You will suck in the beginning, you will fail, you will be lost, you will get confused, you will be embarrassed, sometimes you will even hate yourself. But the truth is the biggest failure is not even trying. That's the real failure right there, it's not about coming up short, it's about you being lazy or scared because you don't want to give an effort. People are afraid to take actions because they don't want to fail, they simply want to succeed without having to feel the pain, they don't want to get tired, they don't want to struggle that's why they can't grow. It's simply about pushing yourself to take actions even if you don't want the task ahead of you, as simple as that.
YOU CAN'T CONTROL THE RESULTS BUT YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR DEVELOPMENT
When you're trying and doing the work, you're already getting better, you're already improving, you need to focus on working and not on succeeding fast, success will come naturally when you're getting better, you can't force it to happen in your life but you can grow each day, you're already progressing every time you are working hard on yourself. Just do the work and never worry again. When you're working everyday you're already getting better, you don't need to wait for the outcome to feel that you're already improving, if you're really pushing yourself to the limits then that is the outcome already. Everything else is just a bonus, just give your all, stop comparing yourself to others, stop thinking that you deserve more... focus on taking actions and that's it. Don't be afraid of failure, always think that you already won every time you try and do something.
START AND FINISH IT
You can start anytime you want, that's your power, that's your control. You will feel much better if you will just do it instead of just thinking about it. Why will you punish yourself with overthinking if you can move now? when you are moving you are improving, as simple as that. This is all about the habits, you can only progress and attract bigger opportunities if you have the right habits install in your life. The best habit to develop is simply doing it without being concerned if you're going to win or not, at the end of the day this is about getting better, it's not about getting the results, it's about trying to grow every single day because that is where happiness resides. Money, results and success is just a temporary happiness, real happiness is enjoying the process no matter how hard your task is. Come to think of it you feel so happy after washing the dishes right? you feel so happy after walking for a few minutes right? you feel so good after finishing your assignment but you feel so weak when you are overthinking and wishing that life would get better, you feel so sick when you're thinking about the steps that you must do but not doing it.
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