Nov 7, 2022

IF YOU WANT TO BECOME CONFIDENT IF YOU WANT A NEW LIFE




Creating a new life is hard but too simple, all you have to do is stay consistent and stay away from your bad habits. It's simply about making sacrifices and then those sacrifices will be ingrained in your system and it will no longer be a sacrifice, it will become a culture. It will become easier as time goes by, if you want to have a new life you have to make an inventory of yourself and make a list of your bad habits and get rid of them right away. Trash them today, not tomorrow, not next week... remove all of them now. That's why you have to guard your thoughts and actions 24/7, you have to be mindful of what you're doing and never quit. Because it's hard in the beginning, you will go back to your old habits whenever you're feeling stressed but you have to persevere and use your willpower.. that's how to change your life. Change is hard but it is too simple, you only need to stick with the basics, make your life simpler by doing only things that will give you a better life, as simple as it sounds. The reason why it's hard to change is because it's too simple and basic, you will get bored, you will feel weird and unentertained. Most people loves entertainment and comfort and that's why they can't change, they will choose to watch TV and spend most of their time lying on their couch instead of walking outside and running a little bit. They will choose to gossip and scroll on social media all day long instead of trying to improve themselves a little bit. If you want to create a new life then you need to accept that your life will become boring, you have to be strict on yourself if you really wanted to experience something new. You need to embrace the unknown and make yourself unpredictable because for the past few years all of your actions were so predictable, you already knew what's going to happen before your day start, you knew you're not going to give your all, you knew you will get satisfied of being a mediocre. Greatness is simply stretching yourself a little bit and giving yourself a chance to get more, you will do what is uncomfortable, you will do what you haven't done before, you will take risks, you will try something new and stick to it no matter what. 

CONFIDENCE COMES FROM MAKING SACRIFICES

It comes from preparation, it comes from making sacrifices, you will get more and more confident if you are training yourself to get better everyday. In any field this works, you can prepare mentally and physically in any field. Challenges will no longer be threatening if you are prepared and fully equipped with mental affirmations that will help you during the toughest hours of your life. If you're doing something hard then you will become confident, more and more confident than your old self. You will feel proud of yourself, you will feel stronger because you're hardened with those difficult experiences, you just knew that you can overcome anything and can finish anything through hard work and making sacrifices. 

If there is an opportunity to make sacrifices do it, if there is an opportunity to delay gratification delay it. Not all the time your mind works subconsciously, sometimes you will be aware of what you're doing, once you find yourself about to do something stupid or unrewarding... stop it. Never start, and when you started already... have the strength to stop it, prioritize your values and goals, never let a fun activity make you worse and undisciplined. Make yourself a beast through discipline and commitment, if you're committed to something and you really believe in it... you will become something special, your confidence will sky rocket. 

Making sacrifices is not that hard at all, you will just think what is right and then do it. It's harder because you're too addicted to comfort, you have to remind yourself that change will never happen if you're too comfortable being lazy and giving your 10 percent effort only. You have to learn how to embrace uncertainty and get use to it every single day. Always think that an uncomfortable situation is making you grow, it is giving you an opportunity to get bigger, smarter and stronger. So whenever you need to do a task that is really important... do it without making excuses, do it without having to think if you can do it or now, just do it and shut your mouth. Stop looking for reasons why it is hard, stop looking for an easier task and just do it. Once you're done you will feel good and confident, you will feel relieved, you will feel proud of yourself. 

MAKE A COMMITMENT TO PUSH FORWARD

Commit yourself to pushing forward every single second, no thinking, no making excuses... just push forward and stay consistent. Follow through all the time without judging the situation. May it be hard or easy... do it, don't judge yourself, always think that what you're doing is right. Never care if you're getting results or not... just commit to pushing forward every single second and you will become a different animal, you will become a different beast, you will attract better opportunities, your life will change. Just seek and you will find, if you can't find something then you need to seek harder. 

INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF YOUR ACTIONS

Einstein once said that repeating the same process again and again and expecting a different result is insanity. I say he doesn't know what he is talking about. If you keep hammering a hard wall a million times then you will be able to break it, if you keep practicing everyday then you will get better. If you don't like to change your process or technique then just increase the intensity, do it more, do it harder, be faster and more aggressive. The results will change for sure, you will create an impact, you will see that something is moving. Don't believe other people even if they call themselves a genius, you have to trust your own instincts, trust yourself and never doubt yourself for a second, that's how to become great in life, that's who to create your own path. 

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Nov 6, 2022

YOU CAN ONLY GROW FROM PAIN


You will never grow when things are easy, that's the reality, you have to break every resistance, you have to move when you can't move, you have to force yourself to work hard even if you feel lazy. Confidence will only be felt once you do things that are hard and not doable by everyone. You will never become confident if all you do is scroll is social media all day long and inform yourself with the latest stupid Tik Tok dance, you will never grow doing that, it's an activity of a loser. Stop being a clown and do the right thing to have a better life. There's no easy path to greatness, you really have to pay the price, make sacrifices as much as you can and immerse yourself in pain. Meaning you have to work, study, practice and prepare hard. You have to practice delayed gratification in a very deep style, you need to be going all in and focus like a monk. Because you will never grow from comfort, that is the sad reality of greatness. Many people wanted to become great but all they do is play video games all day long and watch stupid influencers from social media. You will never grow by just staying comfortable and watching TV all day long, you will never grow with laziness and procrastination, you will never grow with easy ways. You really have to make yourself uncomfortable, you need to face the stress of change because every time you make sacrifices and stop doing your bad habits... you are changing, it's really hard but you are changing, that is the process of change... it's weird and uncomfortable, you will get bored, you will get tired but the reward is promising. 

