If you really wanted to become great, if you really wanted to become big and successful then stop dreaming now. Most of the time you are wasting your time dreaming about the past and wanting to change it. Most of the time you're thinking about the future and hoping to have a good life. You're dreaming about money, mansions, perfect partner etc. You're dreaming about what you want and you always get mad if you find yourself very far from it.
YOU'RE NOT AWARE THAT YOU'RE JUST DREAMING
Most of the time your actions were all about dreaming, most of the time you're not aware that you're just dreaming. Look at your idol, you wanted to be like him, you wanted to have a life like him... that's dreaming. Getting jealous with other people, that's dreaming. You want what they have, you want to become successful too, you're so bitter, you're dreaming of having an easy life too but all you do is dream about it, you're not doing something to get it. Watching Home TV shopping and dreaming about those things. Watching Porn and dreaming about those ladies. Watching other people doing their thing, that is dreaming too. Surfing the ecommerce website and hoping to have all those nice gadgets. Reading books about fantasies, vampires and millionaire knight and shining armor. Most of the time you're just dreaming and not doing. Most of you time goes to dreaming, you're only using 5 percent of your time for taking actions. It's time to be real, it's time to wake up and chase your dream and not just dream about it. Realize your dream by doing whatever it takes to get it and not thinking all day and praying for it to fall into your hands without suffering.
Dreaming about your high school crush and thinking what you should have done to get here. Dreaming about your neighbor's car and seeing yourself driving it too, dreaming about your boss promoting you. Sight seeing the girls at the mall. Asking the sales lady how much is the expensive shirt being displayed without having the money to buy it. You're doing a lot of foolish moves, there's a lot of stupidity going on with your life and that's why you can't make a progress. Checking for the results, asking your friend about business without the willingness to try, you're always making moves that are half committed. You're not aggressively pursuing your dream and that's why you're stuck on the same place forever.
THE TRUTH IS YOU HAVE TO GET IT
Whether it's an easy way or the hard way... go and get it. But most of the time it will be a hard way, only the lucky people will get what they want without sweating for it. And these lucky people were sons of kings and daughters of business moguls, they were born rich. So stop wishing to get lucky because it will never become real, you have to create your own luck through persistence and relentless work ethic. Nobody will help you to get it, the break will not come unless you attract it, the chance of a lifetime will not show up if you're doing the same thing over and over again. There must be a tiny change, you can just work harder and that's a change already, you can just work faster and focus sharper and that's a change already. Stop looking for a miracle because it will never happen, you have to go and get it... period. Stop worrying, never entertain fear, never think about failing and simply do it. Take it one step at a time, be patient and start taking baby steps right now. Focus on your life, focus on your own journey... be the best that you can be.
Never think about how are you going to get it... just go and get it, every action is the right action. Every step is taking you closer to your goa so don't ever stop, don't ever feel bad every time you fail because it's molding you to become ready for a big time success. Failure is making you stronger and ready so be happy if you're failing now because it means you're getting closer and closer to success, it's only just a matter of time before you win so keep believing and never get tired of working.
VISUALIZE FOR 1 MINUTE THEN ACT
Think about your dream, see the colors of your goal, see yourself getting it, put detail as much as you can, imagine it falling into your hands, do this for one minute then move right away. Stop overthinking how are you going to get it and just move right away. Most people were too busy visualizing and imaging their wants only to find out that they've been doing it all day long and they already forgot how to take actions. Condition your mind but you also have to condition your body, sometimes the mind can't visualize so what are you going to do? sometimes the mind is not thinking right so what are you going to do? just do what you are suppose to do. Forget about what you think, forget about how you feel and just move... as simple as that.
Your mindset should be all about movement, it should be all about taking baby steps and taking it fast. Don't you dare disrespect the power of taking one small action. It is too powerful, just do something positive and follow through and you will go further. You will never get hurt if you try so why not try? the only thing that's stopping you is your fear of failure. You're scared to work hard and fail, you're thinking that your time will be wasted if you work too hard and didn't get anything. But the truth is... you get a lot if you work hard and push yourself to the limits, you get a lot of experience and wisdom, you will discover how strong and great you are. So keep pushing, keep grinding, your life should be all about grind and nothing else.
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Love this article so so much! It resonates a lot thank you for this!
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