We all wanted fast results, fast food, fast cure, fast change fast rise, fast success, fast improvement, fast money, everything fast... that's what we want and if we can't get it... it leads to frustration and depression, it leads to an unmotivated life without direction. If you can't get it fast then it means you have to slow down, I don't mean be lazy and don't do anything, what I mean is you have to be patient and take it one step at a time, avoid looking for shortcuts, avoid wanting to get lucky, just stick with the process and appreciate the small progress that you are getting. It doesn't matter if you're the last who will get it, it doesn't matter if you're so slow, for as long as you're making progress... you will be fine.
IT MEANS YOU HAVE TO GRIND
You have not other choice but to work your ass off, if you're asking for millions then don't give an effort that attracts pennies, you have to show them that you're willing to outwork everyone and be the best that you can be. You have to stop thinking and simply focus on grinding, this is too basic and simple... just work and keep moving forward, never mind if you're not getting yet the desire results... you will get it later. This is grind season, you have to put in a lot of work first before reaping the benefits of your labor. Don't feel bad grinding, don't get overwhelmed with massive actions because it's leading you to the right path. Just grind, forget about being successful fast because it will never happen, wishing for it will only create misery, it will make you lazy which is a very bad thing. Wanting it fast is the mindset of losers, you've got to be patient and technical, you have to wait because you can't force everything.
Grind like hell and you will see heaven, most people want to see the paradise, they want to see success, they want to go to the top of the mountain but they're not willing to climb. You will never go far if you will never go further, you have to push like your dream is the only thing that matters to your life, there's no room for laziness and complaining, there's no time for stupid parties and entertainment. You have to try with all your might, you have to go all in and give everything you can to make your dreams come true. Never care if it's hard, you should forget the difference between hard and easy, you should only know how to work and enjoy process along the way.
Grinding will give you everything so why be afraid of it?
FALL IN LOVE WITH CONSISTENCY
Consistency can make you fast, even if you're slow and weak... if you're doing something everyday you will develop a natural speed, you will be able to master your craft and your skill will go to another level, you will become inhuman, you will be able to create magical things. Consistency is the key to greatness, if you are discipline enough and can force yourself to work even if you don't want to then you will achieve greatness in life. Consistency will surprise you with the results that you will be getting, you will never notice that you're already becoming big. Just trust the process and do whatever it takes to reach the next level, be satisfied with the tiniest result that you may get and keep repeating everyday. Patience and being content with what you're getting is the key. Always maintain the mindset of improvement, always look for the next push, always aim for the next move.
THERE'S NO NEED TO COMPARE YOUR JOURNEY TO OTHER PEOPLE
If you constantly compare your way of living or way of getting things... you will never succeed, jealousy will make you bitter, it will avoid you from focusing your own work. You will become unproductive and will be tempted to make wrong and fast decisions. So what if they're making it fast, this is not a race, this is a marathon. The victory belongs to the most persevering and enduring. Comparing yourself means not believing in yourself, it means you don't want to work hard, you don't believe in hard work and you don't love your own life. You have to love everything about your life including the struggle, pain and imperfections in order to become more motivated so that you can take massive actions. You are a unique individual, your life is unique, you have no duplicate, you need to celebrate your life everyday and see what is possible for you.
PUSHING WILL GET THE JOB DONE
Trust me, if you can push as hard as you can and still go further whenever you feel you have nothing left... the doors will open, you will find the way to success, your struggle will end. So endure the pain right now and always think that all of your hard work will pay off. Just find a way how to push, make this your advocacy, make this your mission. Whenever you find yourself having a hard time in your situation... just keep pushing, you will only be able to change your position if you keep pushing. Staring at other people will never get the job done, feeling weak and doing nothing will make your situation worse so just do whatever it takes to make your position better and that's it.
IGNORE ALL THE DRAMAS
Ignore all the dramas in the world to have more time for yourself and your journey. Ignore the problems of other people, ignore all the situations of other people, ignore their problems, ignore their issues... it's their life, it's none of your business, your only business is yourself and the goal that you are pursuing. Every second is critical to your success, you have to own your time and never ever squander it for nonsense things. Just take it one step at a time, it's ok if you're slow, enjoy every movement and small improvements.