IT'S ALL IN THE FEELING

Why are you doing something? because you think it's the right thing to do. Why are you following your boss? because you're so scared that you might get terminated if you don't follow him. Why are you pursuing that goal? because you think that you're going to become happy if you achieve it.

It's all in the feeling, it's not about the outcome. Some people can even earn a lot of money but doesn't feel anything about it anymore? why? because they already felt it over and over again, it's nothing new to them. An employee who doesn't care anymore about his job will never feel scared of his boss anymore, he is ready to go even if he hasn't found a new job yet, the feeling of being scared is gone so he is free to do anything he want.

It's all about how you feel, no matter what happen to you... if you can control the emotions towards it then you will be able to control the situation. The cooler you feel... the more you will be able to do good decisions. So if you're feeling bad now... just completely get rid of it right away, it's possible. Don't ever feel bad about petty things, it's not even relevant to your dreams and ambitions.

Manage your emotions, you can do it by filtering the thoughts that will go to your head. Be aware if it is a negative or a worry, if it is... replace it with a happier one, change your perspective about it. Just think that fighting any negative thought is a sign that you are getting mentally stronger. 

Feel good, learn to feel good if you're feeling bad, don't make it a big deal if there is a fear inside of your body.

You're doing something because an impulse is telling you to do it, you are either happy to do it or scared that you might lose something if you will not do it.

Look at yourself, feel what you're feeling, why are you feeling it? what is scaring you? is it going to kill you? is it going to take away all of your money? is it going to affect the rest of your life? if not then never make it a big deal, just deal with it and embrace it. Any negative emotion will soon go away. Fight it if you can but the more you fight it the more it will resist. The best thing to do is be one with it, let it run inside of your system. You will discover that it is nothing, it can never harm you nor make you lose your mind. It is nothing but a feeling. You will feel better if you keep moving while feeling it, it's like a game, life is like a game of emotions... the more you control able your feelings the more you will win.

So relax and enjoy the ride, it's all in the feeling. Life is just emotions, one day you're happy the next day you will feel sad for whatever reason. You can never feel happy forever, you can never feel sad forever. It is what it is, this is life, it is challenging but if you can deal with any kind of emotion then you will survive longer, you will win life.