Showing posts with label fear. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fear. Show all posts

Jan 6, 2023

COLLECT ALL YOUR FEARS




What the hell are you waiting for? do it. If you need to do something and the intention is for growth and progress... do it. Collect your fears, what scares you the most today? define it and do it. What's making you hesitate? what's making you overthink? what's stopping you from taking actions? do it. Do it and you will build the courage to finish it. Fear should never stop you, collect them all, make a list of it and then do it all. Life is simply about facing your fears, fear is unavoidable but you can still do something despite of it. Fear is nothing, it is not even real, it's just an illusion that you create because you think abut the future too much. The best antidot for fear is being in the moment. 

SOMETHING WILL ALWAYS TRY TO DISTURB YOU

Life will always be uncomfortable. Something will always try to disturb you and that's the reality. Life will never be perfect and you have to accept it now, you need to move forward despite of the distractions and challenges. There will be problems, there will be unexpected events, there will be responsibilities that will try to slow you down. Never look for a perfect life, life will never become easy no matter how rich you are. Life will always try to challenge you and test you if you are deserving of it. It's ok, that's the beauty of life, it's full of surprises, you never know what will happen tomorrow so give your very best now and face all of your fears. Welcome everything, embrace everything that is happening in your life and your burden will get lighter, you just need to accept that life is not easy and it is suppose to be hard so that you will never feel shocked whenever an unexpected event happened. Life will challenge you all the time, it will try to bring you down and it's really up to you if you stand up and try again or stay lying on the floor and act like a clown chicken. 

FOCUS ON WHAT YOU CAN THINK AND WHAT CAN DO

You're worrying too much and that's why you can't move. Focus on what you can think, when I say can think... something you can think positively. Focus on thinking about winning, making a progress, getting breaks, creating opportunities, money, abundance, health and anything that you can think of that makes you feel much better. You can control our thoughts, it only depends on how mindful you are. If you are mindful and always aware of what's going on with your mind then you can control your thoughts. But if you're always thinking about the future and trying to live fast then you will not be able to control your mind, as simple as that. 

every challenge

That you overcome is making you strong. Every difficulty is making you better so don't be afraid to face the pain. Every time you procrastinate and do something useless, that is equivalent to 100 push up or maybe 1 hour of honing your skills, you can do a lot of beautiful things with your time so stop wasting it. Face the challenge that is in front of you, never shy away from it. Do it, start it fast and never think how are you going to finish it. Face the challenges, never give up and always think that everything is doable if you will put your mind into it. Focus and never get distracted by anything, never believe in an information that is not empowering you. You have to focus on what makes you feel good and what gets you going. Every challenge is an opportunity to rise, it's a great chance to know more of yourself. Are you going to fold, are you going to crumble or are you going to rise to the occasion? the choice is always yours, never let far interfere, face it like a wild beat that will never back down to any challenge of life. 

THE MOST BEAUTIFUL TALENT OF THEM ALL 

Is the ability to move and make decisions even if you are scared. Most people will get stuck once they feel stunned. If you understand that you can still move despite of these negative feelings then you will be alright, you can still succeed. Just keep pushing, keep grinding everyday even if you feel that there is something wrong, don't stop, you have to take it one step at a time. Because the truth is you're the only one who is stopping yourself because of thinking tooo much and acting like a diva. Stop feeling entitled of something, collect your fears and face them all. Fear is the compass, it is the path, it is the guide to success. The good thing about just doing it is you can develop it 

YOU CAN OVERCOME ANYTHING

How many times did you think about the future and your negative expectations didn't come true? How many times did you scare yourself only to find out that what you fear is not real or didn't happen? you can withstand any kind of storm, all you have to do is don't quit and that's it. It's really that simple. You can work, you can move despite of experiencing difficult problems, nothing can stop you. Sometimes all you have to do is trust time and your problems will go away, you just need to live and breathe and that's it. 

STAY CALM

Detach from expectations and you will feel very confident. Stop being concerned about people's expectations, stop thinking about what people think of you and you will feel invincible. Stay calm while working hard. The key is to never care, if you can just stay calm and detach from the outcome then you will become invincible, what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger so there is nothing to lose. Face your fears and you will go to the next level. It's not about winning, it's about facing your fears because you will feel like a winner already if you impose your will and do what you think is right. If you will take actions, if you will try to force fate and take your chances then you will really feel good. Because the reality is you always feel bad because you're not giving yourself a chance to win. You're always watching other people succeed, you're wasting your time, you're letting other people do the work for you and that's why you don't have the power. If you will just use whatever abilities you have, use whatever courage you have then you will be able to make a breakthrough. Stay calm while taking actions, stay calm while executing. 

