Apr 4, 2023

DON'T HEAL JUST ENDURE


The more you wanted to heal the more the pain gets stronger. Sometimes you just need to endure and remind yourself that nothing can kill you. The more you want the pain to go away the more it will irritate you, it will stay longer. Let it stay for as long as it want and just keep moving forward, all the pain will go away in just a matter of time, you don't need to force it or worry about it. That pain is there to teach you something, the more you resist the more it will persist. Do everything you can to lessen it and never set a deadline for it to heal. Just let it heal naturally and never feel sorry or feel like a victim because that is life, you are suppose to feel the pain, struggling is natural. Everything happens for a reason and never blame anything for your misfortune. It is what it is, you need to endure it or else it will get stronger and harder. 

IF YOU STILL BELIEVE THEN YOU STILL HAVE A CHANCE

You've got to believe in the process. Belief is everything, self belief and self actualization makes a big big difference. If you really believe it then it will never stop, you will keep going no matter what. You will never care about the circumstances, you will never care if you're down so bad. Check the level of your belief, what's the size of it? if you really believe in yourself then you will never crumble to any pressure. Just believe, believing is free, believing is for everyone, you can believe everyday, make your faith stronger and powerful by thinking everyday and every second that what you want will happen. Believing is easy, just think about what you want to happen and never change that thought, believe that it already happened in your life, believe that it's yours already. Keep believing, go hard and believe in yourself. 

HOW STRONG IS YOUR DISCIPLINE

your discipline is the key, how long can you stay positive? how long can you work? how long can you wait? you will never win if you don't have a discipline. Keep in mind that you will never be able to change your destiny if you will not make yourself disciplined enough. Just keep going, trust yourself, trust the universe, all you have to do is believe that it already happened and that's it. Don't half ass it, don't hesitate, don't think twice, don't count yourself out, don't put your one foot in and one foot out... go all in. Do whatever it takes to win, produce every thought that will strengthen your mentality. The more you discipline your mind and actions the better your life will be, as simple as that. You don't need luck, talents or help to make your life a little bit better, just discipline yourself and you will be alright. You will only have a better life if you will always practice delayed gratification and make big time sacrifices to heal something and get stronger and better. 

ENJOY EVERYTHING

The pain, struggle, pressure, fear, success, comebacks, progress, enjoy everything... that's how to make it easier, that's how to erase all the obstacles along the way. If you have the ability to enjoy everything may it be good or bad then you will become invincible because you will be present all the time. And being present and in the moment means more power, speed, patience and creativity. You will have more time if you will enjoy everything, you will have more wisdom to see the answers to the questions that nobody can explain. Embrace your fears and feel it with all your heart, never try to resist it, embrace it and never back down even if it will wear you down. You have an uncanny ability to enjoy everything in your life, it all depends on your mindset, you have to enjoy it like it's your only possession, you have to enjoy it like it's a real privilege to experience it. 

EVERY LITTLE THING WILL HELP

It's like saving coins to your piggy bank, it's like investing. What you constantly think, believe, say and do will help and contribute to the final output that you're trying to create. Believe in the power of your thoughts and actions. If you're doing something to make your life better then it will get better, even if you're not seeing any results yet, that's ok. Just be patient because it takes time. Just believe that one small positive thing will help. It may not create an impact at first but if you are consistent enough to take positive actions everyday then you will reap what you sow, your efforts will bear sweet fruits. So never think that you're just wasting time for trying so hard. You are not wasting time because your character is getting better and better. So never underestimate the power of small actions, stay consistent and you will be fine. 

YOU CAN OVERCOME ANYTHING

When you go further and try to overcome any problems or difficulties... that's how you make a progress, that's how your situation get better. Overcome your negative thoughts, overcome laziness, overcome bad habits... that's all you need to do and you will win in life. Detach from negative thoughts, detach from negativity, detach from worrying about the future and your life will get easier. focus on the now, focus on doing something food now that will propel your to greatness or simply small progress. Because you are entitled to overcome, you are entitled to get more and get better everyday. It's really up to you. But you have to constantly remind yourself that you need to work and give effort, you will never get better or will never be able to improve your situation if you keep on being lazy. Hard work plus belief will make you unstoppable, don't work for a little and expect to become successful, stop fooling yourself. You need to make sacrifices, you need to give everything you've got. 


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Mar 30, 2023

WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE SCARED LIKE A CHICKEN


If you are scared, if you can't move fast, if you are doubting yourself, if you are mentally stifled... all you need to do is hustle, just take actions, just grind, just move forward and never care about how you feel. Your emotions are ling to you all the time, your thoughts are making you weak because it's manufacturing fears, you need to promise to yourself that you will hustle no matter what. This kind of mentality will give you a momentum, it will create openings, success will be attracted to you. It's not about bein brave, it's not about being bold... it's about taking chances and never letting fear take over of your life. Be scared but take the shot, be hesitant but still ask, be emotionally damage but still fight, be broke but don't stop. You can move despite of feeling these negative emotions. The good thing about life is you can tweak yourself anytime you want to, you can become a wounded animal that is still fighting. Hustling is a game changer, all you have to do is work as hard as you can and trust the process and you will be alright, as simple as that. You can fight even if you are scared, you can try anytime you want, you don't need to ask for permission from anyone. 

YOU ARE SO UNSTOPPABLE

You just don't believe in yourself. You are unstoppable if you will allow yourself to move forward anytime you need to. You're so addicted to comfort and that's why you can't move forward. You're pampering yourself too much that's why you can't make a progress. You are unstoppable if you will push yourself to the limits and never give up until it is done. Just believe in yourself, believe that you can work hard and do something big, believe in the power of just moving forward and trying. Don't be scared to fail, don't be scared to try. Just try and do whatever it takes to succeed and that's it. Fake it till you make it, fake the confidence if you don't have it and you will have it. Make yourself unstoppable by taking massive actions.

