Aug 1, 2017

BEING SCARED IS THE KEY TO FREEDOM

Being scared is the key to freedom, yes what you read is right. A lot of people are scared to become scared. You need to become scared in order to try something, you think you're already scared when you are hesitating but that is just a lower level of fear. You will become scared even more once you are doing it. For example, you are scared to ride on a rollercoaster, you will be scared even more once you ride it. If you are scared to compete with a stronger opponent, you will be scared even more once you felt his power.

But you must be willing to become scared in order to experience freedom, you must be willing to embrace fear. There is nothing wrong in being scared, once you embrace it and feel it... it will be gone little by little. Once you feel fear... don't panic, don't think, try to stay calm as much as possible and simply give your best. Don't fight fear but don't let it control you, don't focus on it. Just focus on what you can do and push yourself to give your best.

Fear is part of life, there is no such thing as a man without fear but there is a man who can enjoy fear. Be willing to become scared. There are lot of people out there who will tell you that don't be scared. But that's not true, you must be willing to become scared and move anyway. Because the moment you are thinking if you will do it... you're already scared, fear is already starting to control you. But if you will tell yourself that it's ok, it's ok to become scared and just move anyway... you will learned that fear is just a feeling and it can't control you. 

And once you get comfortable with being scared... that fear will turn into excitement, it will become a mixture of fear and courage. You will enjoy what is going on even if you're feeling a little nervous. 

So once you feel scared... be scared even more, don't fight fear, don't panic, just stay with the moment because everything will be alright. If you can stay calm while being scared then your emotions will change a little bit, you will begin to enjoy what is going on. You will even laugh at yourself and tell yourself that it is not hard as it seems. 

You can play with fear, remember that it is just life, it is just a game, you can do whatever you want with your life regardless of what people say. Make fear your bitch, let it inside of your system but don't let it control you, let fear watch as you keep moving and enjoying your life even if it is not going away.

Once you learned how to embrace fear and be willing to become scared... your life will change completely. The truth is... life will become very boring without fear. Fear gives excitement to your life. It is testing you if you will do it or not. There is no such thing as a fearless man, but there is a man who is willing to embrace fear. 

So do it anyway even if you are scared, I am telling you, once you do it despite of being scared... you will be very happy even if you fail. Because for me, winning is all about forcing yourself to take chances, winning is all about giving yourself the chance to shine and use all of your strength regardless of how you feel. 


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