Feb 19, 2020

IT'S ALREADY TOO LATE TO QUIT

It's already late to quit, you already worked so hard for this, you are not allowed to quit anymore. You've already went too far, quitting is not an option anymore. You're already great, your perseverance is already one of a kind... it's  only just a matter of time before you become successful. And you will, you will become successful if you keep doing what you're doing even if it's not working... yet. It's not working for now because there are still some missing pieces, there are still some ingredients that you must use, but don't worry because you will discover the right path later, just keep moving forward and always look for that tiny inches in front of you where you can operate. You've been working hard all of your life, quitting is not an option anymore, quitting is for losers and you know that, so keep grinding even if you're bleeding, keep pushing even if you're losing, your situation will change in just a matter of time. You will become disgusted of yourself if you quit, it's because you will feel that you can push more but you did not. Quitting will make you feel like a loser forever so stop thinking about it... ever. You need to try for one more time, you still can win it while you're still alive, it doesn't matter if you're late or too old, it doesn't matter if you feel weak... just try again and never waste a single second thinking about what was lost in your life. So keep in mind that if you quit now then you will feel worse in the future, you will think about it all the time, it will never make you sleep, you will feel incomplete, you will feel less of a person, you will feel weak, you will always think that you could have finish stronger but you choose comfort instead.

COMFORT IS A TRAP

What you don't know is that comfort is a trap, it is pain, it's seducing you to stop but later you will think about what could have happen if you continue. Most people who failed were trapped by comfort, they thought that it is the right trap because they wanted to feel good all the time, their minds tricked them into failure. The moral lesson is if you're always looking for comfort then you will fail, if you're always looking for an easy path and easy success then you will never succeed... you are only fooling yourself. There are no shortcuts to success, you have to really work hard and do whatever it takes. Look at those people who were always looking for comfort... they're living in an uncomfortable life, they never go further, it's because they always quit. They will celebrate once they made a little progress and will never work hard anymore, they feel that they already won by just getting something small, they never dare to become big, they were satisfied of getting a small piece of cake because looking for a bigger slice is very uncomfortable.

But you have to keep in mind that when there is resistance there is growth, when there is failure there is success, when there is discomfort there is comfort. If you're not feeling difficult then it means you're not evolving at all, you're the same person as. yesterday, you never achieve anything, you never level up.

NEVER KILL THE MOMENTUM

Once you feel that there is still a fight in you left... keep fighting, keep going even if you're tired, forget about feeling good, you're already going through hell so keep going, you're already in pain, there is nothing left for you to lose anymore, you can win the battle, it's just a matter of time before you reach the finish line. Strike while the iron is hot, once you feel a little bit confident... keep going further. Once you're making a little progress... keep pushing, don't be afraid to get super exhausted, you will regain your energy back.

And even if you don't have a momentum now, don't worry because you will find it later. Just keep taking actions and your journey will become easier and easier as you keep pushing forward.

ONCE A QUITTER ALWAYS A QUITTER

Once you quit on something... you will do it forever, it will become you, losing will become part of your life and you're loving it. It's becoming who you are, it's your culture already. So never quit in life and just keep fighting no matter what, when it gets difficult... remind yourself that you need to take one small step so that you're still on the game. And the question is... are you going to exchange success for comfort? why choose to feel comfortable now if you will feel uncomfortable later? choose discomfort now and celebrate later. The celebration is always in the end, the rest is always in the end... not in the middle or early stages of the challenge.

Never make it a habit to quit just for once, because once a quitter always a quitter, it will be your life and destiny, you will become a loser forever do you like that?

DON'T BE AFRAID OF ANY DIFFICULTY

Anything great is worth trying. Of course it is going to get difficult, what do you expect? free handouts and shortcuts? there is no such thing as that. So what if it's difficult? it doesn't mean you can't move anymore, it doesn't mean there is no way to finish it. Use your willpower, do whatever it takes, all it takes is one small action after the other, keep repeating it and soon you will see that you're already successful. It will become easier once you get use to difficulty, so keep facing any adversity because it is training your mind to become stronger, you will be able to withstand any kind of storm once you expose yourself to difficult situations. All you have to do is never back down and just keep moving, that's how simple it is. 

Feb 18, 2020

BE FAST AND RELENTLESS

All you've got to do is be fast and relentless, be fast in moving, stop thinking why you can't make it and simply do it. Never care about winning or losing and simply do it, be relentless as you can be... that's how to take your life to another level. Anyone can become fast if he choose to, anyone can work right away without even thinking what's the next sequence would be. All he have to do is do something positive, do something productive and never look back... that's how to become fast and relentless. Never look for comfort and always look to push, always look for the next move that you can execute, that is what it is all about. Because at the end of the day, you're only going to choose between two pace, is it the fast pace or the slow pace? you know what a fast pace can do, you know what can it bring to your life.

YOU WILL BECOME FASTER IF YOU KNOW WHERE TO GO AND WHAT TO DO

People were so slow because they have no idea of what they are going to do, they were lost even more because they knew they want something but they don't know it. Sometimes they know what they want but still they were looking for some other things. And that creates split energy, they were confused. But if you will just be specific on what you are trying to achieve then you will become more productive, it's because you know the steps that you are going to take. A ship that knows the destination very well will reach it. Because if you don't know what to do then you will become overwhelmed, you will become stressed and in the end you will quit.

So be specific with what you want, make a game plan of what you're going to do to make a progress and never stop. Never entertain a lot of disturbances. It's not about being strong, athletic, special or something. Being fast means you're not hesitating and you're always consistent on what you do.

SPEED IS THE NAME OF THE GAME

Speed kills, speed can manufacture momentum, speed alone can make you successful. Some people were not that skilled, some people were ordinary but they become extraordinary because they were fast in taking actions, the result is they produce more than other people and that's a good thing. Their formula is simply taking massive actions and in the end they get massive results. So if you're not satisfied with the results that you are getting it means you need to level up your game, it means you need to become faster, so act now, act right away, do something and never hold yourself back. So look at yourself, are you always hesitating? are you engaging yourself with activities that will not even take you to another level? the call is on you, the power is yours, if you're always doing some garbage moves that are not even related to your goal and the life you want then you will become very much slower, you will never make significant strides, you will find yourself being stuck on the same rut forever.

