You can withstand any problem, you can overcome any obstacle and weather any kind of scary storm. It's just a matter of staying calm, staying still and never give up. Because the only thing that matters is surviving. Don't just quit like a buffoon, stay on course and be patient. Hard time will pass, difficult moments will end but the strong ones will stay. You can live forever if you want to, you can become a winner and strong until the end, it's all about your mindset and habits, it's all about you appreciating the war and the process and surviving it. You don't need fancy clothes, celebrity friends, high social status, high end cars etc. You just need yourself and your mind, so what if you have nothing? life doesn't require you to have a lot, it only says that you must live it to the fullest and be kind to yourself. Being kind to yourself means not abusing yourself, not punishing yourself with dramas and negativity, not hurting yourself with jealousy to others, not making yourself struggle with please people and trying to live by their rules. You can become something special by doing it your way, live by your rules, never let anyone command or abuse you, build your own power, you can do that through deprivation, preparation and delayed gratification. You can become powerful if you will master endurance and making sacrifices to have a better future. It's like investing, invest in your mind, believe in the power of positive thoughts and hard work, believe in yourself and you will become unlimited.
YOU'RE SCARED THAT'S GOOD
It's a sign that a breakthrough is about to happen, it's a signal that you must stay calm and move. You need to push, become a doer, become a journeyman because you only go crazy if you're overthinking, you're only unhappy when you're not moving. Once you made a one positive move... you already made a progress. You are stronger more than you think, you just need to give yourself a chance. Every problem will pass so don't worry about it. Go all the way and never look back, every time you're scared... just push and never care about what's going to happen next. Never let yourself be mentally stifled, never let yourself be overwhelmed with something that is not happening yet. Stay calm and face the pressure, embrace the pain and never give up.
NO GUARANTEES
BE OK with no guarantees. Stop playing it safe, enjoy life as much as you can and avoid attachments with anything. It's ok to be not safe, it's ok to fail, it's ok to embarrass yourself. Don't play it safe and stop being too attached with the results. The results doesn't matter, what matters is the moment. Life is very simple, make it simple, life is simply about fighting and not giving up. Aiming for perfection makes you weak, it makes you scared. Don't strive for perfection, strive for execution. It's a fight, it's not a completion... it's a fight, as simple as that. Nothing is safe in life so get use to it, life is very unpredictable so always feel comfortable being uncomfortable. This is just a game, learn to try without guarantees, learn to show up even if it's so evident that you're going to lose. No need to ask for assurance before you work hard, just work hard and let the results come by itself. If it comes it comes, if it doesn't so be it but don't ever quit, try again tomorrow or later. That's the beauty of life, you can try as much as you want and nothing can stop you other than yourself.
Focus on the evolution not on the results or comfort. Don't focus on the security, focus on beating any adversity. Adversity will make you stronger, better and mentally tougher. If you're too focused on comfort then you will become weak, as simple as that. Your mind will only become stronger if you will expose yourself to pain, scrutiny, embarrassment, critics and failures. You will only get better if you're feeling the pressure all the time, you will never grow if you're always on the same place mentally and physically, you have to feel the discomfort and pain in order to experience new things. Because you will never see your potential if you're always playing it safe and not pushing yourself a little bit.
JUST ONE DAY AT A TIME
Never care if you are failing, struggling or losing... just live one day at a time. One step at a time and breathe, don't rush, don't panic, it's ok to be scared but never let it paralyze you. You need to fight your feelings, go against your emotions, if you're scared... just move and it will go away. Never let your negative emotions control you, you have to learn how to stay calm while feeling it and move anyway. You can only do it if you don't care about the future, stay present and forget the outcome. The only matters is you are moving and not letting any day pass by without doing something to make your life a little bit better. It's a journey, just one day at a time and you will be alright, you don't need to win right away, you don't need to fix everything about your life right away, just live it and stay strong.
IF YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE
If you know who you are and what you can do then you're already a winner. It's easy to become a winner nowadays because most people were jealous of each other, most people were competing and hating each other, most people were depressed and wanting something that they don't know. If you can just accept your life and know that you can survive anything then you're already a winner. Most people were trying to please other people, they're trying so hard to look good, rich and smart. Most people were fakes and that's why they can't win. Always believe in yourself, if you have to bet on something why not bet on yourself?
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