Have you felt before when you can't move? do you want to achieve something but you can't start? or do you want to take some risks but for whatever unknown reason something is stopping you? Do you feel frozen every time you need to make a big decision or even execute a small action? you know the reason why you can't pull the trigger? it's because you're too afraid to fail. You're too afraid to repeat gain, you're lazy, you want things to be handed to you.
YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO LOOK FLAWLESS
You don't want a tarnish record, you want to have a perfect record, you want a perfect life. This is just an illusion, there is no such thing as a perfect life. It's easy to move if you will just move and stop thinking about winning, succeeding or making it fast. Stop thinking about money, stop thinking about people making it while not working too hard, stop getting jealous with other people's success because you wanted to be like them. You feel so entitled of getting a piece of cake too, the question is are you willing to work for it? you wanted an easy way, it doesn't matter if some people are getting it fast, it's none of your business to look at their lives. It's not your duty to get jealous, your journey is to focus on your own life and try to grow little by little. You can never become perfect, this may sound so sad but it's the reality. All you can do is take actions and put yourself on the best position to succeed.
IT'S EASY TO CHANGE
Forget who you are, forget everything in the past, never mind how people perceive you and just be yourself, do what is needed. Change is simply doing what you need to do in times of feeling lazy, it's simply not procrastinating and doing one positive thing at a time. Focus on your own life, focus on making yourself better, you don't need to become great... you just need to become a little bit better. If you want to change then you can change, you can do it now... what are you waiting for? pull the trigger, stop trying to look cute and fantastic. Stop trying to look cool and awesome, you have to do whatever you can do regardless if you will succeed or not.
YOU FEEL SO SPECIAL
You feel like a chosen one, when did it happened? when did God choose you to become his favorite son? why do you feel so entitled of having more by giving less? You're not special so stop acting like a special dude, stop feeling so entitled to become lazy and ask for more. You need to stop feeling perfect and stop looking for perfection and focus on taking action. You are nothing, if you can accept that you are nothing then it will be easier for you to take actions. If your ego is gone then you will never be afraid to make mistakes again, you will just do it, you will never think that there is something there to lose. And even if you already become successful, still stop feeling special because it will be the start of your falter. You need to kill your ego all the time so you can move easily. Always remember that you still need to work hard and pull the trigger every now and then if you want to maintain your success.
WINNERS ARE BIG TIME FAILURES
You have to try. If you want to become a winner then you need to fail, pull the trigger and don't be afraid to fail. After all, failing is just a feeling, you didn't lose anything, the best thing about failing is you learned some lesson, you become a better person, you're equipped with more knowledge now. Elon Musk, Albert Einstein, Michael Jordan, Thomas Edison and many more... these men failed a lot before, they failed miserably. Their hearts were broken a lot of times but they keep trying and that's why they become so successful. Accept that you are going to fail a lot, if you're failing now then it means you're getting closer and closer to success.
IGNORE THE OUTCOME
Always looking for results will only make you slow and weak, after all... you still need to work hard. Even if you fail or succeed, you still need to work hard, you can never escape hard work. So what's the point in looking for results all the time? it's only making you depressed and sad, it's only making you jealous with other people who's winning. Ignore the outcome for now and just go all the way, as simple as that. What will happen will happen, you don't need to worry about it, you only need to worry if you're taking matters into your own hands or not. Win or lose... pull the trigger, this should be your mindset.
DESTROY YOUR IDENTITY
Forget yourself, forget your old self, create a new you by trying. Create a new world by being fast in making decisions, forget the weak you and create a strong you. Forget who you are and start destroying your identity in a good way. Destroy it, forget it so you can stop thinking that you are perfect. Start embarrassing yourself, fail more and try more. Because the truth is... your identity is nothing, people doesn't even care if you're winning or not. They don't care about you so you don't need to take care of your identity. What matters is you try with all your might because all people are afraid to do it.
GREATNESS IS SIMPLY PUSHING
Just push, push yourself to the limits, push yourself to do what you are afraid to do. The more you ca n push the greater you will become. You can push all the time, if you're pushing then you're already progressing, how good was that? You have nothing to lose here, you are growing if you are pushing.
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