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Aug 26, 2022

EVERY TIME YOU'RE DOUBTFUL

Just do it, if you're doubtful just do it. Forget about the future and just do it. Forget about the outcome, never mind what will happen next and just do it. Just have fun with the process, feel grateful doing it, feel blessed that you were still able to take actions. Because nobody can stop you. The results doesn't matter at all, what matters is you are pushing and giving your best. If you can just maintain a very strong effort everyday then you will have no regrets.  

BREAK THE MENTAL BARRIER

The strongest mental barrier is always wondering if you're going to succeed or not. Just move and forget about winning or losing, still believe in yourself but never get so attached with the outcome. If you will win you will win, what will happen will happen, you have no control over external circumstances. The only thing you can control is yourself and your effort. Control your thoughts and program your mind to take actions every single second, that kind of mentality will give you a higher percentage of succeeding. 

YOU DON'T KNOW IF YOU'RE GOING TO WIN

You don't know if a woman will say yes to you. You don't know if a client will agree with your price, you don't know if the last shot will go in, you don't know when are you going to succeed. You don't know everything, you don't know which process will work, you don't know if someone likes you or not. You have no assurance if you're going to win today so what's the point of worrying about it? you don't even know if an interviewer will hire you or not, you don't know what's going to happen next. Nobody can predict how exactly will the future look like so just have fun and try, you will never win if you don't try, that's one thing for sure. 

NEVER CARE IF YOU'RE NOT READY

Just do it, NEVER CARE if you're not ready, just start because it is the only key to build some confidence. Just push yourself and force yourself to take the first step. Always remind yourself that being scared is a sign that you must do something. 

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Aug 12, 2022

FEAR WILL ALWAYS BE PART OF YOUR LIFE




Doubts, fear, hesitation, fear of losing, anxiety, overthinking... this will be part of your life and you have to know it and accept it. You have to understand that you're just a human being and it's normal to get emotional or reactive in a certain way. But the thing is this.. if you want to get ahead in life and avoid being stuck, broke, defeated and depressed then you need to know if you're feeling negatively and do something about it. Accept it but move despite of feeling it, fight it with actions and taking positive step one day at a time. Never procrastinate because it will make things worse, do something positive, be productive and stay busy despite of getting little results or no results at all. 

WATCH YOURSELF IF YOU'RE WASTING YOUR LIFE

Thinking about the past, thinking about other people, dwelling on your mistakes, being dramatic, procrastinating a lot, choosing inactivity over activity, being weak, watching news and simping on IG models... you are wasting your life, stop living like a bum and choose greatness instead. You have to choose between being weak or being strong, you can be staying in the middle because it's more stressful there, it's either you are a bum for life or a winner for life. Which path do you prefer? there is nothing wrong if you choose the weaker option, it's your life. The point here is you've got to decide if you're going to waste or use your life the right way. Because being at the middle and always overthinking and overdreaming is more punishing, you've got to decide what do you want to be.

TIME IS RUNNING

Replace all the nonsense activity with a more useful ones because time is fast, stop wasting time because it is the most valuable thing in the world. With proper use of time you can become a legend. The more you waste your time the more you will become scared, inaction breeds doubt and fears, action will give you a lot of confidence, so if you are scared to death right now about simple things or problems then it means you're not doing anything. Be scared if you're wasting a lot of your time because it will back fire at you in the end, you will regret it, a lot of opportunities will fly away, a lot of easy money and chances will be wasted. You need to utilize your time very well and be responsible enough to know what is right or wrong, know what is helping you or making you worse, you're old enough to know this, stop pretending that you don't know what to do. Time is running, the clock is ticking, you have to push yourself to take massive actions and stop complaining about the uncertainties of life. Fear will be there, you will always feel anxious but the good news is you can still take actions despite of feeling this way. 

WHAT YOU ARE SCARED OF? 

Failing? getting rejected by a bitch? getting tired? being broke? traffic? not fitting in? being the last? these type of fears were so funny and low level. Why will you become scared of something that is normal? if it is not life threatening then why be scared of it? Everything that you are scared of will disappear if you face it and look it in the eye. The more you are willing to feel fear and become scared... the more it will go away. 

YOU WILL FIGURE IT OUT IF YOU DON'T QUIT

just move forward and you will figure out what to do, something will click, you will experience a breakthrough. Keep on working, there is no time for stopping. The more you stop the more you will become stressed and scared. Just keep pushing and look for something you can do rather than thinking about quitting, quitting is for losers, you're not a loser right? so don't ever quit and fight for it until the end, make a stand and don't ever give up. 

YOU RUN YOUR LIFE

You're the one who is in charge of your life, you may go up or you may go down depending on how you run your life. It depends on how you use your time, your life was dependent of your habits. It's your habits of thinking and everyday actions and decisions that affects your life. It's not the external things or other people that can scare you, you are allowing them to poison your mind because you're not working on yourself. You should start internalizing and visualizing about your own greatness and strength, you should train your mind to withstand any storm and adapt to any frightening situation or events. It's ok to be scared but keep in mind that you still need to move, don't ever let fear immobilize you forever, fear is nothing but a feeling, you can extinguish it by taking massive massive actions, the more you move the more confident you will be.

