Your feelings is a liability, it will stop you from taking an action, remind yourself about this and you will feel powerful. You will begin to move because you will no longer care about how you feel, you will feel worse if you don't move, you will feel like a loser when you don't take matters into your own hands. So what the hell are you waiting for? take actions now and keep going further no matter what. Never let anything stop you, not even yourself. Because the truth is you're the only ne who is stopping you from succeeding by being soft and weak. You become like that because you're addicted to comfort. You don't want to fail because you're a failure already by being slow, undecisive, doubtful and scared. You are scared because you are not training your willpower to just do it. Trust me, just take actions and you will feel so confident.
There are two guys in a bar, they are both ugly. The first guy is so hesitant because he thought he is ugly, he didn't want to ask girls and get their number that is why he ends up banging zero chicks for the rest of his life. The other one is cold and doesn't care if he is nervous or confident, he just do it, he just ask girls out on a date, he is ugly and get rejected most of the time but he still manage to get some average girls and sometimes really hot ones, it is because he is not afraid of rejection, he is not afraid of failure, he just do it no matter what, he doesn't care about his fears and feelings, all he cares about is doing it and believing that he will succeed in just a matter of time. The lesson is don't be afraid of trying again and again because that is when success happens... when you don't give up. Giving up means you don't want it bad enough but if the universe sees you as something and you want it bad enough... you will get it. This is not how handsome, gifted or blessed you are, it's not about luck or opportunities... it's about grit and self belief that was made through countless effort, failures and rejection. You will only feel strong after facing a lot of defeats and that is the reality of life. You will never feel good all the time but you can take actins anytime, nothing can stop you even your emotions. The idea is define what you need to do and just do it, never care about how you feel because it is a liability, it will slow you down, just do it no matter what and something good will happen, become a doer not a thinker.
WHY CAN'T YOU MOVE?
BECAUSE you always think, you always think about perfection, you're too cautious about the outcome, you're to worried about what might went wrong, you're too focused on making it right not knowing that the only thing that is logical here is moving and taking matters into your own hands. You can never control everything, you can never control success, you can never please everyone, stop thinking that you need to ask for permission, stop asking for permission and you will feel how powerful you are. It's not about them, it's not about the external things, it is about the internal, focus inside of you and you will feel unstoppable. stop being a perfectionist, just do what you can do and keep going further as much as you can. Focus on willpower, focus on developing your mentality and never care about what's going to happen next. Your mind gets stronger and stronger every time you push and do what you must do but you hate to do. This is simply about emotional management.
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