There is no such thing as a man without fear, even daredevil was scared, even superman has a kryptonite, even incredible hulk was afraid of himself. Even your boss is afraid of getting fired, even the role models or stupid influencers were afraid of being judged or making a mistake. Even your mom is so afraid of spanking you bust she still do it because it's the right thing to do. She doesn't want to hurt you but you need to get disciplined. Even the presidents were afraid of failing their countries, nobody is immune to fear, if there is someone then that person maybe psycho or losing in touch with reality. Accept that fear is part of your life and be happy with it, you will feel it at any given time. You will get shocked, you will get overwhelmed, you will feel anxious. It's ok, don't feel sorry for yourself if you're feeling negative.
THE KEY IS TO KEEP MOVING NO MATTER WHAT
At the end of the day you need to work hard, you need to show up and do your thing. You can never escape hard work and trying if you want to evolve and grow. Be aware that you are scared and always follow your game plan and philosophy. If you have a philosophy then you will have something to use and fall back whenever things are not going well. Fear will never go away, it will always be there. The key is to embrace it, feel it and just do whatever you need to do, as simple as that. You can move forward even if you are sick, injured, lonely or even depressed. Stop making dramas, stop playing the sick game and just evolve as much as you can. The key to evolution is to force yourself to do something you haven't done before. Just move your hands and feet, never mind where it takes you, never mind if you end up losing everything, just move and never stop. The key is to become fast and never let your mind think about the future, focus on what you can do now and never hold yourself back. You have what it takes to become a winner, you just need to allow yourself to become like that.
BE MORE SCARED OF YOURSELF
Don't be scared of them, be scared of yourself because you're the one who's destroying yourself. You're the one who is making yourself a failure. With lazy decisions, procrastination and being a negative will make your life very ugly. Your laziness and being too passive makes you weak and not evolving. In other words, you are the culprit of your own failure. People can never put you down forever, they can do something bad to you but you can always stand up, you can always rise up and make a strong come back. They can never stop you forever, you are always in control here. So don't be afraid of anything or anyone, be afraid of yourself. If you are not expressing yourself, if you're not pushing yourself to the limits then you are setting yourself up for misery. You are the monster in your nightmare, you are the killer of your dreams, you are the waster of your life. Be more scared of yourself than other people. The can never force you to do something you don't want. You are the only one who is stopping yourself from growing and discovering something new.
Whenever you are scared don't go to comfort. Don't look for food, don't look for a new topic to discuss, don't look for cigarettes, don't look for TV, face the stress, face your fears. Every time you look for an easy way out you only get weaker and weaker, it's time to face the battle. Stop acting like a chicken and be the chicken hunter. Be the predator, hunt your dreams, face the casualties and discomfort. The only way to make your dreams come true is through facing all of the pressure. You will never win if you're always hiding away from your fears, face it, look it in its eyes and ask yourself is this really something to be scared of? is this really something worth my time? You will learn that it is nothing, it's just another stupid subject of life, it's just another illusion that is trying to kill your growth. If you really want to become something else then you need to embrace any kind of experience and accept it with all your heart.
PAIN WILL NEVER GO AWAY
It will always be there, the pain and fear will never go away. When it is hard, you need to accept that it is hard and take actions despite of your fears. You have to accept that life is really like that. Sometimes there is no fear and pain but one day they will surprise you and then you will heal or the challenge will pass but sooner or later there it is again. Life is a cycle of pain, fear, happiness, joy and peace. You will never be on a place where there is no threat or discomfort. You will experience difficulty no matter how rich or powerful you are.
CRAWL IF YOU NEED TO
If you can't run or walk then just crawl. You can climb a mountain by simply crawling, it's ok if you are slow just don't waste time. You will get to another level faster if you will enjoy being slow and consistent. You don't need to become great right away, you just need to decide where you are headed to and go there with all of your might. You can make a small progress every now and then, multiply it and it will become a huge progress. Just be patient, it will take time, sometimes it will even take all of your time but you have to do it if you wanted to win.
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