THE REAL MEANING OF POWER

You persevere, sacrifice, practice delayed gratification, avoid the nonsense and focus on what you're trying to get no matter what.... that's the real meaning of power. Weak people are doing the easy things, they're so relaxed and comfortable, they're always asking for help and freebies, they're doing all the nonsense activities that has no rewards in the future. Real power is investment, it is belief, believing that all of your hard work and sacrifices will pay off one day. It's doing what most people are afraid o do, it's going to the extreme, it's rising every time you fall. Most people wouldn't even dare to try because they're afraid of failing, some people will try for a few times and will quit once they failed a multiple times. The real meaning power is sticking to something no matter what, it's believing that you will win no matter what if you work hard and push yourself to the limits. 

GET EXCITED WITH YOUR OWN ACTIVITY

Not the activity of others, not the activity of stupid influencers who teaches you stupidity and laziness but your own activity. Own your time, never give it away for free, people should be lucky if they were able to share some time with you. Get excited with your own goal, dream, ideas. Never let anyone distract you for no reason. Enjoy every step, enjoy every struggle, enjoy every grind, enjoy your journey and never compare yourself with others. Never compete, never get jealous with other people's success. Just be yourself and enjoy taking baby steps every single second. It is painful to be alone sometimes, it is really boring to stay focused on your grind but it is the only way to grow, it is the only path to success. There is no successful person that didn't made a huge sacrifice. There is no growth from entertainment, easy times and laziness. You can only discover growth if you will become bored with your life while doing the process. Don't worry because once you get use to it, once something is clicking a little bit... everything will become a lot easier. 

WHAT A REAL GRIND IS

Most people talks about grind, hustle or hard work but they don't know the real meaning of it. They're only good in promoting themselves or trying to look good on social media but they really don't know the meaning of it. It is a culture, it is a 24/7 focus on your dreams and not minding any stupidity around you, it's focus, it's willpower, it's pushing yourself even if you can't see any results in what you do. It's a discipline, you can't be working hard today and will rest tomorrow, you will do it for as long as you are breathing, there's no rest, there's no excuses... you will go all in every single day, you will never negotiate with yourself.... it's a forever commitment. You don't care about parties, you don't care about your stupid dog's birthday, you don't care about who is succeeding, you don't care about the trends... you just care about your grind, you have your own world, you don't mind other people's business. You don't care if they care about you or not, you're locked in and you will never stop until you reach the top. 

CUT ALL THE STUPIDITY IN YOUR LIFE

You're full of shit that's why you can't win in your life, you're full of stupidity and laziness, you wanted to win but your habits is all about losing. You will never succeed if you have a mindset like that, you should be excited with the process, you should be patient but always be quicker than yesterday. Your time is the most important thing in the world. Never use your time for laziness or nonsense activities that will never even help you to grow. There's no way you're gonna lose if you will cut all the stupidity in your life because what makes you slow and useless is your nonsense activities, you're full of crap, you need to get rid out of all of them now if you want to get to another level. Cut all the you tube, tik tok, social media, gossips, partying, drinking etc and your life will become different, as simple as that. Sometimes you don't need to do a lot, sometimes you only need to do less so that your life will become very straightforward to success. But the problem with you is you're too busy knowing what other people do, you're too interested with other people's lives that's why you don't have time for your own life, you don't have time for your own dream, you're giving your time for free and not getting anything in back. It's all about where you invest your time, are you investing it for yourself? or are you investing it for others? 

Remove all the excess, remove all the dumb shit in your life and you will get better. Focus on growing, be patient and believe that you're going to win in just a matter of time. It's on you if you want to become successful or not, it's in your hands, keep pushing yourself everyday and never stop. Every pain is good, every pain is making you grow. 

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Nov 5, 2022

KEEP TAKING CHALLENGES


When there is a challenge... attack it and never shy away from it. Attack it right away, face it even if you are scared, just do something positive and follow through, keep the momentum alive once you have it and never give up. All you have to do is never quit and you will win, as simple as that. Most people are quitter, most people wouldn't even dare to take a chance and that's why they feel so lost and weak, that's why they feel inferior. If you want to feel strong then you need to keep takin challenges that will improve your mentality. 

IT'S OK TO BE SCARED

It's ok to be scared, it's ok to feel fear but don't be a chicken, stop running away from the pressure, stop shying away from the discomfort. It's just a feeling, everything is just a feeling, it's your emotions that is making the situation worse. If you can just stay calm to any kind of situation then nothing can touch you. Just stay still and be aware of what's going on, it's ok to become scared a little bit but never let anything rattle you or make you crumble. Always feel yourself, if you are aware that you are scared then you will be able to breathe and relax, you will have more control. Most people are not aware that they are scared that's why they're always panicking, they're letting an uncomfortable situation control their decisions and most of their decisions was based on fear that's why they end up making a terrible mistake. 

