IF YOU CAN LOSE THEN YOU WILL BECOME POWERFUL

The reason why you are so afraid is because you don't want to lose, you are not allowing yourself to lose, you are holding the outcome and future so tight that is why you are not free anymore. Letting go is power. Letting go of attachment, identity, worries, control and the thought of what people will say is the real power. Stop asking for permission, validation, appreciation and recognition. Stop trying to look perfect and nice, stop trying to control what the future looks like, perfection is for coward. Embrace what might happen, embrace the struggle and pain if it is really happening to you. Just take actions, just do what you need to do and stop being a pussy ever. You are stronger than what you think of yourself, never let anything hold you down. If you're not afraid to lose, look ugly, become imperfect then you will become really strong and unstoppable. The reason why you are weak is because you are letting the future poison your mind, you are letting it make you feel anxious and weak for whatever reason. Make yourself vulnerable, allow yourself to lose if you can't win, allow yourself to break and then rebuild again. That is the only way to succeed, that is the only way to get better. If you can lose then you will get better, as simple as that. The reason why you're not improving is because you are expecting life to be perfect and so kind to you. Let it scratch, humiliate, hurt, defeat and embarrass you but never let it crush you, let it do whatever it needs to do to you and never resist. Just become a rock, never let anything make you weak. Don't quit and just keep moving forward, that's all you need to do and you will win in life. All you have to do is live it, stop complicating it, stop trying to look perfect and strong all the time. Allow life to belittle you, allow it to laugh at you, allow someone to disrespect you but never react. That is the real power... allowing yourself to lose and still not reacting. Stay still, you know who you are, you know what you can do so there is no need to prove it, there is no need to defend yourself. The real defense is embracing everything, so stop hiding, stop protecting yourself from something you don't need any protection. Allow yourself to lose today and then try again tomorrow, keep fighting, keep doing what you need to do and never give up, stop being emotional because emotions will never get the job done. Just move forward and do whatever it takes to win, be happy even if you're hurting, appreciate life even if it is bringing you down. 

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