people... they will still see if you're great or not.
Find your greatness by starting now, practice on something and never stop until you reach a very high level. You need everyday to become great so don't ever waste time. Use every second, every hour or minute to become great. Don't wast your time on nonsense things and thoughts that will slow down your greatness.
Once you're great... don't stop because greatness will stop once you stop. Keep moving forward and make yourself better than yesterday.
Sep 15, 2017
IF YOU CAN JUST DO IT THEN YOU DON'T NEED ANY MOTIVATION
You're looking for motivation too much that is why you can't start something. That is why you haven't accomplish any great thing in life yet. Motivation is hard to find that is why a lot of people were crazy looking for it, they thought they will be able to see it, they thought that once they found it... everything will become better and their life will change in an instant. But how come they can't find it? it is because they really have no intention to move. They just wanted to feel good by looking for motivation.
Don't look for motivation, just do it. Just start. If you can just do it without thinking if you feel good or not then you will be able to finish difficult things, you will be able to conquer immeasurable heights. You will go further and you will become successful.
That is the best skill that you should master... just doing it no matter what. Don't look for motivation, don't look for good feelings, don't look for inspiration... just do it and push yourself to the limits.
That is a fun game... just doing it without even thinking, forcing yourself to move even if you feel so lazy.. that is a fun game because you are becoming good in controlling yourself. You are becoming mentally tough and you are starting to master yourself.
Make yourself a slave by yourself. Make yourself move, whip yourself if you can't start. Carry your arms and feet, make it move.
Motivation is for the losers, it is for the weak. They need it because they wanted to feel good while feeling lazy. They are looking for hope, they are looking for something to save them not knowing that they are the only one who can save themselves.
Stop looking for motivation and just do it, forget the outcome, forget what might went wrong. Just force yourself to start and endure until you finish.
Don't look for motivation, just do it. Just start. If you can just do it without thinking if you feel good or not then you will be able to finish difficult things, you will be able to conquer immeasurable heights. You will go further and you will become successful.
That is the best skill that you should master... just doing it no matter what. Don't look for motivation, don't look for good feelings, don't look for inspiration... just do it and push yourself to the limits.
That is a fun game... just doing it without even thinking, forcing yourself to move even if you feel so lazy.. that is a fun game because you are becoming good in controlling yourself. You are becoming mentally tough and you are starting to master yourself.
Make yourself a slave by yourself. Make yourself move, whip yourself if you can't start. Carry your arms and feet, make it move.
Motivation is for the losers, it is for the weak. They need it because they wanted to feel good while feeling lazy. They are looking for hope, they are looking for something to save them not knowing that they are the only one who can save themselves.
Stop looking for motivation and just do it, forget the outcome, forget what might went wrong. Just force yourself to start and endure until you finish.
Sep 14, 2017
WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IF YOU GET BORED WITH YOUR WORK
THE ANSWER IS VERY SIMPLE... force yourself to stay with the task. If you will stay with the task longer then you will enjoy it, you will learn how to have fun. A lot of people thinks that there are some boring tasks. The truth is... there is no boring task if you can learn how to enjoy it. Study how to enjoy it while doing it, learn to produce thoughts that will make you stay with the task until it's done. Program your mind and make yourself believe that you love what you're doing and you're having a lot of fun.
MAKE IT FAST. Partner it with speed but still take it seriously and give your best. Imagine that you have a deadline and your boss will kill you if you didn't pass it on time. Be playful with your imagination, treat it like an adventure. It's like playing a game, the more you have fun with the game the faster you finish the game. Dominate the game and act like an expert. Act like you're the best in what you do and make sure every movement you execute is serious.
All work is easy work if you're not lazy and if you can appreciate that you can still work. You need to be happy while you can still work because not all people in the world can work. Some are already weak and cannot work anymore, some have physical and mental disabilities and cannot even move.
Just appreciate your body movements, appreciate that you can still think and finish the task. Just be thankful for being able to finish a single task, this kind of mindset will make work easier for you.
Appreciation is the key, being able to move is a blessing, keep that in your mind.
MAKE IT FAST. Partner it with speed but still take it seriously and give your best. Imagine that you have a deadline and your boss will kill you if you didn't pass it on time. Be playful with your imagination, treat it like an adventure. It's like playing a game, the more you have fun with the game the faster you finish the game. Dominate the game and act like an expert. Act like you're the best in what you do and make sure every movement you execute is serious.
All work is easy work if you're not lazy and if you can appreciate that you can still work. You need to be happy while you can still work because not all people in the world can work. Some are already weak and cannot work anymore, some have physical and mental disabilities and cannot even move.
Just appreciate your body movements, appreciate that you can still think and finish the task. Just be thankful for being able to finish a single task, this kind of mindset will make work easier for you.
Appreciation is the key, being able to move is a blessing, keep that in your mind.