BE INTENTIONAL

what is your intention for today? if your intention is to make money then you will make money, if your intention is to get better then you will get better, as simple as that. Stop fooling yourself and thinking that you can make a breakthrough if all you do is waste your time for nonsense subjects. You're better than that, if you want to see how good your life can be then be intentional, do whatever it takes to succeed and give everything you've got. Never exert a weak effort, don't half ass your goal, you need to give full maximum effort and always look for something you can do that will make your situation a little bit better. Even if something is not making an impact... stop do it, repeat it a million times and for sure it will give you something. If you really want it then you will make a room for it, you will make sacrifices for it, you will give a lot of time for it. But the problem with you is you don't want it bad enough that's why you're only getting 1/8 of your dreams, you're not pushing yourself, you're not doing what most people can't do, you're doing what everyone can do, you're not going to the extreme, you're always playing around. And that's why you can't win, that's why you're the same bum as ten years ago. 

YOUR PHILOSOPHY CAN OUTPOWER ANYTHING

You can overcome anything, weather any kind of storm, survive any war, defeat any challenge if you will trust your philosophy. I can be about perseverance, hard work, consistency, patience or any kind of belief that you can use if everything in your life is falling apart. You can use any kind of philosophy to survive anything and thrive in the end. The key is to live and die with it, test it until the end, trust it even if there's no more reason to hope. Your philosophy can overpower anything, you just need to stick with it no matter what. Believe it from the beginning to the end and never change your mind, never look for an easier path, face the challenge, face the pain and never give up, as simple as that. Make up your mind to go for it and never stop pushing forward. 

DOING SOMETHING FOR YOUR IDEA IS MUCH BETTER

Doing something for your goal, dream or idea is much better than doing something for other people that you don't even know. Your watching their lives, you're more interested with their lives than making your life better. You're disrespecting yourself by giving your time for free. You're watching their stupid dance steps, pranks, success, nonsense talking etc. and you leave yourself out losing little by little because you're not earning anything from it. Look at what you're doing, ask yourself is it making you better or making you worse? anything that is not challenging you will never make you improve, it will only make you weak. You have to be mindful of what you're ding or thinking and always choose the right actions. 

It's better to be flipping burgers at McDonalds and earning some money than watching you tube shorts all day long, at least you're earning something if you're working, at least you can have something to support your dreams or whatever it is that requires some money. It's better to be doing some 100 half push ups everyday and walking for at least 5-10 minutes than watching body building videos but not trying any of it, you're just wasting time if you keep on learning a lot of instructions but not apply it in real life. It's better to be looking for a job rather than reading books about money, it's better to be cleaning your house rather than complain everyday and sleep all day long. Action is 100x better than inaction, you need to remind yourself about this, keep moving forward every single second and you will go very far.

Challenges will make you grow, it will make you something different, it will turn you into a warrior, take more challenges, take more risks because that is where real fun is. Take the last shot, accept the bigger responsibility, face the pressure, face the danger, face your fears, take challenges that will make you scared, take challenges that has bigger rewards. 

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Nov 4, 2022

DON'T HOLD YOURSELF BACK




Your bad habits is stopping yourself, you better check yourself all the time because those bad habits are stopping you from progressing. Your thoughts, actions and decisions plays a vital role to your life. Your habit is your life, your habits manifests all the things and situation you have. It's your mentality that will dictate the outcome of your life. What is your mindset? before you start a day do you have a game plan? or do you just go with the flow and let distractions control you? you are in complete charge of your life. If you want to become great then you need to make sacrifices and get strict on what you're doing, you need to check your mind and actions all the time, you must have a built in CCTV in your system and stop yourself every time you're about to do something that is stupid and useless. You are the one who is making yourself a failure, you are the one who is holding yourself back and stopping yourself from succeeding, you're better than that, you need to take control of your life right now and do what is needed in order to level up. 

YOUR BELIEF CAN OVERPOWER ANYTHING

It can overpower any kind of difficult situation, it can change anything, if you really believe in something then the universe will yield, it will conspire and help you, it will stop blocking your way, you just need to believe and work for it. Don't just believe it... work for it, do whatever it takes to make it happen. Don't look for fast results, look for better work, look for giving your all. No matter how hard the challenge is... you can withstand it, you can weather any kind of storm if you really believe in yourself. The power of belief cannot be measured, it can create miracles, it can open any doors, it can humiliate science it can break the rules. Just believe in yourself no matter what, don't believe in what people say... just believe in yourself because it's the best gift that you can give to yourself... believing, if you will believe in something why not believe in yourself? if you will believe your coach, teacher, critics, fake friends, fake information... why not believe in yourself instead? once you believe in something back it up with relentless effort and you will be able to make it. 

INSTINCTS AREN'T TOO POWERFUL

Your instincts is telling you to not try, don't do it, don't take risks and just be safe instead. Your instincts is stopping you from growing, you will only grow and evolve if you will face your fears. You will only become better if you will take risks, as simple as that. Your instincts is always telling you tp play safe and never go hard, it's telling you to stop believing in yourself and just stay in your comfort zone. Instincts is not right all the time, it's not too powerful. Willpower is the real game changer, you force fate, you drag yourself into taking actions and then you grow, you will fail a lot of times but you will get stronger and smarter, in other words.... you're already on a different level. 

