WHY ARE YOU SO AFRAID TO GIVE YOUR BEST?

You are afraid of failing. People were so afraid to give their best because they already think that they are going to fail, they judge their abilities from the very beginning. You don't have the self confidence, you think that failing is so bad. The truth is... failing will give you the knowledge about the right things to do, failing will only make you a better person so don't be afraid of it. Fail as much as you can because it means you are giving your best.

You are afraid of getting tired. You just want it but you're afraid to exert an effort, you're so afraid to use your energy. In other words... you're lazy, you just want to win but you're not willing to get tired and stressed. You just want to dream, you don't want to do... as simple as that. If you really want to  give your best and see what is possible, be willing to get tired, be willing to push further and discover your real power. getting tired is normal, the truth is... the more you get tired, the more results you will get.

You think you are just wasting your time. You are so conservative of using your time. You think that you have better things to do. Instead of pursuing your goal, you are doing some other things like watching TV a lot, going out for no reason, chatting with your fake friends in social media etc. You think that you must enjoy your life and you should not waste your time just pursuing your goal because you think that you're wasting your life by doing that.

You always think that other people were doing better than you. You want to become better than others that's why if you think that other people were doing better than you... you don't want to do it anymore, you will play safe, you will not show them what you can do. You will hide and pretend that you're not interested with your goal, you are pretending that you're not committed with it that's why you can't become good at it. Stop thinking that other people were better then you, even if they really are... so what? what is the big deal? stop competing and just focus on giving your best, remember that the main goal is simply giving your best and nothing else.

Your're simply shy. You need to destroy your identity if you want to take your skill to another level, if you want to become successful. Always remember that being shy will not work anymore in this world. The shy people will be eaten by other people who have thick skins. Show them what you got even if you're not that good, give your best and go all out. Being a shy type person sucks, you feel powerless, you feel weak and stupid.

You want to succeed on the first try. You want to have a perfect record, you're watching a lot of action movies that has a story about an action star who can kill hundreds of people with a single hand gun. You think those stories are real but the truth is... you will always fail on your first try. But the key point here is you should still give your best even if you know that there is a chance that you might fail. It is like training your mind, don't expect to succeed on the first try but make it a habit to always give your best every now and then.

You think you are being judged by other people. You think about what other people say that's why you are so stiff, that's why you can't move freely. You need to feel loose if you want to give your best, you need to take risks and be not afraid of making mistakes. They don't care, people don't care about you. They may watch you but they don't really care if you bum on stage, twist your words, slip on the floor or get humiliated. Maybe they will laugh at you for a bit but they will forget that easily.

You're afraid to win. You're simply afraid to win, you're playing not to lose. You're not playing to win, you're so afraid to make wrong decisions. You don't want to lose your momentum once you have it, you want to conserve the good thing that is happening. But the momentum will not always stay on your side, you have to accept that something might go wrong and you need to adapt, still give your best even if the momentum is not on your side. Never be afraid to win.