Sep 13, 2017
LET THEM BE
Controlling too much is a big problem. If you are always trying to control the outcome or situation then you will just go crazy. And the truth is.. you cannot control everything, you cannot control how other people think or feel, just let them be. The best solution is to let go. Once you learn how to let go then you will be fine, you will have some peace of mind. Your worries will go away and fear will subside.
Just let other people criticize you if they want, don't dwell with them, don't argue with them. If they have something to say against you... let them be, that is their opinion and everyone is entitled of his own opinion, you cannot stop their negativity. All you can do is focus on your own life and do what makes you happy.
If there is a noise outside of your house and you have no power to control it... let it be. Don't fight it just let it be. There are some things that are outside of your power and you will only feel powerless even more if you are getting mad about the things that you can't control.
It's like letting the sun shine on it's own and clouds pour rain into your roof. Accept that there are some things that are far beyond your control and you cannot do something about it. You cannot stop the lightning from striking, you cannot stop problems to visit your life. All you can do is let them be and find thoughts that will make you feel better.
Revise what you think about a certain thing, just think that everything happens for a reason and you can find solutions to every problem.
If you will keep on being a control freak then you will never be happy in your life, you will always be distracted, you will always feel bad about small things that you can't control. You will see negativity everywhere.
Recognize the real problem, recognize what you can't control and focus and what you can control.
Just let other people criticize you if they want, don't dwell with them, don't argue with them. If they have something to say against you... let them be, that is their opinion and everyone is entitled of his own opinion, you cannot stop their negativity. All you can do is focus on your own life and do what makes you happy.
If there is a noise outside of your house and you have no power to control it... let it be. Don't fight it just let it be. There are some things that are outside of your power and you will only feel powerless even more if you are getting mad about the things that you can't control.
It's like letting the sun shine on it's own and clouds pour rain into your roof. Accept that there are some things that are far beyond your control and you cannot do something about it. You cannot stop the lightning from striking, you cannot stop problems to visit your life. All you can do is let them be and find thoughts that will make you feel better.
Revise what you think about a certain thing, just think that everything happens for a reason and you can find solutions to every problem.
If you will keep on being a control freak then you will never be happy in your life, you will always be distracted, you will always feel bad about small things that you can't control. You will see negativity everywhere.
Recognize the real problem, recognize what you can't control and focus and what you can control.
Sep 12, 2017
HOW TO ENGAGE AND TOTALLY FALL IN LOVE WITH THE PROCESS
A lot of people wants success right away, they can't wait, they have no patience. And that is why all they experience is failure. They never make it because they don't want to stay with the process for so long.
You have to fall in love with the process if you want to become successful because you can never escape it, you can never skip and make shortcuts. Making the work short is not allowed.
There are ways hot to fall in love with the process, if you can master these tips then you can stay with your work for a very long time without getting bored.
1. Forget being successful. Most of you wants to become successful now, and if you can't become one... you will get tired of the process and will look for an easy way out. That will only lead to frustration because the same thing will happen to you next time. You will experience difficulty again and you will quit again. Forget being successful and treat the process as a success already. Put in your mind that everytime you do the process you were getting successful a little bit.
2. Never look at successful people. It will only build jealousy and hatred. Focus on your own thing and forget how far you need to go just to become successful. Focus on what you do 24 hours a day, forget about what other people are doing and be the best that you can be.
3. Take it slow. There is nothing wrong with being slow for as long as you keep taking continuous actions and you are consistent. Take it slow so you will enjoy it even more. Success is a process, it doesn't say that you need to be fast or slow. Just keep moving and avoid stopping.
4. Make it a habit. Process will become easier if you will make it a habit. It will become automatic if you will do it everyday. Do it even if your schedule is very busy, once you do it for thirty days straight... it will be very easy for you to do it, you will love it even more.
5. Appreciate your progress. Any small progress that you were able to create... appreciate it, clap your hands for yourself. Make sure you see a small progress everyday so that your motivation will become stronger. Feel that you are getting better each day even if that improvement is only .009%
You have to fall in love with the process if you want to become successful because you can never escape it, you can never skip and make shortcuts. Making the work short is not allowed.
There are ways hot to fall in love with the process, if you can master these tips then you can stay with your work for a very long time without getting bored.
1. Forget being successful. Most of you wants to become successful now, and if you can't become one... you will get tired of the process and will look for an easy way out. That will only lead to frustration because the same thing will happen to you next time. You will experience difficulty again and you will quit again. Forget being successful and treat the process as a success already. Put in your mind that everytime you do the process you were getting successful a little bit.
2. Never look at successful people. It will only build jealousy and hatred. Focus on your own thing and forget how far you need to go just to become successful. Focus on what you do 24 hours a day, forget about what other people are doing and be the best that you can be.
