KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD NOT DO

It's ok if you don't know what to do but you should know what you should not do. Meaning you should know the things that you need to avoid. Because most of the time you already knew what to do but you can't do it because you're too focused on the things that are derailing your progress, you don't know what do avoid, you're too invested on having a good time and that's why you are lacking the discipline to take your life to another level. Know what not to think, know what to avoid, know what to stop, know what are slowing you down, you need to stay committed to the process that will make you successful. If you can do this for a very long time then success will come to you automatically. Just avoid stupidity and you will live a batter life. 

LIST THE THINGS THAT YOU NEED TO AVOID

It can be toxic friends, procrastination, porn, junk foods, toxic family member, bad habits, stupid TV programs etc. List the things and habits that slows you down and remind yourself all the time that you need to avoid these things. Use your willpower to discipline yourself. When I say discipline you need to be really serious, don't say you will do it for the last time, don't say you will do it for just a very short time, completely eliminate these things in your life and you will attract more success and opportunities. Because the reason why you're failing is not that you don't have the knowledge or skills to succeed, it's because you're not strong enough to avoid the things that are making your life worse, you're always putting yourself on a bad position. Be better by disciplining yourself, it's all you need, focus on what you want and never waste your time and energy for something that's not helping at all. Be honest with yourself, avoid the things that are useless even if they are fun and entertaining, create a new you, make yourself, create the best version of yourself, someone who is doing the right thing all the time, someone who is taking his life seriously and not taking anything for granted. Get strict on yourself, if you really want to change then focus on what you don't need to do and don't do it. Once you were able to restrict yourself from doing stupid things then you will automatically do the right things, you will have more time for doing productive activities that will lead to success. 

DEVOUR EVERY OPPORTUNITY

Use your time wisely, use it for activities that will give you a chance to become great or successful. Devour every opportunity, if you see an opening... penetrate it, enter it, don't be shy, grab every opportunity presented. Open your eyes, there is an opportunity in front of you. The reason why you can't se it is because you're not looking for it, you're not seeking hard. If you can't see an opportunity then try to create one, do it your way, never waste any second, never waste any day, don't be satisfied getting nothing, at least create a momentum that will lead to success. Act fast and don't think, you have to go for it, you have to act like a hungry lion that devours an opportunity presented to him, don't hesitate, that's the key. You have to be fast, don't analyze and just go and get it. To avoid resistance you must focus on doing, focus on taking actions instead of worrying too much. Thinking too much will make you scared even more, to become fearless... focus on taking actions. Take massive actions so that you will attract massive results, as simple as that. 

IT'S ABOUT MAKING SACRIFICES

The more sacrifices you make the bigger you will become, know what you don't need to do, know what you must give up in order to have more time for your own goals and self evolution. Life is fast, don't squander any second of it, don't ever give your time without getting something in return. Give your time only for real friends and real people who loves you. Make your life simple, make it basic, focus only on the things that really matters, start making sacrifices now, make it your habit until it's automatic to you to just do it without even thinking. You will enjoy it in the long run especially if you're seeing small results already, you just need to endure boredom, you just need to work more and be faster, you just need to focus and stop thinking about the things or subjects that doesn't help you at all. If you want to go to the next level then make sure you will make sacrifices. It's all about trying to become better than yesterday, make sure you feel guilty if you're wasting your time, value your time, it's your biggest resources to success. Not someone's help, not an opportunity, not luck, not knowledge or big time skills... it's how you use your time that will determine if you will go up or go down. 

KNOW THAT ONE DAY IT WILL PAY OFF

All of your sacrifices one day will pay off, your beliefs should be stronger than your doubts... as simple as that. make sure you are pruning your mind with positive thoughts and ideas that will keep you going. Because the number one reason why you're not working is because you don't believe in what you do, you're half hearted. If you really believe it then you will never stop, as simple as that, you will keep going no matter what, you will push yourself to the limits and get what you want at all cost. Be happy with what you are getting, be happy with the small progress because one day you will reap the fruits of your labor. Stick with the process, stick with the game plan and never change your mind no matter what, keep pushing until you find something that is working. Strengthen you discipline everyday, the key is to be mindful all the time, the key is to be aware if you're doing nonsense things that are stopping you from succeeding, it's going to be hard but it's worth it, all the sacrifices will pay off one day, you just need to endure the pain now. 

FORGET YOUR EMOTIONS

Feeling good all the time is not the priority, there will be times when you don't want to work because you feel emotionally drained and mentally exhausted but it is what it is, you really need to embrace boredom, you really need to do only the things and activities that has a potential to bring glory into your life. There are millions of hours that you wasted in the past, it's time to become different now, it's time to do whatever it takes to succeed, it's time o give everything you've got for a better life. Know what you should not do, it's easy to define them, it's easy to know them, accept that you can't be enjoying stupid entertainment now, accept that life will be a grind and hustle. Do whatever it takes to win and never stop until you finally become successful, if you want to see your full potential then it's time to concentrate and focus all of your energy for something that will put you on the best position to succeed. 

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WHY YOU SHOULDN'T BE AFRAID ANYMORE?

Because life is too damn fast, it's over before you blink, you think you're in control and will live forever only to find out that it will be over soon. You shouldn't be afraid anymore because you only have one life, why not make the best out of it? it's all about taking risks, it's all about showing up and giving yourself a chance to become happy. You really have nothing to lose, be aware of this idea, what will you lose? there is nothing permanent in this world, if you die you will never take anything with you and that is a fact, nobody can take his wealth when death touches him. Stop thinking that you have something to lose because there is really none. Wake up and never mind these useless things that makes you sadder and frightened, be aware that life is so simple and that everything that comes to you are just bonuses. Life is about experience, it's no about wealth, it's not about greatness... its about experiencing everything you can and making the best out of your life. If you feel that there is nothing to lose then you will become free, the resistance will go away and you will become more creative. Life is like a short movie, it's too fast so don't ever blink and miss a moment, you have to breathe with purpose, breathe with passion, live with courage and try to make your life at least meaningful. 

BE A RISK TAKER AND YOU WILL BECOME HAPPIER

You're not happier because your life has no adventures, you're playing it safe all the time. You're not betting on yourself, you're not traveling your own journey, you're more interested with other people's business. You have to mind your own business and take risks to make your life better, you have to go all in with your ideas and try to become big as you can be. And the truth is... there is no risk here, you're not losing anything if you try, you're only gaining a lot of experience that will make you a much better person. The more you risk for a good intention.. the more wiser you will become, you're always in a win win situation so don't be afraid of risking because that's helping you a lot, it's making you grow, it's making you stronger and tougher. Risk for what you want and don't be afraid to fail, that's the key... fail a lot so you will gain more knowledge to succeed later. According to research people who take more risks are happier and more confident people and those who play it safe gets a lot of regrets with their lives. 

YOU CAN ADAPT TO ANYTHING

Even if you fail, even if you made the wrong decision... you can still adapt to anything. You can make the right adjustments, you can correct your mistakes, or you can even do the same mistakes again and learn from it again. The point here is you will never die, you can survive to anything, it all depends on the level of your mental toughness. Humans can survive anything so what is it to be scared of? anything that can't kill you can only make you stronger, that's what your mentality should be. People can criticize you, they can put you down, they can mock you, the can betray you but they can never kill you. You can survive anything, you can adapt to any harsh situation, you have the power to move and move on. You can fail big time, you can embarrass yourself but you will still be left standing. So don't be afraid if you're in pain right now, don't be afraid if you're sad or depressed or losing... your situation will change if you stay positive. Stay committed to the process, stick to your goals no matter what, you can adapt to anything if you will persevere and believe in yourself. 

IT'S OK TO BE SCARED

It's ok to be scared, there's nothing wrong with that but you have to avoid resisting that emotion. Feel it, the more you resist fear the stronger it will become. Feel it and it will go away, it's ok to be scared but do what you have to do, never let fear stop you. Always think that you have nothing to lose in this world, you have everything to gain. It's just a feeling, it will come and go, don't be afraid of that feeling. Be scared now, feel it and sooner or later you will become brave again, what you're feeling now will never stay in your system forever, you will feel different later so you need to remind yourself that if you're feeling negative now you don't need to panic. Welcome any emotion may it be positive or negative and you will have an easier life. Never let an emotion control you, if you can't control your emotion then let it be but don't ever panic and worry because it will be gone too soon. Being scared doesn't mean you're a coward, being scared but understanding it means bravery, you have to move forward even if you're scared, you have to take matters into your own hands even if you're doubtful. 

