At the end of the day you can only make people believe in you if you're showing results, if you're making progress and winning. You can tell them that you are giving your very best, you can show them some post on instagram that you're working hard but if you can't show them real results when it matters... you're just another pony in town, you're a fraud, you are nothing, you are a scumbag. Nobody will believe in you if you're not making any result to show them. You can tell them that you're doing great, you can tell them about your plans and what will happen in the future but if you can't show them any evidence of your work then nobody will believe in you, you will become a laughing stock, they will not trust you, they will never listen to your stories anymore.
YOU'RE REALLY NOT WORKING HARD
If you're not making result then you're not really working hard. If you think you're working hard but still you can't get any result then it means your effort is not enough. You have to check yourself if you're really pushing yourself and feeling uncomfortable all the time. If you're really working hard then why the hell are you always checking your crush's stupid Instagram account? she will not text you back, she doesn't care about you. Just focus on the grind and get better, once you become rich that bitch will beg for you to text her. If you're really working hard then you will never rest, you will never have any room for stupid activities that doesn't matter, you will be on a sense of urgency, you will never give any attention to something that isn't helping you to get better. If you're really working hard then you will go all the way, you will never check for results, you will use every second of your life for making a small progress and moving a small inch, you will take it one step at a time and you will be very patient of the process.
MAKE SACRIFICES, HARDCORE SACRIFICES
Stay consistent with your grind, do what most people can't do. Give everything you've got and never hold back. Make scary sacrifices, don't ever follow the crowd who are wasting their time all the time. Focus on working hard and getting better every single day, focus on your own life and never mind what other people are doing. You've got to choose whether you want to become great or not, every action will dictate where you are headed to, every action will affect your future. You can play around like a clown today but it will have a bad effect in your future. You can work harder today and tire yourself out but it will give you best rewards in the future. It all depends on what action are you going to take.
GETTING LUCKY THROUGH HARD WORK
If you want to get lucky then work really hard, as simple as that. You're not lucky because you're too lazy and needy. If you think you deserve something then you need to work for it, don't ask for it, don't beg for it, go and get it yourself. The harder you work the luckier you will get, keep this in your mind. Work hard for one month, really really hard and you see that your life will change. You can create luck through hard work alone, you don't need connections, you don't need breaks, you don't need help, you don't need a free pass. If you want it bad enough the the universe will make a way for you, you will attract different opportunities, you will create your own break. Luck is to be attracted and not something to wish for, you will only attract luck if you're doing whatever it takes to succeed.
DIFFICULTY DOESNT MATTER
If you will just think that difficulty doesn't matter at all then you will be able to do anything you want. The reason why it is hard is because you're focused on the difficulty. You think that you will struggle right before you even start. You're so afraid of getting lost, getting tired and making a mistake. You're so afraid of the journey and long hours of work. That's why you couldn't even start, that's why you can't make a small progress. But if you will stop checking for the results, if you will stop looking for shortcuts then you will feel easier and lighter, you will be able to move faster and nothing can stop you. Forget about the difficulty, accept that you will have a hard time, accept that nothing is easy and everything will be a lot easier, the pressure will go away, the resistance will loosen up. Don't be afraid of any struggle and it will feel like you're not struggling, don't be afraid of any pain and you will never feel it, don't be afraid of getting tired and you will be able to push for more and go further. Difficulty doesn't matter at all, it's not important, you should stop complaining if it's difficult, you are suppose to experience the hardship of life, accept it and be thankful of it and the process will become very easy.
THE ONLY THING THAT WILL CREATE PROGRESS IS IMPERFECTION
If you're willing to have flaws, if you're willing to look imperfect and cool then you will be able to make a progress. The reason why people can't make a progress is because they're too afraid of what other people will say. If you can just start no matter what you know or what you have then you will be able to make a small progress. A small progress is better than no progress at all. Only mistakes can give you clues, not facts, not what they say. If you will make a mistake now then the ball will roll, the momentum will shift on your side, you will be able to figure out what to do next. You don't need to worry about anything else, if you are moving forward then you will be alright. Forget about perfection, forget about winning right away... just do something and find a way.
LEARN TO DOMINATE YOURSELF
Dominating yourself means controlling your emotions, controlling your impulses. You don't react, you avoid temptations, you focus on what matters the most. You are disciplined and you don't care about anything else that is not making you better. Dominate yourself, avoid instant gratification, don't get angry on petty things. Learn to move whenever you need to move, learn to drag and force yourself into taking actions. Because at the end of the day only actions does matter and nothing else, you are nothing if you are not moving, you will become a weak person if you're not doing something. You have to move, learn to master your emotions, learn to ignore negative feelings and simply move forward. Never let your mind think, never let worries penetrate your brain and move right away. Once you are moving you will feel good, all of the fears will go away. Become a beast, become a doer not a dreamer, become something that you are not before, become something that will push himself to the limits just to forger a small progress. Don't be afraid of getting tired, don't be afraid of the time running out... just keep moving forward all the time and trust the process.
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