3. Take it slow. There is nothing wrong with being slow for as long as you keep taking continuous actions and you are consistent. Take it slow so you will enjoy it even more. Success is a process, it doesn't say that you need to be fast or slow. Just keep moving and avoid stopping.
4. Make it a habit. Process will become easier if you will make it a habit. It will become automatic if you will do it everyday. Do it even if your schedule is very busy, once you do it for thirty days straight... it will be very easy for you to do it, you will love it even more.
5. Appreciate your progress. Any small progress that you were able to create... appreciate it, clap your hands for yourself. Make sure you see a small progress everyday so that your motivation will become stronger. Feel that you are getting better each day even if that improvement is only .009%
IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANTED TO BE... DON'T BE LIKE THEM
I know you are confuse about what you wanted to be, it is because you think that trying is difficult right? you wanted to become big but you are so afraid to fail right?
You can't make a decision about what you wanted to be and who you wanted to become. If you can't make a decision then just don't be like them. A lot of people were very similar, they are doing the same thing, they want to do something else but they are forced to do what they don't like just to earn money.
Don't be a follower of the crowd. Follow your heart because it is the only right path for you. Because if you will just follow the majority.. you will not discover how strong or how great you can become. You will just be an ordinary person that will have a lot of regrets in the end.
Because if you don't follow them... you will discover yourself in the end, you will know what you really want, you will find your passion, you will arrive at your own place and you will become very happy for the rest of your life.
People who followed the path of other people became miserable in the end, their life is full of regrets, they feel like they cheated themselves.
So carve your own path and unfollow the crowd. Be one of a kind, offer something that hasn't been seen before.
You can do it, you can create your own identity. I's just a matter of believing in yourself and doing your best. Start now and make a history.
You can't make a decision about what you wanted to be and who you wanted to become. If you can't make a decision then just don't be like them. A lot of people were very similar, they are doing the same thing, they want to do something else but they are forced to do what they don't like just to earn money.
Don't be a follower of the crowd. Follow your heart because it is the only right path for you. Because if you will just follow the majority.. you will not discover how strong or how great you can become. You will just be an ordinary person that will have a lot of regrets in the end.
Because if you don't follow them... you will discover yourself in the end, you will know what you really want, you will find your passion, you will arrive at your own place and you will become very happy for the rest of your life.
People who followed the path of other people became miserable in the end, their life is full of regrets, they feel like they cheated themselves.
So carve your own path and unfollow the crowd. Be one of a kind, offer something that hasn't been seen before.
You can do it, you can create your own identity. I's just a matter of believing in yourself and doing your best. Start now and make a history.
Sep 11, 2017
WHY SUCCESS IS ELUSIVE TO YOU
Everyone can become successful, everyone can reach the top. You are not there yet for one main reason... YOU'RE TOO SOFT. You can't even do a simple action, you need to do this and do that but you are doing something else... something that is easy but useless.
Success is very elusive to you because you can't do what you are suppose to do. You are like a toddler who can't make simple and right decisions.
If you need to do something... do it even if you feel so heavy, you need to make a decision now, take actions while you still have a lot of energy on your body.
You can catch success, only if you are serious and will go hard. Soft people will never make it, they can never go far. Which side do you want to be? is it the soft side or the hard side? the choice is yours. You need to be strict on yourself and hard on yourself to produce a different result, something that you haven't experience before.
Time is always ticking, you think you have a lot of it that is why you can't make it. You always wait for the right time. You don't need to wait for the right time because the right time is now. It is always the right time, you need to strike and make a move even if it feels uncomfortable.
Success will not wait for you, you are not special. But you can be special by doing something special.
Success will be forever slippery if you will continue to become soft. Go hard now, be hard now and go get what you want.
Success is very elusive to you because you can't do what you are suppose to do. You are like a toddler who can't make simple and right decisions.
If you need to do something... do it even if you feel so heavy, you need to make a decision now, take actions while you still have a lot of energy on your body.
You can catch success, only if you are serious and will go hard. Soft people will never make it, they can never go far. Which side do you want to be? is it the soft side or the hard side? the choice is yours. You need to be strict on yourself and hard on yourself to produce a different result, something that you haven't experience before.
Time is always ticking, you think you have a lot of it that is why you can't make it. You always wait for the right time. You don't need to wait for the right time because the right time is now. It is always the right time, you need to strike and make a move even if it feels uncomfortable.
Success will not wait for you, you are not special. But you can be special by doing something special.
Success will be forever slippery if you will continue to become soft. Go hard now, be hard now and go get what you want.
Sep 10, 2017
HOW TO AVOID OVERTHINKING?
