AGAINST THE MAINSTREAM FLOW

This is a one very effective lifestyle that if you mastered will make you happier in life. It will make you faster, it will make your life simpler and easier. You should be against the mainstream flow. You will never do what the majority does, all of them are getting the same results, all of them are living the same way. You need to become different so that you will have a different life. You need to set up your life into something that will make your life easier.

I am a freelancer designer and writer for 7 years. I setup my life according to my way so there is less pressure and stress in my life. I live differently so I get results differently.

I only go to mall during dead hours, I never join the crowd that's why I was able to roam faster because there are less people.

I really choose to work as a freelancer, I prefer to work at home. The income is good too, you will earn as much as you can depending on how hard you work. Having this kind of setup makes me avoid the heavy traffic, I also don't have a boss, my boss is myself. While most people are working in a company... I choose to go the other way, I choose to be against the mainstream flow.

The mob is panicking about the news of economic crisis, they are so scared that they might lose their jobs or their business will fall. Go the other way, go against the mainstream flow. While everyone is scared, choose to be brave, trust that hard work and determination will make you survive. Still do your best and forget about what you heard on TV.

Most people are quitters, they will never do something for a long time especially if it is hard. They will pick an easier path that will only give small rewards. Be different, go against the mainstream flow, never quit even if you fail over and over again. Be a fighter not a quitter. While everyone is quitting you are still trying and giving your best.

Most people are similar, they want to be different but they are not doing something different because of fear. They are so afraid of being judged by other people. The thing is this... if you will not force yourself to do something new to change your life then you will still live the same lifestyle that you don't like ten years ago. You will not evolve, you will never grow.

You need courage, you need to face the stress of change. If you need to unfollow the crowd then do it. It is only hard in the beginning, once you find your own flow and style... everything will become easier, you will become successful in your own way. So never be afraid to choose a different path, set your life into a pattern that will give you a lot of advantage. If you are copying a failure then you will be a failure too, you need to be different this time. Do what other people are not doing.

HOW TO KNOW IF A PERSON IS GENUINE

It's good to spot a genuine person, you will feel secured, you know you are in good hands and you don't need to think about a lot of things anymore. You will not worry and you will feel peaceful. You will become comfortable around him and you will not be afraid to share sensitive issues in your life. A lot of people nowadays were fakes, they are pretending to be someone they are not just to look good and smell good to other people. It's funny because they will get busted in the end, people will know their fakeness that is so disgusting. Anyway, here are few reminders to spot a genuine person:

1. He is not afraid to admit his weaknesses and failures. This is one good trait of a genuine person, he is not afraid to admit his flaws and shortcomings, he is even proud of it, he is not ashamed because he knew that failures, flaws, embarrassments are just part of being a human. He doesn't make it a big deal. He is true because he is not hiding anything even the bad parts of his personality and life.

2. He is not always praising himself. He knows who he is so he doesn't need to praise himself anymore. He is not an attention grabber, he doesn't mind if people praise him or not. All he want is to be himself every second and show the people his true colors, if he can be himself then his already happy for that. He loves to praise people but he do it because he mean it and not to look kind or ask for a favor.

3. He is not afraid to admit that he doesn't know anything about something. He is not afraid to say "I don't know", it doesn't bother him at all. He doesn't mind not looking smart. He knows what he know and he doesn't want to pretend to know something just to be involve in a conversation.

4. He is not afraid of embarrassment. He knows that being getting embarrassed is normal, he knows that all people already experienced it in their lives. He doesn't mind getting embarrassed for as long as he is expressing himself. He will just be himself no matter what and enjoy what is going on even if it embarrasses him.

5. His statements are very consistent. You will feel that he is not inventing stories because all of his stories were consistent. He is not changing his statements, once he say something... he will say it again exactly the same way as he said it before. You will never think of him as a liar or stitcher of stories.

6. He is not hungry for money or fame. If he is your friend, he will not use you for money, you will not remember any instances where he hurt you because of money. He knew that money is a sensitive issue. He will not destroy his name just because of money. He is not even hungry for fame, he will not do something just to look popular. Every action coming from him is spontaneous and not scripted.

7. He will help you without asking for anything in exchange. If he helps you he helps you, that's it. You will never hear him reminding you that he helped you in the past. He is not asking for something in return because his help comes from the heart.

8. He is not needy. He is not that type of person who always need something. He is independent and if he can do it on his own then he will never ask for help from anyone including his closest friends.

FOR AS LONG AS YOU'RE MOVING... YOU DON'T NEED ANYTHING

All you need to do is move, all you need to do is take positive actions and decisions and that's it. You don't need to think about anything else for as long as you're moving forward.

Not enough budget for business? not enough skills to make you successful? not enough confidence? not enough support from family and friends? not enough education? don't fool me, those are just excuses and your excuses are dominating your mind because you're not moving at all. If you will move, if you will do something about your situation then better things will happen into your life. No need to think about anything else, if you are moving then you will get something, as simple as that.

It depends on how strong your movement is, if you are moving strong then you will get strong and bigger results. If you have slow and weak movements then you will get poor results. To make the long story short... your level of effort is your level of success.

You don't need help, you don't need support if you are doing something, you just need to wait and be patient.. the results will come in just a matter of time. Be relentless and aggressive, never take any given day for granted. There is nothing else to worry about if you are moving because movement creates improvement. If you are taking positive actions then your life will be alright, not always perfect but will always be alright.

Your mindset is all you need. If your mind is wired in a positive away then you will be able to make the right decisions in life, you will never get lost because you will always engage in activities that makes sense.

Just move, never get complacent, always do something positive for your life. Focus all of your energies for the right actions. Never stop because if you do so... you will be lost again. Always check yourself, actions is the only thing that will give you happiness and nothing else. If you are moving towards your dreams then everything will be alright.

So do anything now, do something with your life. It don't matter if it is a huge action or a big decision. Just do something to keep the momentum going. Don't think about the success yet, just do something to make your mind entertained.

Not doing anything will create stress even more, it will make you go crazy. Taking actions will make your mind and body sharp, it will produce more positive energy in your body that will give you unlimited happiness.

So even if you're down, even if nothing good is happening to you... don't feel bad, just take actions and you will be fine in a while. Your actions will be the eraser of despair, it is the creator of your hope. It will give you motivation and determination to keep going on. Any kind of action will do for as long as it is positive, every actin is the right action.

Even if you are poor... if you're taking actions then you will be fine in the future, you will forget all the misery in your life because you are doing something and your time is running fast. If you're rich and you're not taking actions then your mind will be full of negativity, it will be poisoned by procrastination.

LIFE IS ALL ABOUT STARTING

If you can start right away, if you have the habit of starting fast then you will have a very good life. Life is all about starting. You start your day, it is either you start it bad or good. It is either you start strong or start slow. It is up to you. A lot of people can't start because they want to finish fast, they want to become successful without even sweating and working for so very long. Once you start, you need to commit until the job is done.

Start thinking about positive things now and keep those thoughts running for a very long time. Start taking the first step now to achieve your goals, start making the right decisions in life, start changing your bad habits now. It's all about starting, once you make the right start then everything will be a lot easier.

Start living your life now, forget the bad memories from the past. Start loving your life and live with the moment, start becoming who you wanted to be. I know it's a little bit hard but you have to do it if you're so sick and tired of living the same life over and over again. Once you start, you're already on the right path so never change directions anymore, you have to live what you've started and never go back once the journey becomes harder. It is suppose to be hard, nothing is easy, being great takes a lot of commitment and sacrifice so you need to endure the stress of changing.

It's all about who can start his own journey and living it no matter what. It's all about who can commit to the process until the end. Start now and make your life better, start now and give everything you've got. All it takes is focus and dedication, you will start to enjoy life even more if you can finish what you've started. Once you start... everything will be a lot easier, it is only hard in the beginning. Just maintain the momentum, do small progress everyday and that's it.

