YOU NEED TO MAKE MISTAKES BEFORE YOU BECOME CONFIDENT

If you want to become more and more confident... make a lot of mistakes. Make as many mistakes as you can and try to learn from them. It's like gathering a lot of experiences and learning a lot from those experiences. It is like leveling up everytime you fail, it is like playing a video game over and over again until you became great at it and finish it.

MAKING MISTAKES IS NOT OF A BIG DEAL IF YOU HAVE A GOAL.

You're just a human being and you are allowed to make mistakes. If you commit one... just forget about it and do something that will make you one step closer to your goal. If you have a goal then making mistakes will never make you feel bad because you want to achieve your goal, you will keep on going even if you're having a hard time, even if people are doubting you or laughing at you. You just don't care because you are single minded and all you care about is winning. Having a goal is like having a license to make mistakes. 

Making a lot of mistakes will make your skin thick. It will make you realize that it is not a big deal to get embarrassed or get humiliated. You will not care about your reputation anymore because you will think that you have nothing to lose, you will think that your reputation has already been destroyed a lot of times before so what is left there to lose?

So if you are not confident now... make a lot of mistakes, don't be afraid to fail over and over again. Don't be afraid to take all the blame because at the end of the day... it is the one who is willing to take the blame that will own the game. It is the one who is willing to lose that will thrive and shine in the end. 

So risk everything, don't be afraid to lose everything... that is when you will feel total freedom, that is when you will see the other side of you that is ready to embrace what is infront of you.