ENTERTAIN YOURSELF WITH ACTIONS

Entertain yourself with hard work and you will never become scared anymore. Just work hard, give your best and focus on taking it ones step at a time, if you can make this as your habit then you will become super unstoppable. Nobody can stop you, it's you against you, nothing can stop you if you will use your willpower all the time. Keep moving forward, fears will go away if you will focus on your intention, you will never become scared anymore with anything if you can push yourself to act despite of feeling negative. If you're moving all the time you will forget how scared you are, if you will focus on the inside and not on the outside then you will become invincible, forget the conditions and master your emotions, master your thoughts, learn to think about the positive things even if your situation is so negative. 

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BE A FINISHER THIS TIME

You're always starting something and you're not finishing it, and that's why you're on the same muddy place 10 years ago. You didn't improve, maybe you evolve a little bit but it's something you're not satisfied with. If you're starting a goal... make sure you will finish it, have that killer instinct, always smell blood, learn how to push yourself to the limits and go further as much as you can. You need to be faster and bolder, you need to change they way you think. Just because you finish something today doesn't mean you're done for the day, look for something else to do that will elevate your life, the journey doesn't end with a mediocre result, you have to do something spectacular, make your effort unmatchable if you want your life to change. Work as hard as you can and never stop, it's all about looking for more, it's all about doing what most people can't do. Don't be like other people who keeps on revealing their plans but will never achieve anything in the long run, quit talking and start moving. It's too simple... work as hard as you can, believe that you're going to win and let go. Don't think about it too much, don't worry to much and surrender yourself to taking actions. 

Don't think twice, never doubt yourself, always believe in the power of your actions. Always believe that you can do something great. It is what it is, it's really going to be hard but you have to face all the difficulties if you want to succeed in life. Be a finisher, don't just start something and will leave it hanging in the air, you have to push through pain, keep pushing forward no matter what. Every step is the right step, whenever you can do something that will contribute to a level of progress... do it. Stop waiting for the right time because the time will never become perfect, it's always uncomfortable, it's always hard. you will feel much better if you're finishing rather than procrastinating and waiting for your luck, you have to work hard now and keep pushing until you see the results, don't stop, don't give up when it's hard... when the going gets tough... keep going, that's how your mindset should be. Feel disgusted for yourself if you're not working hard, you have to do better than yesterday, you have to give everything you've got and never relax for a second. 

Forget your old self that's too slow, always procrastinating and a bum. You have to do something different this time, be something you're not before, be someone who pushes himself to the limits until he was done. Create a new you, create new habits that will give you a reward in the future, invest on the right habits, it's difficult for now, it's not working for now but you will reap the benefits of your labor in the end, it's just a matter of time before you finally make it work. 

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PROGRESS IS SIMPLY DOING SOMETHING

You're already progressing even if you're not getting anything, you're already improving and getting better if you're moving. So stop looking for results right away because it will come in the future when you already paid the dues. When your effort is already enough then results will come, as simple as that. Just keep moving forward and work as hard as you can. Be faster than yesterday, do more today and never stop until you finally get what you want. It's all about the continuity, it's all about following through and not stopping until you finally made it. One small action is already a progress, one step will lead to success, make sure you are moving everyday, stay busy and committed. You can do something at the moment, don't ever get confused with what you need to do, just do something. Start fast and finish strong, you need to become a killer here, you need to control your mind and stop yourself from doubting yourself. Whatever you can do... do it now and stop thinking what could went wrong, take actions and be happy with it. 

JUST TRY

Nothing will happen to you if you don't try but if you try... everything is possible, you already unlocked the gates of success if you try, you're already successful if you try. You will never die if you try. So start now, what are you waiting for? no matter how careful you are you will still make mistakes, it's all part of the process. Don't be afraid to look stupid, don't be afraid to get laugh at. You can try now and you can try again tomorrow, you have unlimited number of tries, that's what's so good about chasing a dream... nothin can stop you from trying, it's you that's stopping yourself if you listen to the voices in your head telling you that you can't do it. Trying is all you need, just try and give yourself a chance to become triumphant. So what if they mock you because you're trying so hard? so what if you fail a million times, it's ok, you just need to keep trying until you win, that's the only game plan you need to execute and nothing else. Stop being needy of results and just try, focus on the process and keep moving forward, look for that little space where you can move, look for a small action that you can execute and execute now, never wait for the right timing, the right time is now. Have fun, play the game, if you can have the most number of tries and most number of failures then you will prevail for sure, you're going to win. It's like punching a hard wall until it breaks down, at first it is hard, at first you can't see any signs of progress but if you did it a million times then you will be able to break the wall for sure. If there is something you can try... try it, stop waiting for Christmas or Halloween before you do something, never put of till tomorrow what you can do today, success is a game of speed, who can move fast and never hesitate will usually win... as simple as that. So start now and just move, never mind how you feel, never mind if you don't feel right about it... just do it. Because you will only have regrets in the end if you don't move, do you want that? Allow yourself to take actions, don't ask for permission before you do something, don't ask for approval if what you're doing is right... just do it. 

Be proud of yourself if you're trying hard because most people couldn't even try, they were so scared to fail. Just try now and raise your expectation to win. But if you didn't win, accept it and try again whenever you have a chance. You're only getting better if you're trying, there's nothing to lose here. Don't be afraid to get tired, don't be afraid to repeat again, do the process over and over again until you master the flow. 

WHY YOU FEEL NOT PROGRESSING?

Because you're not patient, you want it fast, you want it now even though you only exerted a weak effort. Be patient, it will take time, you don't have to get it now, this is not a race. You can win by being slow but consistent. Just don't rush, give your best every second and focus on your intention. Little by little make some progress, make adjustments if you need to. Sometimes you feel not progressing because you're too needy of the results, you're checking if you're getting something every now and then, you want to become rich fast, you want to become popular fast, you want it now. The more you want to get it fast... the slower you will be to make a progress. So be happy where you are right now and just focus on taking actions. You can never control how fast you will become successful, the only thing you can control is your work ethic. Don't ever ask for results if you're faking hard work, you really have to give your all without any reservations.  Making a progress is only in the mind, if you feel progressing and happy with your work then you are progressing. But if you feel bad with your work and always needy of results then you're stuck. 

IT'S ALL ABOUT THE HUSTLE

Hustling is everything. You have to become a massive massive worker, you have to outwork everyone, be better than yesterday. If you did 10 pushups yesterday then do 11 now, always expand, always try to become bigger. Do more, break your own records, destroy your old self, be stronger and faster, always level up, it's all about the hustle, it's all about doing whatever it takes to win and not giving up. If you really want it then you need to go for it, you need to do the impossible. Discipline yourself to do only the things that you need to do, stop procrastinating, stop wasting your time because it will backfire at you in the end. If you don't want to feel guilty after failing... give your all. Hustling will become very fun if you will learn how to enjoy it. Hustling is all you need, execute now and see what is possible for your life. Hustle like a lion, don't stop until you get what you want. Ignore all the obstacles and focus on the prize, as simple as that. Lions never rest until they have a meant, you too should have this kind of mindset... hustle all day long until you finally win. 

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DO IT THE HARD WAY

Maybe it's not for you, maybe the easy path was not laid out for you, maybe you need to do it the hard way, maybe your path is unique and cannot be travelled by a lot of people, if the hard way is the only way are you going to do it? if you don't know how many miles you need to run before you win are you going to run? are you willing to run forever? What if you are only being tested? what if no matter what obstacles you face you will still win if you persevere until the end? what if you really believe that you're going to succeed even if challenges are trying to make you quit? what if you can do it? what if you are the chosen one? you will never know unless you really try. Trying means giving everything you've got and not taking any second for granted, trying means taking all the opportunity presented to you even if the chances of winning is very slim. 