You will start to understand life even more if you will start now. Enjoy your journey no matter what happens to your life. You need to start doing what you need to do or else your life will become miserable, or else you will have a lot of regrets in life.

Start enjoying life now, start committing now, start pursuing your goals now, start doing the right things in life now. It's all about starting, if you can't start now then when are you going to start? tomorrow? next week? the more you delay something the more you are unlikely to start.

Fears will become bigger and bigger if you will not start now, doubts will enter your system, you will lose confidence so you better start now while you still have a lot of time. Time is fast, you will never even notice that you're too old to start something. But whether you're still young or too old... start what you wanted to do because that is the only way to see the real purpose of your life.

Once you start... never stop. Do your best and do whatever it takes to win in life.

CHASE HARD WORK NOT GOALS

To make success easier to achieve... chase hard work not goals. Because if you're always chasing your goals you will forget to work hard, you will just think about it and do nothing. You will become impatient if you can't get it. And the truth is... you really need to work hard to achieve your goals so focus on working instead of getting it. Because it will come in the right time, maybe not now but for sure you will get it once the work needed is all done.

People can't get their goals because they think about it so much without doing something for it. They talk about it, they brag about it, they think that talking and dreaming alone will get the job done. But it's the million steps that will make you successful, it's the massive actions not the massive dreaming that will give you a momentum.

So chase hard work instead of goals, think about the steps that you need to do, think about the process and process it right away. Get it little by little, you can't get it one night, it's thousand or million nights that you need to wait to reach the top.

Hard work will give you results not the meticulous imagining about becoming successful. Taking actions is the only thing that will guarantee you success. You can have a very good day dream, you can have a very detailed visualization but if you're not doing something about it then you will still get nothing, as simple as that. Doing hard work is very easy, just take massive actions and never care if your steps are right or wrong, you will automatically adjust in the middle of the process, you will see mistakes along the way and make the proper changes if needed.

Start working now and forget about your goals, forget about getting it. Just focus on the next step and the next one. Focus on doing what is needed to make you one step closer to your goal. Be patient because it needs a lot of time, it needs a lot of effort. This is not a sprint, it is a marathon.

It's all about practicing to work hard every single day, it needs to become your habit. Once you get use to it, it will never be hard to work hard anymore. It will become automatic in your system. You will get results little by little and you will become very successful without even knowing it.

So think about working hard and not about becoming successful. After all, you really need to work super hard, you can't escape the process, there is no shortcuts in life, you have to take a huge amount of effort if you want to become successful. Little efforts will produce weak results so stop dreaming and start working, as simple as that. Never waste any single second, you need a very strong commitment, you need to make yourself love what you're doing even if you don't love it in the beginning.

Chasing hard work is easier than chasing goals, you will only move, you will only push, it is easier than chasing goals. If you are focused on chasing goals, you will get lost, you will feel bad if you can't slightly touch it, you will quit because you wouldn't want to work anymore if you can't see a significant progress.

TIME IS NON REFUNDABLE

Be aware if you're wasting a lot of time because the time you've wasted is non refundable. No matter how hard you cry and complain about life... you cannot refund the time that pass away. It's all gone, it's gone in the wind. All you will have is regrets and depressions. 

So while you still have a lot of time now... be the best that you can be, do what is important, never waste your time looking at other people's lives. Focus on your own journey, family and true friends. Focus on your goal and pursue it relentlessly. You only have one life, are you going to just waste it for negativity? 

TREAT TIME AS YOUR ONLY TREASURE. One day you're going to die, are you just going to let your life pass by without achieving something great in life? life is too short. You think you have a lot of time only to find out that it's over. So push yourself and avoid being lazy, be the best that you can be and forget all the destruction that is making your day bad. Time is your only treasure, you can do anything with enough time. But if you will use it for non sense things like small altercations with random strangers, gossips, complaining, dwelling with a lot of negativity, watching a lot of news then you are simply wasting your life. Time is your only treasure, you cannot bring anything you achieve with you once you are dying. 

So be mindful, forget all the things that are making your life difficult. Never entertain thoughts that is making you even suffer. You only have little time in this world so you better use your time to make you happier and better. 

Every second is gold. Never underestimate the power of every second. With those seconds you wasted... you are losing the chance of living a better life. Collect those seconds and use them to make your life better, do great things. Use everyday of your life to try to get what you want. There is no harm in trying, trying is free, take the ball and keep it rolling. 

All you have is time, all you need is time to make your life great. You don't need help, support or advises, you can have a better life if you are using your time correctly. Time will give you everything, you just need to be patient, focused and dedicated. Time is very powerful, it can make anyone great, it can make anyone weak and powerless. It depends non how you use it. Some people are getting better and better while time is passing and some are getting older and weaker. 

It is better to waste money but not time, you can get your money back but not the time. So be aware if you're wasting a lot of time because it means that you're wasting your life. 

TIME WASTERS THAT YOU DON'T KNOW

1. Petty things 

2. Negativity

3. Activities that entertains you for a short time but will make you miserable for a long time.

4. Activities that will not make you grow.

5. Gossips

6. Idolizing someone that will not even care about you

7. Proving yourself to other people that will not even believe you even if you become successful

8. Impressing other people by doing bad decisions in life. 

9. Thinking too much and doing nothing

10. Procastination

11. Focusing on your haters

12. Comparing your life to others. 

DON'T DO WHAT YOU DON'T NEED YET

Sometimes you are over thinking, you are overreacting and over worrying. You are doing the things that you think are important but doesn't make any sense at all for the moment. You are so worried about the bad things that may happen that's why you keep doing things that doesn't even matter. You think think it is needed, you think that you might have a bad life in the future if you don't do it now.

For example, you are hoarding a lot of food because you heard about the story of doomsday from your neighbor, you believe your crazy neighbor that the apocalypse is coming and that you need to stock a lot of food in your garage to avoid dying. You are only making yourself look like a fool by doing that, the problem is not yet there, there is no such evidences that the doomsday will happen, it's only a make up story coming from people who have negative minds. You don't need to do it yet so don't do it.

Another example is buying a lot of things because you saw it having a large discount at the mall. Even if you don't need those things you still buy them because you are saving a lot of money. The truth is you're not saving anything because you are still spending. You don't need to do it so don't to it, it's just a waste of time and resources. Do what makes you progress, stop anticipating too much. You think you can't buy it in the future anymore so you will buy it now, it's a lame decision because you are making your life harder by spending for useless things.

You only need to do what you need to do. If it is about earning money then do it, don't spend because what is the point of throwing away money if you need money?

The lesson here is... be in the moment, if you want to have a better life then just do what is in need. Never engage in activities that is only making your life difficult.

Don't eat if you're not yet hungry. A lot of people were eating a lot even if they're not yet hungry that is why there are lot of people who are becoming obese. They can't control themselves, once they smell a delicious food on the table... they will eat it right away even if they're not yet hungry. They will eat it without feeling guilty.

There are some people who are fixing what is not broken, they are fixing their cars even if the car is functioning well, and in the end the car has been damaged because of their meticulousness. The problem gets bigger, they don't know what to do anymore.

Just relax, you don't need to do what you don't need to do. Make decisions that are really important, there are more things that are urgent that you need to take care of. Focus on the activities that will give you a better life, as simple as that.

CONQUERING YOURSELF MEANS CONQUERING YOUR DEAMS

If you can conquer yourself then you're already winner. The real enemy is yourself, you are the one who is stopping yourself from succeeding. You are the one who developed the bad habits that is preventing you from taking actions, you are the one who's entertaining a lot of negative thoughts that is poisoning your mind.

Conquer your mind and you're already good, you're already on your way to greatness and success. It's your mind that is making your life difficult, those negative thoughts is what makes you slow, it is making you worried and unable to take actions. Once you filter those negative thoughts and replace it with more positive ones then good things will happen to you. It's all in the mind, the more you control your mind and lead it to positivity the more you will have a good life, you will conquer your dreams.

