Don't feel guilty, don't feel sorry if you prioritize yourself, that's should be your main goal from the very start. Let them talk, let them criticize you, you should not feel bad if someone is offended by your actions. Because if you will not prioritize yourself then you will suffer in the end, you must take care of yourself before you help others, you must get stronger and better first and that will only happen if you will give more time for yourself, not just a spare time but more and more time. That's the only way to evolve. Don't give your time randomly to different people, don't give your resources just because you are being emotionally involve, stop prioritizing your emotions and just do what you need to do that will make your life better. It is what it is, you need to be selfish with your energy if you want to grow. Because you will get lost, your energy will drain fast if you're available all the time. You must choose what you really want and really need, stop letting people dictate what you need to do because you know what to do.
FEAR IS TEMPORARY
you will be scared right now, you will be mentally stifled but you have to remind yourself that it's too normal and that fear will go away anytime soon. Fear is nothing but a feeling. It's just an emotion that come and go, it will never kill you. It's ok if you are scared but be aware that you are, don't just go with the flow of fear and do crazy stupid things that you don't even like. Never let your emotion control you. If you want your fears to go away... move forward, do something positive and never care about the future. Focus on the process, focus on doing something and never care if you fail or win, just do it, just get better and believe that all of your work is putting you on a better place to succeed. Just believe that your grind is making you better and giving you the improvement you need in order to have a better life. Any emotion should stop controlling you, control your mind and your thoughts and you will be able to control how you feel. Feel neutral all the time and never give up, just keep moving forward even if it is hard. Don't stop, don't quit and you will be good.
YOU DON'T NEED THOSE DRAMA
If it can't give you anything in return, if it will never make you grow then why the hell will you get interested with those drama. It's eating your time, it's turning you into a garbage and you don't realize it. Those drama will only poison your mind, it will kill your momentum, it will slow down your aggressiveness, you don't need to know what Cologne is Kim Kardashian using, you don't need to know if Kanye West was insane, you don't need to know if Donald Trump's hair is fake, you don't need to know if Tiger Woods is cheating on his wife. You just need to know the basics and that is forcing yourself to become disciplined and finding a way how to do the next move that will give you an edge and momentum. You have to keep blocking those useless and negative information because it is ruining your mentality to succeed, it's occupying your brain and making you weak and slow. Be aware of what information that comes in and out of your head because it's shaping your reality.
LIFE IS SO SIMPLE
Detach from expectations, avoid attaching yourself too much with anything and just live your life according to how you want to live it. Never let anyone rule you or make you do something that you don't want. Never let anyone manipulate you, make your life basic and follow your own principles. Never look for appreciation, likes, recognition, praises because it will only make you weak. Never do something because you want people to like you. Greatness is simply giving more time if not all the time for yourself. It's simply about improving da by day and doing the process that gives you an edge a little bit. Greatness is not about fitting in, it's forcing your way to make something better in your life, it's doing it your way and allowing your ideas to blossom and manifest something that is bigger than what everyone is expecting. Don't make your life so hard, it will get easier if you will focus on doing what is putting you on a better position to succeed. Draw a game plan and follow it no matter what. Move forward no matter what, even if you don't feel good... you need to take steps, just take it one step at a time, it's not that hard, you just need to stop thinking about the future and be present. If you're in the moment then you will feel much better and in control.
YOU ARE THE NUMBER ONE OPTION
Not him, not the superstar, not the wannabe coach, not the wannabe leader, not the fake confident guru, not the rich kid, not the crowd favorite, not your supervisor... you are the priority. If you want to do something do something, if you don't want to do something don't do it. People will judge you no matter what so stop trying to look perfect and clean. Get dirty and try everything, try as much as you can and never try to prove yourself just for once. Use all of your time for your own growth. Never use it to give time to others who doesn't even value your time. Your only chance to have a good life is to shower yourself with a lot of time. Do everything you can to make yourself better. At the end of the day your only ally is yourself, nobody will help you, nobody will come to save you, you're the only one who can save your sorry ass so why not give all of time for your dream and potential? you have to take care of yourself seriously because nobody will do it for you. You and you against all the challenges in the world. You should be your number one option and never let anything disturb you without your consent. Take care of your mind and body, stay disciplined and committe.
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