BET ON YOURSELF

Be confident and bet on yourself, bet on your ideas, don't ever think that you're going to lose. Believe that you can win one day, you just need to work hard for now. Work every single day, work hard and push yourself to the limits, never give up, never stop, be the man who is trying to outwork everyone. Never downplay yourself, never think that you can't do it. of course you can do it, all you need to do is keep trying and never quit. If you have to believe in something why not believe in yourself? why not do whatever it takes to succeed? never mind if your ideas looks impossible, what matters is you execute and did it your way. It's not being overconfident, it's giving yourself a reward, believing yourself is the best gift you can give to yourself. Most people can't believe in themselves for whatever reason even if they have the right tools to win in life. Bet on yourself and don't be afraid to lose, enjoy the process, enjoy doing it the hard way. Do it your way and never give up, as simple as that. 

TRAIN YOURSELF TO BECOME RELENTLESS

Keep pushing even if its' really hard, focus on one thing and try to get it with all your might. Stop listening to your conscience that you should stop because you can't do it anymore, stop listening to critics that you can't do it anymore. You can push for more but sometimes you are choosing not to because you're too soft, you're too slow, you need to stop thinking and just focus on moving. That's what your mindset should be. I know it's hard, I know it's scary to go all in because you don't know if you're going to win. But it is what it is, that's the beauty of greatness... you never know what might happen next, all you can do is control everything you can control and that is your thoughts and actions. 

WHAT IF YOU CAN MAKE A BREAKTHROUGH?    

You keep pushing and pushing and yet you can't see some progress or any slight improvement. Don't worry time will come and you will be able to make a breakthrough, there is no way you will stay there forever if you're really working hard. Hard work pays off, it can be trusted. So put all your money on hard work and believe that one day you're going to win. Nothing can hold you back if you're really pushing yourself to the limits, you can make a slight improvement everyday, you may not see it for now but you become better and better every time you push your body and mind. Just because you're struggling doesn't mean you can't make a breakthrough, just because you're repeating over and over again doesn't mean you can't make your situation better. Just keep plodding and one day you will be able to break the resistance that's stopping you. Never judge your situation just because it is hard, always think that you're getting closer and closer to success. 

DETECT WHAT'S NOT HELPING YOU

If it's not helping you then throw it away, don't do it, ignore it, treat it like a ghost that you can't see. What's the point of giving it some time and energy? I know some things are fun even if it's a crap, I know it's hard to discipline yourself but if you really want to win then you need to be smart in detecting things that are making your life worse and get rid of it right away. Stop doing it, stop giving it any attention and focus on winning, focus on doing the process... as simple as that. Stop fooling yourself with these entertainment that's fun for a short period of time but will eventually make you depressed and inactive. Choose action over inaction, stay busy, stay working, grind all day, do it the hard way if you need to. 

DON'T BE AFRAID IF IT IS HARD

So what if it is hard? so what if you can't take it anymore? you can still move even if it is hard. It's hard because you're evolving, it's hard because you're getting better. It's a win win situation for you, face what is hard, do what you need to do even if it takes a lot of time and effort. You are doing it for yourself, you are giving yourself a favor. You have nothing to lose here, you have everything to gain. Focus on pushing, focus in grinding, you will find a way out of no way, you will be able to make a breakthrough. Never care if you're tired just do the next step, it doesn't matter if you're slowing down what matters is your will to win never fade. Always think that you are doing something right every time you move. Always believe that you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. 

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ENJOY YOUR LIFE EVEN IF IT'S TOO BORING

You only have one life, you can never rewind and mistakes anymore, you can never ask for a new life or ask for a retake. All you can do is enjoy your life right now because it's all you got. You can never go back to zero and ask for a better life, you can never wish for a retry or go back to the past and erase all of your mistakes. What happened can never be undo, all you can do is accept it with all your heart and look for some new opportunities that you can appreciate and embrace. 

BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN BE HAPPY WITH YOUR OWN LIFE

If you will just focus on your own life and ignore all the noises that are stopping you to evolve then you will feel happier and stronger. Happiness is too simple, you don't need to complicate it, you don't need to make it hard. Your life is all you need, everything else was a bonus, so if you're living right now... be happy and never worry, worrying takes away your opportunity to become happy today. What's the worse thing that could happen? nothing right? detach from everything and you will become happier, detachment meaning don't cling to it too much, it's ok to want something but be ok if you can't get it. It's up to you how to spice up your life, if you really want to enjoy your own life then focus on it, watch your own growth, watch yourself achieving small things from time to time, watch yourself growing and becoming better each day. You can be happy with your own life if you will make a story from it, create a new identity and follow it everyday. Chase an impossible dream and do whatever it takes to get it. It is too simple, focus on your life and enjoy everything that is happening on it. Stop watching the stories of other people, stop getting interested with the stories of celebrities, well know people, politicians etc. Focus on your life and entertain yourself by moving forward everyday towards your goals. 

KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING EVEN IF YOU'RE NOT MAKING IT BIG

You can make anything big, that is the reality, you can become great at anything if you choose to become one. It's just a matter of perspective and work ethic. You have to push yourself to the limits, keep going and never stop, don't let any adversity stop you, don't let any difficulty discourage you. Keep moving forward, one day you will get more rewards, you just need to become good at it. You just need to work more so that you will become really good and nobody can deny you. Rewards will come in the end, but for now you must sacrifice first and do whatever it takes to win. 

BE A BIG FAN OF YOUR OWN JOURNEY

Be your own biggest fan, support yourself, love yourself, do whatever it takes to make yourself a winner. For once in your life... really believe that you can do something big, really believe that you have what it takes to become successful too like others. You don't need to become super extra ordinary, you just need to give everything you've got even if it hurts so much. What are you waiting for? don't just sit there and wait for a miracle, don't let this day be over without doing something spectacular. If you can support yourself and love yourself and believe in yourself then you will become super unstoppable, sky is the limit for you, you will become something special. Take time to make yourself better and skilled, give more love to yourself instead of loving other things or people that will not even help you to become better. 

SO WHAT IF NOBODY SUPPORTS YOU?

Supporters were overrated, you don't need them. The more you look for support the more you become weak. Never care if nobody got your back, keep moving forward and stand up every time you fall. It's ok to be a lone wolf, don't worry because they will kiss your ass in the end once you win. Let them laugh at you, let them disagree with you, let them leave you... you're on your own now, you can do it if you will stay committed and focused. Just focus on doing it your own, you can still make some progress even if you're alone, you're much in control if you're alone so don't be afraid if nobody is there to help you, don't be afraid if nobody appreciates you. 

THERE IS A PRICE FOR GREATNESS

If you want to become great then accept that you will make a lot of sacrifices, accept that you need more of time so stop giving it to other people who doesn't deserve it. Don't give away your time for free, use it for your personal growth, use it for gains and not for loss. Because you are losing every time you give away your time for free, you're losing a lot of money and opportunity, you are destroying your future by wasting your time a lot. If you want to live an extraordinary life prepare to sacrifice big time, prepare to throw away the things that will not support your dreams. It's really going to become difficult. You have to change now, if you want to welcome new opportunities then you need to let go of the things that are holding you back. Let go of the things that are pointless and doesn't serve you at all. If you're not growing from it, if it's not giving you any money, if it's not helping you then forget it, erase it from your mind. Think different this time, act different this time, see if it works. Enjoy a boring life, enjoy disciplining yourself, you only have one life, why not enjoy it even if it's not interesting? What are you willing to sacrifice? what are you willing to let go to create some space in your life for new things to come? what are you willing to risk? 

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STOP FOLLOWING ANYBODY

Just try this approach and see if it works for you, see if it can give you something... don't follow anybody. stop idolizing somebody, stop following someone's career, just follow your intuition and see where can it take you. Believe in yourself to the fullest and do whatever it takes to succeed. This is the best way to live your life, this is the best way to reward yourself. You have to enjoy your own journey no matter how boring or hard it is. It's not an ego, it's not being delusional, it's about celebrating your life, give yourself a chance to become big. Stop being a follower like everyone else, they don't have control in their lives, you can become something if you will just follow your heart and intuition, if you have a dream... go hard and get it, stop wasting time, stop giving away your energy for free. Use your energy to achieve your vision. 

