Stop looking anywhere, stop pretending that you don't know what to do because you know the answer to your questions... you just don't want to move. You know how to become rich, you know the steps, you know the secret, there is no secret, it's simply hard work and dedication. It's simply having a vision and doing whatever it takes to win, as simple as that. You knew what it takes to have a healthy and mouth watering body, it's simply diet and exercise yet you're still looking somewhere and searching for a hack how to do it, you even hire a useless coach that makes your life worse. You're always looking for something and that's why you can't move. Why not start now instead of finding a special remedy to your problem? why not create your own solution instead?
Most people are feeling lost not because they don't know what to do but because they're making excuses, they will choose laziness over just doing it. They will prefer to watch coaches online how to do things, they will prefer to go to a seminar about how to do things that literally they know what to do. They are faking that they don't know what to do but the reality is they hear it a million times, they were knowledgeable enough to start something.
IT'S JUST AN EXCUSE
You're just trying to refuse work, you don't want to grind and hustle. Stop looking for something else because what you need is inside of you, you just need to work. If you need some money go look for a job, stop saying that it's hard to find one, stop making an excuse that it is recession, you're not looking hard enough that's why you can't find one. Excuses are for the weak, it's for people who always see what is missing in their lives, it's for people who always find a detail why they don't need to move. Because if you really wanted to do something you will do it even if it is raining or even if you don't have enough resources to do it. Stop making excuses if you want a new life, go after your dreams, go for what you want. If you want a new life, destroy all your excuses and be a doer. Everything will be alright, everything you do will work if you're serious about it.
IT'S ALL ABOUT THE PROCESS
It's not the medicine that heals you, it's not the coach that makes you better, it's not the shoes that makes you run faster, it's not the situation that makes you happier, it's not the money that makes you more confident, it's not the support that gives you the power.... it's the process alone. If you are willing to work hard and take matters into your hands then you will become invincible, you will achieve anything you want in your life. When you're moving you're on the right path, it doesn't matter if your process is perfect, for as long as you're moving.... you will be fine. You will get something, you will make some progress. Just move and use what you can use, if you can't find something to use then just move and find a way how to make your situation better. If you're fat and you don't know what kind of exercise to do just jog, just run for a few minutes, it's not that hard if you will just take it one step at a time and embrace the process.
You're not dumb so stop pretending like you're dumb, you're not powerless, you can move your body and do something. You know what to do to solve your problem you just want to face the pain because you want it fast, you want it now and that's making your life difficult. Be patient, it will take time, you need to wait, you can't have everything right away, there are time for working and there is a time for reaping.
ALWAYS FEEL FREE
Feel free to move, feel free to do anything. Just work, nothing can stop you, you're the one who's putting a lot of resistance to everything. You're overthinking, you're over analyzing, you wanted everything to become perfect that's why you can't pull the trigger. Just take the first step and forget if you are perfect or not. You're the only one who can stop yourself, it's your thoughts that creates a lot of resistance, you have to engage with positive thoughts and believe in yourself. Never mind if the process will take long, never mind if you will struggle because it's part of the design. Just do it and push through no matter what. Feeling free is simply trying without expectations, forget the outcome, forget what may happen, just feel free to do what is needed. Always find that little space to operate, always look for a small step that you can execute and focus on it. Unleash yourself, let your body move, work and just do something.
YOU WILL BECOME SCARED EVEN MORE IF YOU WILL NOT START
If yo wanted to do something but you keep on delaying it, you will become scared even more. A lot of things will run in your mind, you will overthink the whole day, you will become stressed and frustrated, you will procrastinate for the whole day. Just do it without judging the situation, forget if it is hard, forget if it is complicated just draw the first blood and follow through. Keep pushing, force yourself to act, later you will feel much better, you will be able to create some momentum that will allow you to finish what you started. Remember that it's not about perfection it's about the push, it's about giving yourself a chance to win at something. Fear will continue to grow if you keep on saying to yourself that you will just do it later. You will feel stuck and helpless if you will not learn to improvise and just use whatever you have.
Trust me, you will feel much better if you are moving, all of your problems will be forgotten if you stay busy working on your goal. Start it and never stop it, it's the only thing you need to do in order to become successful. You have to continue grinding and pounding to make results, as simple as that.
FACE THE PAIN
You are not doing the right thing if you're not facing the pain. Face your fears, live your dreams. It's painful to start exercising, it's painful to go on a diet, it's painful to pay your debts because you want to use your money for buying useless things, it's painful to swallow your pride and say sorry to fix your relationships, it's painful to accept that it's your mistake, it's painful to make sacrifices, it's painful to leave what you are doing now and do what you are suppose to do, it's painful to face the reality. But it's the right thing to do, it's what you must do in order to live a better life. If you're trying to change something it's really going to get painful, if you're not facing the pain then you're in the wrong direction. The easy path can never change anything, you really have to do what is hard if you want to evolve and get better. Facing the pain doesn't mean you will have to suffer, you can take it slowly, face the pain little by little, endure the process and be patient. Don't rush because it will become more painful if you do so. Leave what entertains you and shift to what give you results, as simple as that. It's painful right? but it's the right thing to do. Just like a teenager that has to choose between playing Xbox and studying his lessons, for sure he will choose the stupid Xbox but it won't give him anything in the future.
WHY PEOPLE DOESN'T WANT TO EVEN TRY?
Because they're thinking too much, they want results so fast without even sweating or getting hungry a little bit. All they want is comfort, guaranteed success and assurance that they're not going to struggle. They don't want their efforts to get wasted. They don't believe in themselves, believing is the key, believing in small steps is the secret ingredient to success. If you really want it you will start now, you will forget if it's too late, you will never see reasons why you should not start. You will believe that a little step will make an impact in the future.
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