EXCUSES ARE FOR THE WEAK

the truth is... you can try, you can give yourself a chance to succeed but you're so full of shi* that's why you can't get ahead in life. You're inventing out of this world excuses just to avoid taking actions. You can try even if you will fail but the best thing about trying is you are building a strong mental attitude to never give up and put yourself on a better position to win Excuses is for the weak, it will only make you weak. You need to man up, stand up for what you believe in and do whatever it takes to reach your goals. It all starts now, you need to pull the trigger now and start creating a momentum to become successful. All it takes is having the decisiveness to go all in no matter what. Even if it is hard, even if it is risky, even if you are sure to lose... just try and exert your best effort. Stop building excuses because it's not helping you at all, it's only making you look like a loser. You need to make yourself a winner and that will only happen if you will take actions and stop looking for reasons why you should stop taking actions. Success can only be achieved through relentless effort and nothing else. You can look for other shortcuts but you will never see it. Shortcuts are fake, it is nothing but a hype, it is for lazy people who will always fail in the end. If you really wanted to win then get ready to build yourself in fire, get ready to feel the pressure and face the pain. 

TAKE IT

Take the shot, force fate, allow yourself to become something big. Take your dream, go and get it because it is yours. You can make yourself free to do anything, the only thing that is stopping you is your mind and your fears. Promise to yourself to just keep going no matter what. Whatever sacrifice, actions, small steps you can take... take it and never hesitate to try again whenever you fail. Of course you will fail, of course you will experience a lot of setbacks but never let those things break your heart. Continue to build the spirit of a warrior and never let anything stop you from doing what you need to do. Don't be shy, stop 

BEING PRESENT CREATES LUCK

Just show up, be on time, do it consistently, never make excuses, never skip the process, be the most present and hard worker and you will create luck, as simple as that. The reason why you can't become lucky is because you're not showing up all the time, you're inconsistent, you're too lazy. You think you're working hard because you feel that it is hard but the truth is you're too soft and slow. 

YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO REVERSE YOUR THOUGHTS

practice reversing your thoughts. If you feel that something is hard, thing that it is easy. If you're thinking about failing, think about winning. If you think about suffering think about bliss, if you're thinking about people hating you think that they love you. 

LOOK FOR THE NEXT NUMBER

Look for the next points, next practice, next push up, next try, next production, next money. Always look for the next number, make your numbers big, make your number phenomenal. Speed and volume is the key, you will become successful if you're a volume action taker. Massive success requires massive action so never stop, get addicted with the process and believe that all of your hard work will pay off one day. It may not work today but for sure it will in the future. There's always something you can do and that is power. It's better to be doing something and improving a little bit than just watching and hoping for things to change. Just like an NBA player who watches on the bench and not playing, it's better to lift some weights and practice after the game because he didn't use his energy, or maybe during halftime he should do some drills that will make him stronger a little bit. There is a power in taking small and consistent actions, it will have a compound effect in the future. Don't hope, hope is for the weak, you better take actions now and do something that will give you a chance to win. make something move, make your numbers move, don't stay on the same number forever, make it grow, make it big as it can be, always believe that you are infinite and cannot be measures. Your potential, skills, heart cannot be measures and you have to remind yourself about it. Look for the next push, look for the next step, it doesn't matter if it will work or not... just look for it and never stop, that's how to become legendary. 

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Mar 28, 2023

your decision should come from internal




Your decision to become someone or do something should not be based on external, it should come from the internal. It should be what you really want and not what other people want you to be. It's your life, you own it, nothing can stop you if you will decide to become unstoppable, you can do something great if you will just be brave enough to pull the trigger and never mind what's going to happen next. You've got to have no conscience when making a decision, decide that you're going to stand for yourself no matter what. Any belief is worth fighting for, if you believe in yourself then it's really worth it. Never feel so bad if you fail by believing in yourself and doing it your way. It's alright, take matters into your own hands and never let anyone lose the game for you. you have to lose by your own way and never let the fear of what anyone say affect your mentality. If you go down you go down so be it but never let anything stop you from expressing yourself because if you really believe it then it should be executed. 

DON'T BE SCARED TO FAIL

The key to freedom is to simply stop being scared of failing. You need to try with all your might, you need to keep going further as much as you can. Just try, trying is free, it is your privilege. The only reason why you don't want to try is because you're afraid of what people are going to say, you're too afraid of their words. Words has no meaning, it is useless without action, they can say whatever they want to you but they can never kill you nor harm you. Words are just sound, it's nothing, it can affect your mind but if you will just ignore it then it will never do any impact on your mentality. Protect your mind, you have to stay focused and committed, you have to keep fighting for what you want and never think about giving up. There's no pressure, it is only imaginary, you put pressure on yourself because you think that something is big. If you will treat it as nothing then it can never ever scare you at all. Think of it as nothing because it really is, the only thing that is valuable is your life. Anything outside of it were just a bonus. 

YOU DON'T NEED ANY ADVICE

Just keep on going, you don't need any advice at all, you just need to go all in and give everything you've got and that's it. It's too simple, there's no special instructions for success, you just need to push yourself to the limits and do whatever it takes to win in life. Believe in yourself, you have the authority to dream big and win, you have what it takes to go further as much as you can, you can become relentless if you want to. It all depends on your mentality and work ethic. If you really want it then you will go further and give your all, you will never be afraid of critics and harsh comments, you will never be afraid of embarrassment, you will push yourself and try with all your might. 