IT'S A WASTE OF TIME AND ENERGY FOLLOWING SOMEONE

Why watch someone's path if you can create your own path? why give energy to someone if you can use that energy to make your life much better? you're just wasting time watching someone's journey because you're not getting better by doing it. Why not fix your own life? why not try to improve a little bit? why not watch your own character blossom and take over? why not try to conquer the world and see if you can succeed? The best life that you can watch is your own life not theirs, the best thing to do is respect your own life and make it as big as it can get. And the truth is... they will never do the same to you, they will not even follow you, they will not even give time to you, you're making yourself look like a bit*ch every time you give away your time for free, you're only putting yourself on a worse position by doing that. Stop following other people, stop following orders, don't be a follower... be a leader. 

USE YOUR TIME ONLY FOR YOUR GROWTH

The time you are wasting everyday is unacceptable. Imagine what you could have done with the time you wasted. You could have been so big by now but you choose to use your time for useless and nonsense activities that are making you sick, poor and weak. You are broke because you're not using your time properly, you're weak because you give your time to other people easily, you're making them entertain you for no reason, you're more interested with other people's lives than your own life, that was ridiculous, that was insane, you have to change your habits now and use your time only for your won evolution. If you want a new life then you have to recreate yourself, you have to put pressure on yourself to use only your time for yourself and nothing else. 

YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SUCCEED

You can become successful too in your own way, all it takes is hard work and dedication. The commitment to do what is necessary to take your life to another level. Hone your skills, be faster, work harder, be more focused and never blink for a second. You have to have that burning desire if you want to live an extraordinary life. You can become successful too, success is a choice, it's believing in yourself no matter what the condition is. Push yourself to the limits now, stop thinking and start moving, as simple as that. You don't need to get it fast, you just need to stay focused, never think about anything else other than your dream. Leave everything behind and do whatever it takes to reach your goals. Go all in, bet on your strengths, bet on yourself, if there is someone you need to trust that is yourself, don't look further, stop looking for what is missing in your life... success is happening now, keep believing, keep dreaming and keep working hard.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU KNEW YOU WILL SUCCEED?

What would you do if deep inside in your heart you just knew you're going to succeed? what would you do if there is no doubt in your mind? how would you live your life if you already knew your dreams were yours? I'm sure you're going to work harder and move faster, I'm sure you're going to go all in and do whatever it takes to win. I'm sure your efforts will be all time high and you will become relentless. Because the main reason why you're exerting a mediocre effort is because you don't believe enough that you're going to succeed. You just believe it in a period of time and when the going gets tough you're already doubting yourself and entertaining your fears. You have to believe from the beginning to the end. There's no need to doubt yourself if you're going all in. There's no need to worry anymore if you will push yourself to the limits and destroy all the boundaries. 

AVOID THE PUSH AND PULL GAME

Today you are going to push and the next day you're going to pull because you can't see results, you're pulling away from your goal because you feel that it is too impossible. And that's the main reason why you're not leveling up... you're not decided, you're not committed, you're not willing to go all in, you're so afraid to fail, you're so afraid to get tired and get nothing, you're so afraid that all of your efforts will be wasted. Set a standard, make sure you follow your own standards everyday, don't sleep until you finally give everything you've got. Focus is the key here, you have to take it one step at a time, all of your energy and time should go to your goal. 

BE A FAN OF YOURSELF.

You should be a fan of your work, be a fan of your own journey. If you would idolize yourself how strong your work ethic should be? how will you live? how will you carry yourself? you should play on a different level, you should operate on a different matrix. If you would look at yourself from a distance how do you want to look? how do you want to work? are you going to stay the same as what you are now? or are you going to exert a very strong effort?  

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PREPARE THE COUNTER THOUGHT ALL THE TIME

Your thoughts is what creates your life. The uglier your thoughts the uglier your life will be, destructive thoughts creates a destructive life, if your mind is always wandering then you will get lost. But if you're focused on what you want then you will achieve your goals faster. It's a necessity to entertain only the thoughts that empowers you. It's a must to think all the time about the reality that you want to manifest. One positive thought at a time, make a commitment, do this all day long and see the transformation in your life. It's not that easy but it's possible, always discipline yourself to ignore all the negativity may it be small or big, ignore the useless thoughts because it will never help you in your life. Trust the power of thinking big, trust the magic that it can bring into you life. 

AWARENESS IS THE KEY

Always be aware of what you're thinking, your thoughts will create actions, your thoughts will make your body work. So if you're thinking about negative thoughts then your body won't work the right away, you will become slow, a little bit sick and unproductive. But if you're thinking right then you will become more motivated, productive and energetic. So be aware all the time of what you are thinking, don't just live this day allowing unwanted thoughts to take over. Every time you think negative think about positive, every time you think about failing think about succeeding, every time you think about going down think about going up. It's too simple, just take time to master countering the negative thoughts and your life will change. Be aware 24/7, don't blink, don't stop, be mindful and always stay committed to entertaining the best thoughts that you can ever produce. Guard your thoughts, guard your actions and go to the opposite of negativity. Always contradict the negative thought, whenever your worried feel hopeful, whenever you're scared act like a brave man, think that you can't do it. Even if you really don't feel positive... just talk about positivity, think about positive thoughts until you finally believe it. 

IT'S TOO EASY

Everything will become easy if you have a healthy mind. Resistance will go if you learn to trust and let go. Everything will be alright you don't need to worry anymore. It's too easy if you will entertain the right thoughts that will give you a motivation to keep going. It's not hard, just think positive all the time. Even if there is a crisis, even if you're struggling, even if you're losing... choose to think positive and everything will become easier. Because it's your mind, you can control it. Never let anything control it, you have to use your willpower to reprogram your thinking so that you will never go to a worse situation. Remind yourself that your thoughts are always in control of your reality so if your reality sucks right now it means you're not using the right thoughts. It's time to get rid of the negativity and focus on the thoughts that really empowers you.

FOCUS ON MOVING FORWARD

If you're focus is to move forward no matter what then you will have no time for any negative thoughts. If it's not moving forward towards your goal then don't even bother to engage with it. You have to be aware of what's going on with your life. Most people were not aware of what's going on with their lives and that's why they automatically think negative. Once you caught yourself not moving forward... stop what you're doing immediately and do something that is positive and helpful. Don't waste your time because it will backfire at you in the end. The more time you waste the uglier your situation will become. Moving forward is already a direction, you don't need a well detailed or organized plan if your mindset it to just move forward. If you fail try again, if someone rejects you just move forward, if you didn't get what you want just move forward, if you're struggling just move forward. Moving forward will make you think positive, it will make you hopeful and will give you more energy. Always remember that for as long as you're moving forward... you will be alright, there's nothing else to worry about. This mindset will save you from any struggles you've been facing. 

THOUGHTS CAN BE CONTROLLED

Depression, insanity, mental disorder, paranoia, craziness... these mental diseases can be controlled if you're aware all the time. You can focus on the more positive thoughts, you can focus on images that will make your mental game stronger. Just don't think about failing, just don't think about your heart being broken, just don't think about loneliness... think about the thoughts that will make you feel a little better. negativity will create insanity, be aware of what's going on inside of your head, you can control your mind if you will stay present and disciplined. Your mental health will become stronger if you're aware of what's running inside of your mind and if you know the thoughts that you must entertain. It's all about using your willpower, never give up, keep pushing your mind to greatness, keep controlling your mind to avoid negativity. It's only hard in the beginning but once you get use to it... it will become very easy. 

DAMN THE USELESS

It's not the lack of skill, time, help or money that makes you a failure. It's you doing a lot of useless and nonsense things. It's better to be grinding and getting small rewards than doing something that is fun but making your life worse. Damn the useless, ignore the things that has no rewards, you know what are these things, stop pretending that you're doing the right thing all the time. Just because it is fun, easy and comfortable doesn't mean you're on the right path. Be aware of the nonsense things, feel guilty if you're wasting your time and achieving nothing. Damn the useless, make yourself productive, make your life more meaningful, have a purpose. 

THERE IS A THOUGHT FOR EVERY ACTION

You are thinking every time you move, the question is are you thinking consciously or subconsciously? Are you on an auto pilot mode? because if you are then most of the time you don't like what you're doing, you're doing it because your mind is controlling you. But if you are thinking consciously then it means you are in control and you can stop what you are doing now if you need to. There is a thought attached for every action, make sure you are attaching the right thoughts for all of your actions. For example if you are procrastinating, you must think that you're killing yourself. Most of the time you're loving procrastinating because it's too easy, you are attaching the wrong thought every time you procrastinate, you think that it's alright, you think that you can do it tomorrow. But if you are attaching it with thoughts such as "I must move", "this is not right", "I am wasting a lot of time", "I will be in big trouble later if I don't move" then you will be force to move and do the right thing. 