STRENGTHEN YOUR WILLPOWER

To strengthen your willpower you must think about your goals all the time. You must do what what is hard but needed, you must accept the required work and never complain about it. Keep pushing forward and list everything that makes a small impact then repeat it a million times. Consistency is the key, you will never use a lot of willpower anymore if you are doing something every single day. Because using a lot of willpower can be depleting sometimes, if you have the habit of doing something fast, if you can have the right habits to succeed then you don't need to use a lot of willpower anymore. But for now, if you're just starting then you really need to use a lot of willpower, it will be hard in the beginning but will be very easy as the time goes by, it will still be hard but you will never have a hard time starting anymore because you just knew you can do it because the good habits were already ingrained into your system. 

BELIEVE IN YOUR WORK

Even if you're not making any results, even if you're getting overlooked, even if you're really frustrated and you can't see any progress... still believe in your work, be proud of yourself because you're taking actions. This is a journey, you will get what you deserve on the right time. You don't need to feel needy about the results, it will come on the right time but you have to keep on going and never stop.

IT'S ALRIGHT IF YOU HAVE A SLOW PACE

If the improvement is slow, if your pace was too slow... don't worry about it. Just don't waste your time doing nothing, don't spend your time with the dramas of other people. Spend your time only for yourself and the things that you are trying to accomplish. The truth is you have a lot of time, you're just not using it the right way, you're wasting a lot of it but you're making excuses that you don't have much of it. It's a matter of priority, where are you placing your energy on? are you using all of your energy for the right things and activities that are giving you a good life? or are you using most of your time for stupid social media posts that are only poisoning your mind? you better pick the right path because time is fast, time will come and you will become slower and weaker and older, while you still have strength... use all of your time for better things that has a potential to give you a brighter future. Watch yourself, it's hard to stop the stupidity because you've been doing it for a long time but if you can just control yourself and stop these bad habits then you will become something else. That's what greatness is all about... it's simply about making sacrifices and believing that one day all of it will pay off. 

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Nov 3, 2022

IF IT IS HARD THEN DO IT




If it is hard then do it, what the hell are you waiting for? who do you think you are to wish for things to be easier? who do you think you are to act like you're entitled of getting something that is easy? you are nothing, you need to work hard and do whatever it takes to succeed. Stop being soft, stop complaining, stop acting like you're a special kid that is protected from spanking, stop acting like a spoiled little child because you're not even a millionaire or something. And even if you're rich... stop acting like you have a royal blood because nothing will be given to you for free, if you want something big... you need to sweat for it, you need to crawl in the mud and show them that you deserve something. Everything that looks hard is doable, there is a way, if there is a will then there is a way. It's not about the difficulty of the test... it's your mindset that matters, is your willpower enough? are you willing to go to the extreme and give full maximum effort? if you have no plans of going all in then don't expect to win because you will never go further. 

YOU WILL BE TESTED NO MATTER WHAT

Life will be hard, it will never be easy, there will always be a challenge, there will always be something that will test you. Get use to it, don't look for comfort, build a mentality that says you are ok no matter what, build a mindset of not quitting and just doing it no matter what. You will be tested but you can pass all the test if you will persevere and grind. Nothing can stop you, nothing can ever make you quit if you will make up your mind to just keep moving forward every single day. You can weather any kind of storm so don't worry, all you have to do is never quit and that's it. It's too simple, just hang on there and do whatever positive step you can do. Never lose your confidence, keep doing something that will improve your situation a little bit. 

TRUST THE PUSH

Just keep pushing, pushing will find a way, pushing will take you to different places. You don't need to be scared if you can do it or not... just keep pushing and do whatever it takes to succeed, as simple as that. Focus on what you can control and that is your thoughts and actions. If you will focus on what you can't control such as the outcome and outside circumstances then you will feel weak, you will lose, you will never move. Just push one day at a time and believe that you can make it. No matter how hard your situation is... always remind yourself that you can do something, you can improve a little bit even if the pace was too slow. Everything will be a lot easier if you will stick with the process and keep pushing, never stop, just do something that will take you a little bit further. 

NOT THINKING JUST PURE ACTIONS

If you will just commit to taking baby steps, if you will just stop overthinking then you will become productive, you will become faster, you will be surprised at how far you went already because you're not stopping. The only purpose of overthinking is to make you scared, it's poisoning our mind, it's not making you busy. You have to stay busy, you have to stay aggressive and do whatever it takes to get to the next level. Believe that you are progressing, believe that you are improving, believe in your work. Because if you will spend most of your time overthinking and planning then you will never be able to accomplish something. 

THE BEST SKILL EVER

The best skill ever is just starting fast and showing up, jump in and never care if you can do it or not. Just start now and take baby steps, keep pushing until you don't know what to do anymore. And if you arrive to a place where you're really lost... just move forward and find a way. Your willpower will find a way, you just need to commit to following through every single second. Just start, just do it and never mind if you're right or wrong. It's a journey, you will  have more fun if you're lost and overwhelmed. Most people couldn't even start so be proud of yourself if you're doing something. Just do it and do it and do it, never doubt yourself, never be scared of failing. The key is to simply give your very best and that's it. Because nothing can stop you if you will just decide to do something, you can become big if you will commit to becoming big, you can finish something if you really wanted to do it. So stop making excuses and just go all the way, just force yourself into taking actions and never hold yourself back. 

Make it a habit to just do what you are hesitant to do and you will be surprised with how far you've become. You will become very productive, fast and powerful. Not caring about everything is power. If you don't care about people, problems, distractions, haters, critics, unexpected events, unexpected problems then you will be able to go further. You will be able to do whatever you want, as simple as that. 

