Force fate, this is the only path, you have to give everything you've got even if it takes giving your happiness, give everything, don't make any reservations. If you're so sick and tired of your life now then you've got to do something, execute, form a new strategy, and even if you have no strategy at all... just take actions and go for what you really want. You have to choose only one, is it your peace or is it your dream? because you're not going to have a peace if you're chasing your dream. It is what it is, life is going to get harder and harder each day, there will be no days off, there will be no excuses allowed, you have to keep growing and growing. There's no time for waiting because it's the number one habit of losers... they keep on waiting and waiting until the opportunity is already gone. You have to be aggressive, stay on the attack mode. Always go for the kill, have that killer instinct, go all out all the time and change your fate. Tenacity is the key here, you have to go all the way if you want to experience greatness in your life.
HOW TO STOP HESITATING
Expect to win all the time, always remember that you can win every time you try. Have that winner's mindset but don't ever feel bad if you didn't win. Just decide that you're going to do it and avoid expecting too much, expect to win but never put your emotions. Being emotional will make you hesitant to do it because you're already attached with the result. Hesitation will lead to procrastination and procrastination will lead to forever inaction, you have to do it even if you feel uncomfortable, push your body and push your mind. Forget about how you feel and just do it. If you will just focus on the now, focus on what you can do now and forget the results then you will never hesitate. Just fall in love with the process, fall in love with the experience of life. Don't worry about the struggles, don't worry about the pain, it's all part of life. That's the beauty of life... so unpredictable and unknown, life can give you everything or take everything away from you, it all depends on how you live it.
LAZINESS BREEDS INSECURITY
You can never change if you're lazy. What's wrong with you? why can't you move? why can't you at least do something that will make your life better? why not add something into your personality that will create confidence? you're insecure because you're not willing to work hard. But if you will prioritize hard work and making yourself better then you will feel much better, confidence will soar high, insecurity will go away. Try chasing a goal for one year and really working hard to get it and let's see if your confidence doesn't improve. You're not confident at all because you're too focused on other people's lives instead of trying to improve yourself. Work as hard as you can and try to chase the impossible, this mindset will change your life, it will change your perspective, you will see the world through your own eyes, nothing can make you feel inferior.
BELIEVE THAT YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE
The reason why you can't change is because you think you have a lot of lives, you think you're a cat with 9 lives, you think you can live forever that's why you don't have a sense of urgency, you're always taking your life for granted, you're always letting opportunities get away. Believe that you only have one life, believe that your life is special and that you need to take actions right away to see what you are made of.
NOT DOING STUPID IS ALSO PROGRESSING
It's ok if you're not making any results, it's ok if you keep getting zero everyday but just don't do something stupid. Don't do something that will derail your progress even more. These small actions are critical, if you can just stop wasting time for stupid entertainment then you will be able to conserve your energy and brain cells for something more important later. The reason why you feel lesser energy is because you already used your strength for useless activities that will not even give you a small improvement. Don't do anything stupid, just stay still if you're thinking about doing something that will honestly eat your time and waste your energy. Staying still for a second or a few minutes is much better than looking at your enemy's facebook or high school crush's profile, it's much better than stalking other people because it will never drain your energy, it will never play with your mind, you will not absorb any toxic information. Because the truth is... any image or information that doesn't improve you is so toxic.
DON'T FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE POWER OVER WITH
The only things that you have power with is your actions and thoughts and nothing else. You will be able to improve the outcome of your life if you're focusing on using thoughts that will help you to make a progress. Every second you are thinking, the question is are you thinking right? thoughts are things, you need to care only about the thoughts that will give you confidence and motivation. You are not giving yourself a favor every time you think about negative things. You are only making your situation worse every time you worry, you are only killing your journey every time you think about other people's lives. Stop thinking about them, never mind what they are doing or thinking, you have your own life now, the only thing that you must care about is how to become better each day and that's it. Stop complicating your life by focusing on what you don't control. Let go of the garbage that are not helping you at all.
No comments:
Post a Comment