If you will just make a list of everything that wastes your time, you will be surprised because you will come up with a very long list. It's not the lack of talent, resources, help, looks, good parents, education, rich country that makes you broke and a failure... it's you being a bum for so very long, it's you wasting a lot of your time for nonsense activities. It's ok if you are not great, it's ok if you are slow but don't ever waste your time for some things that are outside of your goal. If something is not making you better then don't ever dwell on it, don't give it any attention because it's only pulling you down. The best thing to do when you are bore is stay still and breathe, relax. Free your mind from any media, information, news that is only making you negative and unproductive. You have to make better choices and you can only do that by being aware of what you are doing and thinking all the time. Don't let the subconscious mind run you, you have to be present all the time and live in the moment. Watch yourself, watch your actions and never let your guard down just for a second. The reason why you are failing is because you are not aware of what you are doing, you are in an auto pilot mode, you're letting your addiction or old bad habits run your life. You don't want to watch TV anymore but you can't stop, you want to do something productive but you can't start, you don't want to smoke anymore but you can't avoid it simply because you're letting the subconscious mind or bad programming run your daily life.
THE REAL CHANGE
The real change is being aware, you are conscious of what's going on with your life, you are aware that you are about to do something stupid and you fight yourself to not do it, you stay disciplined even if it is hard, you stay on the course and you never rush the change. Change is a commitment, you guard yourself forever and you don't let temptation destroy you. Most people wanted to change but once they found out that it is boring because they have to leave the stupid entertainment... they stop changing. Change is really simple but hard, it's hard because you love to sabotage yourself, you want to choose partying over studying, you want to choose eating unhealthy foods over fruits and vegetables. It's too simple yet hard to implement because you're mind was already programmed with bad habits. You have to watch yourself carefully, ask yourself all the time... "is what I am doing taking me to the next level?" You have to make a stand to do what is needed not what you want. There are lot of things and activities that will entertain you because it is easy and convenient but it will never make you better, it will only make you worse like a useless punk that has no direction. The only way to get better is by being disciplined and committed to improvement.
DO MORE
If you want to know what you can do... do more, if you want to know the truth about what you can achieve... go to the extreme and never hold yourself back. Just do it 3x more, if you're lifting weights and repeating ten repeat it eight, if you're writing 5 articles everyday write 15, triple your production and your value will be tripled. The reason why you can't get what you want is because you're not stretching yourself outside of your comfort zone, if you can't see any progress you will get lazier. You need to work harder when you can't see any result. Because the truth is... you're only giving yourself a chance to win if you're working extremely hard, you will never win if you keep on exerting a mediocre effort. Don't get too attached with the outcome, if you're not attached you can do more, you will feel free, you will be able to do amazing things.
GIVE YOURSELF A CHANCE
Get addicted with the next step, that's how you give yourself a chance to succeed. You will only win if you will push further as much as you can. It doesn't matter if you can't see any progress at all, it doesn't matter if you feel so stuck... just keep moving forward and never quit even if it is so hard. It's just a move, don't be afraid of any action. Don't be afraid to make a decision, don't be afraid to take risks. At the end of the day the reality is you will end up on the same place that you don't want if you will not move now and force fate. Make things happen, the control is yours, create an idea, do something that will somehow has a chance to make your life better. You will become happier if you will move, you will become very depressed if you're overthinking and waiting for the right time, don't wait for luck, take matters into your own hands and be the captain of your ship. Never let anyone decide what's going to be your fate, do something now and never look back. Just do anything, do something, something is better than nothing. You will be able to create a momentum when you do something.
If you are so serious about your work then it's only just a matter of time before you succeed, the world can never deny you. You will get your rewards, you will prevail, just be patient and never give up. Giving up is for losers, if you don't want to become a loser then never quit, just keep going even if it hurts so bad. Even if you can't see a reason why you need to continue... still continue no matter what. Only few people succeed because only few are willing to fight until the end. You need to forget about how you feel and focus on the execution. Forget about how you feel because emotions will never help you, creating drama and complaining will only make you weak and useless. You need to fight, you need to move until you get on top.
YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT WILL WORK
All you can do is try and try and try. There is no specific path to success, you have to figure out what works for you. Some things will work for others and will never work for you so don't get discourage if you can't figure things out. You still have to believe in yourself and do whatever it takes to succeed. Because you will never get luck if you're too lazy and always waiting for something, you have to force yourself to work hard because the harder you work the luckier you will get. So give yourself a chance to succeed, go to the extreme, do what you haven't done before, do what most people are afraid to do... that's how to enter the gates of success. Because if you keep doing what you've been doing before then you will never become successful, as simple as that.
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