WHAT IF YOU DO IT FOR YOURSELF?

You've been trying to prove yourself to everybody all the time. You've been trying to look better and trying to please people that doesn't even like you. You want to please them, you want to look good infront of them, you're trying too hard. What if you change your mindset now? what if you do it for yourself? what if you really believe in yourself and do it your way? what if you detach from everyone's expectations and just enjoy the process? what you do think will be the outcome of your life? Are you going to be happier if you follow your heart? how will you feel if you're brutally honest with what you want. 

DON'T LIVE FOR THEM

For once in your life, live for yourself. Don't live for them, don't try to follow them just to avoid getting judged and criticized. For once in your life make your actions all about you. Decide for yourself, decide for your own good. Trust your own judgement without thinking that you're going to fail. Your life is for you, it's all about you, it's not for them, it's not for anyone. Life your life like you really own it. Sing like nobody is listening, live like today is your last day. I know there is a part of you that wants to do it your way, I know there is a part of you that wants to shine, reward yourself with freedom, be the authority, live like a boss, don't ask for someone's opinion about how are you doing. If you suck you suck, if you lose you lose, so what? does it even matter? what matters is you do it your way and you reward yourself with power. Because the truth is you feel powerless by following the people around you. Your life is for you, it's not for them so stop pleasing other people because you're not being yourself by doing that. Focus on improving, focus on getting what you really want. be honest with yourself and never deprive yourself of being real. You owe it to yourself to give everything for yourself. You owe greatness to yourself and greatness cannot be achieved if you're always passive and following other people. 

TAKE RISK, STOP PLAYING NOT TO LOSE

Play to win, go all out. Stop playing not to lose, take matters into your own hands. Give everything you've got without putting pressure on yourself that it will look bad if you don't make it. Forget about winning or losing and simply give your very best. Go all in, stay locked in and never stop for a second. Take risks when you can, stop thinking twice, stop hesitating and never think about other people's comments. Never think about what they think of you, stop looking for approval. This is just a mental game, the more you work hard and believe in yourself... the more you're going to win, as simple as that. You have to go all out every second, stop holding yourself back, stop being conservative, you need to unleash the beast in you, keep moving forward until you win. Never go for an easy route, never play safe because that's not what you really want, what you really want is hard to get, stop prioritizing comfort and embrace feeling uncomfortable. 

YOU'R YOUR OWN WORST ENEMY

The only one who's stopping you is you, you're holding yourself back, you're not doing what you really want, you are not giving your all. It's not them that's stopping you, it's not them that is in charge of your life... it's you. So if you can adjust the way you think, if you can just focus on becoming better everyday then your life will be completely different by now. You're the one who's ruining your own life so stop blaming them because it's not helping you at all. If you can just tame your inner demons, if you can just discipline yourself to give all of your time for yourself then your life will be a different ball game by now, you will live happier and stronger. So stop being an enemy to yourself, be you're own best friend, do everything to make your life better, do everything to improve and become successful. Help yourself to thrive, treat yourself like the most important person in the world. Create a new identity that will help you to become victorious. 

YOU CAN ONLY COUNT ON YOURSELF

Nobody will be there to help you, nobody will be there to do it for you. You can only count on yourself, you can only get help from you. Because you don't know who will help you, you don't know if someone will help you, the best thing to do is count on yourself and trust that you're going to succeed. Never ask for help from anyone because it will never come, think that a hero can save your life, you're the main character of your own life, you're your own hero. Focus on taking actions, make a move, try to change your life bit by bit. It's not about the results, it's your habits, forget about making an impact right away and step by step try to change your life. Be in the moment, forget about the future, forget about the past and count on yourself to get what you want. You're the only one who can give it to yourself so stop thinking that you need a person or help to change your bum life. 

The good news is you can improve everyday, you can start now, you can work hard now and produce something. Make your life special by being special, engage on the right activities, think about the right thoughts that will improve your life. Focus on making your life great, you can do this through chasing a goal and really being serious about it. Focus on getting one thing at a time, chase a goal now.. do whatever it takes to get it.