1. Just tell the truth and accept the truth. If you will stay away from the truth then you will think about lies, you will think about excuses, you will invent different stories that are not consistent. People will doubt you, you will start to worry if they are believing you.You will worry about your reputation because you don't want to be called liar. The same as not accepting the truth... you will try to create a different version of the story, you will imagine a different angle that will make you feel good but the reality is... you are only rejecting the reality. If you don't want to overthink then just accept the truth and tell the truth, the truth will set you free. It will give you a peace of mind.
2. Avoid dealing with well known liars. If you're talking to a liar then you will always think if he is telling the truth. You will have a headache because you don't know if he is true to his words. Never transact any kind of business to a liar because you will always overthink, you will always be in a state of worry.
3. Do it now. Stop procrastinating and just do it now. If you will always procrastinate and set aside the important task... you will overthink, you will never have a peace of mind. Do it now if you can do it so your mind will stop thinking about doing it. Taking actions will give you a different kind of state that is far way better than not taking any action at all. Do it so you will feel better and lighter, doing it will make you forget your problems.
4. Stop wishing for perfection. Don't expect that everything will be smooth, if you are always thinking about a smooth ride then you will overthink, you will be scared of the obstacles and stoppages that may happen in your journey. You will even consider small challenges as big challenges, everything you see is a problem. Just go with the flow and never think about perfection because it never exist.
5. Stop controlling things that you can't control. Just let go, if you can't control something then stop bothering with it. You can never control the fear, opinions, suggestions, critics and hatred of other people. By doing so... you will always overthink and you are only stressing yourself out. You will become tired even more. Just control what you can control like your own thoughts, feelings and actions. Focusing on what you can control will make life easier for you.
2. Avoid dealing with well known liars. If you're talking to a liar then you will always think if he is telling the truth. You will have a headache because you don't know if he is true to his words. Never transact any kind of business to a liar because you will always overthink, you will always be in a state of worry.
3. Do it now. Stop procrastinating and just do it now. If you will always procrastinate and set aside the important task... you will overthink, you will never have a peace of mind. Do it now if you can do it so your mind will stop thinking about doing it. Taking actions will give you a different kind of state that is far way better than not taking any action at all. Do it so you will feel better and lighter, doing it will make you forget your problems.
4. Stop wishing for perfection. Don't expect that everything will be smooth, if you are always thinking about a smooth ride then you will overthink, you will be scared of the obstacles and stoppages that may happen in your journey. You will even consider small challenges as big challenges, everything you see is a problem. Just go with the flow and never think about perfection because it never exist.
5. Stop controlling things that you can't control. Just let go, if you can't control something then stop bothering with it. You can never control the fear, opinions, suggestions, critics and hatred of other people. By doing so... you will always overthink and you are only stressing yourself out. You will become tired even more. Just control what you can control like your own thoughts, feelings and actions. Focusing on what you can control will make life easier for you.
Sep 9, 2017
THE BEST MINDSET EVER
There are lot of mindset that can make your life better, there are lot of approach that can give you results but for me the best mindset is... ALWAYS MOVING FORWARD NO MATTER WHAT. It is the mindset that will put you on the right track, it is the mindset that will give you happiness. Progress is happiness and you can only progress by simply moving forward and taking baby steps. Baby steps is so powerful, you may feel that you are slow or not getting any results but once those baby steps accumulated... you will see how big you've become.
You just move forward and that's it, you just pound the task that is infront of you, you just do the most urgent task and you will get results. Don't be afraid to execute, don't be afraid to do something.
Once you chose this mindset... don't change it, don't change if something goes wrong. Don't change your vision and style when tragic things happen. Always remember that the mindset of always moving forward is to always move forward despite of the bad things that are happening around you.
Life is hard, if it is not hard then it's not life. Just deal with it and always keep moving forward.
If you can keep moving forward then you will be able to forget all of your problems easily. You will enjoy life even more, you will not be scared of challenges and obstacles of life.
You will become invincible, you will no longer see any dramas or excuses, you will trust actions because you know that it is the only thing that will make you happy, you will push yourself like never before.
So if you will choose a mindset... always choose moving forward and making solutions, always choose taking actions because it is the only way to make your life better, it is the only key to forever happiness.
You just move forward and that's it, you just pound the task that is infront of you, you just do the most urgent task and you will get results. Don't be afraid to execute, don't be afraid to do something.
Once you chose this mindset... don't change it, don't change if something goes wrong. Don't change your vision and style when tragic things happen. Always remember that the mindset of always moving forward is to always move forward despite of the bad things that are happening around you.
Life is hard, if it is not hard then it's not life. Just deal with it and always keep moving forward.
If you can keep moving forward then you will be able to forget all of your problems easily. You will enjoy life even more, you will not be scared of challenges and obstacles of life.
You will become invincible, you will no longer see any dramas or excuses, you will trust actions because you know that it is the only thing that will make you happy, you will push yourself like never before.
