No matter what you do you will always feel incomplete, you will always look for more, you will get jealous, you will never get satisfied, that's what life is... it's hard and uncontrollable. But you can have a little peace of mind, the stress will get lesser if you will just accept yourself, accept what you have and never look for what is missing in your life. It's ok to strive for more, it's ok to push yourself but never focus on what is missing in your life. Learn to appreciate what you have, learn to stay humble and be appreciative in life. You have to accept that life will never become perfect and that happiness can only be achieved through acceptance and moving forward. You will become sad in just a matter of time even if you're happy now, that's how life works, you can never become happy forever. Even if you earn billions and billions of money... time will come and you will still feel incomplete and unhappy. There is no permanent emotion, sadness and happiness come and go and you must understand this in order to make your life easier.
Some people will like you some people will not, some nights is yours some days is not, you can never make something stay forever. Life is always moving and changing, there will always be problems and solutions, all you can do is fight and accept that life is not easy so that you will never be worried about anything in the future. You don't need to feel loved all the time, you don't need happiness all the time. Just accept what is happening in your life right now and be appreciative, if you are thankful then you will get happier in just a matter of minutes. Practice gratitude and you will have a different mindset.
GET BORED IN LIFE
you're always looking for comfort, fun, security, pleasures, money and success but you can't get it because you're not working. You just wanted to feel good that's why you are failing. You need to get bored in life, you need to practice making sacrifices and delayed gratification if you want to make a progress. You need to feel the difficulty of trying to improve and create something that is better than what you are today. The more you get boring the more you get disciplined and the better you will be. Your skills will go to another level, more money will come, more opportunities will be attracted into your life. Boring means focus, boring means taking your goals seriously and not wasting any second for nonsense things and activities. Get bored in life, it doesn't matter if you feel bad, it doesn't matter if you feel lonely, your emotions doesn't matter, what defines you is your actions and intentions.
PRIORITIZE YOURSELF THAN OTHERS
Life is an internal work. You are not happy because you are prioritizing others, you don't have discipline. When someone invites you you will go even if you don't like it, you will go even if you have some other things to do that are more important. You are not happy because you are not grooming yourself. They say self development is a hoax but it's not, it's your duty to do something for yourself even if it's a very small improvement. They say motivation is BS but it's not, without motivation I maybe be dead by now, but those words made me stronger and better, those motivation that are corny and not practical made me who I am today, I may not be a zillionaire but I am doing much better than the past. Never break a promise to yourself, when you say you will exercise today do it even if your closest friend invites you to a party. When you say you will work hard today, do it even if there are lot of distractions. Because you will feel weak every time you break a promise to yourself, you will feel unmotivated and shameful.
YOU WILL GET SCARED SOMETIMES
It's normal, it's your duty to shut off the part of your brain that is telling you that you can't do it, how? just move forward and push yourself to take actions even if you're shaking. Don't worry about what people will say, don't worry about failing... just set yourself free and do what you need to do. Fear is just a test, it's testing your willpower. If you really want it then fear and pain will test you, it will make you feel really uncomfortable and if you're not willing to feel it then you're in big danger. Fear is not bad, it's a sign that you must keep moving forward and make yourself better. Just do it, start the first step and follow through, focus on what you're doing, just be yourself and focus on being yourself and using all of your strengths.
YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHEN IS TOO LATE OR TOO SOON
Start now because you never know what is late or too soon, just move and take actions. It doesn't matter what happen, it doesn't matter if you fail or succeed, what matters is you do it now and you don't take your time for granted. There is always something you can do at the moment, do it now so you won't have any regrets in life. Time is just an illusion, forget the future and forget the past, you are only living in the moment. Never let the past program you, never let the future make you anxious. Stay calm while living your life, give your best and accept what may happen later or tomorrow. Focus on doing what is needed, focus on feeling free and expressing yourself. Because worrying about what happened, what hasn't happen and what will happen will only drain your energy. It will never help you at all. Focus on what is in front of you and try to make the best out of it.
ACCEPT CHANGE
There will always be a change and that is a fact. You may get weaker physically but you can still make yourself stronger mentally. You may fail for some reason but you can still manage to get up. Life is just like that, there will be unexpected problems, there will be changes and you must stay positive if you want to survive this game of life. You must
THE NEUTRAL MIND
The neutral mind is so powerful, not so high and not so low, not too excited and not too overwhelmed. Just be cool, it is a practice, you need to try it everyday until it becomes your habit. Having a neutral mind releases all the pressure on your shoulders. Never judge anything, never judge any difficulty or negativity, always think that everything is helping you to get better no matter how ugly it looks. A neutral mind will always prevail during pressure, it will be able to think right and make good decisions.
PLAY THROUGH PAIN
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