PERSEVERANCE IS POWER

Persistence and energy can control everything. all you have to do is keep fighting and never give up and that's it... you will never lose. Use your willpower, use your tenacity and mental strength. It's all in the mind, you're losing because you're not working hard enough and not believing in yourself enough. Trust the hustle, trust your ability to go all in every single day. Trust the process, just don't quit and you will become victorious, as simple as that. If there is a will there is a way, greatness finds a solution to any adversity. Challenges reveals a man his true character, you have to own the moment and conquer it, you have to face the challenge and make the best out of it. You can move forward towards a strong storm, no lighting can stop you, no heavy rain can drown you if you keep on charging. 

DON'T HESITATE FOR ONCE

It's ok if you are losing your confidence but never lose the hustle. Don't hesitate to take the action, don't ever think twice if you're going to go hard or not. Hustle will overpower everything, it can overpower your fears and erase your doubts. Just keep going and you will see what I am talking about. The reason why you're so scared is because you're not taking actions. If you will just commit to moving forward then you will become unstoppable, as simple as that. It's ok to become scared or nervous but never doubt your power to take actions and take chances. There is always an opportunity. Remind yourself that it's a mind game, you against you, you don't have any competition here, the real competition is in your head. So the only way to erase your fears is to stop hesitating for once, always choose movement over procrastination, always choose activity over stopping for no reason. You have the power to move all the time, you can force your body to move, it's just a matter of using your willpower and embracing the pain. 

PROTECT YOUR MENTALITY

Never care about people, information or ideas that are not helping you to have a strong mentality. You have to protect your mind, never let someone's opinion make you weak and doubtful. You have to constantly bath your mind with beautiful ideas and images that's making you more powerful and active. It's all in the mind, strengthen your mind and you will be able to conquer anything in life. Thoughts will come and go into your head, your life was determined by the most dominant thought in your head. So if you constantly think about something that is not helping you or not making you feel good then your life will go down. It is important to be aware of what you are thinking so that you will be able to make the right moves and position yourself on a better place to win. 

MIND OVER MATTER

Nothing is impossible if you will consider mind over matter. What is hard is not really hard if you will believe that you can do it. If you believe in yourself enough then creativity will come out, solutions will be revealed and something will click. The reason why you're struggling so bad is because you don't believe in yourself firmly enough to take risks and actions.

YOU WILL ONLY HAVE PEACE OF MIND

If you will do it your way, if you will never follow a baloney advice from somebody who doesn't have a heart same as you. If you will just take the risk and never mind the consequences of your actions, if you will just go all the way and never care if you fail big time. 

STOP PROTECTING YOUR SELF IMAGE

You can't decide on your own, you can't express yourself because you're protecting your self image too much. You're so in love with your self image, you're too worried about what people are going to say and that's why you can't go any further. You're playing it too safe, you don't want the pressure, you don't want the fire. 

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Mar 25, 2023

ANY CHALLENGE IS A BLESSING




If you are facing any adversity right now, if you are so scared right now, if you are doubting yourself and worrying about the future... be happy, it's there to make you stronger, it's preparing your mentally, it's a blessing in disguise. You will never be given a problem that you can't handle, the only question is... are you willing to accept it? are you will to face the challenge and never run away from it? pressure creates diamonds, if you're struggling badly right now, if you're not making any progress despite of working hard then feel happy because a breakthrough is about to happen. Just keep going, that's the only game plan and it will work for sure. You don't need to become extra special here, you just need to keep plodding and wait until something finally click. Keep trying, keep persevering, you need to build yourself in fire and not in comfort. Every great person suffers a great deal of adversity but they never give up, they always look for that next step that they can do. So if you're being challenged with an unexpected problem, if you're being tested... be happy because it's making you stronger, it's preparing your for a break through, all you need to do is fight and you will win. Be brave a little bit, keep moving even if you are scared. Nobody will get stronger through comfortable situations, a skilled pilot developed his skills through bad weather and strong winds, a great captain never get better through favorable weather. You have to keep in mind that if you are struggling then you are gaining, you are developing, no need to feel worried at all because you're in a win win situation if you're in a dog fight. 

IT'S A GREAT STORY FOR YOU

A great story is waiting for you. If you will just fight it, if you will just face it and never give up then you will win in the end. It's hard to continue and easy to quit but quitting will only give you regrets and questions, you will always question yourself what if you continue. The blueprint is too simple, just do whatever it takes to win. It doesn't matter if you are tired, it doesn't matter if you are scared... just do whatever you can do to give yourself a chance to win. Any situation will change in just a matter of time, you just need to hang on and never give up. Good things will come to people who persevere. So keep pushing and stop holding yourself back, learn to fight even if you are scared, learn to see the positive on negatives. Every challenge is an opportunity to rise like a phoenix and hunt like a lion, fight like your life depends on it, you can conquer any obstacle and move any mountain if you will just use your willpower. And speaking of willpower, it never runs out, you can use it anytime you want. 

It's a perfect opportunity to create a great story. Don't waste that adversity, face it, don't shy away from it and feel the pressure, it's an opportunity to know yourself more, it's an opportunity to make a break through and find out what you are really made of. Are you made of butter or are you made of steel? do you melt easily or can you reshape yourself to something that can withstand any kind of pressure? If you are dealing with some kind of a problem then it means you are being given an opportunity to grow, take it, take that battle and fight it, never give up, just do your best and never quit. It's easy to become a coward and blame life for your misery but it will never help you, it will only make your life worse. You have to face it like a real man and never look for an easy way out. Deal with it, embrace it and try to make something out of it. Any adversity is trying to teach you a lesson, it's a path for a new beginning so don't worry if you do not know what's going to happen next, it's ok if you are unsure... just keep moving forward and you will find a way. Any challenge is a blessing, it is there for a reason, it's there teach you how to fight in life and stop being a chicken. 

