If they don't like you so be it, if they don't include you don't go, if you're excluded on their plans accept it, just be happy being yourself, just do your own thing and become good with it and you will be happy with your life. Happiness doesn't come from other people, being popular, being accepted or getting what you want. Happiness comes from work, taking care of yourself and not begging for anybody's acceptance or appreciation. If you really love yourself then taking care of yourself and doing what is best for you is enough. You will become weak once you are begging for someone's attention or appreciation, you don't need any of that weak stuff because real love is when you love yourself so much and you can give away the excess to other people. So just be the best that you can be and use your time for getting better only and not trying to please other people to make you feel safe. Face the discomfort of being alone and executing your ideas, embrace the pain in the beginning, once you get use to it... nothing can ever control you anymore. At the end of the day you don't need people to give you fake support or love, you need real love for yourself, the right people will come along, you will find it once you have a lot of love for yourself. Al you need to do is stop being lazy and make yourself better everyday and you will find real happiness and fulfillment. Stop letting other people define who you are, you will never be defined by how many fake friends you have, you will never be happy by how many occasions you attend. You just need to do what will make your life better and that's it, there is nothing to worry about if you are alone, there is no need to prove yourself to anybody. All you need to do is look for a hobby or a work that will make you really passionate nd excited and the rest will follow. Look for a goal, look for an obsession, create an idea, create an empire and good things will happen to your life. Happiness is overrated, work is underrated, working on yourself is 100x better than working for other people and trying to make them happy. You don't need those clowns, you don't need to know what they've been doing lately, you just need to know more of yourself, you just need to give more time for yourself and stop chasing people because they will not even help you at all. Chase greatness and improvement, build discipline, build a very strong mind that will never crumble during pressure, create an identity that you can choose when hard times arrive. It's on you if you want to become happy, it's not on them. If they don't like you so be it, if someone rejects you be happy because you know a better opportunity will happen. You don't need to rub elbows with people who doesn't want to support you. Become really good on something to the point where nobody can reject you anymore... that is how to attract people, you don't chase them, you set traps to lure them.
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