Asking questions means you're playing it safe, it means you don't want it bad enough, it means you want assurance, you're not taking risks, you want guaranteed success, you don't want to have a hard time. And that's why you keep failing, you're always over thinking, you're always asking questions, you've wasted your time and energy asking for stupid questions that you're not taking actions anymore. "What if I do this? what if I do that? what if this happen? what if I come up short" what if I am wrong?" You have millions of stupid questions that even an elementary can answer. What if you stop asking and start doing? what do you think will happen? the truth is you just don't want to put in the work, you don't want to struggle, you don't want to work like hell and that's why you're pretending to be liking it but you really don't want. If you really want it then you will go for it regardless of what's the obstacles along the way.
AN UNMATACHBLE EFFORT
It's all about the effort and the hard work that you put in, you will have no regrets if you will give everything you've got. Just go, just do it and work your ass off, never be scared of getting tired, don't be scared of repeating over and over again. Your effort will be rewarded, even if you can't see any signs of progress... you are still progressing because your work ethic is getting stronger. You are getting mentally stronger every time you push yourself. Strive to become the hardest working version of yourself. The good thing about effort is it was controlled by only you, nobody can tell you to stop, nobody can tell you to go hard or go soft, it's your decision, it's up to you if you will go all in today or simply play the weak game. Your effort is your only ticket to success, don't worry about anything else, don't worry about winning or losing, for as long as you're giving your full maximum effort then you will be alright, as simple as that. Go all in, go hard and push yourself to the limits.
THE INTENTION TO SUCEED
If your intention is strong then you can never go wrong, you will always be right, you will always come up with something that works. The reason why you feel stuck and losing is because your intention was too weak. You're not taking matters into your own hands, you're not forcing fate, you're not using your willpower. You're too passive and not aggressive, you're simply wishing and hoping that things will go your way. You have no intention of winning from the very start, if you have then you will never ask questions anymore, you will just do it, you will use the trial and error method. If your intention is strong then you will become very creative, you will find a way how to make things work for you, the universe will bend, you will command your fate, you will be able to adapt and improvise.
THE ONLY WAY TO SEE WHAT WILL HAPPEN
You're asking stupid questions because you want to be sure what is going to happen. You want to know the future, the very bad thing is... they can never give you the exact answers, they can only give you clues but those clues were only 30% accurate, most of them were bum clues, it's because the only to find out what will really happen is to go further, push as much as you can and discover it by yourself, the exact answers won't be given to you unless you try with all your might. Give your full maximum effort and you will see what you are looking for. The truth is, you don't need to know what will happen, nobody knows what will happen in the future, the only way to predict life is through hard work and dedication, you will have more control if you will focus on taking actions instead of asking questions.
Don't question your heart, don't question if you can do it or not, don't ask for the right process, don't look for the right timing, don't look for a perfect way, you have to create your own path and do it your way. Get back on track, do something positive and follow through. Stop worrying about what's going to happen if you do this or do that, just go and keep pushing until you find what you are looking for. There's no need to control everything, there's no need to know everything, you don't need a flawless and perfect skill, you just need to do it, you just need to act brave and never care if you're not making any significant progress, just go to the extreme, give everything you've got and never worry about the future for a second.
WHY YOU DON'T NEED TO ASK ANYMORE?
If you're willing to lose, if you're willing to repeat again every time you made a mistake, if you're willing to look like fool then you don't need to ask questions anymore, you will just believe in yourself and do the trial and error process. Your mistakes will show you the way, your errors will make you learn. Experience is the best teacher, even if you know what to do... you still don't know it because you haven't experienced it yet. You need to feel it, you need to be on that situation, you need to witness what will happen if you do something. So just start and keep the ball rolling, stop asking someone what you need to do, you already knew it if you're not afraid to fail. Making mistake and failing is the best teacher, it will give you the wisdom to succeed next time. Stop asking nonsense questions, stop asking about the first step and just execute. Just make sure you are willing to fail and try again, just make sure you will have no regrets. So condition your mind that this is going to be a long journey, prepare yourself for uncertainties and challenges, be aware that it's not going to be easy.
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