STAY HUMBLE AND NEVER GIVE UP

Stay humble when you're winning, stay humble when there are blessing, stay humble when you're struggling too, don't act like you're entitled of something. Just stay humble all the time and focus on taking the next best step that you can do. You situation will change if you will take full ownership of your life. You need to accept that you are who you are today because of your decisions in the past. You have to try everything to make your life better, you have to push yourself to the limits and forget your boundaries... that's the only way to make a break through. Forget the past and never worry about tomorrow, focus on what you can do today and simply take baby steps. Don't rush anything but don't get lazy, little by little move forward and try to make your situation a little bit better. Improvement will happen if you can learn how to wait and be patient while working hard. This is not a race it is a marathon, don't worry if your time hasn't come yet, it will come on the right time but you have to be prepared for it. Preparation and opportunity will meet and that will breed success. 

Go as hard as you can

As fast as you can, as hard as you can, keep moving forward so that you will forget your problems and you will be able to come up with solutions. The reason why you are depressed is because you're too slow and not active. You need to make yourself busy all the time and focus on the things that gives you an edge. You can create that powerful mentality if you will stick with the process and never stop just for a second. Focus on what you need to do, never stop until it's done and when it's done... look for a new thing to do. Just keep going, that's what it is all about... being relentless so your problems won't be able to catch you. If you are moving all the time then you will never lose balance, but if you stop pedaling... you will fall and get hurt. If you decide to move forever like a shark then nothing can stop you. Move forward all the time, make this as your lifestyle, even if you're not getting any results... just move and never ever look back. You will go further if you are not resting. So stop being lazy and face any kind of challenge, you can conquer anything if you will not stop. Hard work cannot be measured, there is always another level, that's the beauty of this concept. You can work hard now and work harder tomorrow, you can always beat your own record. Challenge yourself to become the best version of yourself without complaining or making any excuses. 

IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO LOSE

If you will make up your mind and decide to never quit even if the stakes were so high... it's impossible for you to lose. You will only lose if you quit, once you decide to keep going forever... you will win in just a matter of time, you just need to believe and work harder, you just need to stop complaining and never get tired of waiting. You will win, your time will come if you will never stop. So keep going and just do what you can do, be happy if you're struggling because any challenge is a blessing. 


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THE REASON WHY YOU NEED TO TRY




Don't be afraid to fail, take the blame or look like a fool. You need to try, you need to fail big time, you need to give yourself a chance to succeed. You can only win if you will take the risk, as simple as that. Fight for what you want and never look back, keep moving forward and use all of your strength, you need to keep going further if you want to know the truth. That's the only way to know if you can make it or not... push yourself to the limits and never give up, never stop, never settle for what was given to you, you need to look for possibilities where you can do it by yourself, never belittle yourself, never believe what they told you, define who you are and always give your best no matter what. They can say everything the want but you have to believe in yourself even if nobody else does. You can try again now, nobody can penalize you, nothing can stop you from trying again for one more time. Just start and go hard. 

TRYING IS FREE

Don't worry about failing because you can try again the next time. Trying is free, all you need to do is try and you will win, as simple as that. try now, try even if you're not prepared, try even if you don't have the skills, try even if you're doubtful. Just try because it's worth it, give yourself a chance to win and never give up. Nobody will charge you for trying, it doesn't matter if you fail a million times... just keep on trying and good things will come to you. Just hustle, have fun trying and improving, treat it as a game, don't worry if you failed today because you have unlimited tries, nothing can stop you if you will make yourself unstoppable, become relentless as you can be and don't worry about what will happen next. Focus on the now, focus on what you can do now and just carry on. Trying and putting yourself on a better position to succeed is the best privilege that you can have, you can try anytime you want, you can try on 3am and nobody can stop you. It's the best thing in life, trying and hustling is your biggest weapon. If you are a trier then you will get blessings. 

NOTHING IS TOO BIG FOR YOU

You don't want to try because you think it's too big, you think it's too risky and you're going to die when you fail. Nobody dies in trying, you can survive any failure, you can try again tomorrow. You're in a win win situation here so why will you be scared? no money, no dream, no situation is big for you. It's all in the mind, you're putting too much pressure on yourself because you think it's your only chance. If you can just detach from the outcome and never mind if it is hard, expensive, big or impossible then you will move faster and bolder. The reason why you're always hesitating is because you think something is too big for you. If you will just push and do whatever it takes to win then you will win, as simple as that. Focus on taking one step at a time and never hold yourself back just for a second. Always think that it is doable or achievable. Never judge yourself, never write yourself off. 

MAKE DISCIPLINE AS YOUR ACHIEVEMENT

You want to become great right? you want to change right? but you're too confused and scared of how are you going to do it. Just discipline yourself today and do the most important things, never do something stupid and useless and consider that as your achievement already. You will attract bigger things and better opportunities if you are locked in and committed. The reason why you are failing is because you are full of crap and laziness, you think you are entitled of something but you are not sacrificing big time. If you want something, you need to put all of your energies and time on it. Never do something useless, never let pleasures distract you, practice delayed gratification and create the best version of yourself. Go all in for something, dedicate your life to it, never give up and it will be yours. Discipline and focus is all you need to become successful, forget the results just trust the process and be the hardest worker as you can be. It's time to go all in, it's time to become something else. stop clowning around, stop punking around and make yourself better each day. 

WATCH YOUR MIND IF IT'S LOOKING FOR COMFORT AND EXCUSES

You will always look for ways why you need to stop, you will always look for comfort and easier path. That is the default of your mind, it is always avoiding discomfort and hard work. And that is why only few people succeed, only few people can't see themselves. If you can discipline yourself to just finish what you've started and never stop then you will become very productive. You have to watch your mind because it will always create out of this world excuses just to stop you from working. You have to focus on taking the next step and the next one and the next one, you have to become emotionless if you want to go further. Because your mind will always look for comfort, it will tell you that you're tired already even if you're not. 

