Most of the time you think you're smart, you think you already knew it all, you think nobody is better than you and that's why you're lazy and not pushing yourself, that's why you're not making any momentum. What if you admit that you're dumb and that you need to work harder so that you will make a progress? what if you admit that you really need to push yourself to your limits and kill your ego that is telling you that you're entitled of something? you need to go harder every single day and stay disciplined. You're not pushing yourself because you think you're smart, you think that you will get lucky one day, you think that you can do it even if you're not working hard. And that's why you keep on failing, that's why you're always quitting when something is not going on your way.
ADMIT THAT YOU'RE NOT BLESSED
You've been so jealous to people who were born rich, with good looks, liked by everyone, with everything in life. You think that they're so lucky and you are not. Guess what? so be it, admit that you're not blessed, admit that you really need to grind and hustle like hell just to get what you want. Accept that you need to double your effort while other people are getting it fast. The reason why you can't succeed is because you're in denial, you think there is an easy path, you're wishing that you have their kind of life too. But that's not the case in your situation, you are nothing, you're not special. You have to accept that your path is harder than them, you need to accept that nothing will be handed to you, there is no freebies, there is no shortcuts, there is no help, you have to go and get it.
THE GOOD THING ABOUT STRUGGLING
It will give you soul and substance. It will make you stronger and tougher. It will take your mentality to another level. It will make you creative, it will develop your perseverance and belief, it will make you a beast. So keep struggling and pushing, you will find a way, if there is a will there is a way. If you really want it then you will get it, as simple as that. So keep struggling and never give up, you're almost there, you just need to believe in yourself more and be faster than yesterday. Don't act like you have the luxury to rest and take it easy, you have to go hard every single second and treat your goals like your life depends on it. Just because you're struggling doesn't mean your situation is going to be like that forever, of course your life can still change, it's on you if you want to change it or not, you have the power to change your life or make it worse. Struggling means you want to improve, it means you're aiming for something, move even if you're struggling and one day you will make a breakthrough.
KEEP FIGHTING FOR WHAT YOU WANT
It's not about winning or losing, it's about not giving up. Show up every single day and keep fighting for what you want, don't quit when it's hard... go harder when you're not seeing a progress, grind alone and do whatever it takes to become a little bit closer from what you want. You can make it if you really want it, you just need to become faster and bolder. Stay aggressive and always go for the kill. Don't stop and just keep trying, you will never become a loser forever, it's impossible to fail over and over again, one day you're going to succeed, you just need to believe and make yourself relentless to taking actions. It is what it is, it's not going to be easy but you can make something happen if you will try and commit to the process. Make yourself the hardest working person in the world and you will find out what you are all about, yours elf esteem and belief will become stronger, the results will come out faster. You just need to keep pushing and never complain just for once.
APPRECIATE EVERYTHING
Appreciate your struggles, appreciate the challenges, appreciate life. If you can appreciate everything then life will become easier and lighter, the resistance will go away. Hard or easy... accept it and appreciate it, don't complain, stop whining and making dramas. Stop playing like a victim and be a doer instead. You're becoming a victim because you're not taking actions, but if you will move and do whatever it takes to succeed then your life will change in an instant. You will never get the results fast but your emotions and energy will change, your mindset will become better, you will have a better approach and perspective in life. Because life will get more beautiful and easier if you will become appreciative. The power of gratitude is real, look for things where you can be thankful of and it will multiply. Just say thank you every now and then, appreciate what you have and you will feel much better.
EXPOSE YOURSELF TO FAILURES
The key to success is to stop being a pussy, expose yourself to failures, you are not special so who are you to avoid failures? you will never become successful if you're so afraid of failing. Don't be afraid to fail because you will learn something from it, it will make you tougher and smarter, it will take your mentality to another level. Once you're no longer afraid of failing... everything will become a lot easier, you will become dangerous, you will have nothing to lose, abundance will be felt, you will become fearless, you will be able to work super hard and fast, you will become very productive and valuable. So keep trying, try somethin now, start now and never wait for tomorrow, never waste your time, just start because time is running, the clock is ticking, nothing will wait for you so you have to execute now and do something about your situation.
DON'T LOOK FOR EXAMPLES, BE THE EXAMPLE
Don't look for someone to do it before you start, you have to start believing in yourself while staying humble, believe that it can be done. You just need to double or even quadruple your effort, you need to take your time and focus on baby steps. It's impossible because you're not even trying. Don't look for an example or a proof that it can be done... just do it. No matter where you are, what your age is or how you feel... just do it. Do it even if you feel weak, do it even if you don't have an experience. Just do it and give yourself a chance to win. Because the truth is you can do it but you're so afraid to try, you need an approval first, you don't need any of it, you just need to believe in yourself and work insanely hard.
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