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THE OPPORTUNITY IS THERE BUT THE QUESTION IS ARE YOU WILLING TO TAKE IT?

Sometimes the thing you are dreaming of already manifested into your life, it's right in front of you, all you have to do is claim it but for whatever reason you're pretending that you didn't see it. You're so frightened to claim it, you're thinking too much. You think it's not the right time, you think you don't deserve it, you think you're going to fail, you think you're too greedy and ambitious and that's why the opportunity runs away. Are you willing to take the risk? are you willing to lose something just to get it? 

DEVOUR THE CHANCE

Take the chance if it's showing up, stop being a coward, show them that you have the balls to win and can take anything. Maybe it's your last chance, maybe it's the best opportunity, maybe it's really for you, maybe it's the one you've been waiting for. Somebody will take it if you don't take it now, someone will steal it from you and you will ask yourself why didn't you take it when you have a chance. It's because you're thinking too much, your mind is entertaining frightful situations that are not even real. Don't ever think that there is another chance later and that you are allowed to take anything for granted, you have to take the chance now and treat it like it's the only chance you have because you never know what may happen tomorrow. Stop playing it safe and always take the risk, face your fears and live in the moment. 

DON'T SEARCH FOR THE FLAWS

The reason why you can't get what you want is because you already saw it but you're still looking for the flaws, you're still looking for reasons why you don't like it, you're thinking what might went wrong or what is the worse thing that could happen if you take it. Every path is the right path, everything you do is good for as long as it is related to a bigger and positive thing. Don't search for your mistakes, don't look for the negative consequences of your decision. Because any path will never become perfect, every decision is not perfect, there will always be something that will make you think that it's not right but that's normal, just keep plodding because if you persevere enough and work hard then what seems to look wrong will look right one day. You have to make a stand, stand for your decision and never change it because of difficulties. 

EVERY DECISION IS THE RIGHT DECISION

Every step is the right step, every move is the right move. For as long as your intention goes to the original plan... you are right. Don't be afraid to make mistakes because you are still right. There is nothing wrong with what you did, sometimes it's only looking wrong because you're always judging yourself. So allow yourself to take action now and never regret everything you did, the mindset should be to always move forward and stop wasting time thinking about what might went wrong. You will never become perfect even if you're a genius, allow yourself to make mistakes, allow yourself to fail big time... this kind of mindset will make you take every opportunity being presented. 

IT'S ALREADY THERE

You already saw the girl of your dreams the question is are you willing to take her? are you willing to face your fears and ask for her number? the house that you've been seeking for already shown on the internet but the question is are you willing to get it? are you willing to become scared of losing a lot of money just to get it? Are you willing to do the step by step process even if it's hard? are you willing to spend a lot of time and energy on it? The job interview is calling but it's raining so hard, are you willing to get wet just to get there? 

DON'T BE SCARED OF THE COMMENTS OF OTHER PEOPLE

Sometimes your decision was being affected by the comments of other people, you're letting them get into your head. Anything that they say is affecting you, you easily get discouraged by their stories, you're letting their inputs poison your mind. Words such as "why do that?", "it's too risky", "it's too hard", "no one has ever done that", "it's not practical", "you're being to arrogant and ambitious". Never let their words affect your mentality because you will never get what you want by allowing them to interfere. What people say to you is none of your business, the only business you should be dealing with is your own goals and dreams. Focus on taking actions and never give up, as simple as that. You know what to do so do it, stop thinking too much because it will only create unnecessary stress. 

BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN SUCCEED NO MATTER WHAT

Believe that you can overcome anything, believe that no matter what the odds are... you will stick to the end and win in your own way. The only thing that matters is now, not what the future holds, not what happened in the past. Take it one step at a time and believe that you can succeed no matter what. So matter what the struggles are, even if you're badly lost and committing a lot of mistakes... keep your head up and don't ever give up. It's hard but you can't quit, you have to keep going no matter what. Because problems are all part your journey, without problems there will be no success. Decide now that you're going to take it and overcome all the obstacles along the way. No need to think, no need to worry, let the games begin and have fun with the process. Every obstacle is the way, stop what is stopping you, scare what is scaring you, threaten what threatens you, you have to be brave, just do your best and you will thrive. 

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MORE TIME FOR YOURSELF

Greatness is asking you to have more time for yourself. Stop playing around too much, stop watching other people's lives too much and give more time for yourself. Groom yourself, make yourself better, make yourself stronger and smarter... that's all you need to do. You're too busy doing something stupid like following other people's journey, you're studying them, you're watching them, you come to the point where you don't like yourself anymore. You're not excited with your own life and that's stopping you from improving and living a happier life. Stop thinking about things outside of you, have more time studying yourself and doing something that will make you at least .001% better than yesterday. Your time should be used for yourself only, don't give it away easily to other things and events that will not even make you better. 

MORE TIME FOR YOUR GOALS

More time for your goals means more time for yourself, it means you're living your life for you and not for everyone else. Your time is so precious, why are you giving it away easily? why are you spending too much time for nonsense people and things that are pushing you down? Be smart, use your time wisely because time is money, time is opportunity, time is improvement. Use your time very well and never let it be used by some random people or entertainment that will only make your life worse. 

YOUR VALUE WILL GO HIGH IF YOU'RE ALWAYS UNAVAILABLE

It's not that you're isolating yourself just to make them feel that you're hard to get. It's not that you're acting like a superstar, it's just that you really don't have time for stupidity and useless activities, it's just that your time was focused on trying to chase something greater than common things. Don't agree going to parties that fast, don't let them get you so fast because you have something better things to do. Make them think if they can get you or not, don't show up all the time to meaningless events and gatherings, you need to make yourself unavailable not because you're playing hard to get but because you're using your time to make yourself much better than yesterday.

NEVER REGRET GOING ALL IN

Never regret that you become selfish with your time, never regret that you push so hard and give your all yet fail in the end. It's ok, you can try again next time, it's not about winning or losing, it's about not giving up and fighting until the end. Going all in is the best thing you can do for your life, it's like giving yourself a chance to succeed, it's committing to your goal, it's not being afraid whether you lose or succeed. And even if you fail, at least you really know how to fail, some people are failing without even know how to fail, what's the meaning of this? they don't know how to really fight, they didn't give their best, they didn't push themselves to the limits. All they do is wait and do nothing. 

STAY IRRELEVANT

Stay irrelevant to what the majority is doing. Stop joining their gossips, stop joining their nonsense games. Make yourself invisible and focus on your goals. Stop giving your opinions, stop criticizing, stop posting on your social media, confuse them with your silence and shock them with your results. Make the guess what you are doing, never mind who is thriving and who isn't just focus on your journey and be the best that you can be. There is a time for being loud, there is a time for grind, there is a time for being silent. Choose what is your time, choose what helps you the most. So what if they don't care about you? so what if they're not talking about you? it's ok, your goal is not to become popular but to find greatness and become successful as you can be. They can have all the good times, you can all have the boring times but in the end let's see whose hands will be raised. Because at the end of the day, success is not about feeling good, it's about embracing the hard times and pushing forward no matter what. 

THE LEVEL OF DISCIPLINE IS SECOND TO NONE

If you don't want to do it then fine but don't do something else. Don't do something that is not relevant to success because it will poison your mind, it will create bad habits, it's better to not do anything at all than to do something that will put you on a worse position. Not doing anything will not affect your position that much but doing stupid things... it will drain a lot of your energy. So stay disciplined and only do the things that will give you an advantage. Accept that it will really take a lot of strong focus to achieve your goals. You need to act like a soldier, you need to be fast, you need to get rid of all the BS in your life if you want to get ahead. Be better than yesterday, that's what it is all about. 

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SMALL OR BIG (ABUNDANCE IS THE KEY)

What you have depends on how you see it. It depends on how you feel about it. What is big can become small if you don't appreciate it, what is small can become very big if you will feel good about it and be thankful. There's no small or big, it all depends on the level of your appreciation, if you are appreciative enough of what you have then you will never get jealous with other people who have more than you. Practice being appreciative everyday, focus on what you have and not on what you don't have. It's ok to want more but don't ever feel bad if you can't have what you're dreaming of. Dream about it, work for it and relax, don't feel needy, don't ever feel less because if you have a state of abundance then more things will manifest into your life, as simple as that. 