You need to tame yourself, you need to tame your emotions and thoughts. Don't get too emotional, don't get too sensitive. Show your toughness and ability to adapt. No one is responsible for your failure and suffering, it is you and only you who bring yourself to an ugly situation. You made the wrong decisions and weak moves, you made your life harder than what was suppose to be.

So focus on yourself and learn to conquer yourself now, make sure your thoughts were right, make sure that all of your actions were moving forward to your dreams. Once you have full control of yourself and you can make very wise decisions... you can achieve any kind of success.

A lot of people were smart, talented and has full of potential but they cannot control themselves that's why they always get lost. They have everything but they can't make simple decisions that will make them one step closer to their dreams. They do stupid mistakes and that makes them moving backward instead of forward. 

HOW TO CONQUER YOURSELF? You need to be very disciplined. You need to do the right things, you always know it you just don't have the power to control your temptations. People always know the right thing to do but they are not doing it because they have zero willpower. The thing is this... if you want to become successful then all of your actions should be directed to winning, there is no room for activities that will only waste your time.

Entertain thoughts that will give you a very good future. Never harbor negative thoughts such as jealousy, doubts, fears, worries, hesitation and hatred. If you want to conquer yourself then your thoughts should be defaulted to positive.

It is hard to conquer yourself because you don't have the habits yet of winning. Once you developed those good and positive habits then everything will become easy, you will become more mindful, you will enjoy doing something for your dreams, you will engage in a more productive activity.

Conquer your mind, emotions and actions. Once you have full control of yourself then you will have the habits of winning. It is you that is stopping you, it is you that is making your own life difficult. It only means that if you can destroy your life, you can also make it amazing. 

WHY CAN'T YOU CONQUER YOURSELF?

1. You're not willing to be disciplined.
2. You are not pushing yourself.
3. You are not mindful of your actions, you just react without even thinking.
4. You easily get influenced by the opinions of others.
5. You are not serious about your goals in life.

THERE WILL ALWAYS BE DOWN TIMES

Not all the time you're winning, not all the time you're on top. There will be down times, there will be times when you really can't make something right. It's ok you're just a human being, you're not Mr. Perfect, you will still experience a series of failure, you will still hit the ground. It's your duty to keep your faith stronger than it use to be.

Just like in business, one day your business is so strong and you're earning a lot of money, people and customers are coming in, you are making a lot of hype, everyone loves your product and services. Then suddenly one day everything has changed, your business becomes weak, you are running out of money, frustration starts to set in and you're thinking about giving up. But you shouldn't give up, YOU JUST NEED TO WEATHER THE STORM, the down times will end sooner or later, it will never stay in your life forever. The cycle will change if you keep believing in yourself and keep working hard. You just need to develop a very strong endurance and that's it. People were so blinded by the down times, a little adversity is breaking them down, they don't know what to do, they are always in a state of panic. There is no need to panic if you know that it's normal. Even the greatest ones have down times, they are struggling to in their journey too. It's just a matter of who can stay on the game and believe in himself while bad things are still happening. Down times is not forever, it will go away if you keep your head up and do what you're suppose to do.

So guard your mind and always be aware if it is worrying, if you found out that your mind is occupied by fears and worries then you need to do something. You need to entertain your mind and feed it the right thoughts that will enable you to stand up and work again. Just keep taking actions, stay positive and believe in yourself, you can conquer any obstacles in life, trust me... you can survive anything.

Never quit because it's the end of your journey once you quit, life is a struggle sometimes, you just need to make it not a big deal and never worry about what is happening. Be tough because life is tough, it's not an easy thing. The more life gets tougher the more you should get tougher.

NOT QUITTING IS ALREADY WINNING. Walk by your faith not by your sight. Just keep in mind that if you don't quit and you keep persevering then one day you're going to win. You just need to process every process that needs to be processed. Don't be afraid to take actions and that's it, move while you're struggling, fight even if you're in pain... that is what it's all about, that is what winning mentality is all about.

So if nothing good is happening in your life, career, journey or business... just think that it's just a normal down time, it is nothing. All you have to do is endure the pain and the struggle, stay positive and good things will happen to you.

You can only become successful by persevering. It's not the luck, talents, gifts or whatever voodoo you wanted to call it... it's your toughness that will make you win, it 's your tenacity that will give you a victory.

WHAT TO DO IF YOU CAN'T SEEM TO FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO?

1. Decide if you will still continue or not. If you still love what you're doing then keep doing it even if success and money is not coming to your life anymore. If you will not continue anymore then what else will you do? do you think you can be successful next time if you start a different journey? always remember that if you quit now then there is a big chance that you will quit again next time. Once a quitter will always be a quitter.

2. Just deal with it. Deal with the pain, deal with the struggle. Remember that a true definition of a winner is the one who can fight until the end. It's just an emotion, any difficulty is just an emotion. An emotion is a roller coaster thing, today you are sad and tomorrow you will become happy if you stay positive. Just deal with it, never shy away from struggle and pain, life is not complete without those elements so you need to become mentally stronger and fight the adversities until it is gone.

3. Forget about winning anymore. It's like letting go, it's like giving up but still fighting. If you will forget about winning anymore and simply enjoy life then you will become happier. You will become successful in the long run. Just do what makes you happy and never give up. Keep losing and losing again until the cycle change and winning is the next in line. People are having a hard time to get back on track because they want to win right away, they hate losing but they are not willing to wait. They are forcing thing that's why bad things are happening even more.

4. Keep moving forward. It's been said over and over again that all you need to do is keep moving forward and you will be alright. If you're taking positive actions then you will forget about worries, you will not be entertaining negative thoughts anymore. Your mind will become free from pain and good things will start to happen in your journey. Keep moving forward even if the pace looks slow and not progressing.

5. Ask for advises. Ask for advises from people who are really willing to help you and not to pull you down even more. Seek help from people who truly cares and will never let you down. Sometimes you just need someone to talk to so you can share how you feel, sometimes you just need to express your emotions so that you can breathe again. Go to someone who will motivate you and will encourage you to keep going.

IT'S ALL IN

Changing yourself is all in. You need to be all in, you can't be exerting a little effort every now and then and expect things to happen. You need to use all of your energy and focus if you want success to be guaranteed. All of your time, all of your resources... you need to use them. It's like gambling and using all of your money, taking the chance to bet on something and hoping to win.

If you will become conservative and not use everything you have... there is a big chance that you will fail. The fate loves the brave, it favors the courageous ones who are willing to pay the price to change their lives.

There is no more turning back now, you can't stop now. You've already sacrifice a lot of things and time, you're already done a lot for your dreams so there is no more turning back now. It's all or nothing.

Do everything you can and hope for success to favor you. If you can't go all in then that is the purpose of dreaming? use everything in your power to make your life successful, that is what it is all about. It's hard in the beginning but the reward is really good in the end. Never hold back, never care if you will lose everything just go all in.

Don't be afraid that you might lose everything if you go all in because you can always make a comeback if you lose, you can always turn things around.

If you have a business go all in, if you have a dream or goal go all in. You have to take it super seriously if you want to win, go all in.

You will never fail if you go all in, if you have the confidence, if you work super hard... you will never fail. Because even if you fail on the first try... you will still try again and again until you win. That is what is going all in all about. It's like giving your life for something, it's like you have no choice but to win, it's like having a tunnel vision and a very hungry mentality to become victorious.

People who become successful have really strong faith in what they're doing, they pair it with work ethic that's why they became successful, they never doubt themselves, they use everything they have. They put all of their energy to what they want that's why they get it. So if you can't go all in then don't even bother trying because you will only fail. If you really believe that you're going to win then you will use every ounce of energy you have to become successful. Even if you think that you're already losing, you will still fight, you will never think about giving up just for a second.