Some are just purely relying on the law of averages, they know that the game of numbers is very powerful, they know that the more they try and produce something... the more they are going to succeed.

All you need to do is be fast, stop stopping, stop procrastinating and just do something. And even if you're not making results... keep looking for a way, you will find the right process as you push yourself to take actions. Don't worry if you are always failing because it only means you're on the right path.

BECOME A FINISHER, HAVE THAT KILLER MINDSET.

Have that killer mentality, have that assassin mindset... once you start something, go hard to finish it. Do whatever it takes to finish it and never stop. Keep going no matter what, keep pushing yourself to the limits and be the best that you can be. It's all about fighting for what you want, it's all about enjoying the process no matter how hard it is. You will become a great finisher if you will take matters into your own hands and never let anything or anyone stop you, it's all about taking full responsibility of the results that you might get. You never rely on somebody, you never rely on luck... you just do it with full force and tenacity, you persevere until the end until you finally made it.

A killer mindset doesn't back down to any adversity, it keeps going no matter what, it keeps fighting, it keeps pushing itself to the limits. It never stop, all it knows is how to finish and go to the next level.

Keep in mind that when it becomes harder then you need to push further. It's not going to be easy but the benefit is so big, it will make your life better. It's that too simple, stay discipline and keep moving forward all the time. You will reap the rewards later, it will come naturally, you don't need to look for it anymore.

YOU WILL BECOME FASTER AND FASTER

Every time you move you are just becoming faster and faster, you are growing, you are developing, you are turning into a monster. You keep growing and elevating your skills to another level. So don't worry if the progress today is so slow, it will eventually become faster later. Just keep working hard and never worry, never let your mind think and simply focus on taking actions. So force yourself to take actions now, you think you don't like it but eventually you will like it later. Just stick with it and never stop, never change what you're doing until you're done, you will become faster and faster the more you force yourself to move and work hard. So stop killing your time and make yourself alive... move now!

Feb 17, 2020

OBSTACLE IS THE WAY

Obstacle is the way, if there is a challenge in front of you... you need to face it and do something about it. Because there is something you can do about it. Don't ever forget that you can push, you can take your work to another level. Just don't stop yourself, never hold yourself back, because the truth is you could have gone further but you choose not to. Enjoy the rough road, enjoy it being dirty. Always remember that if there is a will there is a way. You can always navigate some space, you can find an opportunity, you can make your situation better. Face what needs to be face, don't be faze with friction or adversity. Just enjoy the small push that you can exert and keep doing it. Enjoy pushing and never stop, keep moving forward all the time. You think you're far, you think it's hard but if you keep persevering then you will become very close to winning. So have that mentality of pushing and never back down to any challenge. So don't stop pushing, make it your habit, make it your lifestyle, whenever you are pursuing something just push however you can push.

HOW TO PUSH EASILY

It's very simple, stop looking for results and just move, stop looking about what might happen next and just enjoy pushing. Never think that nothing is happening when you work hard, the truth is good things are about to come, you will be rewarded in just a matter of time. So keep pushing and never make dramas that you are not being rewarded. The reward will come you just need to be patient and do whatever it takes to succeed. Don't think, don't worry and just push, you can get it done, you can make your situation a little bit better. Momentum will be built and things will become a lot easier. Anyone can push, any work is right if the intention is right. You can take it slowly, you can take your time but always stay consistent and never give up. Whatever you can think of that might make your situation better and finish the challenge... do it, try everything, you need to become fast in making decisions and executions. Don't forget that pushing is a weapon, opportunities will come if you are going further so don't ever stop, don't ever judge that you are wrong, just keep going no matter what.

HAVE FUN STRUGGLING BECAUSE IT HAS A LOT OF REWARDS

You will become more mentally tough, your skills will grow, your patience will become stronger. And in the end you will win if you don't quit, you will only become a better person if you struggle, you will become stronger and wiser... you have nothing to lose if you struggle. Never give up and always look at the bigger picture. Just because you're having a hard time doesn't mean your life is going to be like that forever. Trust me... your struggle will never last, there will be a relief, there is always a sliver lining. If you're going through hell keep going, never stop because it's all good, things are only getting better and better. So be proud if you're struggling, it means you're on the right path, just keep pressing forward and don't forget to believe in yourself. Never care if you keep failing over and over again, try a million times and you will win one day. It maybe hard but for sure you're still going to win no matter what. So if there is an opportunity to lose... grab it, there is a victory waiting for you if you keep trying, just be patient and enjoy the process because one day you're going to win, as simple as that. Because you can only make the impossible possible if you keep struggling and pushing, have fun with what's going on no matter how hard it gets, always focus on what you desire and keep believing and working.

NEVER LET A DIFFICULT SITUATION BLIND YOU

If you're stuck on a rut... keep going, never let a difficult situation blind you and make you quit. Every second is an opportunity to make your situation better so forget about comfort and make yourself comfortable feeling uncomfortable. It's simply about not quitting and doing whatever it takes, what's so difficult about that? nothing right? it will be easier if you focus on solving what needs to be solved and stop complaining that it's hard, never mind if it's going to be a long journey, keep loving what is going on and always push yourself to the limits. Struggle will only end if you're focus on it and doing something about it, it will never end if you keep on doing a lot of things that will never even give you something. You have to be smart here, you're chasing something right? you want something to change right? so do something and stay focused, stay committed and keep grinding all the way. Never change your dream, you have to do it forever if you need to.