So if you will choose a mindset... always choose moving forward and making solutions, always choose taking actions because it is the only way to make your life better, it is the only key to forever happiness.
Sep 8, 2017
GETTING AN ANSWER "NO" IS THE START OF YOUR SUCCESS
You should fall in love with rejection, getting an answer "NO" means you are close to success. Getting rejected doesn't label you as a failure, taking it personally does. Don't take it personally, always think that the next one will work and even if it doesn't... always think again that the next one will work.
If you've faced a lot of rejection it means you are close to becoming successful, sometimes you need to count the number of rejections and failure before you become successful. Collect the answer now, it means try as much as you can. If you can't feel about about the "NO" answer, if you can't feel anything about failing and your motivation is still high... you will become successful in just a matter of time.
Always getting the answer no means you're working hard, it means you're doing everything you can and you keep on plodding, it means you're on the right direction and you're always moving forward.
And one day... you will get an answer yes, it's just a matter of time before you get it. The most important thing is you keep moving forward and you keep trying even if it is really hard.
So be happy if you are getting NO's because it is the start of your good life. If you keep getting it then it simply means success is attracting you, it means you are getting tougher and your endurance is getting stronger. Keep working and keep getting it, your mind will become immune to rejection, you will treat it as another day and your motivation will never fade.
The truth is... "NO" is just a word, it is nothing, it only means you try, it means you're a warrior and you never give up.
No is no different from yes because they are connected, after NO's you will get a lot of YES.
If you've faced a lot of rejection it means you are close to becoming successful, sometimes you need to count the number of rejections and failure before you become successful. Collect the answer now, it means try as much as you can. If you can't feel about about the "NO" answer, if you can't feel anything about failing and your motivation is still high... you will become successful in just a matter of time.
Always getting the answer no means you're working hard, it means you're doing everything you can and you keep on plodding, it means you're on the right direction and you're always moving forward.
And one day... you will get an answer yes, it's just a matter of time before you get it. The most important thing is you keep moving forward and you keep trying even if it is really hard.
So be happy if you are getting NO's because it is the start of your good life. If you keep getting it then it simply means success is attracting you, it means you are getting tougher and your endurance is getting stronger. Keep working and keep getting it, your mind will become immune to rejection, you will treat it as another day and your motivation will never fade.
The truth is... "NO" is just a word, it is nothing, it only means you try, it means you're a warrior and you never give up.
No is no different from yes because they are connected, after NO's you will get a lot of YES.
Sep 7, 2017
ENROLL AT THE YOU TUBE UNIVERSITY
This article will destroy the excuses of people who keep telling themselves that they weren't able to go to school and study that is why the are not successful right now.
It is a world of information nowadays, the information is around you. You can't make excuses why you can't learn. The information is everywhere, just surf on the internet and you will get the answers.
If you are too lazy to read then just enroll at the you tube university. It is free just go to you tube and search for the information that you needed. There are millions of professors there that will teach you how to do things.
Before, learning how to program is very expensive. You need to attend an expensive class just to learn a simple programming language. But the generation now is different, information is free. You can see everything on the you tube. You can learn everything, how fun was that. It is just up to you if you wanted to learn.
There are lot of successful people who just learn on you tube. You can develop any skill with this kind of resources. All you need is an internet connection, a PC or cellphone then you are good to go.
Just make sure you will apply right away what you've learned, don't just watch and store the information in your head without doing it.
You tube is very helpful, you can even learn how to operate yourself.
So if you are dumb and you want to become smart... search some useful channels on you tube and learn everyday. Have fun learning and try to become the biggest person that you an be through informal education.
It is a world of information nowadays, the information is around you. You can't make excuses why you can't learn. The information is everywhere, just surf on the internet and you will get the answers.
If you are too lazy to read then just enroll at the you tube university. It is free just go to you tube and search for the information that you needed. There are millions of professors there that will teach you how to do things.
Before, learning how to program is very expensive. You need to attend an expensive class just to learn a simple programming language. But the generation now is different, information is free. You can see everything on the you tube. You can learn everything, how fun was that. It is just up to you if you wanted to learn.
There are lot of successful people who just learn on you tube. You can develop any skill with this kind of resources. All you need is an internet connection, a PC or cellphone then you are good to go.
Just make sure you will apply right away what you've learned, don't just watch and store the information in your head without doing it.
You tube is very helpful, you can even learn how to operate yourself.
So if you are dumb and you want to become smart... search some useful channels on you tube and learn everyday. Have fun learning and try to become the biggest person that you an be through informal education.
Sep 6, 2017
KEEP PLANTING SEEDS
Keep planting seeds that will grow in the future, seeds that will give you fruits of success. Plant seeds that will make your life better and will give you everything you want.
Plant thoughts on your head that are useful and will guide you in the future. Those seeds will grow, those seeds will play an important role in your success. You may not feel its impact now but eventually you will in the future.
