The reason why you're so unhappy, ungrateful, depressed, problematic is because you're to slow. You have bigger issues to solve but you choose to become slow and think about problems that are not even worth it. You're worried too much about little things that doesn't contribute to your growth instead of choosing to give time and energy to your bigger goals. You have responsibilities but you choose to overthink and choose pleasures that are only making your problems get bigger. Just be fast in taking actions, stop procrastinating, stop hesitating and just do what you need to do. If you're taking actions then you're focusing on what you can control instead of worrying what's out of your reach. If you will just pull the trigger all the time then you will feel powerful because you're not overthinking. Just go regardless of how you feel, go against your emotions and never top pushing forward. It's about speed and volume, take massive actions and you will have massive improvements, your life will get better... as simple as that. It's not that complicated, all you need to do is place your mind onto something important rather than draining your energy overthinking and over worrying about problems that wasn't there yet.
KEEP WORKING
if you have an idea, if you have something in your heart... keep working on it even if it is not working. Just believe it even if you can't believe it, just continue it even if you're not seeing anything. That's what it is all about... not giving up, it's a fight. Doing something that has a very small impact is 1 million times better than doing something that is only making you worse. Just believe and work hard, that's all you need to do, you don't need to worry about anything else. Just believe in your ideas and work insanely hard to get it, as simple as that. If you keep on working and keep using your speed then your problems will go away. Your problems got bigger and bigger because you're always minding other people's business. Just take baby steps if you feel so lazy, it's ok if you are slow but don't ever waste your time, don't waste your energy for nothing. You have to stay busy and believe that everything will work out in the end because it will do, the level of your commitment will be the level of your success.
WORK ON YOUR MIND
If you can't see any physical evidences yet, if you can's see any progress yet then you must work on your mind. Your mind will be the director of your life, the quality of your thoughts will be the quality of your life. You need to fix the right thoughts in your mind and rehearse it everyday so you won't forget it. You need to create a belief that will motivate you to work hard everyday and defeat those obstacles that are derailing your progress. Once you have a strong mind... you will become unbeatable, you will no longer stay on a problem for a long time, you will just keep pushing forward and look for better situations and opportunities that will make you feel and do better. Your mind will make you rich or poor, weak or strong, successful or failure, fast or slow. Your mind is everything, it is the key to happiness and satisfaction, if you have the wrong thoughts stored inside of your brain then you will have a hard time thriving in life.
DON'T STAY IN THE MIDDLE
It's either you're on top or at the bottom, it's either you are lazy or hard working, it's either you're successful or failure. Never stay in the middle because it's really confusing there, it's really stressful there, there's not decisiveness and real answers there. You will never know how good you are until you use all of your energy and make yourself vulnerable to failure.
SAY NO TO EVERYTHING
When you're no longer reacting to critics, when you're not tempted to instant pleasures, when you're no longer interested with stupid entertainment that doesn't serve you... that's the time you solve all of your problems, that's when you grow and become a better person. Say no to everything that is not helping you to evolve, say no to activities that are fun and easy but useless. You know what's helping you, you know what's destroying you, it's time to become disciplined and committed to your dreams and purpose. Say no to everything that is not pushing you to the top. You're better than who you are today, you can get better more, it's really up to you if you will grow or get worse. Saying no means you are helping yourself. Say no to everything that is slowing you down and not making you great.
BE HAPPY WITH SMALL PROGRESS OR NO PROGRESS AT ALL
The truth is... you are already progressing whenever you are moving, the reason why you can't feel it is because you're always looking for big breaks, big money, fame, success, huge rewards. And that's why you can't appreciate the process, you can't be thankful with the small gains that you've been getting. You can't see it because you're not appreciative. You're always comparing yourself to others, you're always looking for more. It's not bad to look for more but you have to appreciate the small things that you have too. That's the trick to have a progressive and happier life, count your blessings and never feel what is lacking in your life, don't seek for bigger things without appreciating the smaller things that you have.
THE SECRET TO OVERCOME ANYTHING
Be in the moment and that's it, that's the secret to overcome anything. Feel everything, may it be good or bad, may it be worse or better... feel it. Embrace all of your emotions because that will make you tougher, wiser and durable. Most people can't take the pain, they're allergic to little pain and struggle that's why they're too soft and fragile. If you want to become tough... hear everything, see everything and feel everything. Don't try to resist, don't try to shy away from any kind of pressure. Pressure creates diamonds, struggles creates greatness. There is no progress without stress so you have to embrace all the failure, embarrassment, pressure, humiliation, rejection and sadness. There is no depression if you will just be ok with how you feel and believe that tomorrow or later will be better. Not all of your emotions will stay, it will change in just a matter of time, you just need to feel it and never try to stop it. Never look for comfort, never go to pleasures, just embrace all of your emotions even if it sucks. That's how to grow, that's how to become unbeatable.
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