Deadlines are powerful, it will make you move, it will make your brain alert, you will be on a sense of urgency if you are feeling the deadline. It will make you take actions even if it's too uncomfortable. You will be forced to move even if there are lot of excuses running inside of your head. You will get faster, you will be alert and scared a little bit but scared in a good way. Set a deadline for every activity that you're so afraid to do, set a short deadline.
DON'T BITE THE TRAPS
There are lot of traps surrounding you, it's everywhere and if you're not aware of it... you will bite it, the worse thing is it will waste your time and energy, you will become unproductive and you will start to lose your momentum. Traps are everywhere, cellphone is a trap, social media is a trap, partying is a trap, gossiping is a trap, just a random post on tike tok is a trap. It's very easy to become successful nowadays because most people are getting weaker and weaker because of social media. They're wasting a lot of time on social media and the funny thing is it's not even giving them anything. If you want to get ahead in life you need to get faster and you will only get faster if you're not biting those traps that are harmful to your mentality and useless to your life. Step out of your comfort zone and try to get better every single day. It's easy to get better, all you have to do is stop wasting time and remove all of your vices. Stop doing a lot of useless and entertaining stuffs that's not even helping you to level up mentally and physically. You are investing on yourself everyday, it's either you get better or get worse. So ask yourself, what did you do today to get a little bit better? stop lying, be honest with yourself, that's the only way to get ahead in life.
Avoid all the useless information. There are lot of times when you would love to know something about this guy or that girl but you need to stop yourself from doing that if you wanted to become productive. There are lot of information that's inside of your head that you don't even need, you need to be aware of the thoughts that you are consuming because sometimes it's not even helping you at all. Watch yourself, watch every action that you take... that's how to become productive, that's how to change your life. Never think about other people's business and mind your own business only, focus on trying to get better all the time and never worry about the problems of others. It's their lives, you are not responsible for the outcome of their lives, they are in control they're just not aware of it.
It's ok if you're not skilled, it's ok if you're not the best, it's ok if you're the worse but don't bite the traps that make you the worst. These traps are fun, easy and entertaining but later it will become very stressful because it will control you and will pull you down. You have to be aware of the thoughts that are running inside of your head. It's easy to hate and become negative, it's easy to become lazy and useless but it will only cause depression and regrets in the end. You have to make yourself a doer, that's the only way to get better. It's ok if you're not talented or smart but make yourself a doer and never get lazy just for a single day. Maximize your time and always look for a small improvement that you can get every single day.
STOP BEING CUTE
You have cute ways, you have cute effort, you have cute timing, you think you are cute. Stop trying to look cute all the time and just execute. If you're taking care of your self image then you will never be able to move. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, don't be afraid of defeats, don't be afraid of what's going to happen in the future and just take actions now. Stop holding yourself back and just believe in yourself. People that are trying to look cute are lazy people, they're failures. They don't want to get tired, they don't want to fail, they don't want to try. They care about their self image a lot, they feel so entitled and that's why they don't want to feel the discomfort. You're too soft, you care about your emotions and that mindset will not even help you. Stop being cute and just try to work as hard s you can, as simple as that.
FOCUS ON FIGHTING
Just focus on stepping one foot forward and then the other one and the other one, follow through. Never stop until you're done, no matter what time it is or what the situation will be... keep moving forward, that's how to win in life. Focus on fighting, fight for the next step, fight for your position, fight for your dream, fight for the next push. Always have the mentality of fighting and doing whatever it takes to win, that's how to win in life. Because if you will not fight, if you will not try again then it is game over, as simple as that. Just show up, just run, just exert an effort, just try, just don't stop and you will put yourself on a better position to win, as simple as that. You don't need to become special here, you just need to fight, just do the next step, what's the best step that you can do? focus on it.
THIS IS A MENTAL GAME
You can't move not because of the situation but because you are mentally stifled. You are scared of what's going to happen next. The key is to push yourself and just fight your emotions, go against what you feel and start to believe in yourself. Confidence will start to build up every time you face your fears. Stay still while being scared, don't predict the future, don't crumble, don't panic, just breathe while doing what is needed. Real winning mentality is simply trying and nothing more than that. It's not about nailing it, its not about getting the trophy, it's about taking actions and giving yourself a chance to evolve. You will never grow if you will not take actions. Move now and do something, stop being a chicken and just move, there are lot of things you can do if you will just take matters into your own hands.
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