ADJUST THE FEELING NOT THE RESULT

It's not what happens to you that matters, it's not the disrespectful people, it's not the unfair treatment, it's not the clowns bothering you, it's nota bout winning or losing, it's not about being unlucky... it's about how you feel towards it because you think of a certain way about it, you judge that it's bad, you think that you're a victim, you think that you are entitled of something. You need to focus on how to neutralize your feelings and adjust to any kind of situation, be adaptive, don't ever think that people has been doing you wrong because they're just like that, they only think of themselves and that is human nature. Your feelings should not be based on the outside, nothing should make you angry, master it and your mentality will soar to another level, no problem can ever break you anymore. Just focus on being cold and calculated, stay calm because being hot and emotional will never give you good results. Adjust the feeling not the outcome, if your favorite basketball team lost and some people said that they were cheated on are you going to react and rage on social media about it? are you going to make dramas and act like you are also part of the team? are you going to let it destroy your sleep? or are you going to check your emotions and act like it is nothing because the truth is it's really not important to you. I don't know why a lot of people are too emotional about their teams losing, that is part of life, it's not a new thing, it happens over and over again. So every time you got defeated, rejected, embarrassed, disrespected, cheated... never let it affect you because that will never help you to move on. It will only stop you from progressing in life, this is a journey, a lot of people will try to victimize you but you can avoid being a victim by simply not feeling anything about it. It is possible to become cold about something you don't like, it is possible not to react about the situations and surprises that come to your life but you didn't ask for it. If you really want to have power then control yourself and stop being a victim of life, victimize life if you wish, be the suspect, play with it and never let a failure stop you. Keep on trying, keep on pushing, keep on doing your thing no matter what. Don't be scared of pain and failure, keep failing until you win, keep doing your thing even if it hurts. This is not about numbing your feelings, this is about making yourself tougher and wiser. You don't need to feel a certain way about something, you don't need to revenge and make dramas, you don't need to look for sympathy... just move on and act cold towards anything that is making you feel bad, ignore it and you already have the power over it. Stop trying to change the results and control everything, control yourself and you will experience freedom. 

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