Depriving yourself of pornography, procrastination, instant gratification, junk food, hesitation, overthinking, useless entertainment, useless party, time consuming activities, laziness. This is the real self love, just because you're consuming a lot of food and things doesn't mean you love yourself, just because you're showering yourself with alcohol, parties, vacation, nonsense entertainment doesn't mean you're loving yourself. The truth is... you're destroying yourself every time you take instant pleasures that are bad for you. Easy food, things, activities are not self love... it's putting yourself on a worse position. Real self love is making sacrifices, depriving yourself of anything that gives pleasure but will put you in danger in the end. Real self love is hard, it's difficult, it's boring and not popular to everybody but it will give you longevity, success and confidence. So stop thinking that you need to consume a lot of delicious food or drinks to become happy. Stop thinking that having this or that is the real way to a happy life. What you see in social media is fake, you don't need a lot of things to become happy. You don't need to have a fancy lifestyle to become happy. What you need is philosophy, the ability to sacrifice, the ability to delay gratification for a better life.
Other people thinks that on order to become happy you need to have a lot or consume a lot, this kind of habit or approach will make you a loser in the end because it takes away your mental toughness, it takes away your ability to endure hardships, it takes away your strength because you are relying on external things or events to feel good. But if you can practice deprivation, if you can become happy with owning nothing or not getting anything then you will feel so powerful. If you can avoid the things that wastes your time, if you can focus on trying to reach your goals and be ok with not being cool to the eyes of others then that's real power. Deprive yourself of what you see in social media, you don't need to have what they have, you don't need to achieve what they achieve, feel powerful with what you have and just try to make yourself better everyday mentally. Get rid of what poisons your mind, get rid of the people, food, things and activities that are pulling you down. It's ok to have nothing, real abundance is being appreciative of what you've got not matter how less it is. Less is more, real self love is cultivating your mind to love what you have and never be ashamed of it. Use what you have, develop a process that will make you last longer and stronger, develop a mindset that doesn't need to compare what you have to other people.
YOU NEED TO FEEL THE PAIN
Feel the pain of having to exercise and discipline yourself instead of watching TV, feel the pain of having to work hard and save your money instead of buying things that you don't need in order to feel good for a second. Enjoy the pain of being alone instead of trying to rub your elbows with the cool kids, enjoy the pain of trying to get better instead of wasting your time for nonsense things. Enjoy the pain of appreciating the small things in your life instead of watching other people's lives and getting jealous with them. Enjoy the pain of doing it by yourself instead of complaining and looking for a help that doesn't come. Enjoy the pain of doing it your way and getting criticized by other people. You need to feel the pain, you need to be ok having nothing, you need to forge the growth in your mind and not feeling needy of anything. If you can be ok with being alone then you will become attractive, more people will get interested with you. Feel the pain of having nothing to rely on but yourself, feel the pain of being ok at the bottom. Once you are ok with these things... everything will become a lot easier, you will no longer feel the lack, you will always feel abundant, you will learn how to become happy fast and not looking for things that will stimulate your mind and feelings.
Be confident with what you've got, be confident with your cheap things, be confident with your entry level skills, be confident with the way you move, be confident with your looks. If you can feel free all the time and stop getting attached to what people say then you will become very powerful. You don't need their comments, you don't need their appreciation, start depriving yourself from trying to impress them, deprive yourself of the praises of other people and you will be alright. You don't need their nice words, you don't need their comments, all you need to do is be yourself and you will be free. Never mind what they're thinking and just focus on your thoughts.
FOR AS LONG AS YOU'RE TRYING YOU WILL BE ALRIGHT
Just do it, just try, if you want to have a better life then just do it. Deprive yourself of the things that are not helpful, you need to stay disciplined and hungry, stay committed, stay focused and always prioritize the things that really matters. Just try and forget about what's going to happen next, this kind if mindset will make you progressive, you will become very productive and unstoppable. Stop planning and just execute, use your willpower to win. Taking actions is self love because it will free you from overthinking, your stress will go away every time you move and do the right thing. Moving forward and doing something that is more useful than the useless will give you confidence. Winning in life is simply about being consistent and making small sacrifices everyday. Stop looking for good feelings, stop wasting your time and just do something positive that will give you a much better life. Stop wasting time for people that are not lifting you up, stop thinking about things that doesn't serve you, always remember that you only have one life and it is better to use your time for something that will give you in return rather than wasting it for nonsense and useless things.
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