You have to be moving forward all the time, you have to be relentless like a bull that keeps on charging, like a grenade that keeps on exploding... that's what your mindset should be. That's what will make you a winner, you have to keep pressing forward even if there is a distraction, incompleteness, something lacking, obstacle or a simple problem. Never let a small challenge make you feel weak. Life is not going to become perfect, there will be no perfect time, there will be no flawless situation, you will always see something to bother you and that's ok, you have to deal with everything, you have to face the pain and focus on what yo want to happen.
FIND A WAY HOW TO CONTINUE
There's a way how to continue, it doesn't matter if you're lost or down or heartbroken... just find a way how to continue, one inch at a time, one day at a time be patient and never give up. You can always do something and you have to do it now, never kill the momentum, never let it die. Anybody can move but not everyone will do it especially after a heartbreaking failure, it's ok if you feel bad but don't ever stop moving. It's ok if you didn't get anything after a brutal hard work but don't ever stop because it will be game over for you if you stop.
There's no time for being a spoiled diva here, force yourself to take actions and get what you really want. Nothing can stop you if you will go hard and forget everything, forget the past, forget what happened and continue your journey. Focus on what is happening now, focus on what you have and simply give your very best. Don't overthink if you're giving your best or not, if you're pushing and feeling a little bit uncomfortable then you're already giving your best. It's about pushing yourself whenever you don't want to move anymore, as simple as that. You can become great by simply staying disciplined and focusing on taking actions.
ACT LIKE YOU DIDN'T MADE A MISTAKE
If you made a mistake, just continue. Don't stop, don't shake your head, don't let them know that you did one. Just like in performing, you can't be smiling and putting an uncomfortable look on your face, you can't be acting shy... keep performing and never act that you commit a mistake. Just like in a game, if you miss the shot or turn the ball over don't say sorry to your coach or teammates, just play the game and never lose your confidence. You are allowed to make mistakes. Even if they criticize you or mock you... just keep playing and never stop, that's what it is all about. People will always have something to say, never mind their words because those are nothing, you're the one who's in control here. So what if you made a mistake? you can do again later, for as long as you're giving your best then you're doing the right thing. This is just a game, ignore everyone that barks you and focus on implementing your own game plan, so what if they hate you, so what if they don't like your style, it's their problem, just keep working hard and you will be able to bend the rules.
BE BRAVE ENOUGH TO PUSH
Actually you don't need a bravery here, you just need to force your body to do something that will give you a chance to win... that's it, find a way how to make your body move so you won't be stuck on the same place for so long, you have to do something no matter what. All you have to do is ignore everything and focus on taking actions, never mind what's going on outside of you and focus on what's happening inside of your mind and body. Stop freezing, stop overthinking and just move forward, you will love it, you will feel proud of yourself because you haven't felt this way before. Before you're already stunned once you feel anxious, you're not moving anymore. Life and success is all about pushing even if you don't like it, it's all about showing everyone that you really want it and you're willing to go all in. It's ok if you don't have the confidence now, you will get it as you move forward, be relentless as you can be and you're already in a good place. Confidence will keep growing as you push and enforce your will, force fate, never let circumstances bend you... bend them.
IT'S OK IF YOU FEEL SOME PAIN
You're not motivated, you're friends betray you, your girlfriend is not calling, your foot hurts, your stomach hurts, you don't have sleep, it's hot outside, the aircon is broken, your car don't start, your mind can't think, you're stunned, you're injured, you're so nervous... it's ok. You have to move forward even if you feel some pain. Whether it's a big or small pain... your mindset should be forcing yourself to move and stop making excuses. Because every time you believe in your excuses... you already failed, you already lose the fight. It's a battle between you and your mind, you don't have an enemy here, there's no problem here. The main problem is you're too soft sometimes and you believe that you must not do it because you're not feeling well. Let me remind you again, greatness is not comfortable, it's uncomfortable all the time that's why you have to be strong, you have to learn how to control your mind how to think the right way.
It's ok if you're unmotivated or feeling lazy, you don't need good feelings to move, you only need your mindset and the willingness to just do it. You will feel good later once you have that momentum, never let your mind think that it's hard, don't think too much and simply execute the game plan. Pain is nothing, it is temporary, glory is eternal.
DON'T FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE
You don't have a nice shoes that's why you don't want to try out in varsity anymore, you don't have a supportive parents that's why you don't want to join the sport competition anymore, you don't have some money that's why you're afraid to court the Blonde girl in your campus, you don't have enough experience that's why you don't want to apply for your desire job anymore. The truth is you're just focus on what you don't have that's why you're confidence is going down. It's not about having all the tools to make you confident, it's about trying, just try, bait them and see if they will bite you.
No comments:
Post a Comment