Believe in the power of hard work and perseverance. You can control and conquer anything if you will become persistent and patient. Just do it, never give up, never stop and keep hammering till the bitter ends. It's easy if you will pull the trigger, nothing is impossible if you will go further and push yourself to the limits. If you want to get what you haven't got before... do something you haven't done before. 

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Mar 23, 2023

YOU'RE AFRAID OF YOURSELF




You are afraid that yourself is going to fail you, you're afraid that you can't do it, you're afraid that you don't have what it takes to make it. You're not afraid of any circumstances, you're not afraid of anything or anyone, you are afraid of yourself. You are afraid that you might feel bad, you are afraid of your emotions, you are afraid of your laziness and lack of desire, in other words... you don't trust yourself. But if you will become friends with yourself, if you will love yourself and be your own ally then you will become unlimited. You are afraid of your own light, you are afraid that you cannot shine. You are so afraid that you might come up short and not get what you want, you are so afraid that you might disappoint yourself and the people who trust you. 

HOW TO BECOME FEARLESS

Stop thinking about the future and focus on the now. Just push forward even if you're not sure of what you're doing, just try even if you're not guaranteed to win. Embrace failure, embrace the pain of reality, you will only win if you will make yourself vulnerable to failure. Keep fighting, that's all you need to do, stop actin like a chicken hiding, just show up even if you're afraid. Stay still and work hard, that's how to beat fear, focus on trying to become productive in a small way and multiply it as much as you can. You will gain momentum if you're doing something that is working a little bit. Stop trying to look good, stop trying to look perfect and just make yourself available to failure, embrace it with open arms, fully accept it and never try to deny it. Failing the right way means you're trying, you're giving your very best and you're not hiding away from pressure. It means you're giving your all and you have no plan of quitting. Move forward and you will be alright, stop doing something that is making you even worse and just look for something to do what will make you and your situation better, as simple as that. This is too simple, just work hard and believe and you will be alright. The power of belief is real, you will never be denied if you can be the hardest worker in the world. 

HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE

It's too simple, by facing your fears and taking actions. Forget about what will happen next and just focus on pulling the trigger, focus on giving yourself a chance to succeed, expose yourself to the possibility of failure, don't be afraid to embarrass yourself, don't be afraid to take the blame, don't be afraid to get criticized... that's how to become great. If you're trying to become great you must not focus on fitting in, you must focus on expressing yourself and giving everything you've got. Confidence is not that hard to get, you're just afraid of your own ghost and that's why you can't get it. If you want to become confident you need to be able to endure critics, hate and blame. You must be able to expose yourself to failure, embarrassment and rejection and not feel anything about it. Or maybe you will feel something a little bit but never let it consume you. 

CHOOSE HARD WORK OVER RESULTS

If you will just choose hard work over hype, results or any shortcuts then you will get more confident. Success will be attracted to you life naturally, you will be able to open doors and welcome different opportunities. Hard work can thrive in any situation, hard work will make you believe and make people believe that you can do something great. Just keep pushing and never mind what will happen next. Be bold and fast, don't just wait for something to happen before you act... just work as hard as you can and that's it. Because if you are working hard then you will have more control, if you will look for results then you will have zero control because you can never predict the outcome, you can only predict how much effort you will exert. Hard work alone will make you happy and satisfied, if you knew you are giving your all then there's nothing else to worry about. 

The game plan of working hard for at least one year, follow this game plan and you will see how good you can be. Just work hard and stop conserving your energy, stop focusing on things and people that doesn't even matter. What matters is your goal, what matters is what you want in life, bring it to life by working hard and doin whatever it takes to win. 

DOUBTING YOURSELF IS NORMAL

You will be scared, you will lose confidence, you will fail, you will cry like a bit*h and that's ok, you will begin to question yourself if you can do it or not, you will always have doubts and fears. Don't worry because that is normal, the only thing you need to do is be aware that you're feeling that way and remind yourself that it will soon go away. It's just a feeling, it will never kill you so don't ever be afraid of it just for once. To remove your doubts... you have to work as hard as you can and never give up, never stop, never hold yourself back. You have a chance today, you can make it right today, you can do something spectacular. It's all about your persistence and determination, it's really up to you. Embrace those fear and never shy away from it, never hide from the pressure, feel it and you will discover your strength. The truth about confidence is not being confident at all, it's feeling the lack of confidence but still showing up and doing what you are suppose to do. It's pushing yourself to take actions even if you're not getting any progress or momentum at all. Real power is the ability to still move despite of the mental and emotional struggles. It's about moving forward and not wasting your time dwelling on the things that you don't have any control.                                
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Mar 16, 2023

DON'T FEEL GUILTY IF YOU PRIORITIZE YOURSELF




Don't feel guilty, don't feel sorry if you prioritize yourself, that's should be your main goal from the very start. Let them talk, let them criticize you, you should not feel bad if someone is offended by your actions. Because if you will not prioritize yourself then you will suffer in the end, you must take care of yourself before you help others, you must get stronger and better first and that will only happen if you will give more time for yourself, not just a spare time but more and more time. That's the only way to evolve. Don't give your time randomly to different people, don't give your resources just because you are being emotionally involve, stop prioritizing your emotions and just do what you need to do that will make your life better. It is what it is, you need to be selfish with your energy if you want to grow. Because you will get lost, your energy will drain fast if you're available all the time. You must choose what you really want and really need, stop letting people dictate what you need to do because you know what to do. 

FEAR IS TEMPORARY

you will be scared right now, you will be mentally stifled but you have to remind yourself that it's too normal and that fear will go away anytime soon. Fear is nothing but a feeling. It's just an emotion that come and go, it will never kill you. It's ok if you are scared but be aware that you are, don't just go with the flow of fear and do crazy stupid things that you don't even like. Never let your emotion control you. If you want your fears to go away... move forward, do something positive and never care about the future. Focus on the process, focus on doing something and never care if you fail or win, just do it, just get better and believe that all of your work is putting you on a better place to succeed. Just believe that your grind is making you better and giving you the improvement you need in order to have a better life. Any emotion should stop controlling you, control your mind and your thoughts and you will be able to control how you feel. Feel neutral all the time and never give up, just keep moving forward even if it is hard. Don't stop, don't quit and you will be good. 