Most people were so afraid to do some magical things, they were so afraid to face the pain, so afraid to push themselves to the limits. It's because our minds were designed to seek comfort. And if you're always seeking for comfortable moments and not the uncomfortable ones then you will never elevate yourself and become successful. That's why the risk takers are the only winners, that's why the hardest workers are the only ones who find the way. It is through the darkest hours that you will discover who you really are. If you're so afraid of discomfort then you will never ever succeed.

So face it, endure it, solve it, do something and stop being a coward. Never run from your obligations, never run from your dreams... face it and make it a reality. Just do it, just face it and always believe that everything will be alright in the end. 

Feb 16, 2020

THIS IS HOW TO FEEL INVINCIBLE

If you want to feel invincible... forget how you feel now and stay still. If you're so anxious, scared, overwhelmed... it means you're looking at the future, you're rushing things and you're not trying to feel right. You need to feel every negative emotion and forget if you're feeling bad or not. Sometimes you will feel like throwing up but you can change those emotions. And it can be done by not resisting it and just feeling it, embrace it and don't worry if you feel bad. If you can't find peace then embrace the hell right now just like what the saying does "if you're going through hell keep going" and the hell will be afraid of you. The key here is to stop being scared of any kind of emotion, if you can look on something eye to eye and you're not willing to back down until the end... it will be afraid of you. All you need to do is survive and everything will be alright.. as simple as that. You don't need to fight for anything, you don't need to panic, just stay where you are and be in the moment, stay still, be aware of what is going on, focus on your breathing and never give any meaning to what is happening. Just do what you need to do, do what you want to do and express yourself if you need to.

WHAT IS REAL INVINCIBILITY?

It's not about dominating, it's not about looking great or perfect, it's not about looking good, it's about willing to face and feel anything. Maybe you're scared but you're not threatened, you manage to stay calm and weather the storm until it's over. You are not rushing, you are not panicking, you don't care bout your emotions, in your mind all you need to do is give your best and forget about what might happen next. You can completely detach from anything, you can forget the outcome but you are still pushing yourself to get better results. It feels like nothing, you don't care anymore if you win or lose you don't care if you get embarrassed, you are not trying to impress or pleas anyone, you're focused on being yourself.

Real invincibility means you just don't care, you don't see any resistance, if you need to do something... you will do it regardless of the people who will try to stop you. You are moving fast, you are so cool even if you're afraid a little bit and you are enjoying every moment no matter how you feel. You just knew that even if you're so nervous now... you will feel better later if you keep on taking actions.

Invincibility means celebrating your life, being appreciative that you can stick to any kind of situation and still implement your will. You don't care about pain, humiliation, embarrassment, rejection or failure. All you know is you're going to win and get what you want regardless of the circumstances that my try to stop you.

YOUR MENTAL GAME IS EVERYTHING

Your mind can control any kind of situation, your mind can manifest anything, it can kill any negative emotion. Take care of your mind, it is your everything, it will dictate how far can you go, what occupies it will be your reality. So if you think you've been outclassed then you are, if you think you are out of place then you are, if you think you are losing then you are. If you can think right then just thin calmly. Just be aware of what is running inside of your head, if you can just put your mind on a neutral state then things will become easier. So level up your mind game, you can do this by persevering and disciplining yourself. You can strengthen your willpower by sticking to any problem or stress then feel nothing about it, keep moving forward while you are feeling it. You can make any negative emotion numb by not attaching anything with it. For example, if you're playing on a basketball team and you're down by a large margin of points your natural reaction will be you're shy to play because people were already making fun of you, you're not motivated to play anymore because you think you're already lost and embarrassed, the worse thing is you will become more exhausted because there is no more fun in playing because you already attached an image to what is going on. But if you will never think about losing and winning, if you will just play and enjoy the game then you will have a better chance to cut the big lead of your opponent because you don't care, you will just play and enjoy the game. You will never think about the time left on the game, you will never care about the crowd mocking your team, you will just keep moving forward and try to make something happen.

So build a very tough mind, always focus on what you can do. Never care if you're going to get hurt, for as long as you know that it will never kill you then you feel that it can only make you stronger.

DOING SOMETHING POSITIVE AND STOP OVERREACTING

You just do something positive, staying calm is doing positive, maintaining your composure is doing something positive. Sometimes you don't even need to move at all, you just need to still your mind and feel what is happening. Don't overreact, don't do something stupid, don't try to look like a fool just to cover up your weakness. Show them your weakness, show them that you're ok not doing good or feeling good, feel your system, feel your body and always believe that it's ok. Regardless of what may happen, regardless of what people say against you... you are ok, this is life, you can enjoy it winning or losing, you can have fun feeling good or not. Because overreacting and always putting yourself on a defensive mode will only make situations worse, you are trying to change how you feel and how people think of you by not being yourself, this is the dumbest thing you can do because you're looking like a clown even more, deep inside you feel weak. Being invincible means you don't care, you don't care if you got laugh at, you don't care if you already say some stupid things. Your focus should be living in the moment and focusing on what you really want. 

Feb 15, 2020

FOCUS ON MOVING, MOVE NOW

If you want your problem to be solved right away... focus on moving, move now, just do it. Move now and do something, positivity will occupy your mind once you do it. Your mind becomes better and better every time you move, you are gaining something if you are moving so move fast, decide fast that you are going to do something and never stop until you're finished. This is just a very simple game. Success is a very simple game, all you need to do is move and everything will be taken care of by itself. Push as hard as you can, focus as sharp as you can, discipline yourself to the strictest and see what you can accomplish in your life. Of course it's not going to be easy but it is what it is, you have no choice but to move now or else you will become stuck in a mud forever.

WHY IS IT HARD TO MOVE?

