It's a forever battle, it's a war between your old self and the person that you are trying to create. Your old self will always come out every now and then, it will show up and it's your duty to kill it again. You have to be aware of what you are doing and thinkin all the time. If you're doing something that is not congruent with the person that you are creating... stop it right away, you have to be a CCTV for yourself, you have to watch yourself all the time, that means you have to be conscious. It will take away a lot of your energy, it's hard in the beginning but once you were able to master it... you will become something special. Changing yourself is really hard but it's too simple, watch all of your activities and deny all the nonsense that is not helping you at all. Define all the subconscious thoughts and every time you are thinking about it, change it right away to a more positive one. It's controlling your mind and body, you have to be the captain of your body not the old programming that is only making your life worse and worse everyday. You have to be aware if you're about to do something stupid and be strong enough to stop it before it even begin, use your willpower, force yourself to become more disciplined. Be a single minded person, if something is not helping you then why bother doing it. Not even a click of cellphone, not even a one minute procrastination, not even sneak peak of your social media account every now and then, never let yourself get tempted with stupidity that is making you slower, dumber and weaker.
BE HAPPY WITH YOUR ACTIONS
You should be happy every time you take an action, get entertained with your own actions not with the actions of others, this is your journey, your life is all about you not about them. If you can just remind yourself that you are the star of your own show even if nobody is watching then you will have an amazing life. Stop getting fooled by other people's activities because they're not even relevant to your own purpose. You have to start living your life by being happy with your own actions that is moving towards your own personal goal. Stop being tempted by other people's show because it's only wasting your time, it's making your mentality weak and you are losing your control by doing that. The only thing you can control and have power the most is your life. Make your life like a vide game, have fun with it, do everything you can to level up your character and stop getting bombarded with useless information that is roaming around the web. You don't need to watch a stupid tik tok post because all it does is make you slow, weak and useless. You don't need to support a stupid drama of a fake influencer because all it does is eat your time and manipulate your mind. If you want to get stronger then be ready to take matters into your own hands, be the creator and not a follower. Even if nobody supports you... support yourself and be proud of your own journey, at least you're not like others who were just followers and slaves of people who doesn't even care about them. You've got to be selfish with your time, stop letting anyone just get your time and use you for their own good, stop being a follower and make yourself something special too my being smart with your time and using it for your own gains not with their personal gain.
STOP JUDGING YOURSELF
If you're always coming up short, if you feel that you didn't give your best today... stop feeling guilty, you can always try again later or tomorrow, you can always change now. It's what you do that defines you, it's what you are doing now and not your past mistakes. You need to be good on yourself and stop hating yourself every time you can't discipline yourself. Remember that this is a journey, it's not what you know, it's what you can prove. You can prove yourself time and time again, you have unlimited tries and that is the beauty of life. be kind to yourself, if your intention is to get better and you're always taking one positive action at a time... never judge yourself. Never feel so bad if you are slow or not progressing at all. Never feel stuck whenever you are stuck, all you need to do is keep going and that's it, there is nothing else to worry about. Because you are not suppose to be perfect, you are suppose to express yourself and test your capabilities, you are suppose to discover your full potential so avoid limiting yourself with limiting beliefs. You can do anything if you will give time, effort and energy.
WHENEVER THINGS ARE NOT WORKING
The biggest problem why you can' change is whenever things are not going your way... you're going back to your old bad habits. Persevere when things are not working, just keep pushing and find a way how to win. That's all you need to do. be ready to go to war if you want a change because you're going to discipline yourself so hard that it feels like a war. It's too simple but hard because you're getting rid of your bad habits. Its so hard because you're so addicted to it and you will have a hard time focusing on what matters the most. Your mind is your enemy, it's always looking for comfort, it's avoiding pain all the time. There will be no change if there is no pain, as simple as that. Just persevere never give up, no matter what you feel... just keep going, things will change, you will be able to create a breakthrough if you keep on fighting for what you want.
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