YOU DON'T NEED THOSE DRAMA

If it can't give you anything in return, if it will never make you grow then why the hell will you get interested with those drama. It's eating your time, it's turning you into a garbage and you don't realize it. Those drama will only poison your mind, it will kill your momentum, it will slow down your aggressiveness, you don't need to know what Cologne is Kim Kardashian using, you don't need to know if Kanye West was insane, you don't need to know if Donald Trump's hair is fake, you don't need to know if Tiger Woods is cheating on his wife. You just need to know the basics and that is forcing yourself to become disciplined and finding a way how to do the next move that will give you an edge and momentum. You have to keep blocking those useless and negative information because it is ruining your mentality to succeed, it's occupying your brain and making you weak and slow. Be aware of what information that comes in and out of your head because it's shaping your reality. 

LIFE IS SO SIMPLE

Detach from expectations, avoid attaching yourself too much with anything and just live your life according to how you want to live it. Never let anyone rule you or make you do something that you don't want. Never let anyone manipulate you, make your life basic and follow your own principles. Never look for appreciation, likes, recognition, praises because it will only make you weak. Never do something because you want people to like you. Greatness is simply giving more time if not all the time for yourself. It's simply about improving da by day and doing the process that gives you an edge a little bit. Greatness is not about fitting in, it's forcing your way to make something better in your life, it's doing it your way and allowing your ideas to blossom and manifest something that is bigger than what everyone is expecting. Don't make your life so hard, it will get easier if you will focus on doing what is putting you on a better position to succeed. Draw a game plan and follow it no matter what. Move forward no matter what, even if you don't feel good... you need to take steps, just take it one step at a time, it's not that hard, you just need to stop thinking about the future and be present. If you're in the moment then you will feel much better and in control. 

YOU ARE THE NUMBER ONE OPTION

Not him, not the superstar, not the wannabe coach, not the wannabe leader, not the fake confident guru, not the rich kid, not the crowd favorite, not your supervisor... you are the priority. If you want to do something do something, if you don't want to do something don't do it. People will judge you no matter what so stop trying to look perfect and clean. Get dirty and try everything, try as much as you can and never try to prove yourself just for once. Use all of your time for your own growth. Never use it to give time to others who doesn't even value your time. Your only chance to have a good life is to shower yourself with a lot of time. Do everything you can to make yourself better. At the end of the day your only ally is yourself, nobody will help you, nobody will come to save you, you're the only one who can save your sorry ass so why not give all of time for your dream and potential? you have to take care of yourself seriously because nobody will do it for you. You and you against all the challenges in the world. You should be your number one option and never let anything disturb you without your consent. Take care of your mind and body, stay disciplined and committe.

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Mar 14, 2023

SET A DEADLINE FOR YOURSELF




Deadlines are powerful, it will make you move, it will make your brain alert, you will be on a sense of urgency if you are feeling the deadline. It will make you take actions even if it's too uncomfortable. You will be forced to move even if there are lot of excuses running inside of your head. You will get faster, you will be alert and scared a little bit but scared in a good way. Set a deadline for every activity that you're so afraid to do, set a short deadline. 

DON'T BITE THE TRAPS

There are lot of traps surrounding you, it's everywhere and if you're not aware of it... you will bite it, the worse thing is it will waste your time and energy, you will become unproductive and you will start to lose your momentum. Traps are everywhere, cellphone is a trap, social media is a trap, partying is a trap,  gossiping is a trap, just a random post on tike tok is a trap. It's very easy to become successful nowadays because most people are getting weaker and weaker because of social media. They're wasting a lot of time on social media and the funny thing is it's not even giving them anything. If you want to get ahead in life you need to get faster and you will only get faster if you're not biting those traps that are harmful to your mentality and useless to your life. Step out of your comfort zone and try to get better every single day. It's easy to get better, all you have to do is stop wasting time and remove all of your vices. Stop doing a lot of useless and entertaining stuffs that's not even helping you to level up mentally and physically. You are investing on yourself everyday, it's either you get better or get worse. So ask yourself, what did you do today to get a little bit better? stop lying, be honest with yourself, that's the only way to get ahead in life. 

Avoid all the useless information. There are lot of times when you would love to know something about this guy or that girl but you need to stop yourself from doing that if you wanted to become productive. There are lot of information that's inside of your head that you don't even need, you need to be aware of the thoughts that you are consuming because sometimes it's not even helping you at all. Watch yourself, watch every action that you take... that's how to become productive, that's how to change your life. Never think about other people's business and mind your own business only, focus on trying to get better all the time and never worry about the problems of others. It's their lives, you are not responsible for the outcome of their lives, they are in control they're just not aware of it. 

It's ok if you're not skilled, it's ok if you're not the best, it's ok if you're the worse but don't bite the traps that make you the worst. These traps are fun, easy and entertaining but later it will become very stressful because it will control you and will pull you down. You have to be aware of the thoughts that are running inside of your head. It's easy to hate and become negative, it's easy to become lazy and useless but it will only cause depression and regrets in the end. You have to make yourself a doer, that's the only way to get better. It's ok if you're not talented or smart but make yourself a doer and never get lazy just for a single day. Maximize your time and always look for a small improvement that you can get every single day. 

