You're not living your life the right way, you're focusing on what's missing, you're focusing on the past and that's why you're not happy, that's why you're living in misery. There is something left in your life and you've got to focus on these things if you want to have a better life. Focus on what's there and not on what's not there. Stop looking for the things that you can't bring back anymore, there are some things that you can't have anymore but you're still clinging on to it. Accept the fact that what you have is all you have, accept the fact that there are some areas in your life that you can't change anymore. Appreciate what you have and you will have more of it. You have a lot left in your life, there are things that you can be thankful of, you just need to open your eyes and stop looking for what is missing in your life. The present moment is all you got, forget the past, forget what may happen, focus on the present moment and try to make it magical.
THE REAL JOURNEY
The real journey is focusing on your life, focusing on what you have left. Guarding your brain and guarding your actions, it's simply being disciplined enough to use all of your energy only for you. Stop thinking about someone else, stop worrying about the things outside of your control. You will love your life more if you keep on using your time and energy for your own life. Make sure everything you do has a purpose, don't do something for the sake of having fun, don't do something because it is easy, do something because it will make your life better in the future. The real journey is you seeing yourself, seeing what's happening in your life and doing something about it. It's you controlling your emotions and thoughts, it's you making the right decisions that will put you on a better position in life. Watch what's happening in your life, watch everything and try to be the best version of yourself... that's how to win in life. Look no further because the real journey is you, don't look for other people's lives, it's none of your business if they're thriving or losing, what matters is you focus on your own life and you do whatever it takes to win. You can have a lot of fun with your own journey, just don't look too far and be in the moment, be present and always be aware of what's going on with your mind. Appreciate the grind, appreciate the struggle and always believe that better days are ahead of you. You just need to stop thinking about quitting and keep moving forward all the time even if progress is out of sight. So face every challenge of life and never back down, stop looking for immediate results so that you won't get disappointed... take actions every second and feel excited what is about to come.
IT'S ALL ABOUT THE FEELINGS
Happiness is just a feeling, it's not about cars or money or fame, it's about how you feel. Many people have everything but they can't become happy, it's because they can't see what they have, they can't appreciate their situation. You can feel good having nothing, for me this is the best mindset, this is the real abundant mindset, you can attract a lot of things if you're happy having nothing because you will treat everything as a blessing, you will appreciate the smallest things that will come into your life. You can control your feelings, this what most people don't know, you can control your emotions by shifting thoughts from negative to positive. Be aware of what you're thinking and you will be able to choose the feelings that you want. Positive thoughts equals positive emotions, as simple as that. It's impossible to feel positive all the time but you can guard your thoughts and filter negativity to lessen the times of feeling negative. It's easy to neutralize a negative emotion, just stay calm and stop thinking about it, choose an opposing thought... something that's not making you feel worse.
GETTING JEALOUS IS BRINGING YOU DOWN
If you want to feel happier stop getting jealous with other people's lives and focus on your own life, that's the real secret. Happiness cannot be achieved if you will always look at what other people are doing, if you will always compare your life with other people's lives. Count your own bread, focus on your own actions, never mind what they are doing because they were irrelevant to your success. If you're always comparing yourself then you're not owning your life, you're letting them control your feelings, don't focus on what is lacking and try to make what is present grow, try to make what you have bigger than yesterday. The key is to appreciate your small properties and make it grow each day, work on it, feed it, put some energy onto it. Getting jealous is for the weak, it's for people who has no confidence in themselves, if you really believe that you can do something great then you will never get jealous just for once, you will focus on your own thing and become successful as you can be.
Count your blessings and you won't get jealous anymore, it's simply about being happy with what you have and not counting other people's properties. Be satisfied of what you have, you can ask for more but you have to work for it, don't wish for it. If you don't want to work so hard then just be satisfied of what you have so you won't feel envy. Never include other people to your equation, it's all about you, it's you trying to become happy, it's you fighting, it's you processing everything, other people were just accessories... they're not part of the main thing.
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