Because you're always thinking about the future and perfection, you're always thinking about the people that you think is judging you, sometimes you are even judging yourself. Free yourself, stay still, calm yourself and just do the next step after the first step. Forget about the outcome and focus on the now. The way to free your mind from mental obstacles is to enjoy what is happening now and forget what might happen in the future. Forget about making mistakes, destroy your ego, stay still no matter what and simply keep pushing forward. Forget about the time, you have to keep enjoying the moment and forget what might happen in the future. What will happen will happen but you need to focus on what you can control and that is your thoughts and actions. Define what you really wanted to happen with your life and focus on it. Never think about finishing fast, the way to become faster is to focus on the now and have fun taking actions, have fun while time pass by, stop looking at the clock and just go with the flow.

YOU WILL BECOME STUCK FOREVER IF YOU KEEP ON THINKING ABOUT SOME OTHER THINGS THAT ARE NOT RELATED TO WHAT YOU WANT

What do you really want to happen in your life? focus on it. You will become stuck forever if you will think about what people might say against you. And the truth is... they're not even thinking about you, why should you mind what they think of you? they're not even related, they're not connected to your journey so just do what you need to do and have fun. There will be a lot of resistance, but in reality you are the only one who's stopping yourself because of over thinking too much. If you have an opportunity to move and grow then move, as simple as that. Time is ticking but don't worry, you just need to tune in with your intention and that's it... you will move automatically.

STOP USING YOUR MOUTH

Stop talking about how are you going to do it, stop talking about what is happening with your dream and just move. You're talking too much and that's why you can't even make a progress. Your mouth will never help you, you can talk all day long and try to make them believe you but you will still never gonna accomplish something if all you do is open your mouth. You have to move, you don't need to make a declaration about your journey, you don't need them to believe in you. Just do it, start something and work as hard as you can... that's how to win in life, always stay focused and committed. You don't need them clapping hands at you, you don't need them to like you. What you need is to love yourself and appreciate the things that you've been doing lately.

STOP TRYING TO LOOK GOOD AND PERFECT

Always trying to look perfect makes you look like a clown even more, you're not expressing yourself honestly because of putting too much pressure on yourself. You're too stiffed, you're too worried, you need to relax a little bit and simply move. Forget about what people might say, forget about trying to become the greatest ever and do it your way! Express yourself, stop trying to look like you know a lot, stop caring too much about your identity, you're just looking like a slave the more you stop yourself because you don't want to take risks. Expressing yourself to the fullest is already a risk, people may not like you, people might disagree with you but your instincts should overpower everything. Embrace ugliness, embrace imperfection but still try to give your very best. Because the only way you can start is by not trying to look perfect and simply starting something no matter how ugly it looks. Always remember your focus, and that is to keep taking actions all the time.

BE A FINISHER

Don't just be a starter... be a finisher, a strong finisher, someone who is willing to do whatever it takes to finish what he started. Push whenever you can and never stop, process all the steps, forget about doing it perfectly and just look forward to finish. No matter how ugly it gets... just finish. You can be a finisher but sometimes you are choosing comfort and rest and that's what's stopping you from being great. Stop resting in the middle, rest when it's over. You have a goal that you're chasing so get serious and stop thinking that you can afford to waste a lot of time. Because if you're always playing around... you're putting yourself in danger, you will panic in the end especially if your time is running out. Get dead serious, be a professional, do what you said and be a strong finisher, start fast and finish strong.

HAPPINESS WILL BE ACHIEVED IF YOU'RE MOVING

Loving your work, making a little progress, always moving forward... these things will make you forget your stress and problems. Because you are stressed even more if you're just thinking and doing nothing, your mind will entertain a lot of negativity, doubts and fears if you're just killing your time with idleness. SO if you want to become happy... move, fall in love with the process and never mind if you're not winning now, this is a journey, it's a test of endurance not a test of skills, it's a test of will not a test of speed, it doesn't matter how fast you are what matters is you are moving forward. 

Feb 14, 2020

DISCOVER WHAT'S IN THERE

There's something in there and it's your duty to discover it, what if what you're looking for is in there? what if you can really get it? what if hard work is really the answer? I know you want something, I know you're chasing something but something is stopping you, there is a huge resistance, there is a mental block, do you really want it or not? sometimes you really have to force yourself and push yourself to see what is possible for your life. You need a tremendous focus, because you can't be soft nowadays, you need to go hard all the time and see what is possible if you go further and further each day. Every time you want to stop remind yourself that you need to keep going, every time something is disturbing you remind yourself that you need to finish what you've started. Because there is no other way, do you think you can work smart and take shortcuts? if it is possible to shortcut your work then why is it not working? you have to burn before you earn, you have to go the hardest before you can work the smartest. Does Elon Musk recommend you to take shortcuts? he even said on the interview that you must work 12-16 hours a day. Those successful people are saying the same thing over and over again... you need to work hard. Kobe Bryant will be ashamed of you if all you want is to succeed but you don't want to even work. You will only be bale to discover what's in there if you will exhaust yourself and keep pushing until you see it. You will never get it by complaining, making excuses and pulling somebody down. You can only get it by your own strength and sheer perseverance. It is what it is, there is no other way around but to work hard and keep pounding the process, keep grinding and pushing... that is what it's all about. Because you can only get better by working hard, there is always a way how to succeed a little bit and it's your duty to find it. Once you see what is working... just repeat and keep working on it over and over again, it's just a matter of finding what will work a little bit and elevating it to another level. Once you see what is working... it will be a lot easier for you to succeed.

GIVE MORE TIME FOR THE PROCESS

Be patient, it will really take time, you need to focus more even if it's not working, you need to be relentless even if you're failing. You will be able to figure it out, just keep trusting the process and never quit, never stop. All you can do is be patient because your time will only come if your effort was already enough. So give your all every single day, be tired but never get tired, don't ever stop, don't ever think that you've already given enough. Go all in, go hard and have that relentless approach in fighting for your dreams. Give more time, one more repetition, one more try, one more day of being patient. You may not get the results for now but for sure it will teach you a lesson. Always remember that you're not wasting your time if you're working hard, you are only becoming better and better and that is already enough. Sometimes you would wanted to quit but that's alright, you're just a human. Sometimes motivation will go away and you can't find it anymore, but keep in mind that you can still produce something even if you're not motivated at all, you can still do something so stop being a clown and just do the process, keep working until the end, remind yourself that you need to keep moving forward so that you will become successful.