STOP BEING CUTE

You have cute ways, you have cute effort, you have cute timing, you think you are cute. Stop trying to look cute all the time and just execute. If you're taking care of your self image then you will never be able to move. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, don't be afraid of defeats, don't be afraid of what's going to happen in the future and just take actions now. Stop holding yourself back and just believe in yourself. People that are trying to look cute are lazy people, they're failures. They don't want to get tired, they don't want to fail, they don't want to try. They care about their self image a lot, they feel so entitled and that's why they don't want to feel the discomfort. You're too soft, you care about your emotions and that mindset will not even help you. Stop being cute and just try to work as hard s you can, as simple as that. 

FOCUS ON FIGHTING

Just focus on stepping one foot forward and then the other one and the other one, follow through. Never stop until you're done, no matter what time it is or what the situation will be... keep moving forward, that's how to win in life. Focus on fighting, fight for the next step, fight for your position, fight for your dream, fight for the next push. Always have the mentality of fighting and doing whatever it takes to win, that's how to win in life. Because if you will not fight, if you will not try again then it is game over, as simple as that. Just show up, just run, just exert an effort, just try, just don't stop and you will put yourself on a better position to win, as simple as that. You don't need to become special here, you just need to fight, just do the next step, what's the best step that you can do? focus on it. 

THIS IS A MENTAL GAME

You can't move not because of the situation but because you are mentally stifled. You are scared of what's going to happen next. The key is to push yourself and just fight your emotions, go against what you feel and start to believe in yourself. Confidence will start to build up every time you face your fears. Stay still while being scared, don't predict the future, don't crumble, don't panic, just breathe while doing what is needed. Real winning mentality is simply trying and nothing more than that. It's not about nailing it, its not about getting the trophy, it's about taking actions and giving yourself a chance to evolve. You will never grow if you will not take actions. Move now and do something, stop being a chicken and just move, there are lot of things you can do if you will just take matters into your own hands.                

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Mar 10, 2023

forget the examples




iF YOU HAVE an idea, if you think it is real, if you feel in your heart that it can become successful... make it, do it, execute and never look for examples before you believe. You don't need role models, you don't need people to say you it's possible. You don't need to look for history and make yourself believe that anyone has done it before. You can be the first one to do it, you can be the first example. Stop belittling yourself, stop selling yourself short and just do your thing. Don't read the history, rewrite the history and be the one who will decide if you're going to succeed or not. Stop getting interested with people because they're just humans too. Forget the role models, forget the successful people, forget what they say, stop wasting your time looking for facts if it is doable or not. Do it your way, the key here is to stop being afraid of failing, keep failing everyday, do whatever it takes to win but embrace failure, make yourself vulnerable with defeats, don't cover up, don't hide, expose yourself to risks and never regret if you fail. Try again later or tomorrow, always make a comeback, do something most people can't do. 

USE THE POWER OF NO AND YOU WILL MAKE A PROGRESS

No to useless thoughts, food, activities, hate, imagination, gossips, laziness. Say no to everything that is slowing you down and you will become unstoppable, as simple as that. Don't blame yourself, don't think about the past, don't judge the situation, don't blame other people, stop focusing on your fears and focus on taking it one step at a time. You have to keep going, say no to everything that slows you down. You know what will make you successful or not, you just can't accept it because you're too addicted with it. It's time to man up and do what is needed, it's time to stop getting invested with actions that doesn't serve you at all. It's all about using your time the right way, that's it. Stop reading the stupid social media posts, stop letting a sexy shirtless girl on tik tok seduce you, stop letting gossips make you feel aroused and interested, you need to protect your mind if you wanted to win, you need to choose what entertains you and that is your hard work alone. 

YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN A WEIRD POSITION

Don't explain to anyone what's going on with your life, don't tell them your dreams, accept that you will always be in a weird position. You will struggle, you will get criticize, you will doubt yourself, you will think about quitting but don't do it. Defeat is just an emotion, it's not about the result, it's just a feeling. You feel bad about losing, you will so low but it will go away anytime soon. It's not what happened to you, it's how you feel, you can feel good without it. Learn to master this perspective and you will become unstoppable. It's not about winning or losing, it's about not giving up. Because everyone will lose but not everyone will keep going. Always remember that you have the power to try again, you can keep going anytime you want, it all depends on you. So stop feeling weak, stop thinking that it's over, it will never be over until it's really over. If you can still stand up, think right and take a small action then you're still qualified to become successful. 

FOCUS WILL MAKE YOU FASTER AND PRODUCTIVE

There's no hack to productivity, it's simply focus and willpower. If you can avoid those temptations, if you can practice delayed gratification, if you can just do it even if it is boring and hard then you will become super productive, as simple as that. There's no brain hack, there's no shortcuts, there's no stupid power pills... there's only willingness and decisiveness to move. What the hell are you waiting for? just do it, just start and never stop until you're done, you can go further as much as you want, it all depends if you're willing to face the pain of exhaustion, boredom and defeats. You can become like a machine if you want to. Never care about what's stopping you, never care about what's going on, just do it, just take it one step at a time and never give up. Do what is needed and stop looking for something to make you feel good. Don't look for entertainment, don't look for a food, don't look for a drink, don't look for excuses... just do it and never look back. 

A SALESMAN CAN SELL ANYTHING

you just need to sell, that's it. You just need to show up and become more excited everyday. You just need to move faster, call more, dress better, speak better, believe stronger... that's it. You can sell anything, if you're not selling then it means you're not even trying. Anything is possible if you're looking for a space to move forward, there is an improvement everyday, you will never be stuck if you will decide to do more and outwork your past. Stop feeling depressed and defeated, stop thinking that it's a waste of time to try. Keep trying because you will never win if you don't try, as simple as that. Start now and never waste your energy for stupid things that doesn't even matter. Sell what you need to sell, and even if it's obvious that a potential buyer will not commit... still try and believe. Make this as your mindset and you will be able to sell a lot. Sky is the limit, you can produce the highest numbers in history if you will keep going and stop focusing on things that doesn't matter at all. 