Never get intimidated with something that it is hard. Always remember that the harder the challenge the bigger the reward. The difficulties will test your character, you will know more about yourself if you avoid ducking these scary challenges. Face it even if you are scared, just do it, be faster so that your fear will never be able to take over. If you need to do something now, if you need to solve a challenge now... face it, never use the word "tomorrow", face it now and all of your fears will go away. 

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Nov 2, 2022

THE REAL SUCESS


Stop believing the stupid influencers or other people telling you what success should be like. The real success is simply not comparing yourself with others, the real success is not getting jealous with what other people have and simply focusing on what you have. The real success is focusing on your life and not focusing on other people's lives, as simple as that. You are committed to getting better everyday, you love your life, you love grooming yourself and you believe in the power of taking baby steps towards greatness. Real success is not looking for results, people can't take actions for themselves because they always look for faster results and when they can't get it... they shift back to focusing on other people who are making it in life. Life is not a race, it's a marathon. Some people who made it fast fall down fast too, it's ok to be slow, it's ok to be last on the race... just keep pushing forward and you will know what I mean. 

Real success is being free from other people's lives, you don't care about them, you don't worry about them, you're simple being creative by your own way and not comparing yourself to others. Real success means you have real freedom on what you do, you don't attached yourself with the thoughts of others, you don't care being judged, you don't care about the results, you don't care about getting less... you just push forward and enjoy the process, you set a goal and you pursue it relentlessly no matter what happens. You just knew that you are something too, you just knew that anything is possible through hard work and commitment. Real success is believing in what you do, you don't need to feel needy anymore... you just do it and your mindset is to keep going until you become successful. 

GET SUPER INTERESTED WITH YOUR OWN LIFE

Your best story was not written yet and it's your obligation to write it. Live a better life, live a stronger life... do whatever it takes to get to another level. Get super interested with your own life and stop giving your time for other people that doesn't even care about you. You are disrespecting your potential every time you spend most of your time to a random stupid girl dancing on Tik Tok, why will you do what? don't you know that every second is an opportunity to get better. You may not see the results yet but if you commit to getting better everyday then you will get better, you will experience some level of greatness. 

IF YOU WANT TO FEEL DIFFERENT

If you want to feel different and see a different result in your life... change your habits, get rid of the bad habits, get rid of something that is wasting a lot of your time and focus on being productive and strong. Focus on being faster, do more for yourself and stop doing a lot for other people. You will feel different because you will get bored but your will start to feel that you're getting better. It's hard in the beginning but you will feel more amazing and confident. That is what discipline can do to your life... you will feel stronger and more valuable, you will never feel inferior anymore because you are getting better each day. So if you want to feel different and attract better results... focus on your own life and build something that is more interesting, start thinking differently, start believing in your actions more.

Start fast and do whatever it takes to improve your life. Everyday your life could get a little bit better, it's just a matter of choice, it's just a matter of working hard for it and investing what you have for a better life. GO all the way, make sacrifices, do everything you can and never stop. 

BELIEVE THAT THERE IS MORE FROM YOUR LIFE 

The reason why you're not focusing on yourself and not doing what you are suppose to do is because you don't believe that there is more from your life. You accept your condition, you accept being lazy, you are not pushing yourself anymore, you don't believe that greatness is possible into your life. You want to see evidence first that you can become great before you pursue it. You don't know that it's a process and results will slowly fall into your hands if you keep on being consistent everyday. If you're really serious with the process, if you're already doing whatever it takes to succeed then you're already successful, as simple as that. Believe that you can squeeze a lot with the moment, believe that great things will happen and of course be willing to pay the prize, don't just believe in something without doing everything you can to get it. 

You have the power to make your life interesting, all it takes is honing your willpower and mentality. Try something hard everyday, do something that most people can't do, allow yourself to become unlimited, allow yourself to just push even if it looks impossible. The real success is trusting yourself, believing in yourself that you can do hard things, believing in yourself every time there is an adversity... that's what at real success is. It's not about getting something, it's not about winning... it's about not giving up and using all of your strength to survive and then thrive. Forget the results for now and focus on the process, focus on the grind, do everything in your power to get to the next level. 

IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU WIN OR LOSE

What matters is you try, what matters is you bet on yourself and you didn't take any chances for granted. Wining or losing doesn't matter anymore the only thing that matters is you devour every opportunity and you didn't cower like every loser does. It's ok to lose but don't ever immobilize yourself with fear and just allow the so called destiny to decide for your fate. Focus on what you can control, focus on moving one step at a time, believe in the power of taking baby steps, it may look so far for now but you will become nearer from what you want in just a matter of time. 

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THE REAL REVENGE IS GETTING BETTER


Getting better in forgiving people, getting better in letting go of the past, getting better with your mentality, getting better with your habits. Looking for a revenge with the people that you don't like or the people that hurts you in the past will only burn you, you will fail because you're not focusing on yourself instead you are focusing on them. Trying to impress them, trying to let them see that you're a better person now, trying to make them feel good by trying to look more superior is only setting yourself up for another failure. The best revenge is not feeling anything towards them, the best revenge is to simply be happy and get better everyday without being attached to anyone. You hate them right? so why give them any attention, why think about them? they're nothing, consider them not existing, simply ignore your thoughts when you think about them and try to feel nothing about them. 

