THE BIGGEST PROBLEM OF PEOPLE WHO CAN'T GROW

The biggest problem of a person who cannot evolve, change, grow or get stronger is he want comfort all the time. He wants to be spoonfed, he wants entitlement, he wants to be pampered and assisted all the time. That is why he can't grow, he is avoiding resistance, failure, hard work, pain and embarrassment. All he does is try to look perfect and play safe. He feels that the world owes him something and he is always trying to feel everyone guilty when he didn't get any help. Independence and self reliance is the number one key to growth and freedom. Stop depending on other people to help you or feed you, stop depending on other people to make you grow, it is your responsibility as a man to take matters onto your own hands and do it your wat. That is why you need to get stronger everyday, take care of yourself, have more energy because that is what you need. If you always want to feel comfortable you will never grow as a person, you will never win in life, you will always feel stuck and powerless. The only thing that will make you evolve is using your willpower, facing the discomfort and not minding what other people say or do. Most of the time you easily get uncomfortable every time someone judge you or say something negative about you, that is why you are stuck. Never care about what other people are doing, feeling or thinking and mind your own path. Mind your own business only and never care about what's going to happen next, that is how to win in life, you need a lot of time for yourself and you need lesser time for other people. Stop depending on them, your emotions depends on other people's judgments and opinions all the time that is why you feel so weak, slow and useless. You need to do something differently this time, ignore all the resistance, embrace the discomfort and go al the way.  You don't need their approval, applause, comments, critics, opinions and even help. You just need to be yourself and do it your way, at the end of the day this is your life... you will get what you deserve, you are the reason for your failures or success. So stop blaming other people why are you living like that, it's your responsibility to take care of your own life and get better as much as you can. Focus on what you're trying to achieve and disregard everything that is not helping you at all. Focus is a very powerful thing, it creates momentum, it creates opportunities, it creates connections that will serve as a bridge between you and your dreams. If you really want something you have to go and get it like a man possessed, get obsessed and never let anything stop you. You are what you repeatedly think and do, never let any distraction stop you, never let any discomfort or unwanted events make you feel bad. Just do what you can and keep repeating again and again. 

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