So decide now if you will go all in, if you are doubtful of yourself, if you are hesitant then just go home and do something else. Success will never bless a coward person.

Life is so short to fall short, going all in is the only way to secure the victory. 

WHY ARE PEOPLE AFRAID TO GO ALL IN?

1. They can'st see themselves winning from the very beginning. You have to have a tremendous belief in yourself, you have to see yourself winning or else you will never become motivated in life, you have to make yourself believe that no matter how hard the challenge is... you will still thrive in the end.

2. They don't want to fail. If you don't want to fail then you will never succeed, as simple as that. You must not be afraid of failure because repeated failures will make you wiser, tougher and hungrier. The more you fail, the more you will become angry and hungry to become successful. You will become sick and tired of your life and you want a big change so you will go all in the next time.

3. They're so afraid of the pain. Going all in is painful, that is the reality. You need to stay late working, you need to give up sleep. You need to sacrifice not going to your friend's party, you need to work hard everyday even if you feel so tired, you need to use the last dollar in your pocket to survive your business, you need to leave your stable job just to pursue your real dream. It is really painful and draining that's why people were so afraid of it. It is scary because it will even be painful if you didn't succeed.

4. The habits is not yet there. Winning is a habit, they are simply lazy that's why they can't go all in. They want to work hard in their minds but they can't do it because nobody can become a hard worker right away, you need to take it step by step and endure every stress of working hard. You need to develop an iron will that you will never stop working, you need to practice it everyday. It's a commitment, it's not one time effort of working hard and becoming successful right away.

5. They want it fast. Everybody knows that being successful and winning takes a lot of time, people can't go all in and not willing to go all in because they know that it takes years and years to become successful. If they can't have it in a month or two... they will not even bother staying with the grind for a very long time. If you will go all in you must know that it will take a very long time to become successful, if you want shortcuts then success is not for you, you must do something else like robbing a bank or donating your kidney for fast money. Patience is the key here, just wait and work wait and work, repeat again and again.

But going all in is the guarantor of success, you need to stop being conservative, give your life for something, use all of your energy... that is the only way to succeed.

THE MORE YOU DO IT THE MORE YOU WILL BECOME A PROFESSIONAL

If you want to become a professional... just do it over and over again, as simple as that. REPETITION is very powerful, many people got bored with it but it is the only thing that will make you great. Repetition will make you very close to perfection.

If you're not that skilled of a person, if you're not smart nor talented then just be a serious repeater. Repeating something for a million times will make you an expert. That is why the taxi drivers that has been driving for years are very good on the road, you cannot overtake them, you cannot out maneuver then, they were experts, they know every inch of the road because they are driving on the highway every single day. They were too good that they can even bend the rules of traffic.

YOU HAVE A CHANCE TO BECOME GREAT. It's a good news, you thought before that greatness is only for a chosen few, you thought before that life is unfair and you are not born with such talents that's why you can't become successful. The good news is you can become great too if you are willing to repeat something even if you're so sick and tired of it. Don't worry... even if your passion dies for now, it will still come back if you keep on doing it. So do it even if you don't like it, repeat until the love comes back again.

Do you think that great people were born great? of course not. They were great because they repeat something a million times. It's the repetition alone that will make you great. Choose a musical instrument and play it everyday, let's see if you will not become great at it. Of course there will be times when you don't want to play it anymore but just like I said before... the passion will come back no matter what, all you have to do is keep playing, keep working even if you don't like it.

Professionals keep working even if they don't feel like working, they will get the job done no matter what, they can overcome any kind of emotions. They were not acting like divas if they don't feel good, they will not make excuses if there is something wrong, they work every single day on any kind of weather. Rain or shine... they will work and get things done.

DO IT AND DO IT. The game plan is very simple... keep pounding it, keep doing it. Be patient because it takes time to become a professional. You need to be committed, keep the grind alive, keep the hustle running. The more you do something for your craft, the more you will become good at it, you will keep growing everyday, you will earn success little by little.

Even if you think that you're not progressing at all, don't ever stop, that is the secret formula... never stop doing something until you reach a whole different level. It will become easier if you will make it a life style, make it your life.

The power of perseverance and habits is real, if you will combine those two then you will become something one day. Never underestimate the power of consistency, sometimes the pace and progress will be slow but one thing is for sure... you're on the right direction and you will have something one day. You just need some time and discipline, make sure you are willing to wait while working.

So if you want to become a professional, start working on something now and never stop. Stay committed and focused. Time is so fast, you will never even notice that you're already a professional. You don't need lectures or education, just simply learn by yourself and strive for greatness.

Just find one thing that you love. It can be music, business, arts, politics or anything that makes your soul alive. Once you found it... attached it with your life and never stop until you become a professional, that's how easy it is. Just make sure that you will be serious about it and you will never change your direction. Taking actions is the key, it is very simple if you will stay committed.

WHY SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO BE ALONE IN YOUR JOURNEY?

Sometimes you need to be alone in your journey so that your strategy will be fully controlled by you. If there are lot of people surrounding you then you will never be able to focus, especially if their intention is to not help you. You will be confused, a lot of ideas and inputs will go into your brain which is not healthy.

You need to be alone so that you will see more of yourself, you will know how strong you are and what you really want. It's ok to be alone, after all all you need is yourself and nothing else. You need to be alone so you can be in full charge of your journey, so that you will be able to discover what are the things that you really need to do.

Don't be afraid to do it on your own because you are the only one who understands yourself, you are the one who knows what you need. They may call your delusional, selfish, crazy blah blah blah but if you persevere and focus on taking it one step at a time... you will become successful in the end. Be able to stand for what you believe in and work on your dreams relentlessly, if you follow your heart and persevere enough... you can prove them that you're right, they will see that all of your decisions were right.

Some people are trying to help you but they are only making your life harder. Yes they are concerned, yes they love you but sometimes they are only making life difficult for you because they think they know better than you, they think that they need to follow you. You don't need to argue with them because that will only make your journey slower, just keep doing your thing, keep silent and do it on your own.

CREATE YOUR OWN SYSTEM, CREATE YOUR OWN STRATEGY. You are free to decide on your own, you are free to do whatever you want. Create your own technique, a system that will work for you, discover the steps that will make you very near from being successful. Do the trial and error if needed. You only need to become right once, once you find what is working... keep doing it, be patient and you will become a winner one day. Life is all about experimentation, you are the scientist and you can gather the data that will bring you one step closer to success. You can try a lot strategies being advised by others but if you will not love the process itself then nothing will happen to you, you will still get lost and look for some other things to do.

Being alone, mocked by others, criticized by the society is alright. It is part of the process, it is part of what you need to go through. So don't feel bad, don't be scared if they are all the same and you're different.

Being in your journey means being alone, you think you have people behind you but it's not the reality. The truth is you are on your own, you make your own decisions, you make the corrections, you push through no matter what. No one can make you keep going other than yourself. So it is your journey, you are alone. Because if you fail, no one will be there to pick you up, it is yourself that will help you to stand up. Your mom or dad can pamper you, they can help you in some ways but it is still you that will help yourself. It is still your decision if you will try again or simply quit like everyone else does.

So don't think that you're unlucky if you're alone in your journey. It is a good thing if you're alone, no one will disturb you, no one will blame you, no one can ever make you feel guilty about something. No one can point out your mistakes, just make sure that you will work until the end. Remember that it's not all about hard work, it has also something to do with making your mind tougher and always making sure that your emotions were in the right place.

Don't worry if you have support or not, don't worry if you're making the right decisions or not. What matters is you keep moving forward and you never lose sight of your dreams, your vision must be very clear and you are always alright walking away from the crowd. Some people are not alone because they are afraid to be alone, they always want to make sure that they will not fail even though they already failed by not taking risks.

SOMEONE WILL BELIEVE YOU

Someone will always believe you so you need to keep believing in yourself. If you work hard and take your work seriously then someone will always believe in you.

