What most of you people don't know is you can always say NO, you can always say no to something you don't like especially if the offer will not do any good to your life. There is no harm in saying no, you will not die saying it. Saying NO is normal so you should say it often as you can to improve your life and put yourself on a better position. Reject somebody if needed, say no to something that will not serve you.
Saying no is free yet a lot of people can't say it. They are so scared to offend someone, the reality is... you are not hurting someone because you say no, a person who gets it is the one who's hurting himself because he can't accept rejection. Only sensitive people will be hurt if they get an answer no. They thought that they deserve something and they want an answer yes, they can't accept the rejection, they feel that you did them something wrong.
Saying no is a good thing, if you can say it even if you are scared then your confidence is starting to develop, it means you have the courage to stand for your decision and embrace what other people might tell you. You know your rights and you know what is best for you.
Because sometimes.. saying know is the very best option for you. Don't be afraid to humiliate or reject somebody. It is not your intention to hurt them, you are just choosing what is best for you and what you really like. Saying No is free, a lot of people thought that they are not free to do that, they thought that they have to pay something just to say no.
Saying no is only difficult in the beginning once you get familiar of saying it... you can say NO to anyone, anytime. Because you have the right to say it, you have the right to choose what is best for you. If saying yes will hurt you then don't say it.
Those people who can say no are courageous, the are not part of the YES man society.
Because you will always be abused if you keep on saying yes, you will lose your confidence, you will be an accessory of a particular agenda.
So starting today... if you want to say no, say it.
INSTEAD OF LOOKING FOR SOMETHING... BE THE SOMETHING
Instead of looking for someone who is strong to make you stronger why not be the strength that you are looking for? make yourself better, ma...
-
How many times you tell everyone that you can't do something because your schedule is very busy? Ok if you are really busy then how c... -
We are so lucky to live in this generation, Everything is free! If you want to know how to cook a particular dish and you don't kno... -
Have a mindset that you can achieve anything or accomplished something great by opening yourself to all possibilities. Open yourself to...
No comments:
Post a Comment