I know this also happens to you, you feel so stuck and weak, you feel so low and being treated unfairly. You're always thinking about the reasons why you don't deserve to be treated like that. You feel the whole world is against you, you feel you deserve something but it's not given to you. You feel better than others but you're not getting the rewards you deserve. This happens to everyone, you want something to happen but it's not happening and there's no sign that it will happen, you feel like stuck in a mud, you feel that nothing's gonna change forever. The truth is it's your perspective that makes you stuck, you're judging an ugly situation all the time, you think that there is no way you can make an improvement, you always think that you're a victim of the situation, you're not take matters into your own hands, you're not trying to force your fate. It's simply about forcing the issue and imposing your will, it's simply about being hungry and doing the impossible. You have to keep moving forward and do something positive even if your situation is really ugly and difficult.
NEVER CARE ABOUT THE OUTCOME ANYMORE
If you're detached from the outcome then life will become easier, it will be easier for you to make a progress because there's no pressure and expectation, you will feel free. The outcome is not in your control, you can have the ugliest outcome even if you work so hard but if you didn't work hard then the outcome will become even worse. So just focus on what you can control and that is your thoughts and actions, focus on what you can do and never feel so bad if you're not getting what you want, that's how to avoid being stuck. Everything will not be yours in the end, you know what I mean, when you die not of it matters. So what's the point of pressuring yourself and asking for what will not be yours forever, even your loved ones... they will not be at your side forever, so enjoy the moment, enjoy what you have and treat your life as something special even if you don't have special things.
MAKE A DECISION ALL THE TIME
You're stuck because you can't make a decision. You're always hesitating, you're always thinking that there is something wrong. You're always counting yourself out before you even try. Sometimes you can't even decide if you're going to eat or not, you can't even decide if you're going to take a bath or not. Your mind is always stuck, it's idle and over thinking, what if you make it a habit to just do what you wanted to do? what if you just start every time you feel so lazy? It's possible to work hard even if you're unmotivated, it's possible to kill the game and dominate everything even if you're not feeling good or not inspired at all. You can set aside your emotions and focus on testing yourself, test if you can make yourself progress, test yourself how far can you go. Never care if your decision is rational or not, never care if there is a big chance that you will fail again... just move, if you want to avoid feeling stuck then stop looking for perfection and just move, make as much mistakes as you can and take the risks.
MAKE YOUR LIFE LIKE A GAME
Just try, win or lose... the focus is trying. Always remember that there is nothing to lose in this life. This is just a game, it's just a matter of who can try more, it's just a matter of who has the thickest skin and is willing to risk everything just to win. The more you try the bigger the chances of winning, just believe that you are getting closer and closer every time you try. Never think about failing, don't be scared of not making it to the finish line, don't be scared if you're too far from your dreams... just try, never waste time overthinking, just try and you will feel much better. And when you fail again, try again for one more time, never quit because that's the stupidest thing that you can do. Quitting is not an option, trying is the only choice you have if you want to get on top.
ADAPT TO HARD WORK
Get use to it, make it your culture, make it your identity. Work as hard as you can and never stop. You want progress right? you want some changes right? so stop complaining and focus on working hard every single day. You should feel weak every time you slow down, you should feel terrible if you're not giving your best. Your lifestyle should be all about grinding and making sacrifices and nothing else. Adapt to hard work, make it your life and never complaining just for a second. You should feel good about yourself every time you work hard and never brag about your work ethic. Treat working hard as another day in your life and something that is too normal and easy. Never feel sorry if you work extremely hard and didn't get anything, never feel like a victim if you're getting less than what you deserve. Just work hard and let the results come naturally.
EMBRACE FAILURE
You will become unstoppable and powerful the moment you embrace failure. It will give you freedom, you will feel lesser resistance. You will no longer be afraid of taking risks. Always think that failing is nothing, it's not you, it's not who you are. The fight in you is what defines you, and the truth is... you will never fail if you keep on trying, failure is only in the mind, you label it to yourself because that's what society is telling you. Always believe that every time you fail you're giving yourself a chance to win. Success and progress is not about how many wins, it's about how many defeats you were able to endure.
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