If you just made a product and you're selling it on the internet, if the product is not selling for a few weeks or months, don't worry. Just keep persevering and it will sell in just a matter of time. If you really work hard for it then it will have an equivalent reward, keep selling it... someone will believe in you, someone will buy it.

People will believe you if you keep on working hard, it is because they will see that you are serious, they will see that you really mean business. It's hard in the beginning especially if you can't see yourself becoming successful but life has its own way of rewarding people, it works in mysterious ways, sometimes you will feel like there is no hope anymore then suddenly there will be a spark of hope that will show on your way. It will only happen if you keep believing yourself and keep working hard.

All you need to do is keep working even if no one is believing you right now, I'm telling you you will have your break one day, you will experience a different level of success. Sometimes you need to suffer first, sometimes you need to prove yourself first that you are tough and will never quit. Once you got to the point of frustration that makes you wanted to quit... never quit. Keep believing, that is what it is all about. If it is hard today it means it will be easier tomorrow.

If you are pursuing a goal then you must really believe in yourself because someone will believe you in the long run. An investor will come, a manager will call, an opportunity will knock on your door, a product will sell, a company will hire you. You just need to endure frustrations and depressions because those emotions are part of the game, they are all part of the journey. What matters is you still believe that you will become successful in the end.

Someone will believe your idea, someone will support your belief. Someone will support the empire that you are trying to build. But you have to prove first that you will never quit, you have to prove first that you are willing to pay the price. Because if you cannot impress them with your tenacity then it means your effort is not enough, it means you are still lacking the work needed.

You don't need the force them to believe in you, you just need to work super hard and stay focus on the grind. They will appreciate you in the long run, once they see that you are really serious then that's the time that they will take you seriously. They will become interested at you, they will never take you for granted.

You need to be really super serious if you want to win in life, you need to let them feel that you mean business and you are not the one who will take one step backward, make them feel that you are progressing, make them know that you really want it.

WHAT TO DO IF YOU CAN'T BELIEVE IN YOURSELF ANYMORE.

1. Don't do anything. First of all.... breathe, don't panic. Just relax until your right frame of mind comes back again.  Don't do anything if you don't believe in yourself anymore because that will be a total disaster. If you do something without belief then for sure negative results will be the result. Don't do anything for the moment, let the frustration come and go first before executing the next step. Emotions come and go, you may feel frustrated now but don't dwell on it too much and you will feel good in a while.

2. Find your belief back. It's all about the belief, you need to find your belief back. It is either you watch some weird crazy motivational video that will give you emotions and make you a little braver or you say "I believe in myself" a million times. Whatever works will work, whatever makes you feel good... try it. Your belief will come back if you are working for it. You're just a human, sometimes you're confident and sometimes you're not. But the most important thing is... you always believe that your belief will come back no mater how hard the situation is.

3. Engage in tiny actions. If you are still taking mini actions for your dream then it means you're still on the right path, it means you will still become successful. Keep on taking small actions everyday until your momentum finally become stable.  Whatever you can do... do it. Even if you just need to simply brush your teeth and say hi to a possible client... do it.

Always remember that someone will believe in you if you believe in yourself. Someone will become a fan, someone will help you. Just keep working hard and never let your belief leave you.

EVERYONE IS ALREADY MAKING A NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTION WHICH IS STUPID

Everyone is already planning for a new year's resolution. They will make a very strong, detailed and loud plan again. They are so excited, they will post their new year's resolution plan in the social media, will try to look serious and motivated but wait for a few weeks and they already gave up.

It is not yet the end of the year, there are few more weeks to go. You can do a lot with the remaining weeks, you can build a very strong momentum or... if you are too ambitious and strong willed, you can make things happen this year. Nothing is impossible if you will become focused to your dreams.

They are making a new year's resolution as early as this stage because they already quit, they think it's alright to just do something next year because they believe that they can really do it. But how long have they've been doing this stupid style? I think 10 or more years, they will tell themselves at the late stage of november or first week of december that next year they will give their best, they will become relentless only to find out that the year is ending again and they have to fool themselves again that they will do better next year. The cycle never ends, they become older and older achieving nothing and getting the same shitty results.

HERE IS WHAT YOU NEED TO DO: Even if you think that your time is running out and you can't do something great this year because you think it's too late... still give your full maximum effort. Still give your best and never give up on your dream. Earlier this year, you set a goal and it's your obligation to fulfill that goal, it's your obligation to pursue it relentlessly because if not... you will be in the same cycle again. You will always set a goal on January 1 and you will give up on November, as simple as that.

Even if you think you can't win now, you still need to push yourself, just build the habits, forget about the goal... your focus should be the habits, habits is the only thing that can make you successful. Your thinking habits, your working habits... those are the only things that will give you success. So forget about winning, forget about if you can make it or not... build the habits now and start winning little by little.

If you have the winning habits then you're already successful, as simple as that. You can have a lot of big goals but if you don't have the habits then you will always fail. So stop making a new year's resolution and not fulfilling it as a habit, be a doer and not a dreamer. Make taking actions as a habit. Don't think, don't plan... just do it.

A lot of people were partying now, they were making excuses that they need to rest now because they work all year long but the truth is... they are just faking that they are working, they are just pretending that they are working hard because if they are really working hard then they will still work hard until the end of the year. A real hard worker doesn't care about time, he doesn't care about celebrations, he is a hard worker from the beginning until the end.

So stop making a new year's resolution now and build the habits, just move and make progress, make this year different, finish this year strong. Win or lose... just finish strong, stay focused. Never let Christmas and New year destruct you. If you really wanted to win then you will do it now, you will never care if your time is running out, you will start now and see what is still possible to accomplish before the end of the year.

ALWAYS BE READY TO FACE ANYTHING

Be ready, don't hide like a bitch, don't pretend that you don't know anything or can't do anything. Face it boy, face it. If you are willing to face anything then you can be anything. Face the biggest challenges, face the deepest pressures, never back down because that is what life is all about. It's all about embracing what is presented in front of you and trying to make everything epic.

But of course don't face anything that will never even give you a good life. Never face something like trouble or a fight, these things are not worth it. You need to face the challenges that will give you a good fortune, you need to face the problems that you created yourself or problems that comes naturally into your life.

YOU'RE ALWAYS READY, YOU'RE JUST SCARED THAT'S WHY YOU THINK YOU'RE NOT READY. Don't worry if a challenge or a problem comes into your life unexpectedly. You can always fix it, you can always do something for it. You can always do something, you just don't want to do it because you're a worrier. If you think you're not ready then just do it, you will become ready once you take actions. It's not all about how you feel, you will always feel bad, it will always feel something wrong, you're just a human... humans wants to become comfortable all the time but people who can do extraordinary things are the one who are willing to become uncomfortable.

ALWAYS THINK THAT BEHIND DISCOMFORT LIES A GREAT REWARD. If you face the discomfort now and do what you're suppose to do... you will be rewarded, you will get something. Always remember that sacrifices will give you something, you will get what you need. You just need to trust it. So forget about always feeling good, put your mind into a state of no worry, move despite of feeling a little bit fear. It's just a feeling, you need to be a very good manipulator of feelings. If you can make yourself believe that moving while feeling bad is good then you can achieve a lot of things in life.

Be willing to face anything because you can always get away from it. Everything will flow, everything will be alright, you need to face everything that will put you on a better position. If you are dreaming about something, you need to face every step that you need to do, you need to do every process that will make you one step closer towards it. You will just deal with it, what's difficult about it? you think that it's hard because you don't believe that something good will happen to you if you face the discomfort of facing it. Deal with it and never stop until you get the right answers, never stop until you make your life better.

You don't need to be super courageous if you want to face something, you can even be scared facing it. Once you face it... your courage will start to level up, you will find that hope, you will see yourself doing better and better each day.