STOP GETTING TOO EXCITED WITH OTHER PEOPLE

You're too excited to see them, make them feel that you're stronger now, make them see that you are something now. You will never succeed in life if your life is all about forcing them to respect you. Have some respect on yourself, the real revenge is not being attached with other people's feelings towards you. The real journey is forgetting everything that hurts you in the past. Because you will never get better if you're still attached with other people's opinions against you. Never care about what they think, never care about what they do, never care if they're weaker than you, never care if they're doing better than you. Just focus on yourself, focus on being mindful of your thoughts and actions. Nothing else matters other than what you're thinking and doing. These people were irrelevant to your journey, they're just part of the process. Stop disrespecting them, stop giving them power and treat them as neutral, treat them as just ordinary people that just play a small role in your journey. The real journey is your mentality, no matter what happens you are alright, no matter what happens... you still choose to get better each day and enjoy the process of evolving and staying positive. Because the truth is you are the one holding yourself back, you are the one who is putting too much pressure on your shoulders by trying to impress other people. The funny thing is... you want to impress more the people that you hate, you want to show them that you're something and that's why you keep on failing in life. 

The real journey is being free and not being too concerned with what other people think of you. It's being creative and expressing yourself no matter who is watching you. The real revenge is not letting anybody make you feel something, it's realizing that they're not in charge of your happiness or sadness. The real revenge is knowing that no matter what happens... you're still in control of how you feel and how you think. You can judge any failure or success according to your values, you are free to think the way you wanted to think and not letting anybody affect your mentality. Focus on trying to discipline yourself and giving only to things and activities that makes you better. Stop hating, stop trying to look superior, stop trying to make them feel that you're stronger now. If they don't want to respect you they will never respect you, it will never change no matter how successful you are right now. Stop trying to change the perception of people towards you by being arrogant, it's just a waste of time and energy. 

IF YOU'RE REALLY GOOD 

If you're really good then you don't need to convince people that you are good, you don't need to force them to look at you and praise you, you don't need to care about what other people think. The truth is you're trying to impress them, you want to look better than them that's why you want to have a revenge. This will back fire at you in the end, you will fail and will feel bad if you see that they're still not giving you any respect. If someone hurts you in the past emotionally... let it go, the one who wants to make a revenge is the one who gets burn. It's just a waste of time, you will never get happier even if you hurt them emotionally, it will never make you better, it will only make your life worse. 

USE ALL OF YOUR SKILLS

If you want to feel better, focus on not making a revenge.... use all of your skills to win in life. Make it a game to go all in every single day, what you can show, what you can express, what you can use... use all of it and never hold back. Use your life for a better purpose, stop trying to enforce strength, stop trying to convince people that they can never touch you now. You need to be focusing on trying to improve more and focus on real purpose. Stop trying to look right all the time and let everything flow, use all of your time and energy for the people that really loves you and like you. Stop giving any time for anyone that will never like you even if you show them kindness. The people that you hate... ignore them and never give them any single second.. that's the best way to make a revenge. 

Use all of your skills for a better cause, use it for something bigger than revenge. Use it to experience better things in life, making a revenge is the act of low people, you're better than that. Just let everything that hurts you in the past, make peace with it and never think about it anymore, don't speak about it, don't revive it and stop making dramas about it. Just learn to let go and live a happier life. 

YOUR ENERGY WILL RUN OUT

Your energy will get depleted every time you think about the past or every time you think about the people you hate. Stop having that kind of approach in life, focus on the positive, focus on appreciating, focus on seeing the good things in people and stop focusing on what you don't like about them. Stop secretly hating people and start giving more love, give more appreciation, it's the harder thing to do but it will give you more energy and strength. So if you're stressed, feeling weak, always slow and feeling heavy then it means you're not loving your life, it means you're hating something, you need to check your thoughts and start focusing on being passionate and appreciative. 

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Oct 31, 2022

KEEP YOUR CELLPHONE FOR ONE WEEK


What's making you weak, slow, unproductive and dumb is your cellphone. You're looking at it too much, it's eating a lot of your time, it's not helping you at all. It's better if you are using it for studying or business but you are using it for pleasures and procrastination instead. That's why you're on a downward spiral pattern, that's why you keep on losing. You're too interested with garbage information, you don't want to consume the information that will make you better. You want nasty bitches dancing on Tik tok, you want fake pranks, you want stupidity and nonsense dramas that's why you're always lacking of time for yourself. You need to be better than that and the only way to stop wasting your time is to try keeping your cellphone for one week, store it in a cabinet and lock it. Try this experiment and you will be surprise with how productive you become by simply eliminating one thing in your life. 

If you can't keep it because you're waiting for some important messages then just don't touch the apps or social media applications for one week. You have to be aware if you're putting a lot of your time an energy into your cellphone because it's making you dumb and stupid, it's making you very weak and unproductive. You need to control the use of your cellphone, you need to discipline yourself or else it will ruin your life, you will become weak, you will become a failure, do you want that? Accept that your phone is eating a lot of your time that you could have use for greatness or a little self development. You need to control the time of usage of your cellphone, it's much better if you will stay away from it for at least a week or even a month. 