Plant seeds of love, hardwork and passion and you will have an amazing life. It's all about waiting for it to grow, it's all about being patient and trusting that it will grow one day.
We all plant our own seeds everyday. Some people plant anger of seeds to their enemies, their anger keeps on getting stronger and it burns them, they always feel bad, they are seeking for revenge which is the cause of the pain in their lives.
If you are planting seeds of love like love for your work, love for your life and love for the people around you... you will get a lot of love in the future, you will experience infinite love. You will reap what you sow.
Life is what you plant. Be aware of what you're planting everyday. If it is a seed of hatred and jealousy then you will also get a lot of negativity in the future. You will also experience a lot of hate from other people.
Plant seeds that will give you benefits, seeds that will make your life better and easier. Plant seeds that will give you happiness and a more meaningful life.
Plant thoughts on your head that are useful and will guide you in the future. Those seeds will grow, those seeds will play an important role in your success. You may not feel its impact now but eventually you will in the future.
Plant seeds of love, hardwork and passion and you will have an amazing life. It's all about waiting for it to grow, it's all about being patient and trusting that it will grow one day.
We all plant our own seeds everyday. Some people plant anger of seeds to their enemies, their anger keeps on getting stronger and it burns them, they always feel bad, they are seeking for revenge which is the cause of the pain in their lives.
If you are planting seeds of love like love for your work, love for your life and love for the people around you... you will get a lot of love in the future, you will experience infinite love. You will reap what you sow.
Life is what you plant. Be aware of what you're planting everyday. If it is a seed of hatred and jealousy then you will also get a lot of negativity in the future. You will also experience a lot of hate from other people.
Plant seeds that will give you benefits, seeds that will make your life better and easier. Plant seeds that will give you happiness and a more meaningful life.
Sep 5, 2017
TRYING WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS
Trying without expecting anything will make you reach your goal faster than expected. You just try, you just pursue your goal but you are not expecting to win, you are not expecting but you are still giving your best and you're not taking any second for granted.
Expectations creates disappointments, if you will not expect too much then you will get lesser disappointments, the negative feeling will become weak. Learn to detach yourself from anything, just try something without expecting something in return.
People get bad feelings because they invest their emotions a lot with something that they are not sure. They will dream about succeeding, they will dream about getting what they want. There is nothing wrong with that, there is nothing wrong with dreaming and hoping for the best things, the point here is... don't expect too much, just welcome everything even failure and shortcomings. Don't get disappointed too much if you didn't get what you want. Always give your best and welcome any results that will show in your life, that kind of approach will make your life life easier and lighter.
Because the real price is when you're trying and not when you're winning. You can try as much as you want, and that is the beauty of it. Trying and enjoying it is even fun because when you already won... you don't know what to do next, the challenge is not there anymore, the journey is over.
The real fun is on the journey and not on the outcome, it may sounds wrong but it is true because life is a journey not a destination. The real fun is on the process and not on the results, you will agree with it if you will fall in love with working hard. Having fun while working is already a great experience, the rewards is just a bonus.
So don't expect anything n return and you will have a happier life. Just keep moving, keep trying and keep playing... that is how to live life, that is how to experience real happiness.
People get bad feelings because they invest their emotions a lot with something that they are not sure. They will dream about succeeding, they will dream about getting what they want. There is nothing wrong with that, there is nothing wrong with dreaming and hoping for the best things, the point here is... don't expect too much, just welcome everything even failure and shortcomings. Don't get disappointed too much if you didn't get what you want. Always give your best and welcome any results that will show in your life, that kind of approach will make your life life easier and lighter.
Because the real price is when you're trying and not when you're winning. You can try as much as you want, and that is the beauty of it. Trying and enjoying it is even fun because when you already won... you don't know what to do next, the challenge is not there anymore, the journey is over.
The real fun is on the journey and not on the outcome, it may sounds wrong but it is true because life is a journey not a destination. The real fun is on the process and not on the results, you will agree with it if you will fall in love with working hard. Having fun while working is already a great experience, the rewards is just a bonus.
So don't expect anything n return and you will have a happier life. Just keep moving, keep trying and keep playing... that is how to live life, that is how to experience real happiness.
Sep 4, 2017
BE A SPECIALIST
If you can be a specialist on something then you will be fine. When I say specialist, it means someone who specializes on something and you can do it under pressure, you can do it anytime and you will never fail. You can have any specialty, you don't need to be a doctor, a lawyer or something, just pick a skill and take it to a different level, take it to the highest level and become really great at it.
A specialist is someone who has a special skill that is very specific. It is a skill that can people can count on, they will trust you to do something that they know you can do well, they know they can rely on you especially during crucial times.