YOU ARE TOO BLESSED TO COMPLAIN

Look at your life, there are plenty of things to be thankful of. What you have is enough, most people are dying to have what you have. You're too blessed to complain, look at the people who have lesser than you so that you will feel blessed. Count your blessings and you will realize how lucky you are. Complaining is the game of victim, do you have a victim mentality or a winning mindset? it's up to you how you react on different things. Open your eyes and never fall into the trap of lacking, elevate your mindset, count your blessings now and treat them all like the precious things on earth. 

FOCUS IS THE KEY

Focus on gratitude, put your energy on a space of thankfulness and appreciation. Never think about the things and people that you don't want to attract. Never entertain thoughts that makes you feel bad. Focus on being great. It's a 24 hour activity, focus on what you want and stop looking at the things that's not motivating at all. Because focusing on the negative will give you a negative life, that's the worst thing to do. 

THE MORTAL SIN IS...

Comparing, this is the worst mortal sin that you should avoid. You will always feel the lack if you count other people's bread. Why compare? it doesn't matter if they're richer or more beautiful than you. You have your own path and timing, you have your own life, what you have is enough. Not comparing yourself to others is the real abundance, not envying other people's success is the real confidence. Be happy of what you have, that's the key. Comparing is for the losers, why will you compare if you can simple appreciate all the things you have in your life. Comparing is the number one game of bitter people, they can't stop themselves comparing because they were so insecure and doesn't believe in their own capabilities. 

DON'T MISS THE CHANCE

There is an opportunity everyday, a blessing is knocking on your door everyday. It's either you see it or you miss it. Get excited because you will never live forever, everyday is a chance to become happy, everyday is a chance to experience a new type of experience, devour every second, never take anything for granted. The chance to become happy is now, never lose the opportunity. Look for the smallest thing you can appreciate and focus on it. The appreciation will keep getting better as you move forward. 

MAKE IT A GAME

To find abundance on anything you see, make it a game to appreciate your life everyday, make a game to find something to be thankful of everyday instead of choosing to become bitter and envy. Be aware if you're getting jealous with other people. If you lost today, look for some other areas in your life where you are winning. If you didn't like what happened, try to find something that is still good in your life. There are plenty of things to be thankful of. You're suffering because you're always focused on what you don't have. Real abundant mindset is always looking at the glass half full instead of half empty. What's missing in your life is not the only thing that can make you happy. Never think that what you don't have defines you or completes you. You can look at some other things and focus on it, your focus is your reality. If you can't hear what you don't want to hear, if you can't see what you don't want to see then you will attract the things that makes you feel happier. It's hard to do it but it's possible, it's just a matter of repetition and conditioning your mind everyday. 

NEVER BELITTLE WHAT YOU HAVE

Be proud of what you have, what you have is all you have. Even if it's small, even if it's cheap... be proud of it. If your mama bought you a fake Air Jordan wear it, if you only have a small house be proud of it. If you can only take your girlfriend to a cheap motel, take her. If you can only do little things... do it, if you can only afford to buy cheap clothes so be it. Be proud of what you have and never mind what people say or think of you. Let them judge you, let them make fun of you but don't ever feel inferior, always be on a state of abundance. What you have is enough, don't complain, don't blame your parents, don't blame your misfortune... be appreciative, feel good about everything you have. 

WHAT FEELS MUCH BETTER?

How do you feel when you're treating what you have so small? how do you feel when you're always criticizing yourself? how do you feel when you're counting yourself out instead of giving yourself a chance to win? But how do you feel when you think you can do it? how do you feel when you think you can get it? Pick what feels much better, always give yourself a chance to become triumphant, always think that you are deserving. 

FOCUS ON WHAT'S LEFT IN YOUR LIFE

You're not living your life the right way, you're focusing on what's missing, you're focusing on the past and that's why you're not happy, that's why you're living in misery. There is something left in your life and you've got to focus on these things if you want to have a better life. Focus on what's there and not on what's not there. Stop looking for the things that you can't bring back anymore, there are some things that you can't have anymore but you're still clinging on to it. Accept the fact that what you have is all you have, accept the fact that there are some areas in your life that you can't change anymore. Appreciate what you have and you will have more of it. You have a lot left in your life, there are things that you can be thankful of, you just need to open your eyes and stop looking for what is missing in your life. The present moment is all you got, forget the past, forget what may happen, focus on the present moment and try to make it magical. 

THE REAL JOURNEY

The real journey is focusing on your life, focusing on what you have left. Guarding your brain and guarding your actions, it's simply being disciplined enough to use all of your energy only for you. Stop thinking about someone else, stop worrying about the things outside of your control. You will love your life more if you keep on using your time and energy for your own life. Make sure everything you do has a purpose, don't do something for the sake of having fun, don't do something because it is easy, do something because it will make your life better in the future. The real journey is you seeing yourself, seeing what's happening in your life and doing something about it. It's you controlling your emotions and thoughts, it's you making the right decisions that will put you on a better position in life. Watch what's happening in your life, watch everything and try to be the best version of yourself... that's how to win in life. Look no further because the real journey is you, don't look for other people's lives, it's none of your business if they're thriving or losing, what matters is you focus on your own life and you do whatever it takes to win. You can have a lot of fun with your own journey, just don't look too far and be in the moment, be present and always be aware of what's going on with your mind. Appreciate the grind, appreciate the struggle and always believe that better days are ahead of you. You just need to stop thinking about quitting and keep moving forward all the time even if progress is out of sight. So face every challenge of life and never back down, stop looking for immediate results so that you won't get disappointed... take actions every second and feel excited what is about to come. 

IT'S ALL ABOUT THE FEELINGS

Happiness is just a feeling, it's not about cars or money or fame, it's about how you feel. Many people have everything but they can't become happy, it's because they can't see what they have, they can't appreciate their situation. You can feel good having nothing, for me this is the best mindset, this is the real abundant mindset, you can attract a lot of things if you're happy having nothing because you will treat everything as a blessing, you will appreciate the smallest things that will come into your life. You can control your feelings, this what most people don't know, you can control your emotions by shifting thoughts from negative to positive. Be aware of what you're thinking and you will be able to choose the feelings that you want. Positive thoughts equals positive emotions, as simple as that. It's impossible to feel positive all the time but you can guard your thoughts and filter negativity to lessen the times of feeling negative. It's easy to neutralize a negative emotion, just stay calm and stop thinking about it, choose an opposing thought... something that's not making you feel worse. 

GETTING JEALOUS IS BRINGING YOU DOWN

If you want to feel happier stop getting jealous with other people's lives and focus on your own life, that's the real secret. Happiness cannot be achieved if you will always look at what other people are doing, if you will always compare your life with other people's lives. Count your own bread, focus on your own actions, never mind what they are doing because they were irrelevant to your success. If you're always comparing yourself then you're not owning your life, you're letting them control your feelings, don't focus on what is lacking and try to make what is present grow, try to make what you have bigger than yesterday. The key is to appreciate your small properties and make it grow each day, work on it, feed it, put some energy onto it. Getting jealous is for the weak, it's for people who has no confidence in themselves, if you really believe that you can do something great then you will never get jealous just for once, you will focus on your own thing and become successful as you can be. 

Count your blessings and you won't get jealous anymore, it's simply about being happy with what you have and not counting other people's properties. Be satisfied of what you have, you can ask for more but you have to work for it, don't wish for it. If you don't want to work so hard then just be satisfied of what you have so you won't feel envy. Never include other people to your equation, it's all about you, it's you trying to become happy, it's you fighting, it's you processing everything, other people were just accessories... they're not part of the main thing. 

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IT'S NOT THE TALENT, IT'S THE MINDSET

In life, it's not how talented you are, it's not how gifted or blessed you are... it's about your mindset. It's how strong your mind is, it's how you think correctly. How many people you know were so talented enough but didn't make it in life? how many strong potentials were crushed and didn't even see its full potential? I know you know someone who has a lot of hype behind him but didn't even make it close. I know you heard a lot of stories about could have been or should have been but these stories were all about regrets. It's not about ow good you are, it's about what you can prove. It's not about how lucky you are... it's about how hard you are willing to grind. It's not about winning or losing, it's about not giving up. Are you willing to work hard even if you don't know how long you need to work? are you willing to give your all? most talented people thinks they deserve more but they are only willing to give less and that's why they always come up short. 