So any challenge in life, any adversity, any discomfort, any responsibility... be willing to face all of them because that is the only way to make you successful. Even a small opportunity, even an opportunity that looks impossible... face it because you never know what might happen next, you never know that facing it will make you successful. Just give yourself a chance and be brave enough to deal with any situation that needs to be deal with.

Life will become much easier if you are willing to face anything, ask if you need to, be willing to get rejected, be willing to have a hard time... it will even be harder if you will just hide in your comfort zone and take everything for granted.

HOW TO SUCCEED IN THE LONG RUN... KEEP TWEAKING IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT GREAT

Start something, build the basics and keep tweaking it until it becomes great.

You don't need to become really good at something to build something great. You just need to start, stay focused and do something for it every single day. I repeat... EVERY SINGLE DAY. No excuses, no absents, no dramas... just do something for it and it will become big. It will become great, useful and can give you a good life.

A BUSINESS DIES BECAUSE...
The owner becomes lazy. He is not doing something for his business anymore. He only feels good while he is earning something and when there are no more earnings... the will get frustrated, he will feel bad. He no longer wanted to do something about it. If he will only tweak it then for sure something will change. The tweaking starts with the mindset, just think that you're succeeding every time you do something for your business. Survive it one day at a time, sometimes it's not about winning sometimes it's just about surviving. Survive it today and try to win tomorrow or the next day. If the winning is very hard then go for the easier option which is surviving. Then have time for tweaking while surviving, do something crazy, do something that will alter the momentum that is going on. It doesn't matter what you do, just keep tweaking and surviving until it becomes great.

Same as developing a skill or making yourself better. Just know the basics and keep tweaking everyday. For example if you're learning a particular musical instrument... just know the basic notes, know the easiest way how to play it and then keep tweaking it everyday. Keep learning some new tricks. You can even invent your own notes or rhythm if you are confident enough to do it. Just go for the roots and find something that will make you a little bit better than yesterday and that's it... you already set yourself up for success.

KEEP IN MIND THAT THE WORK WILL NEVER STOP. Just because you become a little bit successful today doesn't mean you have the right to stop. Once you stop then it's over for you. The work should never stop same as the improvement. Greatness is a commitment, success is a forever journey. Look at those people who thinks they already made it and stop working... the fail in the end, they were miserable, they were lost. They don't know how to get back on top. Once you reached the top... you can only maintain it by working harder than yesterday and keep improving a little bit.

Success is a long road, it is a journey and not a destination. Don't feel that you already succeeded once you earn pretty good cash and made a dramatic improvement in your life, you still need to work hard and find the little tweaks that will give you an advantage. Accept that the work will never stop, you need to keep working everyday or else you will go down.

MOVE SLOWLY WITH AN INTENTION TO LEARN. You can learn slowly, it's fine. But the intention to grow and make a progress should always be there, the level of commitment to success should be very high. Being slow but committed is better than being fast but just bumming around. Simply enjoy the process, you can do this by being patient and believing that no matter how slow you are... you will become successful one day. Enjoy every step of the way, enjoy what is going on with your life and always keep your vision to your goal clear.

Again, you don't need to become super extraordinary in the beginning, forget about greatness and simply trust the process. If you will keep tweaking yourself, if you will keep improving a little bit everyday... you will achieve a different level of success in the future so never stop working, always grind and keep the hustle alive.

Your tweaks may sometimes work and sometimes may not. Not everyday is Christmas, not everyday you will see a progress and improvement. No matter how hard you work today, you may still feel that you didn't achieve any small progress. It's normal, not everyday you are lucky. But you still need to work in order to keep the momentum alive. Once you get frustrated of not seeing results then it is over for you. Always be in a patient mode, always be in an active mode... never stop doing something to make your project better than what it was.

BECOME ADDICTED WITH LITTLE IMPROVEMENTS. Any little improvement will make you one step closer to success. An improvement is simply doing something with passion and heart. It is simply believing in your intention to become successful and pushing yourself to reach another level. It may not be another level but at least very close to the next level. Even if it will only give you a .009% of improvement... still do it.

Because reinventing something will produce a different result, it will alter a habit or a cycle, it will change a stagnant motion. You will start to rise once you are falling, you will start to have hope again if you're slowly eaten by frustration.

You will become successful once you keep going and make adjustments constantly, there is a lot of room for improvement so you have to grab it once you see one. Make it a habit of tweaking everyday or at least doing something for your dream. You need to make it alive, you need to keep it running. Once you don't give it any attention and energy, that is the time when your dream will die.

Being successful takes time, it is a commitment so you need to be very patient. The blueprint is very easy... change something if nothing is working, never quit and survive your dream one day at a time. Think of your dream as something that you need to do and improve everyday or else it will die, it will leave you.

8 LIVING PROOFS THAT YOU'RE LIVING IN THE MOMENT

Living in the moment is the best thing in the world. It means you are really living life and you're making the best out of it. It feels like you have no problem and all of your worries go away.

1. You don't worry about money but you are making smart decisions. You don't worry about money because you know that life is really like that. Sometimes your money is going up and sometimes it is going down even if you work super hard. You don't worry about it but it doesn't mean that you are over spending. Living in the moment doesn't really mean just having fun now and doing all stupid things. You don't worry about it because you know that it's not the only thing that will make you happy. You just do your best today and make money as much as you can, you don't care about how much you make, you just love the process of creating it.

2. You know that you are feeling bad but you're ok with it. You don't care about your emotions, even if you feel bad... you still find the thoughts that will make you happier. You know that you are dealing with a negative emotion but you are not frustrated because you know that it will go anytime soon, you know that emotions are not permanent and it can change if you are putting your mind the right inputs to become more positive. Feeling bad is not a big deal to you anymore, you know what are the things that are more important, you know where to use your energy. A little dizziness, a little stress, a little depression, a little negative emotion from traffic, a little hit on your ego - these things doesn't matter to you anymore.

3. You never rush to solve your problems. You know that life is a process, it is not about feeling good right away and solving your problems in seconds, you deal with it like a grown man. you never shy away from it and you never try to escape from it. You solve it second by second. And even if it takes a long time to solve it... you are still ok with it. You know that even in solving problems, you still have to live in a moment and never rush things because doing so will only make you go crazy. You deeply understand that solving problems is part of your life and you can find a way how to enjoy it. `

4. You are enjoying breathing. You simply enjoy breathing because you know that life is all about breathing. You don't need stress to breathe, you don't recognition to breathe, you don't need riches to breathe. You simply breathe deeply and appreciate the air going in and out of your lungs. You know that breathing is reminding you how simple life is and you don't need to complicate it, you can make it epic but you know that you don't need to dwell on failures and shortcomings. Just breathing is reminding you how lucky you are and you don't need any other things that will make you happy.

5. You're not being needy of anything. You're not asking for help because you know you can get away with it by yourself. It's not that you have a lot of pride, it's just you are confident that you can do it by yourself because you are willing to get uncomfortable solving your own problem. You are not an attention seeker, you're not making dramas nor looking for sympathy. You don't care if someone appreciates you or not, you just live your life the way it is.

6. You are very appreciative. You appreciate the small things or the big things. You know that life is so short and anytime it can be taken away from you so you choose to be happy and appreciative. It may sounds corny but you appreciate the air, the sunlight, the little gifts from people, the cheapest things around you and also the big ones. You are a big fun of small or little success. You don't get jealous because you know that you are just wasting your life by doing that. You appreciate everything even the challenges because you know that at least you are still living your life.

7. You're not thinking about what will happen next. You're so spontaneous, you just go with the flow but of course you know what you want. Your focus is to always feel good, you're not forcing it, you're allowing it. It seems like you're very confident that everything will be alright and you're not worry at all. You feel so secured and you're enjoying everything that is happening.