THERE IS SOMETHING WAITING FOR YOU

Your dream is waiting for you, actually it's already long overdue, but it's ok if you're late your dream will understand you. So you have to change your life now, change your habits and mindset, once you change something in your life... the results will change. All it takes is consistency and having the right frame of mind. All it takes is giving everything you've got and doing whatever it takes whenever you have a chance to. Make it a habit to go all out every single day, all out for your dream, all out for the process. What you want is also looking for you, you and your dream can only meet halfway if you stay committed and dedicated. You will only get it if you really want it, you wanted to win? show the universe that you really want it, give everything you've got.

So claim it, it's for you only, never let something steal it from you, claim it and make it yours.

ALWAYS BE ON THE ATTACK MODE

Stay aggressive, stay relentless, once there is an opportunity to attack... attack your dream. Stop holding yourself back, don't worry too much and always be on the attack mode. Because there is always something you can do for any kind of situation, just allow yourself to execute every idea that you have on your mind, keep scratching the surface, keep finding a way. Stop thinking about what is wrong because you will find it out later, stop judging yourself too much and simply focus on giving your very best. Try again every time you fail, stop crying like a kid and just try for one more time. You don't need sympathy from other people and make them believe that you're working hard, keep it to yourself and just talk when you're already making results. Shut your mouth, shut down the part of your brain that is telling you that it's not possible. Of course it is always possible, nothing is impossible to a person who is trying. You're going to have a breakthrough one day, you're going to make a momentum and once you have it... you will become unstoppable even more. 

IT'S BETTER TO LOSE GIVING YOUR ALL THAN NOT

Are you afraid of losing? we all do, but the one thing you should be afraid of is not giving your all. Because you are cheating to yourself every time you exert a weak effort. Because you can never control winning or losing, all you can control is your effort. If you exert your strongest effort yet you still fail then you will have no regrets. You will only have regrets if you know in yourself you can do more but you choose not to go all out because you're so afraid of taking the pain. You're so afraid to get tired and get nothing. But you will only feel free and unashamed of yourself if you really try so hard and push yourself to the limits. You may win, you may lose but always focus on what you can control and that is how hard you work. Because you will still feel like a winner if you give your all.

GIVE YOUR ALL TO ERASE ALL THE QUESTIONS 

You've been questioning your greatness, you've been questioning the world why you are not winning but the reality is you're not giving your all. If you will give your all then you will find out if it's really for you or not, if you will just focus all of your time and energy to something then your questions will be answered. Give your all and see what you can get with your full maximum effort, give everything you've got. I know it's hard to focus, it's hard to believe if you can't see results but it is what it is, you really need to go all in for something if you want to win. Because you will never succeed if your energy is divided to many different things and activities. You really have to become a weirdo here, a nerd like, a loner, a man possessed for his dreams. Greatness can be seen through effort and not with results. Give your best effort and focus and simply wait for the results that will come to you. Because at the end of the day you might still lose despite of giving your all, at least you finally tested yourself and see what level you are on. It's so much better losing and giving all you've got rather than losing but not even using 50 percent of what you've got. So test yourself, see if you can do it, never quit so fast, rest in the end not in the middle, only stop if you win, see that is possible if you go all in.

LOSING IS NOTHING, IT'S NOT EVEN A BIG DEAL

The real big deal is if you take the opportunity for granted. Did you really give your all or just exert a weak effort? did you use your 100 percent or just use 20? most people are just using their 20-30 percent of strength. They don't want to get tired, they wanted to win but they don't want to work. So don't be afraid of losing, be afraid of being satisfied of exerting a very weak effort. Losing is so normal, most people were scared to lose because of their belief that losing makes them less of a person. You're the same person as yesterday after losing, the only difference is you learned more, you equipped a new knowledge. So keep losing because it 's an opportunity to grow, don't be afraid to get your efforts wasted because your mental toughness and perseverance improves every time it happens. Losing will make you grow so embrace every opportunity that might make you fail but always give your all, always give your 100 percent effort.

GIVING YOUR ALL IS THE ONLY WAY TO...

give justice to your dream. It's the only way to at least reward yourself for the hard work that you put in, it's because giving your all is the prize already, only few can do it, only few are willing to go to the extreme so by doing it makes you something special, you're one of a kind if you're giving your all. Giving your all is the only way to find peace, it will give you a peace of mind because you know you didn't waste any time, you know in yourself that you didn't take any opportunity to succeed for granted. Giving your all s freedom, it will put you on a state of mind of contentment, you will feel free and not guilty, you will know how great you are.

Some people lose because of not giving their all, they could have succeed but they refuse to push themselves to the limits because they were so afraid of failing. If you're afraid to fail then you will fail, as simple as that. Actually you already failed by not trying.

HOW TO KNOW IF YOU'RE REALLY GIVING YOUR ALL?

If you're so damn feeling uncomfortable of doing it but you still do it, if you keep finding a way even if you're so lost, if you keep on doing something even if you know that it will not work, if you keep on persevering even if the whole world turn their backs against you. Giving your all is a very simple thing, all you have to do is live in the moment and take it one step at a time, never stop, keep moving forward while there is still time, never quit and always hustle to improve your situation. This is just a mental thing, if you can control your mind and feed it the right motivation to keep going then your body will never stop. You can become relentless if you can control your mind. Repeat affirmations such as "I don't care, I will just keep going", "I can do this", "Every work is an easy work". Whatever affirmations that can possibly force you to move forward... use it, use words that will give fuel to your body. Thoughts will make you unstoppable if you can just filter the negative ones and only entertain the positive and empowering ones.