THE ABILITY TO KEEP PUSHING

You have no other choice here, you can't choose an easier path if you will, you can't choose something that promises guaranteed success because it's not real. Your identity should be a man who does it all. Keep pushing even if nothing is working because eventually something will click in the long run. Your mindset should be all about looking for possibilities and taking chances, keep pushing until you can't push anymore and let's see what you can get. Because at the end of the day you have to outwork these bums if you want to win in life, you can't be lazy if there are no results showing, you have to push even more if you can't get what you want. Create an opportunity if there is no opportunity, have no time for nonsense and focus on your own work. It is what it is, it's really going to get harder especially if you're dreaming about lofty dreams. The ceiling is high so the work you put in must also be high. You can't be dreaming about big things but only willing to give a half ass effort. It's all about trying again for one more time, stop listening to what other people say and just push... there's no time for quitting, there's no time for whining... just push and never mind the results. Because if you will forget the outcome then you will become free, you will move faster, your mind will think sharper. The reason why there is a lot of resistance is because you're too focused on the outcome, forget what will happen and just give your all. 

GREATNESS IN YOUR OWN DEFINITION

Greatness was talked about by everyone all the time. They want to become great, they create a definition of greatness and most people were buying into the narrative that greatness has a specific definition. The truth is you can define your own greatness, you can become great today if you fit your own definition. To me greatness is simply focus, it's pushing forward no matter what and not stopping until you win. It doesn't matter if they tell you that you're not great, what matters is you don't stop and you keep on sacrificing to push your life to another level. For me greatness is simply not stopping, it's a life style, it's a way of life, it's what you do with what you have and trying to get more without comparing yourself to others. You do it your way, you don't care about what people say, you simply do whatever it takes to win even if it will make you super exhausted. So stop comparing yourself to others, stop getting jealous with what other people are getting and create your own definition of greatness, you will only become great if you keep going further, focus on yourself, focus on your actions. Every move will contribute to your greatness, every positive thought will help you so stop being negative and dare to become great. Give your all, you know if you're giving your all, you can lie to the people but your numbers won't. It will be seen through your work ethic. The big question is... is your work ethic enough to take you to the next level? 

SHOW YOUR HEART

You're not showing your heart that's why you can't win yet, you have to show then what you are made of, show them the heart of a lion, a heart that never give up, a heart that will push until the end. Show them what it's like to have a heart of a warrior. Don't ever think about quitting and focus on fighting, if you really want it then what the hell are you waiting for? you have to take massive actions now, be relentless as you can be. Focus on your own life, focus on doing something every second. Time is running, time will never wait for you. You will be left behind if you are slow. Go all out and never ever stop until you finally make it. Show them how big your heart is, dare to do the impossible because it's worth it. Test yourself how big you can be, test your heart, test your willpower. Is your hear big enough to take the beating? is your heart enough to endure defeats? is your heart big enough to try again after a huge disappointment? 

YOU WILL MOVE FORWARD NO MATTER WHAT

Sometimes you feel not progressing at all, sometimes you feel being stuck in a mud but you will move forward no matter what, you will be able to make some small progress. It's just a matter of pushing and forcing, you need to push even if your situation sucks, you need to force yourself to move even if it's too repetitive already. Just because you can't see a small result for now doesn't mean you will never get it. Of course you will get it, it's only just a matter of time. Every action is helping you, every movement is making you better. Just because you can't see it doesn't mean it's not there, you will experience a breakthrough, you will move forward no matter what. 

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DON'T WAIT, CHANGE YOUR FATE

Force fate, this is the only path, you have to give everything you've got even if it takes giving your happiness, give everything, don't make any reservations. If you're so sick and tired of your life now then you've got to do something, execute, form a new strategy, and even if you have no strategy at all... just take actions and go for what you really want. You have to choose only one, is it your peace or is it your dream? because you're not going to have a peace if you're chasing your dream. It is what it is, life is going to get harder and harder each day, there will be no days off, there will be no excuses allowed, you have to keep growing and growing. There's no time for waiting because it's the number one habit of losers... they keep on waiting and waiting until the opportunity is already gone. You have to be aggressive, stay on the attack mode. Always go for the kill, have that killer instinct, go all out all the time and change your fate. Tenacity is the key here, you have to go all the way if you want to experience greatness in your life. 

HOW TO STOP HESITATING

Expect to win all the time, always remember that you can win every time you try. Have that winner's mindset but don't ever feel bad if you didn't win. Just decide that you're going to do it and avoid expecting too much, expect to win but never put your emotions. Being emotional will make you hesitant to do it because you're already attached with the result. Hesitation will lead to procrastination and procrastination will lead to forever inaction, you have to do it even if you feel uncomfortable, push your body and push your mind. Forget about how you feel and just do it. If you will just focus on the now, focus on what you can do now and forget the results then you will never hesitate. Just fall in love with the process, fall in love with the experience of life. Don't worry about the struggles, don't worry about the pain, it's all part of life. That's the beauty of life... so unpredictable and unknown, life can give you everything or take everything away from you, it all depends on how you live it. 

LAZINESS BREEDS INSECURITY

You can never change if you're lazy. What's wrong with you? why can't you move? why can't you at least do something that will make your life better? why not add something into your personality that will create confidence? you're insecure because you're not willing to work hard. But if you will prioritize hard work and making yourself better then you will feel much better, confidence will soar high, insecurity will go away. Try chasing a goal for one year and really working hard to get it and let's see if your confidence doesn't improve. You're not confident at all because you're too focused on other people's lives instead of trying to improve yourself. Work as hard as you can and try to chase the impossible, this mindset will change your life, it will change your perspective, you will see the world through your own eyes, nothing can make you feel inferior. 

BELIEVE THAT YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE

The reason why you can't change is because you think you have a lot of lives, you think you're a cat with 9 lives, you think you can live forever that's why you don't have a sense of urgency, you're always taking your life for granted, you're always letting opportunities get away. Believe that you only have one life, believe that your life is special and that you need to take actions right away to see what you are made of. 

NOT DOING STUPID IS ALSO PROGRESSING

It's ok if you're not making any results, it's ok if you keep getting zero everyday but just don't do something stupid. Don't do something that will derail your progress even more. These small actions are critical, if you can just stop wasting time for stupid entertainment then you will be able to conserve your energy and brain cells for something more important later. The reason why you feel lesser energy is because you already used your strength for useless activities that will not even give you a small improvement. Don't do anything stupid, just stay still if you're thinking about doing something that will honestly eat your time and waste your energy. Staying still for a second or a few minutes is much better than looking at your enemy's facebook or high school crush's profile, it's much better than stalking other people because it will never drain your energy, it will never play with your mind, you will not absorb any toxic information. Because the truth is... any image or information that doesn't improve you is so toxic. 

DON'T FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE POWER OVER WITH

The only things that you have power with is your actions and thoughts and nothing else. You will be able to improve the outcome of your life if you're focusing on using thoughts that will help you to make a progress. Every second you are thinking, the question is are you thinking right? thoughts are things, you need to care only about the thoughts that will give you confidence and motivation. You are not giving yourself a favor every time you think about negative things. You are only making your situation worse every time you worry, you are only killing your journey every time you think about other people's lives. Stop thinking about them, never mind what they are doing or thinking, you have your own life now, the only thing that you must care about is how to become better each day and that's it. Stop complicating your life by focusing on what you don't control. Let go of the garbage that are not helping you at all. 

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WASTE THEIR TIME

If you want to become successful you must learn how to waste their time. Success nowadays will be determine by who can eat the time of others. Meaning you need to get interesting, you need to make them watch you, as simple as that. It doesn't matter if they like you or hate you, what matters is you're getting a lot of attention... as simple a that. Look at Jake Paul, he is so successful even if there are lot of haters surrounding him, it's because he draws a lot of attention, he is wasting a lot of people's time. You become valuable if you can make them waste their time for you. Because it means that you can entertain them, you are interesting and you're something to be watched. Make them get addicted to you, that's the only thing you need to do, make them follow your journey and you will become rich and successful. That's what entertainer does... to fool a lot of people and make the people believe that they love their followers. 

