YOU'RE AFRAID OF YOURSELF

You are afraid that yourself is going to fail you, you're afraid that you can't do it, you're afraid that you don't have what it takes to make it. You're not afraid of any circumstances, you're not afraid of anything or anyone, you are afraid of yourself. You are afraid that you might feel bad, you are afraid of your emotions, you are afraid of your laziness and lack of desire, in other words... you don't trust yourself. But if you will become friends with yourself, if you will love yourself and be your own ally then you will become unlimited. You are afraid of your own light, you are afraid that you cannot shine. You are so afraid that you might come up short and not get what you want, you are so afraid that you might disappoint yourself and the people who trust you. 

HOW TO BECOME FEARLESS

Stop thinking about the future and focus on the now. Just push forward even if you're not sure of what you're doing, just try even if you're not guaranteed to win. Embrace failure, embrace the pain of reality, you will only win if you will make yourself vulnerable to failure. Keep fighting, that's all you need to do, stop actin like a chicken hiding, just show up even if you're afraid. Stay still and work hard, that's how to beat fear, focus on trying to become productive in a small way and multiply it as much as you can. You will gain momentum if you're doing something that is working a little bit. Stop trying to look good, stop trying to look perfect and just make yourself available to failure, embrace it with open arms, fully accept it and never try to deny it. Failing the right way means you're trying, you're giving your very best and you're not hiding away from pressure. It means you're giving your all and you have no plan of quitting. Move forward and you will be alright, stop doing something that is making you even worse and just look for something to do what will make you and your situation better, as simple as that. This is too simple, just work hard and believe and you will be alright. The power of belief is real, you will never be denied if you can be the hardest worker in the world. 

HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE

It's too simple, by facing your fears and taking actions. Forget about what will happen next and just focus on pulling the trigger, focus on giving yourself a chance to succeed, expose yourself to the possibility of failure, don't be afraid to embarrass yourself, don't be afraid to take the blame, don't be afraid to get criticized... that's how to become great. If you're trying to become great you must not focus on fitting in, you must focus on expressing yourself and giving everything you've got. Confidence is not that hard to get, you're just afraid of your own ghost and that's why you can't get it. If you want to become confident you need to be able to endure critics, hate and blame. You must be able to expose yourself to failure, embarrassment and rejection and not feel anything about it. Or maybe you will feel something a little bit but never let it consume you. 

CHOOSE HARD WORK OVER RESULTS

If you will just choose hard work over hype, results or any shortcuts then you will get more confident. Success will be attracted to you life naturally, you will be able to open doors and welcome different opportunities. Hard work can thrive in any situation, hard work will make you believe and make people believe that you can do something great. Just keep pushing and never mind what will happen next. Be bold and fast, don't just wait for something to happen before you act... just work as hard as you can and that's it. Because if you are working hard then you will have more control, if you will look for results then you will have zero control because you can never predict the outcome, you can only predict how much effort you will exert. Hard work alone will make you happy and satisfied, if you knew you are giving your all then there's nothing else to worry about. 

The game plan of working hard for at least one year, follow this game plan and you will see how good you can be. Just work hard and stop conserving your energy, stop focusing on things and people that doesn't even matter. What matters is your goal, what matters is what you want in life, bring it to life by working hard and doin whatever it takes to win. 

DOUBTING YOURSELF IS NORMAL

You will be scared, you will lose confidence, you will fail, you will cry like a bit*h and that's ok, you will begin to question yourself if you can do it or not, you will always have doubts and fears. Don't worry because that is normal, the only thing you need to do is be aware that you're feeling that way and remind yourself that it will soon go away. It's just a feeling, it will never kill you so don't ever be afraid of it just for once. To remove your doubts... you have to work as hard as you can and never give up, never stop, never hold yourself back. You have a chance today, you can make it right today, you can do something spectacular. It's all about your persistence and determination, it's really up to you. Embrace those fear and never shy away from it, never hide from the pressure, feel it and you will discover your strength. The truth about confidence is not being confident at all, it's feeling the lack of confidence but still showing up and doing what you are suppose to do. It's pushing yourself to take actions even if you're not getting any progress or momentum at all. Real power is the ability to still move despite of the mental and emotional struggles. It's about moving forward and not wasting your time dwelling on the things that you don't have any control.                                

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