8. You're not worried about what you can't control. You're just focus on what you can control but at the same time you're not controlling it too much. You don't care about the external forces, you're simply looking inside of you, you're never concerned about other people that is not doing any good on you. You're focus on your improvement, you are simply happy growing little by little each day. You don't care about the things that is outside of your territory.

THE ART OF SUCCEEDING

Everyone wants to become successful but not everyone is willing to pay the price. You can't get something without giving something in return. If the dream is so big then the effort should also be big. A small effort will only bring small success, sometimes even nothing at all.

If you want to become successful then be ready to give your all, be ready to make sacrifices. Do something that you haven't done before.

IT'S ALL ABOUT THE EFFORT. How much effort are you willing to give, are you ready to use all of your strength and will to create something? or are you just going to put a mediocre effort and play safe?  it is up to you cowboy, it's all in your hands. If you are willing to push further then you will go further, as simple as that. So if you are not succeeding yet, it only means your effort is weak and low, it only means you're not really working hard. Because if you are exerting a true work... then probably you're a millionaire right now, but you're not. It only means there is still lacking in the process that you are working in, you still need to try harder and work longer.

DON'T BE AFRAID TO GO HARD. Hard work will never kill you, it can only make you a better person. Don't be afraid to work hard, you even need to devour the opportunity that you can work hard because not all people can do it. They have a lot of time but they are doing some bullshits that ain't even working for their lives.

The truth is... the one who can work the hardest is the one that will become the most successful. If you can be the number one hard worker in the planet then you already take the number one spot, you're already non the top.

Succeeding is not that hard if you will make hard work as a habit. What's the difference between working hard and not working at all? NOTHING. Your time will still run, the world will still revolve, the time you are in this world is still diminishing. You are dying every second so what is the point of being afraid to work hard? what is the point of being afraid to make mistakes? You're still going to die one day regardless if you play safe or not.

You will succeed every time you take an action, it is the right path, it is the momentum builder.

FAILURE IS PART OF THE DESIGN. Every time you fail, you should take it as something that is nothing. It is only making you learn something so every time it happens to you, you should always remember the lesson. You become a better person every time you fail so don't be afraid of it. Embrace failing, do it everyday and you will become a winner one day.

LIFE IS A PRESSURE

There is more life if you experience more pressure and the more pressure you conquer.. the more rewards you will get. So don't be afraid of pressure, it is there to make you a diamond. Pressure will not kill you, it can only make you quit. If you will learn to love pressure, it will reward you with a lot of things that you thought were not possible.

Don't shy away from it because the more you become near from it the stronger you will become. A lot of talented people out there trying to make a name for themselves but once they feel the pressure... they can't do anything about it anymore. They were stunned, they can't even move and think correctly.

If you don't want to feel pressure then do nothing, don't dream about big things. You can only get the bigger things in life if you are willing to take a huge amount of pressure that will almost kill you. It can't kill you physically but it can kill you mentally.

TREAT PRESSURE AS A NORMAL FEELING

It is nothing, don't be afraid of it nor get bothered by it, it is just a feeling. Any feeling can't kill you and never will. Pressure is there to guide you, once you feel it it means you need to face it. Deal with it, feel it a little bit and don't panic once it is running in your system. Embrace it because it will be gone in a while, once you become ok with it... you can do anything, you can be free, you will feel loose and creative.

Let pressure make you push. Some people will stop once they feel the pressure and some will push even more. Make is as a signal that you need to go harder. Use pressure to enjoy the challenge even more. Play with it, have fun with it.

Always think that there is a reward behind every pressure. It will make you tougher, it will give you a different kind of experience that will make you a better person. Face it and conquer it, you will find out that it is a blessing. 

CELEBRATE THE SMALLEST VICTORY

You need to celebrate the smallest victory in your life because that will keep you motivated, that will make you more determined to win, that will give you the momentum that you are looking for.

Even if you just earn 20 dollars for guarding the whole subdivision for 24 hours... celebrate it. If you just won 500 dollars in your first MMA fight and your nose is broke... still celebrate it. If you just got lucky winning 2 dollars in a lottery ticket, celebrate it. You should feel like  winner and you can only do that by celebrating.

You don't need to host a part or say it to the whole world, just be happy about it and be proud too.

A lot of people can't appreciate the smallest victory that they made that's why they can't create a big victory. You must start from being small first before becoming big. You have to crate something small first before create something great, if you can't create or appreciate the smallest things then how come will you be able to achieve bigger things. Your appreciation is your destination.

Celebrate it, drink whine on a goblet, tell it to your mama and papa. I am very sure they will give you a round of applause. Be super excited about it. If your names was just listed on the list of people who is qualified for a promotion... be happy about it. You may not get the real promotion but at least you win in a small way.

A small victory is still a victory, you work for it so you must celebrate it. There is no reason for not celebrating it because you sweat for it and you exert an effort. 

Once you have the habit of celebrating the smallest victory everyday, one day you will become big. Those smallest victory that you celebrate will accumulate in the end.

WHEN YOU FEEL THAT YOU'RE NOT GETTING THE CREDIT YOU DESERVE

Don't feel sad, don't feel bad if you're not getting the credit you think you deserve. Life is really unfair, sometimes you really work hard but your hard work is not paying off. I don't know but sometimes life really works that way. Maybe it is because your hard work is not yet enough. Maybe because you are still missing something. If this is happening to you, if you are working hard but you can't see the results... ally you can do is keep going, just be happy doing the process.

Maybe there is no reward, maybe the reward is the process itself. Because if you can be happy with just moving and doing the process then you're already successful. The money and other trophies are just bonuses. Taking actions and not getting bored with it is already a reward, because in life if you will not move then you will die slowly. You need to keep moving to maintain your life, you need to have a lot of fun doing something so that your body and brain will function properly.

You don't need a credit, you just need to enjoy what you're doing, you just need to have a lot of fun so you will feel successful. Just fall in love with the process and that is a success already. It doesn't matter if you get paid or not, it doesn't matter if you get popular or not. Just be happy, just keep getting better each day.

Do what will make you feel a little bit happy, it doesn't matter if it is 100 percent happiness, just do something that will make you feel a little bit better. What are you feeling now? do you feel bad, do you feel frustrated? think about something that will make you a little bit happier. It can be anything, it can be a simple step, it can be simply reading something or doing a little step for your goal.

Forget the credit, who needs it anyway, just find the love in the process, just motivate yourself to keep taking actions forever... that is happiness.

YOU CAN BE GOOD IN A SMALL WAY TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL

You can be good in basic things and you will become successful already. In class, if you're not smart... just be good in going to classes, don't be late, don't be absent, complete all the requirements and you will already pass. It's not about being intelligent, it's about doing the right things. It's very easy but a lot of college students fail because they were always late and absent and at the end of the day... they will make out of the world excuses, they will even blame their professors and call them terror.

You can be simply good in ignoring and you will become successful. Ignore the critics, ignore your boss who is making you feel bad, ignore the hate, ignore the noise outside, just focus on your work and you will become successful.

Just be a professional and you will become successful. Always be on time, respond fast, do what is needed, never be absent nor late, work like a real professional and clients will love you, they will even look for you.

Sometimes you overlook the small things, you ignore what you can do and focus on what you can't do. Just do what you can do and give your best, wait for the results to come in. You don't need to overthink, just focus on your strengths and success will be attracted to you.

ATTACK YOUR BIGGEST FEAR AND YOU WILL BECOME SUCCESSFUL

You will fail not because you lack the skill, not because you don't have talent or great support system, you will fail because you're afraid to attack what you fear the most. 

Your biggest fear is the key to your success. You're talking about hard work but the truth is it is your biggest fear. Yeah, you heard me right, your biggest fear is hard work, you're so afraid to get tired, you're so afraid to commit because you're afraid that it might work in the end. You're so afraid that you're only wasting your time for nothing. If you're afraid of hard work then you must work hard because it is the key to your success so attack it.

