You got intimidated by a gorgeous girl, you don't want to talk to her, your armpits are sweating, you can't say any word, you feel like a creep. The reality is it's just an illusion, you think of her as god but the truth is she's just a human and it's possible to bring her home, your judgement is what makes her intimidating, you're not thinking right, you're placing yourself below the hierarchy and you're already counting yourself out, and that's why you can't do something about the situation, that's why you feel like a loser already. What if you think of her as someone who's easy to get? what if you treat her like an ordinary human? how do you think would she react? A woman will feel powerful if you treat her special but if you treat her like an ordinary human being then she will feel your confidence. Women loves confident men, if you're willing to lose her then you will get her, as simple as that. There should be an abundant mindset all the time, you should avoid getting intimidated of anybody because that's the best way to command the situation. So throw her all the jokes you have even if it sounds corny, feel handsome when talking to her, feel confident with your looks and abilities, don't ever think that she's above you but still respect her and stay humble. Don't be too overconfident, just be yourself and live with the results. Don't be needy of her attention, don't feel bad when she's ignoring you, feel happy that you were able to get near to her and simply find a way how to make her blush. Once you made her feel something... you have a chance, that's they key...make her feel something, make her tingle and it's easy to do that. That gorgeous girl is just another human being that's not so special, treat her right but don't ever make her feel that you're so in love with her. Make her feel that it's ok if you don't get her, make her think that you're so confident that you can find another girl better than her. Make her feel that she's replaceable.
You got intimidated by your own goal, you think it's impossible to get it, you can't move because the workload is too heavy, you can't start because most people are telling you that it's impossible. Again, it's just a judgement, it's all in your mind. Don't let the opinions of other people make you feel weak, you need to think that it's doable and you have to start now. Take it one step at a time and you will see that it's not really hard to do. What makes it hard is you don't even want to try. All you need to do is work hard and that's it. Any dream is doable, any goal is never out of reach, you have the power to get it if you will give everything you've got. Stop wasting time, stop acting like you have all the time to do it, you have to start now. Believe that you can do it and you're already 50 percent done. The other 50 percent is hard work and perseverance.
ABUNDANT MINDSET ALL THE TIME
Whatever you have is all you need, you don't need to focus on what you don't have, you don't need to feel that there is something lacking. Whatever knowledge you possess, whatever resources you have... it's all you need. Learn to adapt, learn to be resourceful, learn to appreciate what you have and make the best out of it. You don't need to look good to have many girls, you just need to be yourself and give your very best every single day. You don't need to become a genius to get your dream, you just need to improve everyday and push yourself to the limits. The belief in yourself is the most important thing in this world. Success is all about how you feel, if you think you can get it then you will get it, if you think it's hard then your mind will find every thought why you will never win. It's all in the mind, it's all in how you feel. Confidence and hard work is the key, don't be afraid to lose, don't be afraid to give your all. If you can feel that you have everything you need then your body language will become better, you will take inspired actions, everything you do will make an impact, it feels like you can't do wrong, your actions will take you closer to victory.
YOU GET INTIMIDATED BECAUSE YOU'RE THINKING TOO MUCH
You're thinking about what the gorgeous girl is thinking of you, you're thinking about how ugly you are, you're thinking that you're not deserving, you're thinking about the things why you can't get closer to her. You're thinking that she's the only girl in the world. What if you think that there's too many girls waiting on the line? what if you think that you can still find a prettier girl if she doesn't entertain you? Don't think that she's the only girl in the world, don't think that she's the only one that can give you happiness. Stop being an emo, stop being too dramatic. You need to love yourself, stop thinking too much and show them that you can win in life too by having that abundant mindset. There are plenty of girls waiting to be victimized, you don't need to feel scared about rejection, embrace what could happen and enjoy giving yourself a chance. Your dream is no the only dream in the world, you can dream another thing if you failed, you can dream about everything and chase it. There's no limit for the number of tries you have, if you can convince yourself that you can try a million times and it's ok to do that then you will become unstoppable. The key is to feel good about failing, just laugh at it and look for another goal.
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