Jun 26, 2021

NOBODY CARES IF YOU'RE IN PAIN



You can make dramas all day long but at the end of the day... nobody cares if you're in pain, nobody cares if you're about to lose your senses or something, nobody cares if your toes are hurting, nobody cares if your thumb is swelling, nobody cares if your tooth is almost falling down. You still have to perform even if you're in pain, that's how to thrive in life. It is what it is, you have to face the pain and stop making dramas, stop acting like a diva because it will never get you anywhere. Nobody will give you a special treatment, even your girlfriend will get turn off at you if you keep acting that way. Even your religion will never care about you, you have to man up and make a stand that you will survive no matter what.

JUST ENDURE IT

Don't talk about it, don't cry about it, don't whine about it, stop being too proud that you're in pain and that you deserve a special treatment... endure it. Wake up, all the dramas will never save you, you have to treat pain like noting, it's just a feeling that you can overcome. Relax while feeling it, embrace it and it will be gone sooner than expected. Pain is nothing but a feeling with drama, it's not scary at all, it will never even kill you, it will make you grow, it will make you tougher, it's a strength that is about to grow once you accept it and welcome to your life. Endure the pain and you're already a stronger person, you're already tougher than before. Stop bragging about it, stop using it as a way to get attention. Never talk about your pain, just feel it and let it take you to another level. Because all the dramas does is make you weaker, it's making you look needy, you're better than that. 

STOP BEING SOFT

Being soft is also the same as being a loser. Stop acting like you can't stand up and do something. It's all about facing the pain and discomfort, it's all about doing it even if you're badly scared to death. Face it, don't shy away from it, deal with it and never back down, never quit, relax while feeling it bit by bit and never attached it to anything. Never think that you're in danger, never think that things will get worse. Just treat it as a normal feeling, never think of it as something special or something to worry about. You can endure any kind of pain if you're not thinking worse. Think positive all the time and keep fighting, that's how to deal with pain. Being soft will never make you grow, it's making your life worse, deal with the pain and see what you could become. 

THE SHOW MUST GO ON

Like a wounded soldier who keeps firing guns even if he is badly wounded, like a wounded dog who will bite you if you threatened him, like a champion who keeps fighting even if he is already losing, like a man on a mission who never make excuses... the show must go on no matter what you feel. Never let an aggravation stop you, never let a discomfort control your life. You are more powerful more than you think of yourself, you need to unleash the beast in you and stay control of your life. No matter what happens... stick with your game plan, focus on what you want to happen. The show must go on no matter what. Ignore everything, face all the obstacles, defeat every adversity... you need to do what you need to do no matter what is going on around you. The world will revolve no matter what happen to you, it's up to you if you will stop or continue. But if you want to win in life and get ahead then you need to move forward even if you're badly struggling or in pain. Just do it, there is something you can do at the moment, don't ever underestimate your power to move. 

BE PRESENT

The pain will go away if you're present, stay still, breathe and relax. Keep moving forward while having a peaceful mind, feel happy even if you're feeling something wrong. If you want to take shortcuts and look for comfort then you will become stressed even more. Stick with the pressure, stay with the pain and never look for a better place or feeling. Embrace what you have now and use it as a motivation. Forget the past because thinking about it is causing a lot of pain. Forget the future because it's causing a lot of anxiety, focus on the now so the pain will go away. What you have is now, appreciate the now and never think about anything else. Being present is power, you can think more clearly, you will have more peace of mind, you will be able to see different things on any angle, in other words you're in control of anything that bothers you. Be present and never try to exchange your position or situation now for anything, don't beg for a better space instead make your space much better. 

MIND OVER MATTER

The truth to the matter is... you can walk even if you only have one leg, you can smile even if your tooth aches, you can fight even if you are scared and your enemy is big, you can survive even if you're running out of breathe, you can be happy even if you have no money, you can still thrive even if you're lacking the resources, you can live even if there is danger surrounding you. Use the power of your mind to withstand anything, you can weather any storm, you can always move forward anytime you want to. It's all in your head, it depends on your ability to use the right thoughts you needed to feel better and become useful. Learn how to power through, hammer it out till the bitter ends. Sometimes you don't have to fight and look like a winner, sometimes all you have to do is endure the pain and you're going to get something.

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