If you're a basketball player and you're not that talented just be a specialist. Be a specialist in three points, in dribbling, in rebound, in assist or in any kind of skill that is needed in basketball. You don't need to master all the skill, just look for one thing that you love to do and be really good at it. Focus on one specific area. If you focus on dribbling then a lot of teams will look for you, they would love to have someone who is really good in taking care of the ball, they want someone who will never commit a turnover even if the pressure is so strong. They want someone who can handle the ball very well and put it on the place where it needed to be. If you don't want dribbling then practice shooting, be a shooter, I am very sure when the crucial moment is there and they needed a basket... they will call you and let you shoot the ball, they will trust you, they will put their faith on you and let you win the ball game.
You can be a specialist on anything, just make sure you are very good on it, people will look for you and use your service, your life will be in a good place, you will earn money, they will pay you and you will have a good life.
A specialist is someone who has a special skill that is very specific. It is a skill that can people can count on, they will trust you to do something that they know you can do well, they know they can rely on you especially during crucial times.
If you're a basketball player and you're not that talented just be a specialist. Be a specialist in three points, in dribbling, in rebound, in assist or in any kind of skill that is needed in basketball. You don't need to master all the skill, just look for one thing that you love to do and be really good at it. Focus on one specific area. If you focus on dribbling then a lot of teams will look for you, they would love to have someone who is really good in taking care of the ball, they want someone who will never commit a turnover even if the pressure is so strong. They want someone who can handle the ball very well and put it on the place where it needed to be. If you don't want dribbling then practice shooting, be a shooter, I am very sure when the crucial moment is there and they needed a basket... they will call you and let you shoot the ball, they will trust you, they will put their faith on you and let you win the ball game.
You can be a specialist on anything, just make sure you are very good on it, people will look for you and use your service, your life will be in a good place, you will earn money, they will pay you and you will have a good life.
Sep 2, 2017
HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL TODAY
Just do all the things that you need to do and you will feel successful today. Finish all the pending tasks, do something that will give you a momentum, give your best and never hold back.
Being successful doesn't mean you need to be a big time. Success is all about how you feel, success is something you can be proud of. So if you give your best today to make your life better and you didn't waste your time then you're already successful. It may not be a big time success, it maybe small but it is still a success. Remember that were are talking about success and every little success is still a success.
If you just earn a pretty decent money then you're already successful, if you land a job or land a contract then you're already successful. If you sold something today then you're already successful, if you manage to do what you're afraid to do and you overcome your fears then you're also successful. It is all about feeling good and making a little results, success can be simple but it is still a success.
If you want to become successful today just look for something you can do and give your best, be good at it and finish it. The other meaning of success is finishing it, it doesn't need to be perfect and well done just finish it.
If you keep on piling up small success everyday then you will be able to achieve bigger success in the future, it will all sum up in the end. Just keep on hitting small success and enjoy it, never get tired of it. If small success is all you can do then be happy for it, there is nothing wrong with it.
If you have an assignment do it, finish it. If you have a project... start it, never stop until you're done. If you have a list of task... do it one by one, just be successful in finishing one task at a time.
You can even give success your own definition, define it, set the standard. Raise the bar and keep reaching it everyday. Once you give success your own definition... it will become easier for you to become successful, you can become successful everyday.
Being successful doesn't mean you need to be a big time. Success is all about how you feel, success is something you can be proud of. So if you give your best today to make your life better and you didn't waste your time then you're already successful. It may not be a big time success, it maybe small but it is still a success. Remember that were are talking about success and every little success is still a success.
If you just earn a pretty decent money then you're already successful, if you land a job or land a contract then you're already successful. If you sold something today then you're already successful, if you manage to do what you're afraid to do and you overcome your fears then you're also successful. It is all about feeling good and making a little results, success can be simple but it is still a success.
If you want to become successful today just look for something you can do and give your best, be good at it and finish it. The other meaning of success is finishing it, it doesn't need to be perfect and well done just finish it.
If you keep on piling up small success everyday then you will be able to achieve bigger success in the future, it will all sum up in the end. Just keep on hitting small success and enjoy it, never get tired of it. If small success is all you can do then be happy for it, there is nothing wrong with it.
If you have an assignment do it, finish it. If you have a project... start it, never stop until you're done. If you have a list of task... do it one by one, just be successful in finishing one task at a time.
You can even give success your own definition, define it, set the standard. Raise the bar and keep reaching it everyday. Once you give success your own definition... it will become easier for you to become successful, you can become successful everyday.
Sep 1, 2017
EVERYTHING IS PART OF THE GAME
Don't ever feel so bad if something goes wrong in your life. Always remember that everything is just part of the game. Life is full of shits, surprises, random events and challenges. If your mind is not prepared on those kinds of things... you will be shocked, you will feel bad for a long time, you will be stressed and sometimes even go crazy. It is what it is, there are some things that you cannot control. Everything is part of the game - the tragedy, calamity, bad people, unexpected events, critics, disrespectful people, traitors, bad friends, enemies, unfair treatment, sickness etc. Everything is part of the game, it will play a role in your life. Everything can make you strong if you have a positive approach in life.