You're afraid of your boss not knowing that he is the key to your success. You're afraid to talk to him and ask for a promotion or an increase in salary. He is your biggest fear so you should attack him, be closer to him, tell him what you want to happen, if he didn't agree so be it, at least you give yourself a chance. Take him out to dinner and tell him that it's your treat, serve him the right food and tell him what you want. Attack him because he is the key to your success, success is an all or nothing thing, you shouldn't be afraid to deal with uncomfortable moments if you want to make results. 

If you want to become great then you should fight the greatest ones, you should never shy away from challenge because that is they key to greatness. Attack what you fear the most because it holds the key to your success, it holds your freedom. 

What is the thing that you are afraid of? go and attack it now. 

STOP FINISHING IT

Another technique that I recently discover that will make you do more is STOP FINISHING IT. If you found yourself doing some activities that is not related to your success.. stop finishing it and start doing your process of becoming successful right away.

If you find yourself watching your favorite show and you know there is something else that is important, stop finishing the TV show, go and start the first step of the more important task. This technique will make you more discipline, it will improve your decision making ability. You will become more mature and of course... you will have more time for the more important activities.

If you find yourself using your cellphone a lot for video games, if you're already on the last stage of your favorite video game... stop it, stop it and start working on your goal. Don't feel bad if you can't finish the video game, it is nothing, it will not even give you a good life. Choose what will give you a good life because it's the one that makes a lot of sense.

You must know what is the right thing to finish and what is not. Why will you finish something that is not even a needle mover? Finish what matters, success is only about finishing the right things and finishing it as fast as you can.

So stop finishing the bullshit activities, it is only putting you on the wrong direction. It feels good if you become aware that you are doing nonsense and immediately cutting it, it means you're discipline is on a different level.

You're only a human, you will be tempted with useless activities but it's your duty to stop them, it's your duty to be strict with yourself and just engage on more useful activities.

It's a battle, you have to choose between what is right or wrong. Of course the wrong activities are more fun but only in the beginning, it is not fun anymore if your life is going down. The right activities are more boring but has a lot of benefits, behind it is a good life waiting for you.

JUST TRY TO SEE GREATNESS

You can see greatness if you want to. You can take a sneak peek of it. The only thing that greatness requires is consistent hard work. It is very simple, you don't need to become a genius to become great. All you need is dedication and patience. Keep working and working until you produce something.

Don't be afraid to be the last on the race, life is a marathon not a race.

You can only see greatness if you are willing to persevere in the end. Forget the time, forget how old you are, forget all the mistakes you did from the past. The most important thing is now, you still have time to chase greatness, you still have time to stick with the process and take home success.

There is nothing wrong in chasing greatness, everyone can try it. It's sad that most people will not even try, they don't know that trying is free and it will never kill them.

Just try every possibility, push your will and never give up. If you work hard you will realize that greatness is not easy but trying to have it is worth it.

Once you see it, once you have it... never let it go. Make it yours forever, keep working forever. Getting it is almost a lifetime, maintaining it is a forever work.

You only have one life why will you not try to see greatness? it is worth it, chasing greatness is what will make you experience what life is all about. It's a lot of pain and sacrifices but the journey is worth it.

WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR IS WHAT YOU ARE NOT

You like to be called the best because you know in yourself that you're not the best yet. You want to be called a womanizer because you feel you have less girlfriends in the past. It's hard to admit it but it's the true. Because if you're that person already then you will never die to be called like that.

Don't die for praises and appreciation, don't seek for recognition because if you're really good, if you're really that person you wanted to be... appreciation will come to you naturally. They will give you great names, they will respect your achievements because they know you are for real and not just someone who is pretending.

Do what you need to do and become the greatest that you can be. You don't need their applause if you really know who you are.

IT WILL END IN JUST A MATTER OF TIME SO DON'T WORRY

Any pain will end in just a matter of time. Any wound will heal, any punishment will end, any sin will be forgiven, any bad movie will end, any heavy traffic will end, any misunderstanding will be fixed.

You just need to wait, sometimes you don't even need to do anything. Just wait and it will end. Stop worrying, stop crying, any pain and suffering will soon be over.

Just live with the moment and never forget to stay positive. The more you get mad about it the longer the pain will stay. Stop making dramas, stop complaining because it is only alleviating the pain. You need to continue to live, you need to continue to breathe.

Everything has an ending, even happiness has an ending. Even your life has an ending, it's sad but no matter how hard you stop it... it will end.

If you're having a hard time now, don't worry it will be over in a while. If you're lost and you don't know what to do... you will find a way. Everything has an ending, just wait for it and keep moving.

YOU CAN INVENT YOUR OWN SHITS TOO

You must feel free. You must be creative, being creative means being free. It means nothing is holding you back, it means you don't care about the outcome.

Because the truth is... you can invent your own shits too. You can invent a process, you can invent a technique, you can invent an idea, you can invent an invention. If other people were inventing stupid shits and the are selling, you too can do that. Just feel free, don't care about the result and just enjoy the process.

You can create your own book, you can build your own gym, you can create your own philosophy in life. You have the freedom and you must celebrate it. Nothing or nobody can stop you, you are the only one who can stop yourself. If other people are thriving, you too can thrive in your own way. Success and greatness is for anybody who will try to pursue it.

Hard work and commitment is the only key, you have to keep grinding the process and never stop until you become successful.

Just keep in mind that your situation now is only temporary and it will change it just a matter of time. Just make sure that you are willing to pay the price. Any invention can become successful if you paired it with hard work, passion and tenacity. Keep pushing, move fast, forget about what is happening around you and focus on inside of yourself.

Have faith that it will work in the end, have faith that everything will be alright. After all, trying is the most important thing not success. Trying is more important than winning. Trying will erase all the regrets.

Start now and invent something, create something and feel free. Use your creative mind. It's not about trying to become perfect and successful right away, it's about expressing yourself and executing your own ideas.

IF YOU DID IT YESTERDAY YOU CAN DO IT AGAIN TODAY

You're not lucky, you work hard for it that's why you get it, you put in the work, timing and effort that's why you became successful yesterday. And the good new is... if you were able to accomplish something like that yesterday, you can repeat it today. You can repeat it again tomorrow, you can repeat it as long as you want.

There is no such thing as fluke if you work hard and prepare, if you produce blood, sweat and tears then you really deserve it and you can repeat it again. So if you just earned $500 yesterday, you can do it again and tomorrow, you can do it over and over again, you can even double the $500 in one day. Don't think that you just got lucky yesterday, there is no such thing as luck, it will not happen if you didn't show up and work. So all you have to do is show up again today and work. Double the work if needed to ensure that you will get the same outcome.

It's all about being consistent and having the same mindset that you have yesterday, if you become successful yesterday then don't change the thought process, don't change the work ethic, never change anything.

Believe in yourself that you can repeat a great achievement, don't be too humble and be a little bit greedy. You need to push yourself to repeat the best outcome that you produced, that is how to become successful.

Sometimes it will be harder to repeat something but it is what it is, it's part of the process, it's part of being successful. Sometimes you need to work overtime and you have to be ok with that.

Don't be afraid that it will not happen again today because it will. Just trust the process and expect success.

Expect that it is going to become harder but also expect that you can repeat the same results yesterday.

FAILING DOESN'T MEAN I WILL STOP

I've been failing a lot of times this past few months. This blog is not earning good, the rank is going down, the visitors are not consistent but that doesn't mean I have the right to quit. That doesn't mean that I will give up. I have this mindset that the more I fail, the more I will push harder.

I don't care if I fail over and over again because I knew that one day my time will come. I will become successful too like other people.

I love to try, I'm not like any other people who will just quit whenever they fail. I am willing to fail a million times and still not quit. This is the mindset that I have, it's like failing is only making my will power stronger.

I will chase success until it chases me in the future. People may laugh, people may doubt. But one thing I have is belief, my belief will never change. Even if it seems impossible... I will push until the end.