There will always be fear, you will always tell yourself you're not ready, some kind of an imaginary pain will come, there will be an ailment, there will be challenges and surprises, that is just part of life. You will never be able to make it perfect so stop looking for a perfect feeling, stop expecting for a perfect life and stay away from comfort, stop looking for easy times because life is really hard, it gets harder and harder every time you're trying to make it perfect. Embrace imperfections and just show up. Don't look for wins, don't look for help, stop looking for an easy path because it's all in the mind. Accept what will happen, always give your very best but don't ever expect that your fear will go away anytime soon. Life is simply all about how you feel, it is a battle between you and your fears every single day. The only way to beat fear today is to accept that life is full of challenges and that it is normal to have a hard time with your life. Don't be afraid of a hard life, stop comparing yourself with other people who have an easy life because you don't know what they're going through, even if they are rich that doesn't mean they're happy. Life is not perfect to everyone but you can do something about it to make it a little bit better. Managing your fears means discipline, you need to condition your mind to think the right way every time you are scared. There must be a counter thought, there must be a philosophy that you must live and die with. For me my personal philosophy is just persevere and deal with it, face it now so that fear will die. Your fear will only go away if you're fast in doing your responsibilities. If you are slow and always overthinking your fear will only get bigger and bigger. You have to face it like it's nothing, at the end of the day every situation or circumstance is nothing if you will never think of it as a big deal, it is nothing if you will think of it as normal. Nothing can kill you, always think about that and you will feel much better. The only thing you need to do is take care of yourself, take care of your responsibilities and that's it. Just be good, just be consistent on what works and you will be fine. You don't need to become perfect here, you don't need to become the best but you have to give your best so that you will see what you are made of. Life will get easier if you will just face your fears, ignore what is bothering you and just keep moving forward. You don't need to become special here but you can become extraordinary if you will just give your 100% even if fear is trying to stop you. Fear is just a feeling, it is not about the outside, it is about the inside, if you can feel it and ask yourself why are you afraid of something, if you will look fear in its eye and treat it as normal then you will feel so powerful. Study yourself why are you afraid, you will see that you're afraid because you're expecting perfection, you want to control everything, let go of control and you will become stronger.
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