LEARN TO FIGHT

Fight for what you want, fight for the life you want to live. It's ok to be scared but don't let that fear stop you, feel it and still move forward. Learn to fight, it's just a fear, it will go away anytime soon, it will never stop you forever, stop being frozen, stop being stunned and just move your hands and feet, use your brain, stay calm and learn to fight, you can't be scared all the time, it's time to unleash the beast inside of you. Fake courage if you need to but don't let fear get in the way.

STOP WATCHING NEWS

News is the strongest poison to your brain, it's feeding your mind the wrong food, it's making you weak and anxious, it's making you worried for a problem that doesn't even exist at all. All the news does is fool you and make you addicted to it. Stop being concerned with other people's live, stop being troubled by problems that you have no business with. Why will you feel bad about a person who lost everything? you're not even related to him, the news is making you react and feel something so that you will get addicted to it. 

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Jul 5, 2022

ACCEPT THE PUNISHMENT

Accept that life is hard, accept that you need to work really hard in order to get what you want. Accept that you're going to struggle and face the pain, accept that there is no shortcuts and life will be full of challenges. Accept that a lot of people, situations and unexpected events is going to test your temper. Accept that you need to try a million times in order to succeed, accept that you have to fail over and over again, accept that sometimes you will lose your mind but will be able to get it back again. Accept that live is never going to be easy anymore. If you can have this mindset then all of the resistance will go away, your feelings will become lighter, you will have more freedom, you will feel much better. Sometimes the reason why you're having a hard time living is because you're expecting that life will be easy, you're expecting that you will get everything you want anytime you want. Life doesn't work that way, life will always test you along the way, it will crush you if you're not strong enough to hold on. Life is fun

NEVER LET YOUR VISION DIE

Keep fighting for your dreams, keep dreaming big, keep your vision alive and never let it die, just even for a second... never let it die, don't give up and just keep moving forward, do something about your vision to make it real. Take it one step at a time everyday and always believe that it will happen one day if not today. You're the only one who can see your vision, they can't see it so don't feel bad if they're not supporting you. Go all the way for your dream, if you're going to try... go all the way and never have any reservations. Go for aggressively and boldly, have no fear, accept that it's going to be hard, accept that punishment for trying to chase it. It's not going to be easy but anything is possible if you try, focus on what you want and get closer and closer from it everyday by working hard and doing whatever it takes. IT's only just a matter of time before you win, you just need to believe and do something about it. You can win if you will choose to become a winner, it's simply about not giving up and good things will happen, better opportunities will be attracted to you.

FACE YOUR FEARS

Embrace it, you don't need to make it vanish, you don't need to solve it right away... face it, feel it, don't resist it and it will become weak. Once you accept what you don't like, it is likely to go away, it will have no power over you. You make something powerful because you easily got irritated with it, you're trying to erase it fast, you're trying to change it, and that's why you're having a hard time dealing with it. Face your fears, don't run away from it, look at it and accept that it's there in your life. It's teaching you something so don't run away from it, feel every second of it and always think that it is nothing, it's there to make you grow, it's not there to kill you. What doesn't kill you can only make you stronger so if there is something bothering or threatening you... just feel it and it will become powerless. Feel the pain, it's nothing, its just an emotion, it's just another sense that's trying to crush you or make you stronger. If you will embrace it then you will get stronger, if you will resist it then it will scare you forever, the worse is it will control you and make you weak if you let it. Everyone is scared, everyone feels it, it is normal, you just need to see yourself every time you are feeling it, you need to be aware so that you will not panic. You need to understand that you are feeling it so you will be able to make the right decisions. 

It will go away anytime soon, the moment you realize that you're scared and you didn't resist it... it will go away. It's nothing but a feeling that you need to adapt and accept with peace. Stop rushing to feel better, stop trying to make an escape, deal with it, embrace it with all your heart and you will see that it is not stronger than you. Your fears are not stronger than you, it can never control you if you will learn how to be ok feeling it. Fear is your friend, it's benefits is to make you be in the moment, it is a reminder that you need to calm down and breathe. Fear is part of your life, it will never go away, you may feel confident today but tomorrow you will become scared again, it is a cycle that you need to accept. There is no such thing as a fearless man, people who thinks the are fearless were full of ego and arrogance. If you're fearless then you're not normal. Fear is something that reminds you that you're just a human being, it's ok to be scared but never stop moving forward. What people don't know is that they can still do something special despite of feeling scared, they can still move forward despite of feeling it. Fear can never stop you, it can slow you down but it can never stop you from living your life. 