BECOME A FINISHER

Once you start something... finish it even if you're tired or bored already. Finish it even if you're running out of time and has to do something else. Just finish it, start strong and finish stronger. Never give up, never look for an easier path. You have to become a doer and not a comfort seeker if you wanted to make a strong progress in life, you need to make yourself a machine. Stop looking for an easier path, stop looking shortcuts and excuses and just do the next step. If you can make yourself a finisher then you will become unstoppable, as simple as that. There is no easy way, there is no hack, there is no right timing... you have to pull the trigger now an use your willpower to make it happen. 

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THE SIMPLEST WAY TO BECOME GREAT


Watch yourself, that's the simplest way to become great. Watch what you are doing, watch what you are thinking, be mindful of everything that going on with you and you will see that you are full of crap. You need to stop doing what is useless and start focusing on what is useful, as simple as that. It's an inner work, greatness is an inner work. Always remember that the more you focus on yourself, the more you do the work... the greater you become, as simple as that. The formula is too basic yet most people can't execute it or use it because they're too consumed with different information, images and things that doesn't really matter at all. Stop all the nonsense that doesn't give you anything. If it doesn't give you any growth, money, strength, power or advantage then why the hell focus on it? stop it right away and focus on something that makes more sense. 

GREATNESS IS PUSHING

You push forward for the next action, you love the process and you don't care about what other people say. If you're doing something great, if you have an idea... people will criticize you, they will hate you for no reason, they will get jealous. But you have to push and ignore them, never mind what people say, never mind what people are going to say and just push yourself to the limits... as simple as that. You have to focus on taking actions and not minding what other people are doing, saying or thinking. What they say is none of your business, your only goal should be to push forward and get as much as you can. You can push anytime you want, it all depends on you. What the hell are you waiting for? start now and do something, never squander your time because it will backfire at you in the end. You have to do the next move now and carry on, follow through and go further as much as you can. Never stop, never limit yourself and just give everything you've got. Just go, clear the mind and just go, keep pushing even if you don't have anything left in your tank. You can take one small action now, if you follow it through then you will be able to multiply it and go further as much as you can. Choose sacrifices over pleasures, choose delayed gratification over over rewarding yourself, stop feeling entitled of something if you didn't work for it. 

DEPENDING ON SOMETHING WILL MAKE YOU POWERLESS

Depend on yourself, rely on yourself not someone or other things, external will never help you, it will only make you weak. Depend on your hard work and ability to persevere endure. Life is not about guarantees, life is about showing up and fighting. Life is giving everything you've got every single day and not worrying about failing for a single second. You will fail even if you prepare a lot, you will still fail even if the cards you're holding were too good. Just show up and never hide like a pussy, just give your all no matter what the situation is. It's not a sin to give your best, you will only feel zero regrets if you did whatever it takes to win. Stop acting like a chicken and fight for what you want. Avoid all the activities that are only eating your time and not getting anything. 

Don't rely on backers, fixers, connections, relatives, godfathers, under the table etc. You have to rely on your hunger, if you really want it then you will make it as simple as that. You don't have to worry if you have nothing, just make sure your mindset is to grind and hustle and you will get anything you want. Because what makes anyone great is not his talent, it's his willpower and perseverance. You can have anything if you don't give up, as simple as that. So just show up, don't be afraid to fail, get rejected, get embarrassed or get humiliated, just do what you need to do, if you get nothing then go home and make some adjustments. Show up again tomorrow, they can never deny you if you are not denying yourself. Just believe in yourself and the universe will help you, it's always on your side, you just need to show that you want it so bad and you're not going anywhere other than your goals. 

LEARN THE SKILL OF UNLEARNING

It's being aware of what you're doing, learn to unlearn the bad habits by being conscious that you are doing it. Once you find yourself doing it... stop it, you need to use a willpower to become great. Greatness is self mastery, it's not allowing temptations to take over. IT's not allowing the useless easy activities to be your number on priority. You have to get rid of your bad habits so the good habits will be developed. It' too simple but it's so hard when you're not conscious and simply allowing the stupid habits to take over because it's fun, accessible and easy. The easiest things and the most useless things. If you want to become valuable, if you want something that has a value... learn to do the hardest things, learn to sweat and exert inhuman effort. Learn to think and give time for growth, never be an an autopilot mode, never live subconsciously and learn how to be in the present moment all the time. Face the pain, pressure and difficulty little by little, learn to enjoy it and you will gain an unbelievable power. 

DON'T FEEL POWERLESS

If you can't do something about the situation then do something about yourself. Make yourself better, focus on some other things that will impact your life in a positive way. Don't focus on what you can't control and focus on where you have control the most and that is your hard work, thoughts, effort and emotions. You can focus on your mind and rephrase the negative thoughts running inside of it, you can focus on making yourself better on some areas of your personality. You can teach yourself to stop feeling negative about a negative situation, you can teach yourself to see the beauty in every chaos. You will feel powerless if you focus on the external things, you will feel so out of control if you will forget that you can endure anything and survive everything. It's just a matter of choice, where do you want to put your mind? If you want to become great you need to have a mindset of just doing it no matter what. Forget about losing, forget about winning and just keep trying. It doesn't matter if you get embarrassed what matters is you keep trying over and over again and you don't have any plans of quitting anytime soon. 

DEFINE WHAT'S REALLY IMPORTANT

The most important thing is the fight. Focus on getting better, focus on your mentality, it's not about winning or losing... it's about not giving up, as simple as that. If you have the mindset of not giving up then you will win for sure. Define what is important and forget everything else. Nevermind the thoughts, people, events, problems that will not even help you to get better. 

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STOP BEING A SOFT PERFECTIONIST

If you're moving and doing something positive then you're already good. You are a perfectionist that is why you can't produce so...