WAIT A LITTLE MORE BEFORE YOU JUDGE

Don't be a judegmental person, the more you do it the more you create worries, negativity and fear. Think for a second, breathe and pause. It's not bad as what it looks, you think that it's bad but the truth is it's better. Never judge easily, let something or someone develop first before you make a critical analysis.

You just saw someone suspicious walking in your neighborhood, you already judge him as a criminal, you don't even know where he is coming from. He might be a visitor, a delivery guy or something. Think before you judge don't be so sure and make out of the world assumptions because you will only look stupid in the end. Investigate first, observe and ask before you judge. First impressions are not always true, it never last, it can always change. Have enough and reliable evidences before you make a judgement on something or someone.

A lot of people makes big mistakes because of terrible judgement. They make mistakes because they judge fast, they are not looking at the details, they were thinking negatively.

You have to wait a little more before you judge, wait for the development. You can't judge that a person is bad by just the way he looks, you have to study his behavior and past, you have to read his mind and know how he feels.

You can't judge that your situation is really bad and your case is hopeless, you have to do what you can do first, you have to give your best before you label yourself as a failure. Judgement needs a lot of time, effort and careful study.

A rush judgement is a bad judgement. Don't judge until you know what the truth is. First impressions are not always true, sometimes you have to wait for a very long time before you know the reality.

See it for yourself, never listen to other people telling you that someone is like this or that. You have to discover it by yourself and never listen to gossips or false accusations.

WHY PEOPLE JUDGE SO FAST?

1. They listen to what crowd say and believe it.
2. They were easily fooled by what they see.
3. They believe in their gut so much. They thought that they are always correct.
4. They never search the history of someone or something, they will just judge because it's their attitude from the very beginning.
5. It's the reality... people are judgemental, they are mean, it is up to you if you will get affected with their judgement.
6. They just love to do it because it's what most people do.
7. They were not concerned about the bigger outcome of their judgement.
8. They are not thinking deeply and wisely, the don't want to use their brain.
9. They are not patient, they don't want to wait for the situation to fully develop before they judge.

If you can wait a little more time before you judge then you will make the right judgement, you will never cause trouble, you will never feel guilty because of wrong judgement. Not all of your instincts are right, sometimes you have to see a lot of things and evidences before you judge something.