Have some respect for yourself, stop making yourself look like a weak clown by chasing people and trying to impress or please them. If they don't like you they don't like you, so be it. You will feel if someone likes you or not, if you feel getting disrespected then it's time to stop talking or giving them any attention. Value yourself, you need to prioritize yourself and stop following other people just because they're somehow interesting or cute a little bit. Never let them control you and abuse you, you have to stop giving people your time and energy. Use all of your resources and time for yourself only. Get better everyday, become really good and they will be the ones who will be chasing you. You need to stop feeling so obsessed with people, the hell with them, if they don't like you then so be it, accept it and always believe that there will be right people who will come to your life in the future. If they don't need you then you don't need them too, but don't ever let people use you, it's ok to walk away from them, walking away is power, it means you believe in yourself. Love yourself, you're the only one who can make yourself happy, don't chase happiness and acceptance from other people. Accept yourself and never beg for someone's attention or time.
THE POWER OF BEING ALONE
Work on yourself, if you're that good then more people will like you. The reason why they don't like you is you don't have anything to offer, you have a low value. Be alone, endure the boredom and get really good at something. Focus on making something big, focus on honing your passion and never stop getting better everyday. Give more time for yourself because that's the only way to grow. Hustle alone, think alone, grind alone, improve alone, success by yourself, you don't need those fools, you can do it on your own if you will just believe in yourself. At the end of the day your only true ally is yourself so love yourself and give all of time for yourself. Stop worshipping a fake idol, stop following a fraud leader, stop following commands from people that can't work harder than you. Always remember that if you work harder than your boss then you can become a boss too. It's you that is in control of your life.
WHY ARE YOU DOING THAT?
It's because you think you can never find someone like them, it's because you're so afraid of being alone. It's because you think that it's the right thing to do. You think you need to have company, you think that that person you are chasing will make you happy. You're only putting yourself on a worse position every time you chase somebody, stop doing that, you're only making yourself weak. If you think you're going to get better because of somebody then you're in big trouble, you will never be able to stand alone, you will always feel sad and bothered. Real happiness and strength is within you, it's not about having a big ego or being narcissistic, but happiness it that really simple, just keep growing and you will become happy. Enjoy yourself, love yourself, make yourself stronger and mind tougher and nothing can ever touch you.
STOP GETTING INTERESTED WITH PEOPLE
Be more interested with yourself, stop getting super interested with other people because you will become powerless by doing that. Stop chasing them, stop liking them, stop idolizing them because it's just a waste of time. You will only get disappointed if you didn't get the same love back from them. Just focus on your own life and love yourself, love what you do and never chase a lot of people because they will never love you back, a true love will happen naturally, it will come if it is about to come, the right people will come into your life if you're not begging for it. The best thing you can do is never rely on other people for your happiness and success and do it your way, you will feel the real power by doing that.
Those idols, celebrities, stupid influencers are just eating a lot of your precious time. You think you are entertained, you think they are making you happy but the truth is they're just waiting your time and you're pulling yourself down by focusing on them, you have your own life, your happiness was not purely based on them. They will never give the same love back to you so why even spend most of your time following them? stop being too emotional about their dramas and antics, most people wanted to get your attention for their own gain, stop getting interested and attracted to useless dramas and stories. Stop falling in love with a stupid girl dancing on Tik Tok, stop wasting your time simping on sexy models, stop being happy for someone that doesn't even know you.
NEVER COMPARE YOUR POWER TO ANYBODY
If they can become successful or great, you can become like that too. Don't ever feel bad if you're struggling while they are winning, your time will come, just be patient while working hard. You will find a way, a breakthrough will happen, just be patient and do whatever it takes to win, it will take time so be humble and trust the process. Just do what you want and never get jealous with other people who are making it fast, if they're successful so be it, be happy for them, if you can't be happy because you don't like them then just shut your mouth. You have the power to become successful too, it's ok if you have a slow pace, time is fast just stay consistent and you will get the wherever you want. You have your own skills, you can do something great too, what's the point of comparing yourself to other people? it's just a waste of time and energy, comparison is the thief of joy, be happy with what you have and where you are. You will become weak if you always compare yourself to other people.
BE SILENT WHILE MAKING A PROGRESS
Just be quiet, be comfortable not letting anybody know your story. Being too much loud will only create a lot of distractions and problems. Be humble while making a progress, you don't need anybody to praise or respect you. Respect comes naturally, you don't need to force it. Go all in, be secretive, stay quiet while improving everyday, you don't need to become popular, you just need to be yourself. You can make a progress everyday, your progress will become faster if you are silent and always humble.
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