So don't ever think that the world is cruel at you, don't ever think that the world is not fair or you are being punished. Just accept what is coming to your life and try to play with it if you can, try to manipulate it, change it or just simply welcome it. Learn to process the pain, stress and suffering. You will have an easier and happier life if you have a "BRING IT ON" mentality.
So stop making dramas and excuses, just accept everything that is happening around you and try to do something if you can, just give your best. Crying and whining is for the losers. Everything around you, everything that is happening around you has a purpose. You will learn a lesson, you will get a positive from negative.
Because if you will always feel bad about what is happening in your life... you will be stuck there, you will be stuck in a mud. Your life will become miserable forever. There is always a sunshine after the thunder, there is always a good thing waiting for you.
Just live your life and be happy even if bad things happen, it is hard to do but it is still possible. You are responsible for your happiness, you can still smile even if the sky is frowning at you. You can still become happy even if the sun is hiding. Everything is part of the game so don't ever feel bad.
So don't ever think that the world is cruel at you, don't ever think that the world is not fair or you are being punished. Just accept what is coming to your life and try to play with it if you can, try to manipulate it, change it or just simply welcome it. Learn to process the pain, stress and suffering. You will have an easier and happier life if you have a "BRING IT ON" mentality.
So stop making dramas and excuses, just accept everything that is happening around you and try to do something if you can, just give your best. Crying and whining is for the losers. Everything around you, everything that is happening around you has a purpose. You will learn a lesson, you will get a positive from negative.
Because if you will always feel bad about what is happening in your life... you will be stuck there, you will be stuck in a mud. Your life will become miserable forever. There is always a sunshine after the thunder, there is always a good thing waiting for you.
Just live your life and be happy even if bad things happen, it is hard to do but it is still possible. You are responsible for your happiness, you can still smile even if the sky is frowning at you. You can still become happy even if the sun is hiding. Everything is part of the game so don't ever feel bad.
LOVE SOMETHING THAT WILL GIVE YOU BENEFITS
You have to love something that will give you benefits. Something that will make you rich, healthier or just even wiser. I know you love something, I know you are focused on something. What you focus upon is what you love, it is your life.
Many of you love destroying your own life, you destroy it by focusing too much on stupid activities. Activities life gossips, too much social media, working on a project that is only making you stressed, working on something that you know has no direction. In short words, you love something that brings suffering into your life. You love laziness, procrastination, too much rest, being stagnant and complacent, you love foods that will make your health worse.
If you will love something, make sure that it will give you benefits, make sure that it will make your life better. Don't love something that you will hate in the end. You may love something now but you will have regrets in the end, you will hate it in the end because it is making your life miserable.
Love can be learned, you can learn how to love foods that are not delicious but healthy. You can learn how to love an activity that is somehow "not so cool" but will give you huge amount of benefits in the future.
It's all about conditioning your mind. You may not enjoy it in the beginning, you may not love the things that will give you benefits to the fullest but once you get use to it... it will be a different life for you. Everything will be easier, everything will be amazing. It's like investing and having a hard time in the beginning but in the end you will get a lot of benefits.
THINGS THAT ARE DIFFICULT BUT WILL GIVE YOU A LOT OF BENEFITS:
1. Exercise
2. Eating healthy
3. Pursuing a goal
4. Sacrificing for the long term
5. Standing up for yourself
6. Studying
7. Building your own business
Many of you love destroying your own life, you destroy it by focusing too much on stupid activities. Activities life gossips, too much social media, working on a project that is only making you stressed, working on something that you know has no direction. In short words, you love something that brings suffering into your life. You love laziness, procrastination, too much rest, being stagnant and complacent, you love foods that will make your health worse.
If you will love something, make sure that it will give you benefits, make sure that it will make your life better. Don't love something that you will hate in the end. You may love something now but you will have regrets in the end, you will hate it in the end because it is making your life miserable.
Love can be learned, you can learn how to love foods that are not delicious but healthy. You can learn how to love an activity that is somehow "not so cool" but will give you huge amount of benefits in the future.
It's all about conditioning your mind. You may not enjoy it in the beginning, you may not love the things that will give you benefits to the fullest but once you get use to it... it will be a different life for you. Everything will be easier, everything will be amazing. It's like investing and having a hard time in the beginning but in the end you will get a lot of benefits.
THINGS THAT ARE DIFFICULT BUT WILL GIVE YOU A LOT OF BENEFITS:
1. Exercise
2. Eating healthy
3. Pursuing a goal
4. Sacrificing for the long term
5. Standing up for yourself
6. Studying
7. Building your own business
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