GO HARD ALL THE TIME

Push yourself to go hard all the time, never rest, never make excuses, just pure hard work and focus. Do this for one week and you will be surprised that you've already increase your productivity to 10x or even more. Because the number one reason why you're so slow and useless is your cellphone, you're letting a random posts from a stupid bitch eat your time, you're letting the problems of others distract you, you're allowing yourself to get lost with random posts that doesn't level up your mentality. It's time to claim your life and stop being manipulated by a small computer, you need to focus on the grind, focus on getting better.

NEVER LET ANYTHING CONTROL YOU

Never let a small machine control you, never let other people control you and make you a slave of their nonsense actions. Never let social media manipulate your mind, you need to decide for yourself, you need to control your own life. The truth is... all of your decisions and styles was based on social media, you're following the trends, you're following everything they say even if it is not true. Your mind was a slave already because you're not living your life in your own terms, you're letting your cellphone do the decision for you. The moment you wake up the first thing you're holding is your cellphone, before you sleep you're also using your cellphone. Aren't you sick and tired of it? 

IT'S SO EASY TO WIN NOWADAYS

It's easy to win nowadays because most people are distracted by what's going on with the world. You're wasting a lot of your time following a person that you don't even know. The one who will thrive in this generation is the one who's not wasting his time. So if you keep on wasting your time on social media consuming a lot of images and information that doesn't make you better then you're going down. Your life is on a downward spiral. So look at yourself, if you're always using your cellphone then it means you are losing, if you can't stop yourself from looking at your cellphone for at least an hour then there is already something wrong with you. 

It's easy to win because most people are procrastinating and using their phone, it's easy to win because most people got soft because of their cellphone, they don't want to suffer anymore, they don't want to try anymore, their phone is making them weak, it's giving them the comfort that they don't need, it's an unhealthy comfort, it's an addiction, cellphone is like a drug that is legal. It's taking away your problems for a very short time but making it worse in the long run. 

FEAR OF MISSING OUT

fear of getting left behind, fear of missing out, fear of not being updated, fear of losing the trends... this is who you are and that's why you don't have confidence in yourself, your decisions was based on social media. The way you dress, speak and live was purely based on this stupid social media. Never mind what's going on with the world, never care if a celebrity is depressed, it's not your problem. This social media is just promoting the mental health, it's already becoming a drama, it's not an issue... it's becoming a show, people are pretending to have it to excuse themselves from taking an action, some people are using it to get an attention. Just a small sadness is not a depression, life is really like that, sometimes you are sad and sometimes you are happy. People who are depressed are the most unappreciative people in the world. They're not the weakest, they're the most unappreciative people. You can never see depression in africa or the poorest country in the world, it's because they don't have anything, and now that you have a lot suddenly you are depressed? social media is making you depress because it's forcing your to compare yourself to others and that takes away your ability to appreciate your own life. 



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Oct 30, 2022

WHY STOP?


You don't know that moving forward is much better than stopping and quitting, you don't know that trying again is the best thing you can do to avoid regrets in the end, you don't know that life is a journey and you are suppose to try again and again because that is where real fun is. There is no fun in winning, there is no thrill in knowing that you're going to succeed, the real fun is in the process, the real thrill and joy is not knowing if you can make it or not. So go all the way, go hard every single day, make sure you are so damn tired before you sleep, make sure you gave your all before you close your eyes, stop wasting your energy for nonsense things and use it for your goals only... that's the only way to become really happy with your life. 

BE RELENTLESS AS YOU CAN BE

Start now, be fast, it's ok if you're not starting great... just start and do something, it's all about creating a momentum, it's all about building a rhythm to keep you going and going. You can become unstoppable if you will choose to, just don't stop, just don't give up and you will become a beast. Just start, just force yourself to take actions even if you're hesitating a lot, just show up and give your very best no matter what. Every time you feel lazy and hesitant, every time you feel bad and sick... force yourself to move forward and you will find the energy to follow through. Because at the end of the day you need to work as hard as you can to become successful, you can't relax and at the same time expect success, there is no such thing as something for nothing, you have to pay the price, you have to pay your dues. 

Being relentless is a matter of choice, are you going to take the next action or not? strength doesn't matter here, what matters is your willpower, are you willing to keep pushing even if you don' feel powerful anymore.

WHAT WILL MAKE YOU UNSTOPPABLE?

There's only one way to become unstoppable... don't listen to what people say. Because the truth is you are stopping because people are criticizing you, you are stopping because you are too afraid of getting judged by other people. That's why a 50 year old guy doesn't want to compete anymore, that's why an undergraduate is afraid of applying for a higher position, that's why a former prostitute doesn't want to study again, it is because people plays a major impact on somebody's decision. Most people are so afraid of getting judged and humiliated by other people, a small critic is hurting them. You have no idea how powerful you can be if you will never care about what people say. Let them speak, let them belittle you but always keep moving forward, always try, this is a journey, there is nothing right or wrong here.

Let them say what they wanted to say but never stop moving forward, people will never catch you if you're always on the go, step on the gas, give yourself the greenlight and take actions like a raging bull. Nothing can stop you if you are committed to taking actions. Hear nothing, don't give any feelings from what people are trying to say, never let your mentality be affected with a random nonsense suggestion, you need to believe in yourself even if everyone is counting you out.  