IT'S GOING TO GET A LOT EASIER ANYTIME SOON

Just don't give up and it will become easier, as simple as that. Giving up is not an option, you have to keep pushing forward no matter what. It's hard today but it will become easier tomorrow if you keep fighting. Difficulty is just temporary, you just need to deal with it, adapt to it and tomorrow it will get easier. You will earn to adapt, you will know how to adjust. You will get use to it if you accept it everyday and just enjoy the process. 

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Feb 18, 2022

THE LONE FORMULA FOR GREATNESS

They've said a lot of complicated things about greatness. They've said a lot of scary thing about it but the truth is it's too simple to get it. Greatness is simply pushing forward no matter what, you don't stop, you keep going even if it's too hard, you face the pressure, you eat the pressure, you never crumble, you never break down, you may feel unmotivated sometimes but you keep going. Greatness is to easy to achieved if you have a focused mind. Just keep grinding everyday towards your goal and that's it, never rest, never relax, just keep pushing till you get what you want, you want greatness right? you wanted to win right? so stop acting like a punk, stop having a crappy attitude and work. 

BELIEVE IN PERSEVERANCE

If you think you already paid your dues but haven't got anything yet... just keep persevering, believe in the power of perseverance, keep moving forward no matter what, you will get there. This is too simple and easy, just do something positive with your life and never give up, you don't even need to think about it anymore. Greatness is simply taking actions every now and then, it's simply improving your life, doing the process and improving yourself a little bit every single day. Nothing is hard if you will persevere and believe in yourself, anything is achievable, anything can be done. Just work like hell and never stop, it's doable right? you can become unstoppable if you will allow yourself to become unstoppable, the choice is always yours, it's nobody's call... it's your call. So decide to just do something whenever you're struggling, decide to just give everything a try, never stop, never quit, never create a stupid excuse in your mind, always think that you can do it. The time is now, you have to push yourself to the limits and give everything you've got, you have to go all the way and never look back. You are powerful more than you thought, you have the willpower to climb to the top. 

FEAR IS THE COMPASS

When you're already afraid to try again because of failing a lot... keep trying, you never know maybe the next try will work. Fear is the compass, if you're afraid to do something then that's the time that you must do it. To become fearless is to face your fears, just take actions, embrace what you are feeling right now and just do it. Never make excuses, never hold yourself back, you have to keep pressing on and just do what is needed. Fear is just an illusion, it's just a trick, nothing can stop you if you will make yourself unstoppable. Be happy when you're scared because it means you're growing. It's ok to become scared, it's ok to feel uncomfortable, it's ok to feel frustrated, just don't stop, don't overthink and never let fear take control of your life. You have to feel comfortable being uncomfortable, your mindset should be you need to win at any cost. 

THE POWER OF PATIENCE

If you want to become really good on something... practice patience, don't rush the process, never leave any stone unturned. The power of taking small actions every now and then is real, it will give you progress, it will make yourself and your situation better. Even if you're not getting any positive result, still take actions and do whatever it takes to become a winner. Don't be afraid to wait yet still working hard and looking for a small improvement. Just work on yourself, try to discipline yourself as much as you can and never stop pushing, never stop grinding, you have what it takes to win, all you need to do is look for something positive to do that has a chance to make your life better and that's it, don't stop, hone your skills everyday, trust and enjoy the process. Time is really fast, if you're focused on what you're trying to achieve then you will get it in just a matter of time, all it takes is willpower and commitment. You will never know if you can make it or not unless you try and give everything you've got. Stay disciplined, stay busy and never procrastinate for a second. Destroy all of your excuses because the great ones never made an excuse just for once. Accept that it's your full responsibility to take care of your life, it's on you if you will fail or not, it's on you if you will become great, it all depends on how you use your time. 

NEVER LET YOUR EMOTIONS STOP YOU

Your emotions is tricking you, it's making you stuck, it's avoiding you from doing something. You have to be fast, you have to overpower your emotions. Because at the end of the day the reality is you can move even if you're feeling bad but you always choose not to that's why you always feel worse, you will become lazy and unproductive every time you make dramas and pamper your emotions. It's nothing but a feeling, it will come and go, you have to prioritize your mindset and just do what is needed. Be fast, don't think, don't let your feelings get in the way of doing something. Learn to power through, learn to force yourself and drag yourself to take actions. Stop feeling special because the world is not waiting for you and will never wait for you. Be early be fast, be unstoppable... that's how to become great. You don't need to become something special, you don't need to become a genius to succeed, you just need to learn how to control your emotions and still take actions even if you're feeling something. Never let a heartbreak, a bad day, an injury, a drama, an ugly yesterday, a hangover, a bad stomach stop you from doing what you're doing. Learn how to take over, learn how to control yourself by ignoring your emotions and prioritizing what is necessary. Force yourself to move and you will become great. 

THE BEST TRAINING TO BECOME CONFIDENT

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