If you want to thrive, if you want to become successful then be good on detecting BS nonsense that's not even helping you to get better. If it's making you worse, stressed, unproductive and broke then stop it right away. If it's making you weak then why the hell would you even bother to give it some energy? you're better than that, you know better but you're not doing the right thing because you're too addicted on instant gratification. If you will just stop doing the nonsense things that drains a lot of your energy then you will be able to change your life in an instant. Be good on detecting useless stuffs, food, activities and people and cross them out in your life forever. If it's not helping you to get better then stop giving it a time. Use all of your time for grooming yourself, focus on small improvements, discipline yourself from time to time and never let any temptation get you lost.
ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS MOVE FORWARD
It's much better to be doing something and get criticized than doing nothing at all and make dramas. You will only feel bad if you're not taking actions. Look at those NBA players who won championship but never play a single minute... they feel bad, disgusted, ashamed and weak. They were getting paid yet they're not happy, some players are only faking their happiness but the truth is they're in pain deep inside. It's because they didn't even contribute, if you're not moving then you will really feel terrible. That's why you need to move forward and do something for yourself, do something that has a possibility to give you success or a little bit of progress. So always choose moving forward then being stuck and playing safe. If you will just take a risk and get outside of your comfort zone then you will be able to feel happier and stronger. Watch yourself, are you feeling stuck? move and do something, any risk is worth taking.
REAL POWER WILL BE FELT
If you will focus on what you can control instead of focusing on what you can't control. The best and easiest things you can control are your thoughts, emotions, actions and reactions. watch yourself all the time and never let anything stop you from moving forward. Never let anyone make you feel bad. It's your life, live it your way, never let the outside noise stop you or make you feel bad. Focus on what you can do with yourself instead of what you can stop others from doing. Focus on doing something positive instead of thinking negatively.
THE CORRECT WAY DOES NOT EXIST
They have their way and you have your own, everybody can do it by themselves, they can decide but the question is... is what you're doing making your life worse or better? you can make your life worse, you are allowed to do that but does it make you happy in the end? are you going to have zero regrets by doing that? if you will have to choose, are you going to choose failure over growth? if you're not doing the right things then you are doomed to fail, as simple as that.
DON'T CONCERN YOURSELF WITH THE CONVERSATION OF OTHER PEOPLE
You're too concern about what people think of you, you're too worried about what they're going to say and that's why you can't even move and express yourself. You're too worried about the future, you're too scared of what people are going to say. Because minding what other people say or think of you will only drain a lot of your energy. Even if they're saying a lot of nasty things against you... still move forward and do your thing, do what is best for your life, focus on the small progress that you've been getting and always look at the bigger picture. Their words doesn't matter at all, how they think and what they say should never affect you because it is powerless, it will never make an impact. They will control you if you will not control your thoughts and emotions.
DON'T RELY ON ANYONE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY
The reason why you have a lot of garbage n your life is you're always looking for something or someone to make you happy. You're not focused on yourself, if you're always giving your time for others for free then you're really not living. Don't use your time for pleasures, instant gratification, thinking about people or minding other people's business. You can be happy with yourself, love yourself and focus on your passion and grind. The more you look for other things to make you happy the lonelier you will get.
THERE'S A LOT LEFT IN YOUR TANK
You're not giving your best because you think you can't make a progress, you think you're already done but the truth is there's a lot left in your tank if you will push for more. Stop thinking that you're already tired because you're just getting started. You have to believe that you are strong if you want to do some amazing things. Do more, if you will choose a lifestyle choose doing more instead of doing less. There's no difference between doing more and doing less because both are eating time. Time will pass anyway, don't ever think that doing more is harder. Doing less or nothing is harder because it makes you broke, weak and useless. anything you can do... do it, it's better to do something positive than to do nothing and just worry all the time. Because if you're not taking actions... your mind will worry, that's the reality and you're not accepting it that's why you choose to do nothing because it feels comfortable. The truth is it's only comfortable for a few minutes, it will make you feel sick and weak in the long run. You will become more scared if you're doing nothing, you will feel like a crap.
GO TO THE EXTREME
Extreme discipline and hard work, extreme concentration, this is what will put you on top. It's not about talent nor gifts, it's about being the best version of yourself and you can only do that if you're very good in stopping yourself every time you're doing something that is useless and not connected to your goal. Go to the extreme, use all of your time and energy for what you really want. Do what most people can't do and become extraordinary even if you're just ordinary. You can only see your full potential if you will go to the extreme and give everything you've got despite of the difficulties and adversities. Never stop even if you already have a strong momentum, keep the fire burning, push yourself to the limits. It's worth trying, you will have zero regrets if you go to the extreme.
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