DON'T GIVE YOUR TIME AWAY FOR THEM

Own your time, make it yours only, never let someone or something eat your time without getting some benefits from it. Make sure you don't give your time for free. Don't give away your time for any drama or stupid information that will not even make you a better person. Discipline yourself, discipline your mind, if you want a different result then don't give your time for free because it's the most valuable thing in your life, it's running out, your time is limited, it will run out in the future so don't ever give it to something that will make your life worse. Your time should only be use for your growth, don't ever use it for any baloney information that will poison your mind. Treat your time like money, are you just going to burn it without getting something in return. Your time is precious and irreplaceable for you to give it for free. Think deeper, think smarter. Don't give your time away for stupid parties, drinking sessions, rubbing elbows with people that are not real friends, impressing people that you don't even like etc. You are the one who should be wasting their time, you're the one who should be getting watched. Stop watching what they're doing, stop thinking about other people's lives and focus on your own life, focus on your own journey.

Protect your time, use it for your own good, use it to grow and never use it to destroy yourself or become worse. Because every second you are either growing or getting worse. Be aware of your thoughts and actions, use time to make yourself better and better. There is something you can do at the moment that will make your life better, look for it and do it, as simple as that. You don't need to do something big, you just need to do the right thing, look for actions that will give you a potential to become the person you wanted to be. 

Stop getting interested with an influencer because you too can be like that, you too can become a clown and earn some money, stop getting interested with people and get interested with your own goals and ambitions, be very selfish with your time if you want to get on top, as simple as that. Always remember that he who can eat a lot of time from other people is the one who's winning in life, and if you're the one who's giving more of your time then you are losing and going down. Yeah, it's fun to give away your time but it will backfire at you in the end, you will see yourself losing and drowning in failure because you didn't discipline yourself to become better each day. You can have fun when you're already successful, you can rest when you already made it to the top, but for now... be selfish with your time and use it only to put yourself on the better position to succeed. Discipline is the key, delaying gratification is very powerful... it is the path to freedom and success. 

BE FAKE (advice to someone who wants to become popular)

This is what you need to do, be fake, do what the people wanted to see. Say what the people wanted to hear, it's hard to become real nowadays because being real will never create a huge following. These people were easy to fool, wear some fancy clothes, make them addicted to you, make a noise, pretend that you're something you are not. Remember, the formula here is to make them give their time to you, it's so simple, the more time you get from them the more money you will get. These people were not feeling bad wasting their time, they think they have a lot of it and that's why they don't feel guilty giving their time for other people that will not even do the same for them. Be fake as much as you can and you will be rewarded. Prepare yourself to become a clown if you need to, embrace the hate because there will be a lot of haters if you're making an impact, prepare to hear the harshest words. 

Look at those celebrities.... they're all fake, they don't care. All they care about is fame and money. They really don't love their fans because if they do then they will invite all of their fans to their birthday parties, but they will not do it because all they care about is fame, they will never give back. They will never lift a finger for you, they will not even hesitate to snob you if you're alone in the streets. 

Create some gimmicks, make yourself interesting, do what other people haven't done yet. Separate yourself from the crowd, create some dramas, make sure people will tune in to your brand, the more fake you are the more they will love you, as simple as that. It's easy to fool these fools, make them waste their time for you, make them poor while you are getting richer and richer, it is what it is, this is how to get on top... make them waste their time, trick them, make them addicted to your stupidity. 

CHANGE IS ALL ABOUT HABITS

It's not the results that will make you feel you already changed, it's not getting something bigger... it's in the habits. If you want to experience change then you must change your habits. A little tweak on everything you do will make you feel something changed in your life. It can be simply working for longer hours, believing in yourself more, doing more, disciplining yourself more, cutting all the BS, ignoring some of your toxic friends etc. It can be done now, change can happen now if you will stop doing what you're doing yesterday. It's too simple. Just be faster, harder, more committed and changed already take place. Some people think that it's about money, making results, winning etc. They are complicating change, change is not fast, it will happen gradually, it needs time that's why you need to focus on what you want and stop doing stupid things that will derail your progress. Change is patience, you need to take it one step at a time, be consistent or else it will never take place, you will go back to zero if you're not patient, it's like taking care of a baby, you need to be mindful every second, be aware of what's going on if you don't want to fail. 

STRESS IS THE DETERMINANT OF CHANGE

If it's hard then it means change is already taking place. If it's easy then you're the same bum as yesterday, as simple as that. You can't be doing the same thing and expect to improve. There are levels to this game, as the level goes harder the problems become harder too, you can't choose an easy route because it will never make you grow. Whenever you're feeling bad or anxious because working on yourself... that's a good sign, you're already changing. Whenever you're pushing yourself, that's already changing. So keep pushing and see what is possible if you discipline yourself, make a plan and follow it even if it's not working. You have to make sacrifices, you have to pick the right choices. 

MAKE IT SLOW

Don't rush it, building a very good habit takes time. You need to be mindful, awareness is the key, knowing what you're doing every second is essential to make the habit stay forever. Human beings were known for auto pilot actions, we're doing what we're doing because we already did it a thousand times, we don't think anymore while doing it. Change doesn't need to be fast, and you can't make it happen by being fast. You don't need to compete with others, you need to compete against your old self. Break your records in the past, do more than yesterday, make sure you are getting a little bit better. It doesn't matter if the improvement is so small, what matters is you are improving. If you only improved .008% then be happy because it's still a progress. Keep pushing all the time, you have to watch yourself, be mindful all the time of your actions and thoughts.

AVOID FEELING GOOD ALL THE TIME

You're too addicted to good feelings and that's why you can't change. Comfort will never give you any changes. Your mind should be stronger than your emotions. Your mind should be in control not your emotions. Because your emotions is always telling you to stop and just take the safest path, your emotions will tell you to rest a little bit even if you're not tired yet, your emotions is always telling you to do the opposite of what mind is telling. Your mind should think the right way, it should give the right instructions and your body must follow it all the time. Your emotions is so overrated, you're prioritizing it too much and that's why you're so stuck in your ugly position. 

DETACH FROM THE PAST

Stop labeling yourself as the person in the past. Stop thinking that you're not good enough, stop thinking that you're not lucky. Create a new identity, stop dealing with the past and deal with what's going on now. Don't feel guilty if you did a lot of mistakes in the past, it is what it is, you can never change it anymore even if you kill ten chickens, accept it and move on. Welcome the new opportunities that will come into your life, forget everything. Forget your first love, forget your failures, forget your high school crush, forget all the embarrassment, forget your dirty thoughts, and see a new you. Thinking about past is very addictive, it's making you feel good a little bit but it will never help you. You have to create a new identity. Speak better, choose new words, think of yourself as someone who's more mature and will do the right things this time. 

DON'T DO IT FOR THEM, DO IT FOR YOURSELF

Sometimes you wanted to change because you want to impress people, you want to prove to them that you're good too, you want to change their opinions about you, and that's why you can't make a change. Change should be done for yourself. Do it for the love of yourself, don't do it because you're competing or trying to change their minds and perspective about you. If you will do it for yourself then the resistance will go, you will feel self love, the evolution will become faster. Don't be afraid to go all in, don't be afraid to take massive actions. It doesn't matter how long will it take to become successful... just keep pushing forward no matter what and try to become a little bit better than yesterday. 

LOOK FOR AN ENTERTAINMENT SEDUCING YOU AND STOP ENGAGING WITH IT

If there is an instant pleasure seducing you like watching and NBA finals, or seeing a gossip on the internet... stop engaging, focus on what you're trying to accomplish. It is what it is, you want change right? so learn to make sacrifices, learn how to deal with temptations, avoid them, remind yourself that you're losing a lot of money if you will choose to entertain yourself. Those seconds that you are losing is critical, you think a few minutes will spare you? you think that small breaks every now and then will not affect your journey? wake up, you need all of those seconds and minutes if you want to take your life to another level. Choose sacrifices over instant gratification, yeah you will feel much better if you allow yourself to have fun a little bit but it will pull you down, you will pay the price later, life will become much difficult. So struggle now, feel the pain now, embrace boredom now and reap the rewards of your sacrifices later.