Most people are trying to look cute, perfect and great that is why they are so scared of trying, that is why they can't move. They couldn't even try because they thought that they need to be perfect all the time, and that is why they are stuck and couldn't make a progress. You have to execute and never wait for the perfect time, perfect angle, perfect look or perfect situation. It is only an excuse. Just like a basketball player who couldn't even take a shot because he wants his shot to look perfect, he wants everything to feel alright and in the end he didn't even scored a single point. You are only making your life difficult if you're always looking for what is missing with you or what is wrong with you. There is nothing wrong with trying, apply for a job even if you have an ugly suit, give your girl a love card even if your hand writing is ugly, ask a girl on a date even if the timing is not perfect, pass your project to your professor even if it's ugly, enjoy any situation even if it's ugly. It's your perspective that makes something ugly or beautiful. If you are appreciative enough and not looking for flaws then you can become confident with what you have or what can do. It doesn't matter if your composition is ugly, post in anyway. It doesn't matter if you're right or wrong, what matters is you are moving forward towards your dreams, your intention is right and you are not doing something that will hurt other people. If you are doing it for yourself and you have a purpose then it doesn't matter if it is ugly or beautiful. What matters is the goal, the actions and the intention. The process, the looks, the perfection doesn't matter. If it's ugly so be it, if it's not pleasing to the eyes so be it. They can criticize you, they can mock you or hate you but at the end of the day you are a doer. So just be a doer and don't be a judger, don't judge yourself, don't think that what you're doing is wrong. Every action is the right action, you are getting closer and closer to your dreams every time you try and push yourself to the limits. You have no other choice but to move forward, that's the only choice you have, that's the only remaining option for you. Procrastination will kill you, laziness will make you miserable, playing safe and getting addicted to comfort will make you weak, making excuses will make you a loser. Taking action is the only thing that will give you confidence, exposing yourself to failure, facing the pain... this will give you confidence. At the end of the day it's either you take actions or you don't. You know in yourself if you live like a coward or not.
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