BECOME A STOPPER

Stop yourself from doing stupid things, stop yourself from procrastinating, stop everything that is slowing you down, become a stopper of your own demons, you need to control yourself and discipline yourself to do the right things only that will give you an advantage in the future. Because the truth is you're the only one who is stopping yourself, you're the only one who is destroying your own life with bad habits and extreme laziness. It's time to stop yourself from being a mediocre, it's time to become the best version of yourself, it will only happen if you will learn to stop all the stupid things in your life that doesn't give you any benefits at all. Accept that something that is fun is useless, accept that your life will become harder if you will not do the hard things now. Stop the bad habits now and the good habits will be formed naturally. 

YOU HAVE AN UNLIMTED ENERGY

your energy runs out because you're always looking for comfort, every time you seek comfort then you're slowing down, your focus is getting blurry, your body is starting to believe that it's ok to become lazy. You will have more energy if you keep going, never stop and your energy will never run out, as simple as that. DO it and you will find the energy to do it, most people are so weak and easily burned out because they're not forcing themselves, all they will do is rest every time they feel a a little bit  tired. You have an unlimited energy, you can move forever if you are committed with the process. Just keep going and going and going, nothing can stop you if you have a burning desire. 

DEDICATE YOUR LIFE TO MOVEMENT

Keep trying, keep moving, keep failing and then keep trying again. Dedicate your life to taking actions and you will have an extraordinary life, you will become something special, you will be able to create something that most people would not even dare to try. Train yourself to just take the first step and then follow through fast, never make excuses, never believe that you're tired, you have to find a way how to do the next step. Just do it, stop detaching yourself from anything and you will be able to do it. 

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CREATION NEVER STOPS


The good thing about life is that creation never stops. You can do something whenever you want and wherever you want, you can become unstoppable if you choose to. You can become relentless, you can become a beast, the only one who's stopping you is yourself because you're thinking too much, you wanted to become perfect, you wanted to become great right away and that's why you can't take actions. Greatness is patience, it will take time, you need to develop the right habits first before you become great. Don't rush it , don't force it, it's an everyday process. You can improve every single day but you need to be patient, you need to take your time and never feel frustrated if results are not coming in. 

Build your onw empire, create your own business, create your own style. Create everything based on your own decisions. Follow your heart and never stop creating, you can create something now, it all depends on how you allow yourself to become very creative. You are free, it means you can use any style you want, nobody can stop you. 

YOU HAVE TO START HATING PEOPLE

The number one waster of your time time is other people. You're so interested with them, you're affected by what they way, you're following a lot of people that doesn't contribute to your growth. Instead of using your time for yourself, you are using it to watch other people's stupid lives on social media. You have to start hating people now if you want to become great. It's not that you're bashing them or pulling them down, it's not that you're fighting them... you just stop watching them, you just stop getting interested with them and you start focusing on your own life. Because the best life to focus on is your own life, not other peoples' lives. Loving yourself means giving more time for yourself, you look forward to improve yourself, you look forward to become great. It's not about being narcissistic, it's about giving yourself the love and care that you need. 

Because knowing and trying to learn what they are doing will never help you, stop being concerned with a dramatic celebrity faking his mental health, stop being so worried about an influencer who was stuck in a dessert, it's not your fault if they are struggling, you are struggling too, you need to use all of your time and energy for yourself only. This kind of mindset will make you stronger, your value will go up, everything in your life will change. It's the one who can focus on his own life that will succeed. Mind your business, stop feeling sorry for a tik tok bitch that was making dramas just to get an attention, you need to be aware that every people is just trying to steal your time. Your time means money and potential, are you just going to give away your money for free and not get anything in return? Be aware all the time if you're just wasting your time, stop feeling so interested with other people's lives because they're not interested at you, they're just using you for their own good. 

Stop following a fake idol that all does is dance like a stupid bitch, stop feeling so aroused with a random chick that has no value in the society. You're better than that, you're just wasting your time and energy every time you watch some stupid post that doesn't teach you anything valuable. You need to use all of your time for creation, don't waste another day, don't ever think that you can just start tomorrow, if you really want to become great then you need to start today.

MAKE A LOT OF MISTAKES

Don't be afraid to repeat again, don't be afraid to go back to zero, don't be afraid of failing over and over again because it's the surest path to succeed. Accept that you're just a human being, accept that you will never become perfect. Those who can embrace failures with all their heart will become great. Only weak people can't accept failures, the strongest are the ones who keep on failing and trying again and again until they can't try anymore. Yu will never run out of chances if you keep on trying again for one more time. Even if it is hard, even if it is impossible... just try again for one more time. Because it's not about winning or losing, it's about not giving up. 

YOU'RE ON A DIFFERENT LEVEL

If you're pushing everyday, if you're doing something for a long time on a consistent way then you're already on a different level. You are different from anybody else, most people can't do something consistently for a long period of time, they quit easily. So focus on your own work, keep creating something. You must enjoy creating than watching, you are born to create, you are born to do something great, the power is yours, stop acting like you're nothing and start believing in yourself. You need to take matters into your own hands, you need to create your own opportunity. 

THERE ARE NO RESTRICTIONS

There are no limits, there are no boundaries, you can become what you wanted to be no matter how poor or untalented you are. The barometer of your success is your willpower, if your will can't be measured then sky is the limit for you, you will be able to create your own fortune and become something you thought you can't be. So allow yourself to push every single day, never care if it is hard, never care if it's too impossible... just do it. You can do anything you want, you can start anytime you want, allow yourself to feel light, allow yourself to be carefree and just do what your heart is telling you to do so. 



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IF YOU WANT TO BECOME FAST YOU NEED TO STOP THINKING

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