BUT YOU WILL WIN IF YOU GIVE YOUR ALL

You may not win today but for sure you're going to win tomorrow, you will win if you give your all. Because giving your all doesn't only happen for today, it will happen tomorrow again, it will continually happen in the future. It will never end, you will embody greatness, you will never waste time for useless things, you will give your all every single second. And this kind of mentality will attract success, it will bring abundance into your life. So you should love the process, be thankful that you're chasing something because it only means you're living your life and you're not focused on the success of others. So never quit and just keep trying, keep chasing success, keep looking for greatness, it will be yours one day. Embody the culture of giving everything you've got every single day and push yourself to the limits. 

Feb 13, 2020

20 SIMPLE AND EFFECTIVE WAYS TO CREATE REAL HAPPINESS

Happiness today is very hard to achieve for many. Most people were depressed, most people were looking for something that they cannot see. They think that happiness is very hard to achieve and they complicate their lives by trying a lot of things that were outside of their values. They were trying so hard and not being themselves anymore, they were too much concerned about their self image and that's why a little bullying is making them depressed. Happiness is free, you can feel it now, you don't need to buy it. Some people are buying their happiness and that's why they end up being sad in the end, if your happiness needs money or appreciation from others then you're in big trouble.

Here are the 20 simple and effective ways to create real happiness.

1. Love yourself. Spend more time for yourself and less for others. The reason why you can't become happy is because you're giving too much of your time for free. And that is why you're always lost. You're giving it to social media, you are wasting a lot of your time for the problems of others, you're worried about your idol getting injured, you're gossiping about a nasty person that is not even thinking about you at all. If you really love yourself then you must give more time for yourself, enjoy yourself, enjoy what you do. You can become happy with your life if you will treat yourself more. Groom yourself, stop being affected by other people's problems. Self love means focusing on your life more and doing the best you can to make yourself happy.

2. Be passionate on something. If you want to be entertained then get entertain the right way. Be passionate on something that will give you something in return. Be passionate in sports, arts, business, music etc. Focus on something that will make your time fly, this will add another chapter to your life. Developing a skill is fun, it will create forever happiness, the more you good on something... the easier for you to become happy because you can diver your sadness into work. You can even become passionate on a skill that is not widely use by a lot of people, whatever triggers the fire in you to work... do it.

3. Focus on your own journey. Never compare yourself to others. Everyone has a different journey, still be happy with your own journey even if it's not going well. Every bad things that happened to you is still part of your life. Stop feeling sorry for your life because you're not doing well. If you are focused on your own journey then it will become easier to become happy because you will learn more about yourself, you will discover a lot about your own life and that will excite you very much. Minding your own business, it doesn't matter if some people were doing better than you, you have your own life, you can do whatever you want with it. What they achieve and getting is out of your life. Focus on your own journey and you will experience more happiness because you are doing it your way.

4. Forget what other people say. Anything they say against you were purely just an opinion, it may be real or not real but if what they say is making you feel bad then it means you're weak. You know yourself better than others, you know if you're really doing well or not. Forget what other people say and you will become free, it will be easier for you to attract happiness because you can express yourself all the time.

5. Be the best version of yourself. You don't need to become great or the greatest, you just need to be the best version of yourself. People are sad because they knew they have a lot of potential but they can't even try to make themselves a little bit better. Focus on evolving everyday, progress creates happiness, once you see yourself evolving bit by bit then your confidence will go high, and it is easier to become happy if you are very confident.

6. Learn to love others unconditionally. If you will give love then learn how to give it unconditionally and don't ask to be loved back. Just love the person who deserves your love and never feel bad if they can't give you back what you gave to them. Loving without expecting something in return creates happiness, you will feel peaceful, you will feel that you did something good.

7. Focus on what gives you happiness not fake happiness. What gives you real happiness? it's your family and true friends, it's your work and values. Fake happiness is trying to become popular on social media, buying stuffs that you don't even need, doing something you don't even like just to say your're part of the elite club. Fake happiness is trying to fit in and trying to look cool. Real happiness is simply focusing on the people that you can't afford to lose.

8. Just be yourself. You can't be happy because you're trying so hard trying to impress people that you don't even like. And if people can't appreciate you then you become sad and feeling unappreciated. If you will just be yourself then you will become happier because there is lesser pressure to look good. You will become happier if you're not trying to look impressive. Being yourself is power, only few people can do it. Sometimes doing nothing and being quiet is already being yourself, you don't need to look like a clown and get attention from other people, just being yourself no matter how boring you look is already a form of self expression.

9. Make your life simple. Being simple can attract happiness easily. Just a simple joke, simple birthday celebration, simple things, simple gesture from other people should make you happy. A simple life with simple things, routine, habits and friends can already make you happy. You don't need to complicate happiness. Learn to love simplicity and try to evolve from it, meaning appreciate the small things and be open to bigger things.

10. Be in the moment. You're sad because you're worrying too much about the future, you want your life to become perfect. You want to get all the things you need so that you won't worry anymore. But life doesn't work that way, even if your life is perfect now... there will still be problems later. All you need to do is embrace the moment now, appreciate it and stop being afraid of what might happen in the future. You don't need to fast forward life, just live it. Good or bad things, accept it. Live in the moment so that you will experience more of life. Because you are missing a lot of things by making your brain fly away, you are physically present but mentally absent.

11. Stop thinking negative. Make your mind healthy because it's your foundation, it is the strongest pillar of your happiness. If you're always thinking negatively then it's impossible for you to become happy. It's all in your thoughts. Think positively and your emotions will change, the chemistry of your body will change, you will start to glow and feel much better.

12. Just do something. You become sad because you're lazy. You're inviting depression and worries every time you procrastinate, your mind will never think or operate properly if you're always stuck on your chair. You have to be moving, work hard and you will feel a little bit happy. Stay busy and you will forget your problems. You will even become proud of yourself if you really work hard today, it will give you satisfaction and raise your self esteem. Working hard will give you something in return, it can give you happiness or other things that are positive. Surveys says 80% of the people who are working hard were so happy with their lives. So keep moving and just do something, you will never regret that you do what you are suppose to be doing today.

13. Stop trying to make everyone else happy. The truth is... you can never please anyone and you have to accept it, the more you do this... the more you will become sad. It's because their sadness will become your sadness, you will become soft because you don't want to disappoint anyone, having this kind of mentality will make you prioritize the feelings of other people instead of putting how you feel on the top of your list. You will have more problems if you're trying to make everyone happy, never mind how they feel, if you want to make other people happy then just try to inspire them, radiate your happiness towards them but don't ever do everything to make them happy, you will become a slave if you do it and that will bring more sadness and problems into your life.

14. Acceptance. Forget your ugly past, forget the people who hurt you, forget all of your failures and wasted time. Accept your situation now and try to make it better. Accept that there is nothing you can do about what happen anymore. Accept your fate, accept your life and do everything you can to turn around your life. Accept that life is not perfect and there will always be some people who will treat you bad, accept that life really works in mysterious ways and all you can do is embrace what life throws at you. Learning to accept what is will make your life easier, you will not question different things anymore, you will learn how to move on and face the next chapter of your life.

15. Create a philosophy that will save you in times of troubles. My own personal philosophy is embrace the situation, adapt, work hard and stop being needy. This philosophy saves me all the time, it is giving me the right mental approach to anything that is making me suffer. I will just work hard whenever I don't have money. I will just adapt if I am lost and overwhelmed, I will just embrace any kind of situation because resisting it will make it even worse. And most of all I stop being needy of appreciation, sympathy, help and any other things that are not coming from me. I learn how to trust myself whenever there is something bothering me. My philosophy is very simple but it makes me feel secure all the time because I knew I can use it whenever I have a problem.

If you have a philosophy that will block depression, worries and self pity then it will be easier for you to become happy. Happiness will manifest if you're on the right state of mind instead of getting lost right away because someone or something bothers you.

16. Stop being needy. The truth is... you don't need a lot to become happy, you just think you need it because you feel it will give you good emotions. But the truth is you don't need anything, you just need yourself. Stop being needy of other people's attention, stop being needy of things that you don't need. Being needy and always asking for something is the ugliest trait you can ever have. Just being happy with what you have and what you can do will make you powerful, it's because your happiness doesn't depend from external things and people outside of you.

17. Learn to value your time. Crying, whining, making dramas, blaming other people, getting jealous with other people's success, focusing on other people's lives... these are just time wasters. You can't be happy by doing these things. Value your time because it is limited, you need to make the best out of it and use it the right way so you will become happier and have no regrets in the end. Stop using your time for useless things that will not even make you grow, valuing your time will create happiness because you will see yourself evolve instead of going down.

18. Stay still. If your mind is really cluttered with negativity and you can't think right, if your life is on a downward spiral and you feel there is nothing you can do to change how you feel... stay still, staying calm is power, put your mind on a neutral position so that sadness will go away and happiness will come later. You don't need to freak out whenever things are not going on your way, stay still because not all the time you are having a bad time, good times will come later. Your emotions will change, the right thoughts will enter your brain and you will become happy again.

19. Remember only the good memories. Happiness starts in your mind. A happy person is someone who can entertain the happiest thoughts. He can even process a simple thought and give it another meaning, something that is happy. So remember the good memories from the past, forget the bad memories. You can do it, it's just a matter of conditioning your mind. You can filter out traumas, bad events, failures, heartaches. Replace it with memories about success, love, victory, happy moments, funny stories. Fill your mind with the right thoughts and you will become much happier than before.

20. Count your blessings. There are plenty of blessings in your life, you just can't see it because you're looking too far away. If you want to become happier then start in your foundation, be happy where you are, look at your life... you have a lot but you can't see it. There are many people dying to have your life so appreciate your life and make the best out of it. Count your blessings and never take anything for granted. 

Feb 12, 2020

THE BELIEF NEVER DIES

All you can do is trust yourself. Don't worry because any belief will never die for as you keep on believing it... it is still alive, it is still in you, it is still possible to succeed. The belief never dies if you keep on taking actions, so move forward right away and keep doing what you'e doing, don't stop, don't focus on what is happening outside of you and focus on what's happening inside of you. Because if you're belief is still alive then you still have a big chance of succeeding, just keep believing even if your situation is so ugly, keep that faith alive even if you're down or at the bottom. Because belief can change any situation, it can give you another chance to win and prove yourself. What matters is you keep believing and doing what you think is right for your life.

And don't ever think that just because you're not confident now then you will lose your confidence forever... don't ever think that way. Your confidence will come back if you work hard and never quit. Confidence come and go, you will lose it in just a matter of seconds no matter how tough you are. Every great ones loses their confidence at one point in their lives but the only thing good about them is they knew that their confidence will come back if they don't quit. There will always be a mental block there will always be something that will disturb your mental game, but if you aware that it's normal and all you have to do is keep moving forward then you are fine, you will still win, you're still on the game.

HOW TO KNOW IF YOU STILL BELIEVE IT?

If you're still giving your best and not being affected by the external circumstances. If you're not quitting yet and still looking for a way, if you don't mind your situation and not affected being down. You still believe it if you have no intention of quitting.

If you're badly beaten, if you're bleeding and in pain, if your situation is really ugly and nobody dares to help you or trust you... all you can do is believe in yourself. If you can't believe in yourself then for sure you're going to lose the battle of life. So just move, just believe in yourself and never stop, never let other people or events dictate your decision. Still decide for yourself and have no regrets when your situation becomes uglier because of your mistake. You can always make a come back, there is always a better opportunity waiting for you. So take chances, take the slimmest chance available, take the best option available even if it looks like useless or meaningless. Believing means trying everything, believing means still doing your best even if the odds were not on your favor.

BELIEVING IS FREE

You can believe anytime you want, you can believe that you can do an impossible goal. It's all up to you, if believing is free then why not believe big? why not dream big? you have the power to make it if you're taking actions. It's ok to believe big time if you're really giving your all and doing your best to make it happen. Believing is useless if you're not even lifting your smallest finger. If it's free then use it often, keep believing that you can do it because you really can do it. It's just a matter of how long can you believe it and how long can you sacrifice for your dream? it's only just a matter of time before it happens, so keep moving forward and never give up. One day is going to be your day, one day is going to be your time. Keep feeding your beliefs some fire to make it stronger, entertain the most powerful thoughts that will empower you. Be in the moment because by doing so means you are accepting your situation no matter how ugly it is because you know that it is not permanent and there is something you can to make it better.

GIVE YOUR ALL TO MAKE IT HAPPEN

You have to make a self inventory if you're giving your all to make it happen. Are you really doing whatever it takes to win? it means sacrificing your joy, comfort and entertainment. It means practicing delayed gratification a million times so you have more time and energy for your dream. Only few people can give their all, only few can give everything they've got. So if you're one of them then it means you're on a different level. So be fast in taking actions, focus on one thing and that is utilizing all of your skills and faculty resources to win. Any impossible dream can become possible if you're committed to making it happen, so destroy all of your excuses, cut all the crap that is not helping you to go to another level and have that laser like focus to make your goals a reality.

EXPERIENCE FEAR OVER AND OVER AGAIN

If you are willing to scare yourself, if you are willing to feel uncomfortable because you're trying to go to another level then you will become a beast. Experience fear over and over again, that is the key to success. Because you are scared to move, you are scared to get exhausted, you are scared to embarrass yourself, and these are the major reasons why you can't succeed. You need to feel the pressure and endure the bitterness of failure. It is what it is, you have to feel those negative feelings so that you will no longer be afraid of failing. Once you're no longer afraid of failing then you will be able to experience yourself freely and good things will manifest. You will become more confident, your self esteem will rise, you will feel invincible because you're no longer afraid of pain, it is nothing to you anymore. You will even love it because you knew it will make you reach another level. So whenever you are scared, be happy because it means it's an opportunity to grow, it's an opportunity to rise and make yourself shine. 

KEEP FINDING A WAY AND YOU WILL SEE IT

All you have to do is move forward, keep looking for a way and you will see it. There is no need to worry no need to be afraid, there is a next step after the other one, there is always a space that you can occupy, there is a room for improvement, you will see it when you look for it so never stop looking for a way and you will be rewarded with what you need. So if you need a money then just look for it, keep finding a way and you will have it, don't think about getting it in just a matter of seconds or minutes, you need to be patient here, it's like hunting, you are the predator and the money is the prey. You will be surprised that you were able to get it in places and time that it's impossible to get it. That's the power of will, that's what moving forward does... it will create magic and miracles, it will give you anything you want. Because sometimes it's already in front of you, all you have to do is bite it but you choose not to, it's either you are lazy or you're pretending to be blind. It's already yours, claim it and fight for it... it can be yours if you work for it hard enough and never give up.

GET LOST

Don't be afraid to get lost, don't be afraid to lose and look like a lost dog. You will find your way back if you keep moving forward, all the difficulty does is make you a better person. Because you're not really lost, you are just being challenged by life and it's your duty to fight back, fight for what you want. Be relentless like a lion, have that shark mindset of not stopping, always think that if you stop then you will die... that's the real mentality of a winner. Hustle, you will stumble, you will fall but always remember that you have the ability to make a comeback, you can do something spectacular if you choose to. There is no need to panic because you're in complete control here. Always remember that it's simply about your psychology, it's not about the reality or what you see... its' about what you think towards the situation. If you have the proper mindset then you can thrive on anything, nothing can stop you, you will be able to do what is needed and achieve all of your dreams and desires. Victory belongs to the most persevering. All you will do is keep working, keep looking for what you want, effort is all you need, everybody can work but not all will choose to because they were so scared of getting tired.

Because excuses are for losers. Most people will say that they really can't find it no matter how hard they look, it's because they were not going further, they are not willing to lose over and over again. In life, if you really want to get something... you must devote your whole life into it, your focus must be insane, it should be your life everyday.

YOU MUST CONTINUE WHEN IT'S SO HARD

You have to keep going when it's hard, there is no stopping here. Allow yourself to execute and keep taking every step by step. You can still do something when it's hard, you can still find that small space to operate, you can still breathe when it's hard, you can still move and do something. So stop making excuses that there is no other way, there is a way, all you have to do is seek hard. You can become unstoppable if you have that mindset of just going for it no matter what. You can rest but your mind should not rest, it should keep on thinking about what you want, you must be obsess with it. And once you feel you can move... move right away, speed is the name of the game, you can succeed by simply being fast and taking massive actions. You can succeed by simply killing procrastination, you can succeed by simply avoiding overthinking and just doing something that will take you to another level.

Accept that there will always be something that will stop you, there is always another level of resistance, you have to face it and do something about it. There is a new level of fear, it's normal, just feel it and it will be gone anytime soon, actions will kill your fears so don't forget that you need to push forward if you want to succeed in life. Because it's really up to you if you will see the way or not, you can find it if you really want it. Just keep going and you will smell it, you will see its shadow, sooner or later you will be able to touch it.

The hard will become easy if you become use to it, so just keep doing what is hard, keep facing all the challenges of life and you will no longer be afraid of it. Hard is just a word, it is a labeling invented by people who were so scared to try, the invented it because they were so addicted to comfort that they don't know how to work hard anymore.

Just keep in mind that you will lose if you quit, you will never see victory if you make excuses and stop searching. There is a way, just try a lot of times, use the trial and error method. Never get tired of pushing, one day is going to be your day, it may not happen for now but it will happen in the future for sure... only if you keep going and keep believing in yourself. Confidence will build up if you keep taking actions, so never stop, you need to make yourself better than yesterday, you need to level up and make yourself further than your original position or status. 

THE BEST ACTION IS THE NEXT STEP THAT YOU KNOW

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